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Does anyone else enjoy listening to Brandon Sanderson's books more than reading them?
I'm beginning to wonder if I'm the only one! My husband and his friends all love Brandon Sanderson's books as well, but they always read a copy before listening to a audio version. Am I really that odd? I love listening to them for a few reasons. First of all: besides Mr. Sanderson's books the only books I generally read are young adult books. I think they are fun and quick, so coming from such a comparatively light style of book, to Mr. Sanderson's more epic style is admittedly a little much. (Not that it isn't worth it!) Secondly: My husband and I started listening to them on long car rides. We started with the 2nd Mistborn in a spot that I thought was a little slow. It was great for driving, and helped me get past that spot. Now we are listening to The Way of Kings almost every night, and I am really enjoying it! We lay in bed and spend time together, while getting to listen to a great story. Am I really that odd? What do you guys think? (Also, funny side note. I was looking at the Moderator box and saw Kaladin_Stormblessed and my reaction was "It's spelled with a K?!" I thought it was a C, because Cal seems more logical to me than Kal. I just also started flipping through my husband's copy, and noticed that it's Jasnah, not Yasnah. I'm bad at guessing spellings!)
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[ { "body": "I've never listened to an audiobook, so i couldn't say. That being said, whichever you choose to enjoy a fantastic tale spun by Mr. Sanderson is absolutely acceptable :D", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I like audio books because I can listen while I do other things. It doesn't hurt that Michael Kramer is really an awesome reader. Reading is good also. It really just depends on what you like. I wouldn't say either are really superior. apples and oranges. One thing that's really different though is that the reader can inject subtle opinions about characters through their tone, which I don't mind but some people hate.\n\nEdit: autocorrect screwed me up", "score": 3 } ]
Dad has Alcohol-Induced Dementia/Werneke Korsakoff's Syndrome, Being Kicked Out of Rehab...
So, this is a long story. Much too long to share on here. The bottom line is that my Dad (a lifelong alcoholic, with short periods of sobriety) just got evicted from his third nursing home in the past year, agreed to go to detox, has been in detox for two days, and they say that they can't keep him because he's not following the rules. This is a city-funded detox/rehab program, which agreed to take him this past Monday. Now, after dealing with him for two days, and reading his medical reports, they say they never would have accepted him in the first place, if they had seen his records. The nurse said that there's literally nothing they can do for him. I have lost so much of my life to my father, bailing him out from all the shit he gets himself into (as most children of alcoholics end up having to do), and as long as he's drinking, the family (me, my brother and our cousin) have decided that we can't help him. (This was a difficult decision after over a year of constant problems). So, basically he's done on the 25th, with nowhere to go. He has agreed to go to rehab, but we can't afford a swanky program, and all of the city-funded programs have strict rules (like you can't walk around outside), which he won't abide by. I honestly believe he wants to be sober, and I know that if he can get sober, some of his memory will come back. But I have NO idea how to find him a place that can work with both his alcoholism and his dementia. This has been over a year of searching, thousands of dollars spent on 'professionals' who all have 'his best interests in mind'. With ZERO luck or positive results. Do any of you know of either 1) an assisted living community that can work with his alcoholism, help him stay sober, without locking him up inside or 2) a rehab facility that can work with his dementia and memory loss? The idea of my dad being the crazy homeless guy outside of the liquor store is unbearable. No one is in a position to take him in, as he needs a level of care that we can't provide. Any help, suggestions or leads would be greatly appreciated. Thanks guys.
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[ { "body": "I am sorry this is happening to you. Your dad needs to be protected from himself, meaning living where he cannot obtain alcohol. Think of him as having Alzheimer's. He will not benefit from rehab or counseling. His thinking may improve a bit with sobriety, but the condition is irreversible. The way to deal with his alcoholism is to keep him away from alcohol.\n\nWhere I live, local services are available to help people with disabilities, such as dementia. You are correct that your dad needs expert care beyond what any family can provide. He is no longer able to care for himself. Whoever diagnosed the condition should have resources for you to contact. \n\nInformation about treatment for Werneke/Korsakoff: * http://pubs.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/aa63/aa63.htm\n\n**Most important is taking care of yourself. It is time!**\n* http://www.adultchildren.org/\n*/r/alanon \n\nMy heart goes out to you. Alcoholism is heartbreaking. ", "score": 5 } ]
Would it be crazy to drop Mike Trout? Hear me out
I'm in my fantasy baseball finals. There are 10 days left including today, and we're tied up. Trout has been great for me all year, but his september has been very lackluster (.257/350/371), with only 2 HR, 3 RBI and 4 SB. At this point, I don't think he's likely to turn it around for the last week of the season. I think I'd be better off picking up somebody on a hot streak, like Nate McLouth or Justin Maxwell. What are your thoughts? EDIT: not a keeper league
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[ { "body": "You don't drop him because his September performance has no bearing on his future stats. It's not like he has lost his talent.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "I don't get it, do you only start 1 outfielder? Who are your other guys? I can only assume that they all must be raking if Trout is the one you'd consider dropping...", "score": 7 }, { "body": "This is the finals and it is all hands on deck, I'm dropping pitchers like Josh johnson and kuroda, and estrada, and kershaw, and cueto and bumgarner... I dropped upton for Maxwell and feel fine, doesn't matter in redraft leagues one week left, pick up the guy facing the easiest pitchers, pick up the fast guy playing against slow pitcher catcher combos, pick up the guy playing in wrigley field instead of oaklands blackhole. All players are droppable, and just swing for the fences.\nMy two cents..", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Dropping Trout would no doubt be a BOLD move. Bold moves win **and** lose championships. Whether it pays off or not is at the moment just a guess, as informed or uninformed as it may be. Baseball can be a funny game. \n\nOn the surface, it seems crazy to drop Trout. However, I wouldn't call it 100% insane. Since August 24 until the present, Trout has appeared in 25 games and racked up 113 plate appearances. This is 1/5 of his season, so it's a relatively sizable number. In that span of recent, he has putting up an entirely unimpressive batting line of .238 AVG / .319 OBP / .347 SLG / .665 OPS. \n\nHis homers are way down and he's not even running as much. In that span he put up 19 R, 3 HR, 5 RBI, 5 SB. The runs are still great, the steals are a plus, but the HR and RBI are very lackluster. \n\nDoes this mean he will continue to perform at this level for the rest of the season? Of course not. But it's possible... In my opinion, Trout was playing way over his actual performance level and he's not (right now, at least) a guy I'm expecting to post a 1.000 OPS or challenge 40 homers. That being said, I don't think his true talent level is as low as a .665 OPS. \n\nCould Nate McLouth outproduce Trout over the next ten days? It's definitely possible considering McLouth put up the following line from August 24 until the present: .306 AVG / .384 OBP / .459 SLG / .843 OPS. When you look at McLouth's counting stats (19 R, 3 HR, 9 RBI, 4 SB), McLouth has been better than Trout over the past ~month in AVG/OBP/SLG/OPS and RBI, tied in R and HR, and one behind in steals. \n\nTime will tell if McLouth puts up better numbers than Trout over 10 days, but I wouldn't totally write it off. Trout is crazy talented but he's young. Pitchers may be starting to find some holes in his swing and it could take him some time to adjust to it. \n\nTrout may be tiring from his first real grueling MLB season. Trout has already had 130 more plate appearances this year than any other season in his career. Is it a coincidence that his performance fell off 113 plate appearances ago? Maybe totally. Maybe not. Trout could just be in a funk. Trout could also hit .450 with 4 HR and 4 SB in the next week, too. You never know. \n\nAdding McLouth for Trout would be a big gamble, but it could just be a winning one. Right or wrong move, if fully thought out and not done hastily, it could be the kind of ballsy move necessary to win a championship. It could also be the sword that kills you. I like the thinking outside the box and don't think it's nearly as ridiculous as most here do.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "No. Because Mike Trout could easily bounce back and have a 5-5/HR/3 SB night. \n\nChasing hot streaks is not a bad strategy but don't compromise your studs.", "score": 3 } ]
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[ { "body": "I don't understand why people keep suggesting pirating is the same as stealing. All we do is receive. It's the robin hoods who are putting it right in our faces. We need only move a finger to accept. ", "score": 3 } ]
DayZ sure knows how to build you up, then slit your throat just as quickly.
So the story goes, I spawn into Takistan, right around the city in the middle of the map, Feruz Abad. I head towards the western edge, I know right along the road are some mil barracks, time to gear up. But it seems I'm not alone. I spot a guy up ahead doing much the same thing. He is already there, so its no big deal, by the time I get up to the barracks I lose sight of him, he's completed his loot run and moved on. I make my way out of the barracks and into the adjoining town, loot some supplies and decide to post up on the second floor of a house, make sure no one has followed me, thats when I see him. He's spotting from the ridge across the town, 800 meters away. Just then a zombie aggro'd on me, he must have caught me as i was climbing up the ladder, and that gives my postion away to him. I see the survivor bolt down the ridge right toward my direction, is he seriousIy gonna come after me? I wait until his line of sight is broken and I back up into the ridge behind me, and post up behind a large boulder and wait. He gets close, he's looking for me, scanning his surroundings and checking his corners. He gets close enough for me to take the shot, and I do, he never saw it coming. He's dead, and I loot his body for a nice coyote pack and some fresh raw meat. As I do this, I hear more shots from the barracks, pistol shots, someone cleaning up some zeds. I get a good look and i catch another survivor leaving those barracks and heading up another ridge west of me. I watch him, and all the sudden DMR shots ring out and he's bleeding alot. He panics, heads back down and hunkers down near a boulder. As he scans the area for the sniper, he spots me, my head must have been just exposed enough to give me away. As he takes shots at me, I lay down and crawl a bit north, he misses totally and I lose sight of him. I give it five minutes, laying still, until I decide to check the player list, and he's logged. I start to wonder about that DMR sniper now. I know about what direction it came from, north, so I head up the ridge and start scanning. I'm not seeing much, but I know there is someone up there, waiting, hunting survivors. Thats when I spot him, 1100 meters, up behind a rock, still trying to locate his original prey. He's cautious, I had only found an AK in the barracks, so I watch. He ends up trying to flank the other guy on the opposite ridge, taking a very wide run, and I lose sight of him well over 2000 meters away. He has no idea that guy has left the server. I decide it's time to put up or shut up. It's really tough on this map though, to take on a sniper with an assault rifle out in the open like this. I start making my way around his path. It takes me a good 15 mins to get safely around the opposite ridge, and up close to the top. I figure by this time, he's either made his way back down to the barracks, or off in another direction. I'm still trying though, scanning, slowly moving, when I actually spot him just ahead of me in some foliage, 600 meters way, making his way across the ridge. Takistan has about zero cover, just a bush here and there, so I use them to my advantage to keep his line of sight broken between me and him. He had never seen me, even when he was taking shots at the other survivor, so I know he thinks he's alone up here. It takes another 15 mins to close up the 600 meters down to about 100 and I wait, wait for him to scope in. When I see the opportunity, I bolt directly towards him, 50 meters, 20 meters, 10 meters. Just as I sight him in, he turns. I speak over direct, 'last words?' I say and pop pop pop. Three AK rounds to the head, and he's dead instantly. No logging for you my bandit friend. I loot his body, DMR, 2 mags, compass, map, a few other supplies, and I bolt, away from the town, back down the ridge I just came up, and head north, I have a very modest camp up there, its time to call it a night. I have all this raw meat from my first encounter, so I figure lets get some firewood so I can cook this up and store some in my car at camp. Takistan's forests really suck though, and I am having zero luck obtaining firewood. I check the map, and I figure I could just stop in this small town on the way, I'm bound to find a loot drop of firewood there. I scan the town, the surrounding hills, nothing. No zombies, no players, we're safe. I make my way down, not attemping to be stealthy, just efficient. I do indeed find some firewood, and I bolt out of town, up the hill, continuing north. One lone zombie follows, and after I reach a safe distance from that small town, I switch to the 1911, and take this fucker out, I don't need anymore heat on me, its time to log out. I of course miss my first headshot, damn twitchy zeds are tough to hit at speed. He's one me now, and I quickly line up the headshot, thats when he hits me, one hit, and I'm knocked out. WTF?! One hit, full blood, and I'm out, and its a long one. As I sit there fuming, watching all the color drain from the screen, I remember this is DayZ, and there are no tears, only dreams. But this was not how this story should have ended. Abort. Respawn. Let's go again.
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[ { "body": "I imagine this M1911 scene as one big cinematic finale to a movie, but it turns out to be one of those really depressing movies. ", "score": 3 } ]
I am David Corn, Mother Jones Washington bureau chief -- AMA
Earlier this week I broke the story of a Mitt Romney fundraiser in Florida in May where the Republican presidential nominee talked candidly about the 47 percent of Americans who he says won't vote for him because they are "dependent on government" and "believe that they are victims." The full video and transcript from the fundraiser are available here: http://mojo.ly/SZyUrX, video highlights are here: http://mojo.ly/SZyUrX. Read the story, watch the video, and ask me anything. **Thanks everyone for participating, see you at www.motherjones.com!**
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[ { "body": "Over your career, has there been a story that you worked on that didn't get published or get the attention you felt it deserved? If so, which one?", "score": 189 }, { "body": "You probably can't answer this, but I'd really like to know how you got the tape. Did someone pay $50,000 a plate for the opportunity to tape this just in case Romney said something dumb?\n\nWhat's the legality of taping something like this? I know in certain states both parties have to consent to a taping of a conversation. Does that apply to a large event?", "score": 171 }, { "body": "Mother Jones is one of the few English language publications that still dedicates the time, money, resources and column inches to real on the ground, investigative, researched journalism. Is this type of writing definitely doomed and headed towards extinction because of monetary and technological factors? Is it a function of the audience for this type of journalism disappearing? Other then buying the publications that run this kind of work, is there any other way to support and encourage the return of \"shoe leather\" investigative reporting? ", "score": 101 }, { "body": "Why don't more journalists call out politicians on their bullshit? Most politicians flat out lie to the public, and no one holds them accountable. Is it a fear that they will be black listed?", "score": 100 }, { "body": "Jon Stewart showed a montage of Fox News people belittling the story because it was Mother Jones that broke it. Obviously, if the story is factual, it doesn't matter what publication broke it, but it does seem as though every news source nowadays has to be put into the \"liberal or conservative slant\" bucket. Is truly neutral journalism possible, do you think it exists anywhere currently, and do you think Mother Jones can, or should, provide that?", "score": 93 }, { "body": "How long and how hard did you laugh when the Romney campaign said the video was \"debunked\" and \"selectively edited\"? Be honest, are you still laughing right now? ", "score": 70 }, { "body": "How do you feel about Fox News dismissing your ridiculously outdated 4-month old video and pushing their 14 year-old video of Obama?", "score": 68 }, { "body": "How did you authenticate the video when it was first presented to you?\n\nWhy was so much of the video blurred out in your initial release of it? I understand the need to protect your source, but does offering a heavily blurred video pose credibility issues in how it will be percieved", "score": 61 }, { "body": "My first experience reading Mother Jones was in a bookstore. I began reading an article about a Dr. that used shock-type behavior modification on children. I was so amazed at the way the article was presented, I bought the magazine. I've been hooked ever since. Thank you!", "score": 56 }, { "body": "Given the recent controversy surrounding France's position on genetically modified crops, do you anticipate trouble for you, or other members of the Corn family, in getting a French visa?", "score": 54 }, { "body": "What's your absolute strangest exchange/interview with a high-profile politico? Did you come to doubt the person's sanity?", "score": 52 }, { "body": "Can I get your views on the Columbia University insistence this last week of a “planetary emergency” due to the unforeseen global consequences of Arctic ice melt.\n", "score": 48 }, { "body": "How do you feel about partisanship in the media today? Do you feel like Mother Jones contributes neutral facts? Is old school, honest journalism lost?", "score": 38 }, { "body": "David, you're on *Hardball* enough that you're practically Chris Matthews' co-host. Do you socialize together off the air?", "score": 38 }, { "body": "My mom, who typically watches Fox News, told me once that you were proof of NPR's Liberal Bias. I had never heard of you at that point, and I had listened to NPR daily for a decade or more - so when she said that NPR had a clear liberal bias, as evidenced by this David Corn guy from NPR, I thought it was strange. I told her that I had never heard you on NPR, but she was unmoved because Fox had introduced you as an \"NPR contributor\".\n\nThat moment has stood out to me since then - you were used by FOX to paint NPR as a Liberal source. I suspect you appear on Fox more often than on NPR (1.7M hits versus 228k), and so I find it funny that Fox would introduce you as an NPR contributor, while it would be just as (in)appropriate for NPR to introduce you as a Fox Contributor.\n\nIt's more a comment on Fox's methods than anything else, but I'm sure you must have given this some thought, and I wonder how you feel about it.", "score": 34 }, { "body": "Has there ever been a source whose story has been remarkable, but o=something you havent been able to publish because of credibility issues? If so, can you tell us the gist of it?", "score": 30 }, { "body": "I agree with *Mother Jones* that one of the biggest problems facing our nation is economic inequality. How can the government realistically address economic inequality other than raising the minimum wage (which will result in a corresponding increase in prices) or begging the business sector to start paying workers fairly?", "score": 26 }, { "body": "How has 'business as usual' changed at MJ in the past 2 weeks?\n\nWhat kind of impact has the tape had on MJ web traffic and subscriptions?", "score": 24 }, { "body": "Has Mother Jones been keeping tabs on the story of the Romney tax \"hacker\" who claims to have walked into PwC, and easily made copies of his tax forms? They were claiming to potentially be releasing them next Friday if their ransom was not met. I have seen very little coverage of it beyond it's first mention in the news.", "score": 23 }, { "body": "Is there anything about the leaked Romney fundraising video that the media did not tell us about that you can reveal to reddit?", "score": 23 }, { "body": "Does it really matter if the host of Romney's fundraiser throws sex parties? The headline \"Romney '47 Percent' Fundraiser Host: Hedge Fund Manager Who Likes Sex Parties\" struck me as cheap and sensationalist. (I know it's quite possible you did not write the headline.)", "score": 23 }, { "body": "Saw a pic of you taken by another journo at the airport following the DNC where you were noodling on an acoustic guitar. Think it was a Hummingbird if I recall. Can you really play or were you just trying to impress the ladies? If you can, how would you rate yourself on a scale of 1 (n00b) to 10 (Jeff Beck)?", "score": 22 }, { "body": "Mr. Corn, \n\nI am a subscriber and fan of Mother Jones and wish I had discovered it years ago. \n\nWith that out of the way; \n\nWhat are your feelings on how your organization was attacked after releasing the \"47%\" tapes, especially by pundits on FOX News? \n\nDo you think that behavior like this is just a sign of the times, or an indication of larger issues? \n\nThank you and keep up the great work. ", "score": 21 }, { "body": "I never really read you guys until this video came out. What, in your opinion, are some other really great pieces to check out?", "score": 19 }, { "body": "I know y'all are getting attention for breaking this story, but I just wanted to thank the MoJo staff, (especially if you can pass this on to Mac McClellan [sic?]) for the only legitimate and powerful coverage regarding the BP oil spill.\n\nMy family still resides on the gulf coast, and their livelihoods, though not directly related to the ocean, were thrown into disarray. Without MoJo, I don't think they would have known the true impact.\n\nThat's all.", "score": 19 }, { "body": "As someone \"in the biz\" - who do you think are the reliable/hard-hitting sources for political punditry or reporting? I haven't found a Fave since Tim Russert died. Soledad seems to be growing some balls. She might be one to watch.", "score": 15 }, { "body": "Big fan here. Love your work. Congrats on the huge story. Most of my questions have already been asked so I'll just ask, how well do you know Rachel Maddow? Is she as awesome as she seems on TV? ", "score": 15 }, { "body": "Why did you release the video now? If you are as in the tank as Fox News says you are, why not wait and make it a true October surprise?", "score": 11 }, { "body": "Mr Corn,\n\nI just wanted to throw out there that I really think you've been doing some great reporting recently. Please, keep it up.\n\nAs for my question, I wonder if you could comment on the way people perceive the reporting of yourself or your colleagues. Do you ever find yourself or your work dismissed because of a perceived liberal bias? How do you think your work and audience would differ if you wrote for, say, the Weekly Standard?", "score": 11 }, { "body": "Mr. corn, thank you for your work, I always enjoy your commentary on MSNBC as well. \n\nDo you think that with a 24 hour news cycle, there is less journalistic integrity amongst your peers and rival news organizations in order to put out more content?", "score": 10 }, { "body": "Three questions:\n\n1. What is your view on Michael Moore? Do you feel that is exposure films are accurate?\n\n2. Do you know that there is a [magazine](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noseweek) fairly similar to [yours](http://noseweek.co.za/) who have successfully helped expose billions of dollars of corruption in South Africa? The magazine is almost two decades old and has survived countless lawsuits.\n\n3. Investigative magazines often have a strong left-wing slant. For example, your magazine and the Mail&Guardian. I am not left-wing and am often conflicted whether to support such magazines. Why do these magazines not take a more a-political slant and not alienate 50% of their potential customers? \n\nI feel corruption is corruption and as long as it is exposed it is good.\n", "score": 10 }, { "body": "How tough is it to get a berth with a publication like *Mother Jones*? If I wanted to make a decent living as a journalist would I be better off striking out on my own online or is it still possible for an ambitious person to find a steady paycheck with a respectable publication like yours?", "score": 8 }, { "body": "I heard you on Diane Rehm this morning. Good job. My question to you is: what do YOU think is in the missing two minutes of tape? Vampire Romney is my best guess.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "Mr. Corn, I'm a big fan of your writing and I love when you're on msnbc. I'm curious to know what you think about our partisan media. Do you like the fact that msnbc decided to become the \"counter weight\" to fox news? Also how partisan would you say you are? ", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I'm a huge fan of Mother Jones and was stoked that you guys got the Romney video story first - really high quality journalism. I have a question as an aspiring investigative journalist: what are the pros/cons of working for a non-profit media outlet like Mother Jones? Also, any advice for me? I'm about to graduate college and, although I've had some great internships, would love some tips about how to differentiate myself from all the other wannabe journalist college grads.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I know you were on her show today -- with a guest host -- but **does Diane Rehm have some kind of beef with you?** \n\nYou used to be on the show quite frequently, then she seemed to get really hot with you on the air last summer, and then...\n", "score": 7 }, { "body": "David! You're one of my favorite MSNBC contributors. Whose show is the most fun? I'd have to imagine hanging with Martin Bashir or Lawrence O'Donnell would be fun because they just get brutally honest.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "With the success of this leak, will you consider leaking more private information in the future in the method of Wikileaks? Have you thought about helping anonymous whistleblowing against corporations and governments for the good of society?", "score": 6 }, { "body": "David I watch you all the time on MSNBC, love your snarky yet educational remarks. My question is what is the best chris matthews off the air story that you have?", "score": 6 }, { "body": "What does Romney say after the camera cuts off? There's a few minute gap that's missing and I'd like to know what was said there. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Dear David Corn: as a longtime Democrat I have always voted for Dems but have seen a huge shift to the middle of the road by Dems, and utter insanity lurching so far to the right by Republicans it almost seems unbearable ...the game seems so rigged by now I feel like I am basically voting against Romney (which would be AWFUL), and have a few choice words for Obama, even tho I will vote for him. Nonetheless, I am not pleased with either party. Do you find this to be true amongst the general population or is Washington so far in the Beltway they don't recognize it? (I am 61 yrs old.)", "score": 6 }, { "body": "This would probably date me, but I've had a Mother Jones subscription since back in the early 1990s or thereabouts. And one article I remember was how American workers who made military uniforms worked in sweatshop conditions for very low pay. Mother Jones has a LONG history of honorable muckraking journalism - longer than I've been alive - and I'm so glad to see that it continues to be a leader in fearless, independent investigative journalism. Everyone with a little extra dough should support them by buying a subscription or donating.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Have there been any attempts by other publications and websites to tempt you away with more money? If so, why haven't you taken them?", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Can you talk about the process of acquiring the video of the Romney fundraiser, what steps did you go through to verify the source? And the decision to put it online? Concerns, thoughts, feelings in your newsroom?", "score": 5 }, { "body": "You, Mr. Corn, I like you. And thank you for your efforts! Now, some questions:\n\nrawstory.com just reported on Ann Romney's Radio Iowa interview \n\nhttp://www.rawstory.com/rs/2012/09/21/ann-romney-scolds-republicans-youre-lucky-to-have-mitt/\n\nwhere she referred to journalists as a \"class\" (at least those critical of Romney) as \"the chattering class...\" and their reporting as \"...nonsense.\" Would you regard these public comments from yesterday as a further serious misstep for the campaign? \n\nAs a professional journalist are these sorts of comments by Mrs. Romney worth reporting to the nation - why or why not?\n\nShould more be reported nationally on Mark Leder with respect to his background, i.e., sex parties, etc. The question behind the question is, how do you choose which threads to follow in a story using the Romney tape as a specific example?", "score": 5 }, { "body": "First, congratulations to you and MoJo for breaking this story, it may be a historic turning point in this race. \n\nHaving said that, when you first saw the tape what was your initial reaction? Did you now immediately the import of this? ", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Thank you so much for exposing Romney with his own words. Thanks to your clandestine efforts, Romney has sealed the coffin on his campaign. You are a true hero.\n\nFuck you James O'Keefe.\n\nI don't have a question.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Do you personally realize how biased Mother Jones is? It's okay, I don't think bias is a bad thing, humans are always interested parties and we need balance in news reporting. I'm just curious as to whether you can step away from it and acknowledge it. ", "score": 4 }, { "body": "What do you think of 47%ers who believe they are the 53% and look down on the 47%? Why are Republicans so good at getting people to vote against their own economic self-interest?", "score": 4 }, { "body": "From the 47% video to the Plame affair, you have always seemed to be in the right place at the right time. How much of a breaking story is you finding the right people v. the right people finding you? ", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Mr. Corn, thank you for doing this. If I recall, at the beginning of the campaign season Mother Jones asked for donations so that they could cover the campaign independent of corporate influence. How important is that independence to a magazine like Mother Jones? How did that fundraiser enable you to cover campaign effectively? Lastly, I see this story referenced over an over with barely a mention of Mother Jones. Mother Jones, let's be honest, may not be a magazine on the radar of the average person. How does a story like this boost a magazine like Mother Jones? Thanks again!", "score": 4 }, { "body": "A large portion of the wealthy in this country receive tax breaks which allow them to keep the level of wealth they have. As far as I'm concerned, Mr. Romney is part of that 47% who are \"dependent on government.\"", "score": 4 }, { "body": "You guys are not Left. You're [fascists.](http://www.reddit.com/r/politics/comments/zcg1e/i_would_like_to_remind_everyone_that_barack/)", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Anyone in journalism has gotten an earful from higher-ups/corporate about how the business is changing. I wondered what your thoughts are. Do you think we can keep up with technology that seems to evolve on an almost monthly basis? Should we be jumping on every bandwagon or waiting for the smoke to settle to see which app, device, etc., is on top of the heap before we adopt it for our industry?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Do you think we will see a revival of the populist left in the near future?\n\nWhere do you see newsmedia going in the next 10 years or so? Are you optimistic or pessimistic?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Why do you think people care about what romney said in some video back in may?\n\nAfter all, the odds that Romney still believes something he believed in four months ago are pretty slim. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Was it annoying to defend accusations that the \"missing 2 minutes\" was some kind of conspiracy? How many threatening emails have you received since you broke the story? ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "How often do journalists misrepresent themselves (i.e.-- using a fake name or email address) to get information? Or rather, is it commonplace for journalists to lie to get in on a story?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "How do you respond to the cynicism that both main stream parties are bad and two sides of the same coin? ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Did you coordinate the release of the video with the Obama campaign? What made you decide that now is the best time to release it?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "What happened to the missing minutes of the tape around the time of the 47% remarks? \n\nContext is king. Just asking. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Are the people in the 'liberal' media and 'conservative' media really that liberal and conservative, or are they playing it up for their respective audiences? How much of the narrative do these reporters really believe?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "How do you feel about journalistic purists who do not vote? Is it being unbiased or throwing away their civic duty? Has this notion become antiquated?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Mr. Corn,\n\nGiven the two candidates who, for better or worse, are going to be the chief contenders in the November elections, which do you seriously consider to be the best for education and why? Who is best for students, like myself, who rely on financial aid to attend college and what have they done or not done to prove this point? Likewise, why is the other candidate a bad choice when it comes to education reform? \n\nThank you. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I have friends who are unemployed and have been, despite their best efforts and great resumes/personalities, for a long time. Their unemployment has been cut prematurely.\n\nI recall Hoovervilles being a locus of activism to push the needle towards solving the economic problems equitably back in the ‘30s.\n\nOccupy Wall Street (etc.) had a similar impact. LOVE the internet, but it’s hard to imagine Washington Conservatives being able to block, say, extending unemployment benefits, if there were major encampments in every major city, with the media potential and organizing potential that they represent. Online petitions just don’t have the same impact.\n\nDo you think that the removal of OWS was done with this in mind? As a move to politically neuter what was in previous generations a potent Progressive force?\n\nIf so, what do you see as alternatives (or should OWS push back to claim a physical presence in our cities)?\n\n(Yeah, there was some pretty goofy stuff, and they were amorphous, and the media highlighted the most absurd aspects of OWS, yet still, in large, I think they were a net positive)", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Has being Canadian positively or negatively affected the way you are perceived as a journalist of the American political system?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Did you expect the video to become this big of a controversy before you released it? If so, did you have any second thoughts on releasing it?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "As a member of the independent media, what outlets do you look to for an honest assesment of the news (other than Mother Jones, obviously)?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Thank you for doing this. \nDo you have any Republicans, Conservatives or Moderates who work for Mother Jones?\n", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I want to be less cynical, I truly do. But after listening to you on Diane Rehm, there's no getting around the fact you have biases, as we all do. But when I couple that bias with the fact you have a book on Obama released at the same time the video comes out, it's hard for me to not be cynical. Can you help me over doubts of your motives?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I find the timing of the gap in the tape to be suspicious. What evidence to you have that it was an inadvertent recording stoppage and not intentionally edited afterward?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Mother Jones used to be a radical, socialist magazine. Do you regret its drift to the center? you now have a very weak description of the woman the magazine was founded on: \n\nhttp://www.motherjones.com/about#01\n\nWhen the city of Cork, in Ireland, held a festival to celebrate her life, and her radical politics, your magazine ignored it. you may have mentioned it after it finished. Why do you not talk about her more proudly, a brave socialist woman who risked her life for American workers?\n\nDo you think Mother Jones screwed up by getting rid of Michael Moore as the editor?\n\nLastly, as the Washington bureau chief, do you believe capitalism is an ethical system, or do you believe it should be replaced? ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I have this vague recollection of you with a pony tail, some years back. Is my memory as bad as I think it is?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Are you afraid that within one or two generations, sufficient technology will be available to convincingly fabricate video and audio recordings of any person saying anything in any place?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Are you going to blame that gap in your Romney expose tape on your secretary like Nixon did to Rose Mary Woods?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "It is understandable that your organization is working to get Obama re-elected. It's natural as your staff range from very liberal to democratic socialist. But shouldn't you be more up front about your goals instead of pretending to be a non-biased journalistic organization?\n\nAnd given the historical record of increased economic prosperity when countries move closer to free markets and stagnation and decline when countries move closer to more powerful central governments (slowing growth in Europe as it became more socialist, rising prosperity in China as it became more capitalist, North vs. South Korea, East vs. West Germany, the US vs. the USSR), why do you support more government confiscation of wealth and control of citizens' decisions? \n\nDo you think that the government distributes money more fairly than people simply keeping the money they earned by working? Is the definition of fair everyone having the same amount of money regardless of whether they earned it or not or everyone getting to keep the money they earned?\n\nDo you reject the idea that people who are given something for nothing have less incentive to work? Do you reject the idea that people who have 30, 40, 50% of their money taken away have less incentive to work? Do you think it's moral to take money from the people that earned it beyond what's necessary for basic government functions (maybe 10% of GDP), but for pet causes and to implement your preferences for people's behavior and income distribution into law (currently we're at 25% of GDP and you want it larger)?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "How often does Mother Jones cover Obama's war crimes, if at all?\n\nHave you run any stories on his persistence toward NDAAs specific indefinite detention clause?\n\nIn a response earlier, you claimed you support whistleblowers. What are your thoughts on Obama's policies toward whistleblowers?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Why did Mother Jones violate the Hyatt boycott and cross the picket line at the ONA conference in San Francisco? Isn't Mother Jones namesake a labor leader???", "score": 3 } ]
Match Thread: ICC World Twenty20, 6th Match, Group A: Afghanistan v England
[Cricinfo live scorecard](http://www.espncricinfo.com/icc-world-twenty20-2012/engine/current/match/533277.html)
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[ { "body": "BCCI should consider Afghanistan a run in the Ranji trophy. Allow teams to field a player or two from Afghanistan, would be good exposure for them. ", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Anyone else feel like Shapoor would have no trouble making it into an All-Asia XI side?\n\nI mean, what other T20 pace bowlers rival him? Malinga... Zaheer, Junaid Khan, maybe?\n\nedit: Well. That over showed me.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Anyone watch the documentary about the rise of the Afghani cricket team? Its called Out Of The Ashes or something. Great film.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "You beat me to it by about 30 seconds! MIne's been deleted. Should be a victory for England, but Afghanistan have the ability to make them sweat a bit.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Boy-oh-boy. Afghanistan look every bit the part of a quality international cricket side. Buzzing in the field, quality line bowling. It's a fantastic sight.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Come on Afghanistan!\n\nDoes anyone know if Hamid Hassan is injured? He's a really good bowler and we havn't seen him in these last two games.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Two awesome overs and this one from Shapoor...\n\nBy the way, is Taufel retiring after this tournament? Is that what I heard from the commentators?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Is it me or Afghanistan bats are very low quality. The noise when they hit a shot makes me think that. Their shots don't even go far. The same shots by England were crossing the boundaries. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "One of these days, they're going to spend five minutes searching for a missing bail at the non-striker's end and it'll eventually turn up in Steven Finn's pocket...", "score": 3 } ]
Sell high: Andre Brown
He had a monster game, his next 3 games are against philly, Cleveland and San Fran (all good run Ds). He had a great game, I would be willing to bet there is someone on your league willing to overpay for him (especially for those of us who now have 4 startable RBs). Thoughts?
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[ { "body": "My new team name and picture:\n\nMy Dinner With Andre\n\n[dinner](http://socialentities.zenfs.com/images/ce2cff78583bfb25643487fb2e72cccc_96.jpeg)", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Definitely, if you can get someone to trade with, which is the hard part. Obviously if you can get someone in your league dumb enough to trade you Gore or R Bush or even BJGE you would take it in a heartbeat, but the tough question is finding the right value.\n\n\nMy feeling is if you can get a guy who you know you would start most weeks then that would be pretty good.", "score": 3 } ]
A few questions about Polytheism
I have always been interested in Roman and Greek polytheistic religions. I just find it ironic how they have gone the way of the dodo. I mean has Christianity pretty much conquered all through methods such as war and inquisitions? Did they just think the people who believed in these Gods such as Apollo or Ceres were idiots believing in fairy tales? I saw a post about Christians were considered atheist at one point and it blew my mind. I just don't get the logic behind any of it. If I ever did believe in anything I would actually prefer polytheism, they have much cooler mythologies too.
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[ { "body": "Polytheist religions tend to be more tolerant of other gods and religions because, precisely, they are polytheist.\n\nFurthermore, it was generally accepted that each region/civilization had its own gods. The bible deity, however, explains very early that he isn't going to accept other imaginary beings sharing the glory of being worshipped, and that is the whole idea of spreading the good news: there is only one god, and he came down and had himself killed. ", "score": 8 }, { "body": "It should be noted that the Hebrews were once polytheistic, with a pantheon including Mot, Baal, Lotan, and many others. They believed different regions and peoples had their patron gods, and eventually Yaweh became theirs alone to worship. Eventually the faith changed to a monotheistic one, where even recognition of other deities was blasphemous, but in the books of Genesis and Exodus it is clear that the Hebrews understood the existence of other gods, but Yahweh was theirs, they were his \"chosen people\" as it were, and he was their protector. \n \n In the early Christian era (and to the present day in some cases) the supernatural powers that are not the work of God must be those of the devil, and most pagan gods were associated with Satan. So they believed they existed, but that they were a corrupting force. In other cases the Christians adopted those gods as their own saints and angels. In Islam, there is even room for genies (Jinn) who existed in Arab mythology long before any monotheistic religion.", "score": 5 } ]
About to take a long road trip with a friend, got any fun games to pass the time?
I hate driving for long trips, so I'm looking for fun things my friend and I can do to pass the time besides the obvious games (license plate game, alphabet game, etc.). One of us will be driving the entire time, so we can't do things that require taking our eyes off the road/hands off the wheel all that much. If you got any uncouth suggestions shout 'em out!
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[ { "body": "Trifecta. You're given a choice of three people, sometimes of the opposite sex, sometimes not. It can be celebrities, people you both know, doesn't matter. You have to fuck one of them and never see them again, live with one and never have sexual relations whatsoever....and then toss one off a cliff. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Wife likes to play the \"cow game\". \n\nAny time you see a cow (or group of cows) you have to be the first to say \"My cows\", and you get to add however many cows there are to your points. \n\nIf you see a church first and call it out \"My church\", you get to double the amount of cows you have.\n\nIf you see a cemetary and call it out first \"My cemetary\" then the other person loses half of their cows (or all of them, depending on which rules you want to use).", "score": 3 } ]
When a truck drives behind another truck to reduce drag, does it slow down the truck in front?
I was just thinking about this on the highway yesterday and realized I have no idea how drag and slipstreams work. Does the truck in front create some sort of low-pressure zone that "pulls" the back truck along? Does that somehow require more energy from the front truck?
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[ { "body": "The turbulence behind the un-aerodynamic rear of a truck adds to the drag on the vehicle. If another truck is close behind that turbulence is reduced, has less volume in which to operate. Therefore the presence of the second truck should actually *speed up* the first truck. The second truck takes up the burden of rear-end turbulence but this can be expected to be more than compensated for by the slip-stream effect of following the first. edit:spelling", "score": 9 } ]
Celebration Day - is there any way to search for theaters by city?
From the official website it seems you can only search by individual theater chain, which isn't very helpful. Specifically, I'm trying to find out all the theaters in Denver that are showing it. Anybody have an idea? Thanks!
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[ { "body": "if you go to http://www.ledzeppelin.com/ and then start the on the first page you'll get three buttons (red green purple). Press the green one and then u can search by postcode", "score": 4 } ]
Question regarding the Time Turner
I get that you can not change things that have happened. Why couldn't they have used the Time Turner to go back and witness that Peter Pettigrew was alive when Remus Lupin transformed into werewolf form, though? That wouldn't alter anything. For something as serious as Sirius's sentencing of a Dementor's Kiss, you would think there would be a great interest in knowing the truth according to the testimonies of several students and Lupin.
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[ { "body": "I think it is because they are not supposed to be seen by themselves. There really isn't a way for them to prevent Pettigrew from changing without revealing themselves. \n\nCan you imagine if they ran out to help at that moment? Chaos would still ensue and Pettigrew would have probably gotten away anyway. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "The ministries supply of Time Turners is conveniently destroyed in Book 5, so at least that problem is dealt with afte book 5...", "score": 3 } ]
Junior anatomy in highschool problem, about tissues
Here is the assignment he told us to do. Person severely injured her knee chasing her boyfriend through the woods. After visiting the doctor, she was informed that she had torn knee cartilage and had also tore a medial knee ligament. The doctor's told her to expect that recovery and repair would take a long time. Identify the type of cartilage that was torn and the type of tissue in the ligament that was injured. Explain why recovery would take so long from this type of injury. Finally tell Person to stop chasing boys. Write your answer in essay form, be specific and exact in your tissue terminology.
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[ { "body": "Ligaments are predominantly made of fibrocartilage. Their cellular structure is composed mainly of type I and II collagen with minimal blood supply. Because of such a low blood supply, if this type of tissue is injured, it takes a tremendously long time to heal.", "score": 4 } ]
Simple Question Thread 9/21
As [this thread](http://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/comments/zg9fp/small_schedule_change_a_note_on_fit_checkhowdido/) mentioned, the Simple Questions thread will be posted on Mondays *and* Fridays, instead of Wednesdays. This thread is for simple style questions, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer). Fit checks and "How'd I do" questions are a **great** fit for this thread (although they can also go in the WAYWT threads, which are posted on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Sundays). Other example questions: * What high-end jeans fit like Levi's 508s? * What's the quality of J.Crew Factory like? * Is it worth paying $150 for Epaulet chinos? * What should I expect to pay a tailor to slim down sleeves? Please read the [FAQ](http://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/comments/mgqp9/compiled_faq_list/) and other relevant guides on the sidebar before asking questions. Thanks!
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[ { "body": "My jeans left blue markings on my camp mocs. Is there a way to remove these and prevent it from happening again?", "score": 15 }, { "body": "Anyone have experience with the [new lands end chinos](http://canvas.landsend.com/canvas/men/chinos/index.html)? Wondering how they fit and what kind of quality they are.", "score": 12 }, { "body": "i read that you should wash raw denim as little as possible because of fades and whatnot, but what about non-raw denim? how often should i wash my non-raw denim jeans?", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Looking for slimfit chinos in 34 inseam. I'm looking for a fit similar to 511's.\n\nSo, LEC? J Crew? What else is good <$100?", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I picked up a pair of bass bucks in charcoal for 30 bucks. Will they work as a fall/ winter shoe on dry days?", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I'm in the market for a new pair of gloves but having never bought a decent pair before I was hoping someone could help narrow down my choices. They'd be for a British winter (relatively mild but I have terrible circulation so I'm already getting numb fingers), the biggest question is which lining will be sufficient.\n\n[TM Lewin](http://www.tmlewin.co.uk/Black-Plain-Gloves---45076/45076,en_GB,pd.html): Soft lambskin, 100% cotton lining, £28/$45.50 delivered\n\n[Chester Jefferies Keswick](http://www.chesterjefferies.co.uk/scripts/prodView.asp?idproduct=136): Capeskin, 85% viscose/15% wool, £29/$47 delivered\n\n[Chester Jefferies Paris](http://www.chesterjefferies.co.uk/scripts/prodView.asp?idproduct=20): Water-repellent capeskin, 100% wool, £41.50/$67.50 delivered\n\n[Chester Jefferies Handsewn Deerskin](http://www.chesterjefferies.co.uk/scripts/prodView.asp?idproduct=156): Deerskin, 100% wool, £43.50/$70.50 delivered\n\nIt'd be great if I could get away with the 100% cotton or wool mixture but I'd be okay with paying more for the 100% wool if the first two options are useless in snowy conditions.\n\nMore details in my [original thread](http://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/comments/104nac/having_a_little_difficulty_deciding_between_these/), thanks to avksx for replying to that but I'd be grateful for a few more opinions.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Everytime I roll up my cardigan/sweater sleeves, and roll them back down, they become loose. Any way to avoid this?", "score": 4 }, { "body": "What's the best way to launder chinos so as to avoid those white creases? Turning them inside out helps, but sometimes creases form that won't completely iron out. Thoughts?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Pretty broad question about my [moleskin m65 field jacket](http://www.acquiremag.com/2011/08/10/ervell.jpg) by patrik ervell. I managed to splash some mud on it and now even some chain oil. I rubbed it out pretty quickly in both cases (which is not recommended since it wears out the colour, and I didn't even get all the dirt off). Also had it drycleaned once. Now it's getting out of shape a bit and fitting looser than it was at the start. Colour is also fading a little bit everywhere, which I don't mind *too* much.\n\nAny ideas on how to start restoring it a bit? (shapewise, maybe colourwise too, although that's probably a lost cause) I'm torn between ironing it from the inside, or hanging it in my bathroom while taking a steamy shower. Any other ideas / experiences would mean the world to me. ;) Thanks!!", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Anyone have some good photo examples of a nice jean or pant that these boots would go good with? \n\nhttp://i.imgur.com/iNwPO.jpg\n\nI'm kinda new to this style. Changing my ways of a hoodie and jeans guy. I thought they would go good with a slimmer dark denim jean, or a darker chino? I was just afraid of a small leg opening looking too funky. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Guess I'll try here before I create a new thread...\n\nStill in need of a good fall jacket. Just saw on dappered that [this one from Brooks Brothers](http://www.brooksbrothers.com/IWCatProductPage.process?Merchant_Id=1&Section_Id=308&Product_Id=1626193&Parent_Id=305&default_color=DARK-GREY&sort_by=&sectioncolor=&sectionsize=#null) is on sale for $168. I like the look of it but I'm not sure what size I need or if they'll fit me well at all. I'm 6'4\"ish with long arms and fairly broad shoulders. I wear a large tall slim fit in Banana Republic shirts and a 44 long in most jackets. Anyone able to comment on BB jacket fits generally?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I lose a bit more weight than intended [started running for fitness, not for weight loss] and didn't check my wedding clothes in time [this is my own fault, so don't rub it in]. \n\nSo I need a quick suit-up on a cheap budget for two weddings in two weeks with little to no time for tailoring: Which is less offensive in terms of $/style/quality to the MFA community: H&M, Uniqlo [I think they have jackets, etc] or Express? (or other?)\n\n[I will make good and get a properly tailored suit in the future]", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Some shoe questions. Interested to hear about how things compare on the price/style/quality axes.\n\n* [Allen Edmonds Bayfield in Brown Chromexcel](http://www.allenedmonds.com/aeonline/producti_SF7891C_1_40000000001_-1) or [Red Wing Iron Ranger in Amber](http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/red-wing-iron-ranger-boot/3341396?origin=category)?\n* [Allen Edmonds Dalton in Walnut](http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/allen-edmonds-dalton-boot/3180220) or [Grenson Sharp in Tan](http://www.mrporter.com/product/177003) or [JCPenney Stafford Camlin in Cognac](http://www.jcpenney.com/dotcom/shoes/boots/stafford-camlin-mens-boots/prod.jump?ppId=pp5001521743&catId=cat100300058&deptId=dept20000018)?", "score": 3 } ]
Anyone else feel like, if you expose a compartment to vacuum anything in it should be vented out?
Not sure if this has been brought up but I think there should be a purchasable upgrade for rapid venting where you can vent the contents of a room into space like borders, or unruly crew. I realize this would make borders basically useless, but it could be a semi expensive add on or maybe it is limited to only one compartment past the airlock so it isn't op. As it is now I feel like the venting mechanics are too slow, if there is a fire and i open airlock doors in reality there should be no chance for it to spread before the atmosphere in the room is gone. Thoughts?
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[ { "body": "I think the feature would be a combination of too powerful (boarding parties would insta-die) and too frustrating (one click too much on your door subsystem and you vent your entire crew. \n\nIf limited to just the airlocks or airlocks+1, you'd have the problem of it either being absolutely useless or still completely OP, depending on what ship and layout you're flying atm. \n\nWhat I could get behind (and what would make sense design-wise) would be if it just applied to airlocks.", "score": 10 }, { "body": "Do you feel like fires and boarders are too good right now and need a nerf? Game design decisions should start from questions of, well, game design. Realism for its own sake is only worth it if it has minimal effect on gameplay IMO.", "score": 3 } ]
As promised here is the whiteboard from lesson 2 of how a T1 works.
I said I would deliver and [HERE](http://i.imgur.com/vv75A.jpg?1) it is. Mr. Manager knew it would be going on the interwebs so I think he made it a little cleaner for everyone. I hope to get him to sign up for Reddit but he is a busy guy so we will see (AMA maybe...). He did appreciate the feedback from the last post so thanks everyone! As a bonus I took a [BEFORE](http://i.imgur.com/Ogqvv.jpg) shot. EDIT: Forgot to link to [Lesson 1](http://www.reddit.com/r/talesfromtechsupport/comments/104vkg/tech_can_you_show_me_how_a_t1_works_manager_sure/) [Lesson 3](http://www.reddit.com/r/talesfromtechsupport/comments/109lon/whiteboard_for_lesson_3_layer_3_mr_manager/)
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[ { "body": "I look at that whiteboard and see a bunch of rectangles and lines, but can tell that whoever did that clearly knew very well what's going on. Especially if he was able to just draw that up off the top of his head.", "score": 23 }, { "body": "Your manager is what we in my company call \"A Bearded One\"\n\nall must pay homage to The Bearded Ones, for theirs is the fountain of knowledge.", "score": 20 }, { "body": "If this is a viral ad for an open position at your company, you keep forgetting to mention it's name! :D", "score": 5 } ]
Vitamin C pre- and post-workout, yes or no?
A link between vitamin C ingestion and suppression of post-exercise cortisol has been clearly established for some years now. However it is not entirely clear to me that this is a good thing. I've read many conflicting things on the net, some from knowledgeable people who advise against taking vitamin C close to your workout. Furthermore, a study in 2009 concluded that taking antioxidants while exercising (vitamins C & E) may nullify some of the benefits (most notably improvements in insulin resistance): http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17108-vitamin-supplements-may-cut-benefits-of-exercise.html Unfortunately, examine.com 's entry on vitamin C did not have anything to say on the matter. Does anybody have any insight or suggestions?
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[ { "body": ">A link between vitamin C ingestion and suppression of post-exercise cortisol has been clearly established for some years now.\n\n>Furthermore, a study in 2009 concluded that taking antioxidants while exercising (vitamins C & E) may nullify some of the benefits\n\nThese two are not necessarily unrelated. Reducing cortisol implies a reduction in the body's stress response which means a reduced adaptation response. \n\nElevated cortisol is not a bad thing so long as it's not a chronic condition. \n\n", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Using antioxidants postworkout has actually shown some negative affects. Logically, you'd think they'd help, but the studies point another way. ", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Magnesium apparently helps with recovery post workout.\n\nhttp://www.charlespoliquin.com/Blog/tabid/130/EntryId/1240/Tip-359-Take-Magnesium-Post-Workout-to-Get-Stronger-and-Speed-Recovery.aspx", "score": 3 } ]
Anyone could help me find that short animated film where the character opens his chest to give away his heart?
Please can you help me finding it again? I keep mentioning it to a friend but my searches have all been unsuccessful so far. I feel silly :( It was an animated short. A small character (May be a robot?) gives away his heart by opening his chest like it was a cupboard to the girl he likes, they're happy, but then they break up I think, and his heart is broken, and abandoned. Please help me!!!
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[ { "body": "Yor description sounds like this comic I saw on Reddit recently, it's not a video so im not sure if it's what you're looking for though. I did a search and found someone else had been looking for it previously.\n\nhttp://www.reddit.com/r/comics/comments/nkcyo/rwebcomics_couldnt_help_me_im_looking_for_a/\n\nHere's the comic...\nhttp://i.imgur.com/c4mDq.jpg\n\nHere's the artist\nhttp://tirasexperimentais.wordpress.com/\n", "score": 9 }, { "body": "[May or may not be](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGTgHubJTeU)\n\ncool nevertheless\n\nthe song is \"[Lex](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0VAkPjrnWM)\" from ratatat", "score": 3 } ]
What are the seminal albums of the 2000s?
We all know about Nevermind, Ziggy Stardust, Dark Side of the Moon et al but what are the seminal albums of the 2000s, the ones that will really stand the test of time? The most immediate one I can think of is Is This It? by The Strokes but beyond that I'm having a hard time thinking of any that I would describe as truly influential. Your suggestions?
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[ { "body": "Here are probably the top 4 albums of the past decade when it comes to how often I see them cited as \"best album of 2000-2009\". \n\n\"Funeral\"- Arcade Fire\n\n\"Kid A\"- Radiohead\n\n\"Is This It\"- The Strokes\n\n\"Yankee Hotel Foxtrot\"- Wilco\n\n\nAnd here are some other albums that have mountains of acclaim, but not quite as much as that \"elite 4\" do.\n\n\n\"Sound of Silver\"- LCD Soundsystem\n\n\"The Blueprint\"- Jay-Z\n\n\"Illinois\"- Sufjan Stevens\n\n\"Stankonia\"- OutKast\n\n\"In Rainbows\"- Radiohead\n\n\"Merriweather Post Pavilion\"- Animal Collective\n\n\"Elephant\"- The White Stripes\n\n\"White Blood Cells\"- The White Stripes\n\n\"Discovery\"- Daft Punk\n\n\"Return to Cookie Mountain\"- TV on the Radio\n\n\"Dear Science\"- TV on the Radio\n\n\"Back to Black\"- Amy Winehouse\n\n\"The College Dropout\"- Kanye West\n\n\"Late Registration\"- Kanye West\n\n\"Whatever People Say I Am, That's What I'm Not\"- Arctic Monkeys\n\n\"Untrue\"- Burial\n\n\"For Emma, Forever Ago\"- Bon Iver\n\n\"The Marshall Mathers LP\"- Eminem\n\n\"Franz Ferdinand\"- Franz Ferdinand\n\n\"Turn on the Bright Lights\"- Interpol\n\n\"Ys\"- Joanna Newsom\n\n\"Yoshimi Battles the Pink Robots\"- The Flaming Lips", "score": 18 }, { "body": "You're a Woman, I'm a Machine by Death From Above 1979. That album will forever be burned into my brain and scratched into my skin. ", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I'll add a few to the list:\n\nThe Killers - Hot Fuss\n\nMuse - Black Holes and Revelations\n\nGnarls Barkley - St. Elsewhere\n\nLinkin Park - Hybrid Theory\n\nAnything form Coldplay\n\nGorillaz - Demon Days\n\nKings of Leon - Only by the Night\n\nSystem of a Down - Toxicity\n", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Built to Spill - You in Reverse \nDeltron 3030 - Deltron 3030 \nEasy Star All Stars - Dub Side of the Moon \nMastodon - Leviathan \nM. Ward - Post War \nManu Chao - La Radiolina \nOutkast - Stankonia \nUnearth - The Oncoming Storm ", "score": 3 } ]
How does your average conversation with your dealers go?
I was just thinking about how I always have the exact same phone conversation with my guy whenever I want to pick up. When it comes to meeting him we always talk for ages about drugs/experiences etc How about you guys? Cheers for the replies everyone, this was a real fun read!
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[ { "body": "Dealer: \"Yeah I'm pulling on your street now\"... half an hour later... \"yeah I'm almost there\" ... finally gets there... \"dude I forgot my scale\"\n", "score": 30 }, { "body": "I walk in the door any time from 9-7 on any day of the week, I am greeted by the receptionist by name and then go into the sales floor. There I ask what is new this week and what is on sale today. Then I bullshit about the week for a bit and choose what I want from a selection of over 50 strains, maybe pick up some edibles if I'm in the mood. Then I go home, Colorado is a great state.", "score": 22 }, { "body": "My dealer is also one of my best friends, so whenever I need any, I just ask if he wants to chill, I go by, and we chill and blaze. Other clients come and go, and I'm usually there for hours watching movies, playing Xbox or whatever. I'm usually hanging out with him anyway, so I never have to ask about bud over the phone. \n\nThe topic of me buying weed doesn't even come up until right before I have to leave, since he's always packing bowls and sharing :D", "score": 17 }, { "body": "Me: 'Hey bro'\nGuy: \"Whats up man'\nM: 'Im gonna grab some pot'\nG: 'Go ahead dude'\nM: 'Thanks roommate'\n\nMy roomie has a few plant that he grows for both of us. ", "score": 11 }, { "body": "What's a dealer? You mean the guy who stands behind the counter and won't shut up about the dozens of types of pot he has?", "score": 11 }, { "body": "I make the call. 4:42 PM \n**ring ring** \n\"''Ello?\" \n\"Hey man! What's up how are you doing?\" \n\"What's up?\" \n\"Uhh, erm, just looking for a quarter to pick up.\" \n\"Aight cool, lemme know when you're ready, any time.\" \n\"Yeah, I am ready.... How does 5 sound?\" \n\"5?\" \n\"Yeah 5, unless that doesn't work for you then then whenev..\" \n\"Yeah 5 is cool, you gonna be there?\" \n\"I will be there before 5.\" \n\"Aight, coo.\" \n\nI arrive at 4:55, he shows at 5:08. That's about it.\n", "score": 11 }, { "body": "I work with my dealer, so it's pretty convenient for me. Unfortunately, he's permahigh so things usually go like this:\n\n\"hey carlos, got any smokeables?\"\n\"shit, not on me, i'll bring it tomorrow\"\n\nTomorrow:\n\n\"Hey Carlos, got any smokeables?\"\n\n\"Shit, i forgot.\"\n\nThe next day:\n\n\"WHERE'S MY FUCKING WEED CARLOS?\"\n\n\"Shit, I forgot. Come back to my place after work, I'll roll you a blunt.\"\n\n\"*sigh*. Fine you motherfucker.\"\n\nAlthough this isn't always the case, but it happens more often than not. He always cuts me a deal though, so I can't get too mad at him.", "score": 11 }, { "body": "I have 3 or 4 different dudes and the text conversation is different for each one. That's actually pretty weird now that I think about it. ", "score": 7 }, { "body": "The text conversation is straightforward, but the pickup is where it's fun. We usually chill for a bit (unless one of us has something to do), test the bud out and we play Nintendo 64 or Xbox...maybe exchange our latest findings on YouTube. Always a nice social time.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "On the phone I just usually ask if he's going to be around for a while and if he'd mind some company. When I get there we hang out and smoke a lot of joints and hash oil. At some point his wife feeds us. It usually ends up being an all-day event.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I say \"Hey man, wanna meet up tonight?\n\nhe says \"sure\"\n\nI say \"cool\" or \"awesome\" or \"k sweet\"\n\nthen he texts me about 20 minutes before he arrives, and says \"hey I'll b like 20\"\n\nthen he arrives and calls me, and I go meet him.\n\nIt's like that basically every single time, with very slight changes in the words used from time to time. Kinda makes me feel awkward, actually.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Damn man that's so tight! I text my guy every payday, and I swing over by his house. Last time, I was greeted with a blunt and a controller to play a round of Mario Party 3. I quite enjoy my visits. :D", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I used to be really good friends with my dealer but then i moved and I dont have much in common with my new contact. so usually the conversation goes something like this,\nme- Hey dude are you good?/ can i pickup a g?\nhim- yea come over whenever\nme- cool see you in 10\n\nat which point i walk over to his place and pickup XD", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Usually goes something like this:\n\n\"Hey man can I come by?\"\n\n\"Ya man\" \n\nThen when I get there, depending on if it's a weeknight or weekend, I'll get weighed out right away, or I might sit and play games/watch the movie everyone's watching. \n\nUsually good vibes, other times it's awkward. I feel like we're all still socially awkward teenagers there. Cos we are lol. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Very, very awkwardly. A greeting, asking how things are going in general, how we both are, then the deal happens, then good bye.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Not much.\n\n\"You got the stuff?\"\n\"Always man.\"\n\"Alright, here's the money\"\n\"Cool, here's your grass\"\n\"Thanks, see ya around man\"\n\"See ya dude\"\n\nI wish I had a cool ass dealer to smoke with and chill after buying, my guy is kinda cold.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I have an awesome dealer, but he's a clinger. Not saying that's a bad thing, because he usually smokes me up before the transaction. But it can get awkward after awhile. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Depends on the guy I go to. One of my guys is a good friend, but the bud he gets is never properly dried so I end up with less than I pay for. We always talk a lot and I tend to buy from him for the experience of chilling for hours and talking. The guy who's weed I prefer packs me fat sacks but just simply isnt chatty. I got introduced to him by a mutual friend. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "he's a personal trainer. so we talk about different supplements, workout routines, fat loss plans, etc. also guns too. we both like target shooting. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "it starts with me texting, \"cool if I stop by?\" then he tells me it's cool. We hang out for about 10 minutes just shooting the shit and I'm on my merry way. \n\nHe doesn't expect me to smoke him up or anything like that. He's cool as shit and he's got great stuff.", "score": 3 } ]
My wife is 38 weeks pregnant today. Last night, I had a terrible dream.....
... In the dream, she had the baby. When the doctor delivered the baby, our first glance of the baby was horrifying. The baby didn't have a nose and had a cleft lip and palate. I think this was brought on when she and I were looking at the last ultrasound picture we got. She and I both thought the baby's face looked funny in the picture. The dream was horrible and now I'm terrified our baby will come out deformed. We would still love him, but this thought is really haunting me. Do you think we would know by now if the baby was deformed?
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[ { "body": "A lot of ultrasounds make babys face super creepy, yours is not the only one :) Most likely they would pick something up like a deformed nose of a cleft lip via ultrasound. Does it happen sometimes that they miss it? most likely, but I would say these days with ultrasounds things like that they catch in advance the majority of the time. My daughter always looked perfect on the ultrasound, she was born looked perfect, two days after coming home with her I realized one of her eyes were weird, took her to the pediatrician, then an ophthalmologist, she was born with an eye defect (Iris Coloboma). No one noticed it until I mentioned it. But most likely your baby is perfectly fine and I wouldn't let the dream get to you :) It's very normal to get these types of dreams. ", "score": 11 }, { "body": "A cleft lip/palate is something they look for in the U/S because it changes how they would need to approach the delivery. Your doctors would most surely know and would have informed you. ", "score": 3 } ]
1 1/2 Years of MC Without Enchants/Potions.
I just came here to say that I've been playing Minecraft for almost a year and half now, and it's been great fun! I've played creative servers, SMP's, Hardcore servers, Hunger Games servers, Faction servers... you name it, I've tried it. Yesterday, I made my first enchantment table. I also enchanted my first item. When I announced it in the server, I got all kinds of grief. No one believed me! I've had great fun playing without ever utilizing this system. Of other things I have never taken the time to do: Make potion stand or drink any potion (aside from ones friend's have thrown at me), or put a saddle on an animal to ride it! I just wanted to let you guys know that. I've built some amazing things, including almost every official counterstrike map - set to scale! I've just never messed with these parts of the game before. So a year and a half in, Minecraft is still brand-spanking new to me! Thought that I'd share :) Now I'm off. With my Diamond Pick. The first one I've ever had with an enchantment on it. It's Unbreaking 3 and Efficiency 4. It feels like I'm removing blocks in GM mode! EDIT: Creative Mode. Woops :P ((Sorry if this isn't a self post. A lot of subreddits say "submit a link" or "submit a self post". This one didn't. I just went "Submit a link" and then "text". I hope that works. I'm not in it for the Karma.)) ** Happy trails, mates!**
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[ { "body": "I've been playing for a year and I haven't even been to the nether yet. Also just started enchanting about 3 weeks ago, and now getting that table up and running on a new world is super important to me.", "score": 3 } ]
Go to your carrier, not Apple this morning.
Soooooooo, I went to the apple store at 8:30, needless to say the line was crazy, probably about 300 people in line (I live in suburban Detroit.) So I promptly went to an AT&T store, where I literally walked in and out in less than 10 minutes with a shiny new iPhone 5 that syncing as I type this. Anybody else work smarter, not harder to get their new phone?
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[ { "body": "I went to Best Buy for the iPad launch, where there were literally three other people in line. After about ten minutes I decided - fuck it - crowds are more fun. So I went and got in the giant line at the Apple store. Made friends, feasted on the massive amount of free food that's given away in line, got interviewed by a couple of blogs, and had a great time.\n\nIt's not always about buying the device.", "score": 14 } ]
Fresh 50...Now what?
Having just hit 50 and being slammed with a whole bunch of quest and no clue what I'm actually geared for.
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[ { "body": "1. [JOIN A GUILD](http://www.reddit.com/r/swtor/comments/lxytd/how_does_one_find_a_good_guild/c2wigcr)\n2. Pick up your free Recruit gear from the PvP quest terminal\n3. Finish your story quest (if you want to)\n\nBear in mind that PvP gear is very different from PvE. Don't bring a knife to a gun fight (wear PvP for PvP, PvE for PvE).\nThen, in no particular order:\n\n**PvE**\n\n* Tionese/Xenotech/Energized < Columi/Exotech < Rakata < Campaign/Black Hole\n* Replace your Recruit set with any of the above gear as you find it. See [Shadodragon's post](http://www.reddit.com/r/swtor/comments/108xd6/fresh_50now_what/c6bky00) for why.\n* Find walkthroughs of all of the HM flashpoints and operations. You don't need to know the fights by heart, but you should know the key mechanics to each fight.\n* Run HM flashpoints using the group finder to collect black hole commendations. If you have never played the fp before, let the group know. Some asshats may quit the group at this point, but that's okay; you should play the game at YOUR rate, not ZOMG Y U NO HIT SPACEBARRRRRRR.\n* Run SM ops. The same warning from the previous point applies.\n* When you are mostly Columi, start running HM ops to collect Rakata.\n* When you are mostly/all Rakata, start looking around for groups running SM EC\n* Full Rakata/Black Hole, try out HM EC. It's a bitch, but it's worth it.\n* Keep in mind that min/maxers will augment all of their gear. This is not required for the early endgame, but HM EC basically requires it.\nEDIT1: By the time you get full Rakata/Black Hole, you should be able to run Terror From Beyond (new content in 1.4). \n\n**PvP**\n\n* Recruit < Battlemaster < War Hero\n* Pick up the PvP weekly and daily from the quest terminal on fleet. \n* Spend Warzone Commendations on Battlemaster gear. You will need the Battlemaster equivalent of War Hero gear to purchase it (Comms + Battlemaster Gloves -> War Hero Gloves). Ear, Implants, and Relics are exceptions to this ([Shadodragon's post](http://www.reddit.com/r/swtor/comments/108xd6/fresh_50now_what/c6bky00)).\n* ....I don't know much else here. Maybe someone else can fill in the rest.\n\nAaaaand that's all the time I'm going to spend not doing work. Good luck out there!\n\nEDIT2: Corrections from Shadodragon", "score": 22 }, { "body": "Check YouTube for how to make your best lvl 50 matrix cube (based on your primary stat).\nRun story mode operations (in the lfg tool).\nRun the tier 1 hard mode flashpoints (in the lfg tool).\nGet some columi gear, then rakata.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I'm a fresh level 50 and I don't know what any of these replies mean :( (Also my first MMO ever). I guess I've got some reading to do but that's no fun. Ugh.", "score": 5 } ]
Calling Tri-Cities, WA beer geeks. Let's drink together.
I would like to start a beer geek group in the Tri-Cities. I run a little beer and gas station called Beer:30 in Kennewick and I pride myself on our growing beer selection. I like to add new beers based on what is proven and what is hard to come by. I collect/age and homebrew beer as well. If you are interested in meeting up and drinking some time you can hit me up.
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[ { "body": "Where's your store at? I like the one in West Richland, but the problem is that it's in West Richland. Any particular styles your selection gravitates towards? Were you inspired by Sunrise in Austin, TX?\n\nEdit: Found you at http://www.facebook.com/Beer30Store. I'll have to stop by soon.", "score": 4 } ]
Cutting down on reddit, fb and other assorted internet use - to day 200 and beyond!
Since hitting day 90, I've sort of slowed down - managed to get a bunch of things done by then in addition to the NoFap challenge - got a research proposal written up, worked out among other things. Not having a clear set of goals afterwards has hampered my progress since then and I've found myself slowly sliding back into old bad habits - waking up early but staying in bed browsing all matter of time-wasting internet sites, no more workouts or long bike rides, reduced actual work output and no proper meditation/devotion time. This in turn has led to me being rather vulnerable to scumbag brain's suggestions to browse old sites and certain reddits that would lead to a relapse but thankfully, my store of willpower to resist that I built up during the 90+ days is quite formidable and I have managed to control myself. All the same, I've had [enough](http://i1218.photobucket.com/albums/dd417/thesolanum/gifs/Edward-Norton-Closing-Laptop.gif). I have made such great progress since I quit fapping that it beggars belief that I have allowed myself to fall back into the habits that led me down that dark road. I'm really mad at myself right now that I've let that happen and I'm taking instant action now to ensure that I continue to build on the progress I made. I'm going back to the new rules I set up at the beginning of NoFap. First thing is to take the laptop back to the office, and leave it there - use it only for work. Bringing it back to 'work' from home was a bullshit move - I was only lying to myself. Next, I'm setting up some goals for the next 85 days, that will take me to day 200. Somewhat similar to the early goals (exercise and work out goals, meditation/devotion and career/work goals), but way more ambitious and more clear cut. Here's to day 200 and beyond!
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[ { "body": "Good for you! I cut reddit and facebook for a few months myself. I'm back to being a fairly heavy user (and do need to cut back again, at least at work), but the time off was very helpful while I was working on my triggers.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "These are great tips. I am going to make some plans and cut my internet use also. 115 days! that is amazing. good luck and stay strong.", "score": 3 } ]
My girlfriend (34) works a lot more than I (28) do. Could my "laziness" damage the relationship?
I guess it's unfair to say that I'm lazy. I work 40 hours a week and I work hard. I also do a lot of stuff with her like go on day/weekend trips, cook, do housework at each other's houses, and we study together (I'm learning her native language and she mine). We live an hour apart so we both spend a lot of time commuting to see each other as well. In my free time during the week when we can't meet (due to distance) though, I'd say I spent 30% of it doing productive things (studying mostly) and 70% of it just relaxing. I spend about 4-6 hours a day playing games, watching TV, Reddit-ing, chatting with friends and family and so forth. I spend about 15-20 hours in a 7 day week studying (I'm not actually a student). In her case, she works between 50-60 hours a week, goes to an English institute (to study English) for 3-6 hours per night, and when she isn't doing something that I would consider "work", she's hunting for a better job, cleaning her house or some kind of busy work. She thinks video games are trash (though she never sees me play so it doesn't come up), doesn't own a TV (neither do I) and generally doesn't waste time on anything that doesn't direct benefit her life. Until she met me, she only watched about one movie a year. Another thing is that she sleeps 3-4 hours per week night and feels guilty if she sleeps more than six whereas I'm the kind of person that gets crotchety if I don't get at least six hours. I told her that I need 6-8 hours of sleep per night and she seemed to disdain me for it a little bit (sometimes she casually brings up that if you make X and Y changes to your diet you don't need more than 3-4 hours like her). None of this has really affected our relationship but I worry that I'm changing her or maybe holding her back. Work wise, she's much better than me as she works for a major company and I work in kind of a dead end job and make a measly $40k per year (about half of what she makes at her corporate job). None of these things are issues within the relationship and I like to think that I "mellow her out" a bit but I have to consider the other side and where we will end up in the future when we get married and live together (it's heading in that direction). The other thing I might add is that in her culture, people work 60+ hours per week and don't generally have hobbies outside of going to church and family obligations whereas in my culture, people work 40ish hours per week then do fuck all in their free time. I live in her country though, so that also has a lot to do with why I feel lazy. Do you think this is going to hurt our relationship more in the future when things get more serious? She hasn't been that hostile to me about this but I'm really worried that she's going to lose it when she realizes just how much time I spend doing things that aren't productive. I'm afraid I either have to change or the relationship won't work out, which would kill me because I'm madly in love with her. Cheers. **tl;dr I'm a casual, laid back person. She's a bit of a workaholic in comparison. It hasn't affected us yet because we only meet on weekends but I'm worried about how she'll see me when we move in together and get married some day. I'm also worried that I'm holding her back.**
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[ { "body": "So basically, you're afraid that she won't respect you when she gets to know you better.\n\nI think before things get serious you need to lay out where your work-life balance is, and see if she can respect that.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Well. I would have a hard time living in a situation like that. I think work/life balance is important, and being able to enjoy life is more valuable to me than producing a lot of stuff/earning a lot of money/meeting arbitrary milestones.\n\nIf you feel like your girlfriend respects you less because you value different things -- that seems like a very difficult hurdle to get over. I think you can probably do it, with a lot of openness, communication, and flexibility on both your parts -- but it's up to you to decide if you actually want to do that.\n\nCan you ask her about it directly? E.g., \"I like to spend my free time relaxing. Does that bother you?\"", "score": 3 } ]
What is this growing next to my olive "tree"?
http://imgur.com/NV4ZL Its leaves are very rough like sandpaper. Could it just be another olive tree trying to grow? If so, should I remove it? EDIT: a google search told me it might be anacua. It fits the description of both the little tree and what I'm touching in the picture. The question still remains though. Should I remove the second one? EDIT2: user green-light also mentioned the "olive tree" might be Texas Wild Olive or *Cordia boissieri*
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[ { "body": "Hey neighbor! Are you saying everything in that picture is the \"unknown\" plant? Because nothing in that picture looks remotely like olive leaves to me... ", "score": 5 } ]
How can I fix my relationship with my religious family?
I wasn't sure if I should post this in "Ask" or here, but I'm gonna try here. Without getting into too much of a long story: My family is very religious. I'm an adult, I'm married, no kids, moved away from my hometown, about an hour and a half away. My mother is always calling me to tell me how disappointed she is that I'm not "a part of the family" anymore. Her criticisms range from "I'm not appreciative enough" (they very rarely loan me money, the only reason I don't say never is because it would be disingenuous, they have loaned me very small amounts, but whatever, they mostly buy me clothes...that don't fit, that I don't want, that I beg them not to buy me) to they "don't know my wife" (honestly, I can't go into the full breadth of my family issues on here, but my wife doesn't really want to get to know any of them because they're kinda crazy) to the biggest and most obvious "you've wandered off the path and we're so scared of where you'll 'end up'".... This last one is obviously the biggest one. It's the seed from which all other arguments grow. They claim to be Christians, but they say the most hurtful, vitriolic things I've ever heard come out of someone's mouth and when I point out that what they are saying may be in contradiction to their beliefs, they just yell at me because I don't believe in the bible, so between the two of us it's obvious that they're going to heaven and I'm gonna burn forever. I'm not in their face about my beliefs. I think what you believe is a personal matter and you shouldn't go shoving it in everyone's face. But religion is the largest factor in their personalities/identity. They go to work and they go to church. It is all they know. So they're appalled when I go to concerts, go out dancing with my wife, drink, or have a large group of friends with different beliefs. How could I be in such a place? or willingly interact with such people?! There is clearly more to the story, but the point is...they're my family and I'd like to get to some adult version of a relationship with them, but it appears they wouldn't be happy unless I was sitting next to them in the pew every week. --to make matters worse, I have 2 sisters, who are both my age, in their 30's, who both graduated from christian colleges, got jobs and bought homes next to my parents. They both remain unmarried, despite wanting to find mates (crazy religious zealots have trouble finding a mate after the age of 30, who could have predicted that?) They spend every weekend at my parents house and go to church with them every week. So my wife and I are constantly compared to them! Lastly, I just feel alone, my wife's parents are religious, we both grew up in the religious community. Her parents are...normal! they believe what they believe, and love me and my wife regardless, are proud of our achievements and are happy that we're happy! All of my friends, some remain religious, some aren't. Almost all of them have a grown up mature relationship with their parents, they have a whiskey with their Dad and talk about good music. I feel like I'm all alone. Most people who have parents who are this level of crazy religious, shut the door and don't look back, but they're still my family and I want to salvage something with them if possible, but the older I get and the crazier they get I'm starting to wonder if it's even possible. Anyway, thanks for listening to my rant.
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[ { "body": "Make arrangements to see/talk to them. The moment they say anything offensive leave. Then arrange another \"meeting\" a month or two later. The moment they pass judgement, leave. Extend the waiting time between visits. They'll learn to be nice or they'll lose a family member. It's not worth fretting over. You can pick your friends but you can't pick your family.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "I feel for you. I live in the second notch on the Bible Belt and not only with my family, but with my social circle there is a heightened level of religious zealotry that I have to deal with. It sounds like your relationship with your wife is a good one and also with her family. I would concentrate on those relationships. I doubt you will ever have the kind of relationship you want with your folks, so don't spend too much time worrying things out of your control. Pursue the positive.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "I went to a Baptist school in the 6th grade. I was persecuted in a very similar manner that you are. My only advice is to simply say to them I dont want you out of my life, you are my parents and I love you, all I ask of you is to respect my own personal views of the world. ", "score": 3 } ]
So, I just started re-watching ATLA.
This is the first time I've seen this series since it aired when I was 11 or 12. And I must say, this show is FANTASTIC!! I actually appreciate it much more the second time watching it through. And I keep stumbling on quotes that I say all the time that I forgot were from avatar. Like, a lot of the time I say variations of the "...because you're so naturally gifted!" quote from The Waterbending Scroll. Anyway, this post doesn't have a real point. Only that I absolutely love this series. And I'm really, really glad they have it on Amazon Instant, because Hulu is always buggy for me and I don't know anyone who owns the series.
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[ { "body": "Yep, thats usually the response to going back after growing up.\n\n\nIts really just so deep, ya know? Zukos struggles, Tophs parent problems, Aangs growing up.\n\nThats why I argue its an adult show on a kids network.", "score": 19 } ]
Reddit, What is the strangest question you've thought of and have never asked it? (NSFW)
I'll start.. Do women that frequently have anal sex crap a lot easier than before? I feel pretty messed up asking this already. No regrets.
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[ { "body": "How big was Jesus' penis?\n\nIt was seriously all I could think of when my school would make us go to mass...", "score": 20 }, { "body": "Are people who have really smoking hot sisters or cousins attracted to them or is that naturally blocked?", "score": 11 }, { "body": "why do men maim their penis? I'm not talking just Prince Albert Rings, I am talking about slicing the sucker lengthwise and that kind of shit.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "I always wonder If girls with big asses have a built in cushion. I was looking at a girl sitting down, my friend saw me and accused me of the obvious. I just admitted to what he suspected so that I wouldn't sound Weird asking \"that lucky duck has a huge ass. That must be so comfortable. Don't you think so?\" \nI can't be the only person to wonder about this, right?", "score": 3 } ]
Planning on moving from Argentina to Germany, need advice...
Hi Reddit Germany!! Well as the title says, i am planning on leaving these southern shores to work and live in germany. I have some questions & perhaps you kind redditors can help me. - I need advice on finding a Job. I have already translated & validated all of my studies here in Argentina. I studied "Wirtschaftswissenschaft" and am currently finishing a specialization in Marketing. What are the best sites to upload my CV? I am mostly interested in finding a Marketing Job in gaming companies (or that is at leat my ideal job). - How much is the current average salary there (lets say for an analyst level)? Is it enough to get by on your own (sadly this is not the case here, thats why i am asking)? - Is there a particular area you would recommend to move? I was thinking of either Berlin or Frankfurt, depending where most gaming companies have their offices). - Do you have a particular company that you recommend as a good place to work (might not be a gaming company but a cool place to start)? - How soon should i start sending CV's if I plan on moving in Jan - Feb 2013? Any other advice would be welcome :) Thank you all !!! P.S. I speak German closely to Muttersprache level, same as english. Also, I have the italian citizenship so i shouldn't have much trouble staying in Germany. Any thoughts on this? Edit: Forgot one question.
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[ { "body": "> What are the best sites to upload my CV?\n\nThat would be xing.com\n\nAccording to wikipedia the current average salary is about 32.000€, one can get by with that pretty good. I have no idea what you could expect to get, though.", "score": 4 } ]
Just switched over to Android (S3) this morning from the apple ecosystem....loving it. But I have some questions...a lot of questions.
I'm just a typical office man, and I do love my technologies. I switched over purely because I thought it was time for me to try Android to get the full experience of what I think is an exciting battle in a booming market. And iphone 5/iOS6 was just not that impressive, so figured since I'm due for an upgrade it was the perfect time. I have a lot of questions ranging from lazy and stupid to complicated. I'm hoping one of you lots is kind (and bored at work) enough to go through these and answer them. I know I can look a lot of these up, but reddit is way more fun and it is a one stop shop - **also, first post.** So please don't hate if I did something wrong. Anyway, here goes. * Can I not change music with the headphones that came with the phone? I want to go to the next song, and can't seem to find an easy way to do it...is there even a quick interface I can use rather than going back into pandora...etc? * Kind of confused about syncing with my gmail account...under account and sync, it seems to be able to sync my contacts and such on the Google servers...does that mean all my contacts on my phone is backed up safely? Or am I just able to access my contacts in gmail from my phone? On a scale of 1 - 10, how stupid is this question? I think I plan on rooting it, so I can use the Titanium back up. Is there even a better option to do that, maybe without rooting it? * Is there any way to modify what shows up on my notification bar? I'm guessing there are ways if I root my phone, which I plan on doing once I get comfy with the stock ICS/touchWiz, but any way to do it without rooting? For example, can I get weather to show up on the pull down notification bar? And to make the full circle, is there any way I can have some music control show up there too? * This might not have an answer...my fat palm sometimes squeezes over and hits the soft keys when I use it with one hand. Any solution for that...? I guess I can hit the gym....or play more smash bros to work out my hands? Maybe I'll end it here. Any feedback/answer would be much appreciated. **edit** Oh man! I love you guys. I must say, I lost faith in reddit as it gained so much user base...(let's be honest, it evolved from a small community to another myspace...not saying that that's bad...but does take away a lot of the good stuff as well) but this thread was VERY helpful. With that said, I now have another lingering question. * Whenever I try to install Google music manager, it doesn't seem to work properly. Install itself seems fine, but when I try to open the application, it seems to freeze and it says "not responding." I see it in System Preferences, but when I open the tool, I can't do anything with it and '[email protected]' is logged in and can't be logged out of. Tried to look it up, but can't find info on this anywhere...so I turn to you again, reddit. * Can I have a badge on the Gmail app icon, so I know how many unread messages I have from the home screen? * Anyone know if there's any way I can plug in my galaxy S3 on 2011 Honda CR-V via USB to listen to music? It works for ipods, and when I plug in the S3, it says unsupported...so I'm guessing not likely. But figured someone here might know a hack or some cool shit to download/tweak my S3 to make it supported/compatible. At this point, I pretty much expect all my problems to be answered here after the responses I got from the last post....on that note, I'm done with this edit.
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[ { "body": "I know you might love pandora but there is another music app songza and from the lock screen u can change the song", "score": 8 }, { "body": "- Can I not change music with the headphones that came with the phone? I want to go to the next song, and can't seem to find an easy way to do it...is there even a quick interface I can use rather than going back into pandora...etc?\n\nPandora should show controls on the phone's lock screen, a bit of album art with forward, back, and play-pause. If it doesn't show, there are notification-toggle apps you can get in the Play Store that add these buttons as short cuts in the notification drawer which you can pull down over the lock screen. Additionally, some ROMs add the ability to use long-hold of vol-down and vol-up for previous and next respectively.\n\n- Kind of confused about syncing with my gmail account...under account and sync, it seems to be able to sync my contacts and such on the Google servers...does that mean all my contacts on my phone is backed up safely? Or am I just able to access my contacts in gmail from my phone? On a scale of 1 - 10, how stupid is this question? I think I plan on rooting it, so I can use the Titanium back up. Is there even a better option to do that, maybe without rooting it?\n\nThey are backed up securely on Google's servers. They will show up in GMail, and any other Android devices. I have my contacts synced between Gmail, My phone, My Nexus 7, and KDE's excellent Kontact suite.\n\n- Is there any way to modify what shows up on my notification bar? I'm guessing there are ways if I root my phone, which I plan on doing once I get comfy with the stock ICS/touchWiz, but any way to do it without rooting? For example, can I get weather to show up on the pull down notification bar? And to make the full circle, is there any way I can have some music control show up there too?\n\nI mentioned the music control solution above, but yes, there are many programs that can show various bits of information in the notification drop-down as an ongoing notification. My parents like WeatherBug. I have Google Now on my phone (I rooted it, so I am running a hacked version on Android 4.0.4), and it has options to show Weather as well.\n\n- This might not have an answer...my fat palm sometimes squeezes over and hits the soft keys when I use it with one hand. Any solution for that...? I guess I can hit the gym....or play more smash bros to work out my hands?\n\nI'm afraid big screens do that some times, but some of the various ROMs add settings for those soft keys that might help you out.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "The stock music app from Samsung lets you skip to the next track by clicking the play/pause (i.e. the bottom) button twice, quickly.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Google syncing means that your contacts on the phone are backed up to Google servers if you have them under your gmail account. In addition, you can edit your contacts that appear on your phone via Gmail under contacts. It works quite well as I never have to save contacts and can edit them easily from Gmail.\n\nI don't know of any way to backup your app data without rooting.\n\nApps can put things up in the notification bar. I'm not sure which app can do it for weather though. You could add weather as a widget on your homescreen instead. There's plenty of apps that do that. I thought the Samsung stock music app has controls in the notification bar. I know Google Play Music definitely has controls up there.", "score": 3 } ]
Friday Free-for-All | Sept. 21, 2012
Previously: - [Sept. 14](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/zvvop/friday_freeforall_sept_14_2012/) - [Sept. 7th, 2012](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/zi89f/friday_freeforall_sept_7_2012/) - [August 31st](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/z4w84/friday_freeforall_aug_31_2012/) - [August 24th](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/yr9l8/friday_freeforall_aug_24_2012/) - [August 17th](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/ydwd6/friday_freeforall_august_17_2012/) - [August 10th](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/xzg55/friday_freeforall_august_10th_2012/) - [August 3rd](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/xmeaf/friday_forforall_august_3/) - [July 27th](http://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/x9cxi/friday_freeforall_july_27_2012/) Today: You know the drill by now -- this post will serve as a catch-all for whatever things have been interesting you in history this week. Have a question that may not really warrant its own submission? An absurdist photograph of Michel Foucault? An interesting interview between a major historian and a pop culture icon? An anecdote about the Doge of Venice? A provocative article in The Atlantic? All are welcome here. Likewise, if you want to announce some upcoming event, or that you've finally finished the article you've been working on, or that a certain movie is actually pretty good -- well, here you are. As usual, moderation in this thread will be relatively light -- jokes, speculation and the like are permitted. Still, don't be surprised if someone asks you to back up your claims, and try to do so to the best of your ability!
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[ { "body": "utterly random but I'm a bit bored;\n\nThe Phoenicians predicted the Greek navy crushing the Persian invasion fleet after the battle of Thermopylae. Several captains tried to explain this to Xerxes but he simply had them killed once he found out they wouldn't set sail for him.\n\nThis led to the Phoenicians completely withdrawing logistical support for the following 15 years. They only started dealing with the Persians again because Athens couldn't play nice with them.", "score": 11 }, { "body": "Since there was recently a few questions about identification and documentation, I thought /r/Askhistorians might enjoy seeing what an [early 19th-century passport](http://imgur.com/a/eaV85) looked like. ", "score": 8 }, { "body": "I'm probably taking out of my ass here, but I've been coming up on something the more and more I read. In the early twentieth century the aristocracy seemed to be in full swing in Britain. Yet by the thirties it largely vanishes from writing. Is there any correlation between World War One and the downfall of British aristocracy? If so, is there any quality literature on the subject?", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I very nearly had this book ordered on Amazon when I noticed there was an extra zero....http://www.amazon.com/Companion-Madison-Blackwell-Companions-American/dp/0470655224/ref=sr_1_41?ie=UTF8&qid=1348248360&sr=8-41&keywords=the+contested+election+of+1800\n\noff to harass some librarians. ", "score": 7 }, { "body": "How do non-US countries teach their country's history?\n\nAmerica has a relatively short history and yet it is still divided into two different classes (Colonial America - Reconstruction, Reconstruction - George H.W Bush give or take twenty years). How do countries with history going back to Ancient or Medieval times condense and teach their nation's history? \n\nI understand this will be different for each country, but meh. :P\n\nEDIT: Don't feel like replying to each reply, but thanks for all the answers!", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I've become overly obsessed with cuisine and I have no idea why. I just like learning about what people ate, why they did so, and so on - you can learn so much about societies from their culinary habits, certainly.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "How was separations and break ups dealt with in the cultural representation in the Middle Ages/Rennaissance/Baroque/Classical ? ", "score": 3 } ]
How come no one talks on PSN?
Just dead air. silence. EDIT: Next question: anyone with a mice want to play borderlands 2 with me?
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[ { "body": "Well the ps3 doesn't include a mic. Plus, the official one is 50$. So people would rather buy a game then the mic. I personally have it and its great. Honestly, you just have to find some friends and then that's when the mic becomes useful.", "score": 16 }, { "body": "As people have said before me, mics are the main reason.\n\nI know how you feel, it's weird having no one talking but it I'd rather have silence or just a few people talking rather than having the hordes of 12 year olds trash talking on a multiplayer server\n\n\n", "score": 13 }, { "body": "Playstation owners are a very diverse group, English is not as common on the PS3 as it's on other systems.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "If you play games that came with headsets packed in, there's a lot of people that talk. It's because most people that have ps3s don't have headsets.", "score": 5 } ]
Train the Brain and the Muscles Will Follow - John Izzo
* [Train the Brain and the Muscles Will Follow - Part 1](http://traineradvice.blogspot.ca/2012/03/train-brain-and-muscles-will-follow.html) * [Train the Brain and the Muscles Will Follow - Part 2](http://traineradvice.blogspot.ca/2012/03/train-brain-and-muscles-will-follow_12.html) Stems from this: > Yesterday, I attended my first-ever non-fitness seminar. It was titled "How the Brain Forms New Habits: Why Willpower Is Not Enough". It was put on by the Institute for Brain Potential and the speaker was a very funny and articulate professor from Dartmouth College, Bill Kelley, Ph.D.
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[ { "body": "I find it hilarious how much further behind most personal trainers are in the realm of sports psychology than even assistant high school coaches. ", "score": 7 } ]
IWTL to expand my vocabulary
Hey reddit! Lately I've noticed that I don't have a very wide vocabulary. I want to learn to use big words in sentences to seem more sophisticated or whatnot. I want to learn to use better adjectives rather than just 'amazing' or 'great' or things like that! Any ideas on how I can do this?
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[ { "body": "Read more. Seriously, reading books that aren't large print junior novels will expand your vocabulary like crazy. As you do that, try to think of words that perfectly suit your meaning when you write/talk. As you learn more words your pool to draw from will expand, you just need to find places to use them.", "score": 11 } ]
You guys motivated me with your stories, here is my coming out story a.k.a. "The medal for the best reaction ever goes to..."
Ok, I planned to do this for quite a time now, this will be quite long, but be gentle, I just need to get this off my chest :) First of all, I’m 24 now and from NRW, Germany. I’ve been on gaybros for half a year now, maybe longer. And it was this great community that showed me, that I don’t need to be afraid to be labeled in any kind of way after coming out, that there *IS* a community of gay men behaving just like that --> men! Anyway, the posts here really built up much of my (sexual) self-confidence and the coming-out stories were a real driving force in planning my coming out (after so much time :D ) and I just wanted to share my awesome coming-out story as a thank you to the community (you guys rock!!) and as my part in helping all those closeted, unsure lurkers (like me a few months ago ;) ). Hope, I can give you a little confidence boost. So, I always planned, that, if I’d ever come out, I would talk to my best friend first. Let’s call him Tim. I’ve known this guy for over 12 years now (he’s 22) and we did all the youth stuff together, have our regular barbecues at his place, our regular bar nights, I watch his handball games, I’m the first to know about his new girlfriends yadda yadda, simply: We would take a bullet for each other without hesitating, seriously. Best Bro ever!! Still, there is this tiny 0,01 % of fear, that he might react differently from what you hope and this tiny chance just kills you. Jump back a few weeks and he wanted to go see “Ted” with me and some other of our friends. “Sure”, I said. That was the time when I finally came to terms with myself (thank you gaybros ;)), after ignoring my sexuality for the last few years (due to job education, university and, in retrospect, maybe fear), and started texting with guys on a gay dating app (much like grindr, but a bit more relationship wise than just for hooking up). There was one guy from a town nearby (let’s call him Mark) who was really nice, we texted a lot (he also looked very good in his profile picture) and he was exactly my age, no creeper or anything. We exchanged numbers and texted over whatsapp for days. I occasionally said, that I was going to see “Ted” the next Thursday to which he replied “ I wanted to see that, too, but nobody else of my friends wants to go”. So I said, fuck it, now or never. I invited him spontaneously to see the movie with me and he said yes :) So, I called Tim and canceled with him because I’d rather like to go to the movie with my “date” (although we didn’t call it that at that point). He was completely understanding and happy for me (always trying to hook me up with somebody^^) and said, that I’d need to tell him everything on our next barbecue the following weekend. The meeting with mark went great, nothing really happened, we talked a lot during a walk through the park, went to see the movie and grabbed a bit to eat and drink after that. He was great. And although nothing really happened (but we were calling it a real date on the next day), I once again said: Fuck it, whatever the outcome of this date will be, I’m coming out this weekend! So I asked Tim, if we could cancel the barbecue and just meet at his place (only few houses away from mine) to play some board games, drink and talk. So, I brought lots (!) of booze with me. Please note: I’m by no means a strong drinker or anything, but I thought “just in case you need something for the nerves”. The evening went great, we played Munchkin with his girlfriend and I waited till she went to sleep at 12:30 am. She’s great, too, but I wanted to talk to him alone. So, first thing he said (we were both a bit drunk, but I watched carefully that we are both sober enough to grasp, what would be happening) was: “So, how did your date go, come on, tell me everything!” (He was really interested and excited^^) And then I started to get nervous. Nervous as in “HOLY SHIT, I’ve never been so nervous in my whole life!!!” I knew I couldn’t back down now, but suddenly there were all of the typical doubts: Will he tell me, to get out? Will he just say “Cool, It’s ok.” but then call and meet more and more rarely without giving a reason? Will he laugh and point: “I always knew!!”? And by now I had a huge knot in my throat and could barely talk. “How did you meet her? “Well..” “What’s her name?” “err…” “Does she go to your university?” “……..It’s a bit more complicated….” He looked at me with big, surprised eyes and said silently: “Is it what I’m thinking it is?” I just waved my hand to signal him kind of “Wait, let me say it” So we sat there almost 15 silent minutes. I was completely overwhelmed by my feelings by now and quietly starting to sob and trembling like hell (my whole body was shaking like I had a seizure or sth.), trying to get some words out, while he was sitting there patiently, smoking and looking with your typical “Dude, I’m your best friend” – look. When I think of it now, he was so awesome, being so patient and quiet for such a long time, because I really needed that. And then I did it: “*HIS*…..name...is Mark” I broke down in tears by now, although I’m no big cry baby at all. And he just started to smile and directly said: “So what? Dude what’s the big deal about that. There’s nothing wrong. I’m completely ok with that, everybody will be” And I just mumbled “Really?” “What did you expect, that I say: >>Get out of my house!!<<?” “I…I don’t know…” And he just laughed and smiled at me, saying “You’re so stupid!” And he just went on, telling me, how happy he is for me and that he doesn’t care, if our clique of friends will someday in the future be 3 guys and 3 girls or 4 guys and 2 girls as long as everyone is happy. He didn’t really suspect anything at all, he said (at least not in my case ;P), precisely because I’m neither flamboyant nor sassy and don’t fit the dominant gay stereotype at all. (Not, that there’s anything wrong with that, to each his own ;)) And then we started drinking heavily and had a very long talk about pretty much everything. About sex, love, sexual orientation, stereotypes, his past relationships, our other friends and how they would take the news, that nothing would change (quote: “Man, I know you for more than half of my life. And you’re not defined by sexual orientation for me. You’re still you!”). It was the most open, taboo-free and personal talk, we ever had and it was great. Occasionally he would jokingly yell at me “Now STOP trembling, it’s ok!!” when I splashed my drink for the 4th time, because I just couldn’t stop trembling this evening from all the feelings released xD He said, it would be ok for him, if I talked with him about any relationship stuff or gay stuff (because he really cares about the emotional well-being of all of his friends) and I said, he even could continue some of our dirty jokes about that (we always made fun of each other with dirty jokes, but in a friendly, laughable way. I felt never hurt or anything like that :)) to which he replied directly:” Oh, brace yourself, they are still coming at you, now more than ever :D !” And I wouldn’t have it any other way :) He volunteered to accompany me when telling our other good friends and to even go with me to a gay bar or club, if I’d need some support, great guy. In the end he told me, he felt very honored to be the first person I came out to. The evening ended with the most honest bro hug ever. All in all, this evening was the best reaction I could’ve ever imagined!! I told him (at 5:00 am xD), that he could tell his girlfriend about our talk (“But I won’t go shopping with anyone, I still hate shopping!” I said xD) , because I could see in his eyes, that he could barely contain his excitement. The next day I was told, that he yelled her out of her sleep, right after I was gone, drunkenly telling her everything, while she was only half awake. (Her first words: “Oh, then he can go shopping with..” – “No shopping” he promptly replied :D) The next few days we went on and told our other good friends. With each time it got a bit easier and I was happy to have him by my side. The reactions were almost the same with everyone :D I guess being gay/ coming out here in Germany is not that a big deal unlike in some parts of the US etc., but I could be wrong. I still didn’t come out to my parents, because after a completed job education as a salesman and working at a card box factory I went back to university to study geography + Japanese studies, all possible only through financial aid of my parents. So being dependent on them financially and still living with them makes it hard, but I plan to come out the next few months (or when I may bring my first boyfriend home :P). They are very open and loving, but they are always talking about grandchildren and “When are you getting a nice girlfriend?” and stuff. And they are always telling me, how proud they are, because I’m the only one in the family who got a high school degree (“Abitur” here) and is studying at an university etc., so I’m afraid of putting a stain on their picture of me (although I think, it shouldn’t be a flaw in their view, it’s who I am!!). But I feel much more comfortable now, especially when going out with my friends. It’s a whole new level of freedom in talking and behaving. I can only strongly recommend every closeted gaybro to build up your courage and, if you already have awesome friends, to talk to them (plan it wisely, each at a time in the best case) and come out. If you really have awesome friends, your relationship with them will only grow stronger. If they reject you, they never really were good friends and you should move along and don’t give a fuck ;) Don't lose the best time of your life! I’m right now still dating “Mark” and got to know some other gay guys in my area. Couldn’t be happier. Thank you r/gaybros for building up my confidence up to this point, it was an awesome and important experience in my life. **TL;DR: Grabbed my balls and came out to best friend, most awesome reaction ever!!!** (Thanks to the mods for still having coming out stories here, i think they are very important for our community. I wouldn't have liked to tell my story any other subreddit ;) )
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[ { "body": "Wow, you have an incredible friend there dude. The respect he showed you by waiting patiently for YOU to say it is amazing. All coming-out's should go like that. I'm so happy for you. Congratulations on getting it out and finally feeling good in your own skin. Here is where it all begins. Give your friend a brohug from all of us here!", "score": 17 }, { "body": ">First of all, I’m 24 now and from NRW, Germany.\n\n>I'm 24 now and from NRW, Germany\n\n>I'm 24 and from NRW, Germany\n\n>I'm 24 and from Germany\n\n>I'm from Germany\n\n>from Germany\n\n>Germany\n\n>**Germany**\n\nGerman guys are the hottest. And I know that you can't be an exception. C'mon now, we need pics.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Congratulations! I'm glad things went so well for you.\n\nThis reminds me a bit of when I came out to my childhood best friend. We grew up together and I'd known him since I was at least 5. We kind of drifted apart in high school so we hadn't seen each other in awhile but the summer I was 24 we ended up hanging out at his house. I hadn't planned on coming out to him, but I was talking about a guy I had a crush on and I was saying things like \"yeah, I really like them\". Basically playing the pronoun game and he called me on it. So I admitted that my crush was a guy. He was thrilled. Not just okay with it but actually excited that I was gay.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Congrats man! You've got a great bro there. Best of luck on coming out to your parents in the future. They're usually the hardest.\n\nGlad this sub could be of help in one of the bigger life decisions we all make. Bit on the end *you* got up the courage so good on ya. And it'll only get easier.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I also want to thank the mods for allowing coming out stories on here. I loved reading this here, and I can't imagine this going anywhere else", "score": 3 }, { "body": "> there IS a community of gay men behaving just like that --> men!\n\nI'm sorry, I don't meant to sound like I'm from r/lgbt but a flamboyant gay guy is no less of a man than a gaybro! If anything, they're even manlier since they deal with the brunt of homophobia.\n\nedit: read your whole post and it sounds like you're not judgmental at all. disregard my comment :)", "score": 3 } ]
Cobalt Tournament at Minecon
Hey There is currently an unconfirmed plan to have a Cobalt tournament at Minecon. I was wondering what game mode, maps and settings you would prefer? Currently I'm thinking 2on2 deathmatch, because 2on2 CTP can have a tendency to become a lot of hogging the plug. On the other hand, CTP is somewhat easier for bystanders to understand, so it's definitely not decided. Also, 1on1 could be interesting, too... Thoughts?
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[ { "body": "A 2v2 Deathmatch tournament would probably be ideal.\nSpace Zone and Blaster Ballet are great maps for that.\n\nI wanted to go to Minecon just for Cobalt, but my school schedule and wallet don't agree... ", "score": 3 } ]
Help for a bigger girl looking for a birthday dress.
So, my birthday is in 3 weeks. I fell in so much love with [this](http://images02.nastygal.com/resources/nastygal/images/products/processed/18531.0.zoom.jpg) dress. I'm 5'5''-5'6'', 160 lbs, carry most of it in my torso. I have a great shape, but I'm not small by any means. Could I pull this off, or is this strictly skinny girl fashion? Don't say I can just to be nice. I don't wanna order it and then end up looking like hell. Edit: Most recent picture of myself for reference: http://imgur.com/n6xQ3 Sorry for the strange quality. The pic was REALLY bright so I had to fix it so you could actually see it. Double edit: I think I may have decided on [this one](http://www.forever21.com/images/model_side/17307067-02.jpg) instead. Discuss. :)
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[ { "body": "Since she hasn't posted a picture, here's a link to pictures of women who are the same height and weight for an idea of what her body looks like. \n\nhttp://www.mybodygallery.com/search.html?height=5+5&weight=160&pant=any&shirt=any&zphoto=Large&new=1", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Can you post a picture of yourself? I will be honest and say given your height/weight, I don't think this outfit would be the best choice. I can't really tell without a picture though.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I wouldn't the top won't give you enough support and you'll be falling out of it. This is a small boobs dress.", "score": 3 } ]
Board game vacation destination?
Was just thinking about this and wanted to get feedback on it. Wouldn't it be cool if there was a place you could go to year-round to play board games with large groups of people? Basically a persistent open gaming room like at Gencon or BGGCON? It is close to an airport and a hotel, has a huge library of games and plenty of space to play them? And if it was successful you could have an app that helps you find players (I want to play Agricola, anybody else want to start a game in the next 20min?). And a website so you can decide when to go based on other players (hey, a bunch of people who love Twilight Imperium will be there a certain week). Maybe even an automated board game storage/retrieval system (like they use in warehouses). Would people be willing to fly somewhere and pay to play at such a place? Or do people only have so much vacation time and money that they'd rather spend a long weekend at Gencon than fly to a place to just play board games? I think such a place would be cool, just not sure if it would be economically feasible. I live in Atlanta which is a nice busy air hub and you could arrange it so that the facility is only a subway ride from the airport and walking distance to hotels and restaurants. Would people pay $20/day to have unlimited access to play space and the board game library (imagine if it had 1000+ games, multiple copies of popular ones)? I wonder if there would be enough local, national, and worldwide interest to keep such a place busy enough (>20 gamers per day) to be affordable?
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[ { "body": "I don't think there is, unfortunately. I would go to such a place (maybe) if I was already in the area, but I save my gaming-related trips for the big cons that already exist.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "IDK but I've had this fantasy of playing Puerto Rico under an umbrella on the shores of the titular island. Fuckin martinis with parasols and boardgaming and shit.", "score": 3 } ]
Confused about od 2-byte units
I don't understand the output of od's 2-byte format options. The product of selecting octal bytes makes perfect sense to me: $ echo hello | od -cb 0000000 h e l l o \n 150 145 154 154 157 012 0000006 Well, yes, those numbers represent the ASCII values of each character. But selecting by decimal 2-byte units is a different story: $ echo hello | od -cs 0000000 h e l l o \n 25960 27756 2671 0000006 $ What? I just don't understand how those values are computed. Especially since: $ echo | od -cs 0000000 \n 10 0000001 $ Could you kind folks please shed light on how this works? A broad overview might be helpful since maybe I'm misunderstanding what a "2-byte unit" is. **Edit:** fixed description of the second command to match the output.
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[ { "body": " 25960 in binary: 01100101 01101000\n 27756 in binary: 01101100 01101100\n 2671 in binary: 00001010 01101111\n\nPut the bytes on the right side before the bytes on the left side:\n\n 01101000 01100101 \n 01101100 01101100 \n 01101111 00001010 \n\nAnd you get hello in ASCII.", "score": 6 } ]
The Ra Gada Invasion and Ancient Hammerfell
I have been reading about the sect of Dwemer who refused to be part of the First Council. Their leader threw his hammer across the continent and founded the new country of Volenfell. Aside from political differences (not wanting to make peace with the Chimer) do we know of any philosophical, scientific, or cultural differences between the eastern and western Dwemer? I was also hoping someone could help me learn about the original nature of the Redguards, how they managed to conquer a gigantic section of the continent, and how the Hoon Ding spirit helped them. I really know nothing about this spirit other than it is extremely powerful, almost as powerful as the deity Talos. Could the Hoon Ding be considered a sort of Redguard equivalent of Shor: connected to the divines and acting as a champion of men?
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[ { "body": "Well the Dwemer kingdoms that didn't participate in the First Council (in other words the Dwemer in Skyrim, High Rock and Hammerfell) seem to have a very different architectural style to the Dwemer in Morrowind (assuming it's not just variations in artistic design between games by developers). Other than that, I don't think there's a great deal we know about them that sets them apart from the Morrowind Dwemer.\n\nAs for the rest of First Era Hammerfell, TIL says that Nedes, Bretons and \"beastfolk\" made up the population of Hammerfell, and that they were not affiliated with the First Empire. The people there certainly had no united government and wouldn't have put up any major resistance against the extremely formidable Ra Gada.\n\nConquering the bulk of Hammerfell won't have been difficult for the Redguards, as apparently they're well suited to the Alik'r Desert that makes up the central bulk of the province. As for the west and south, they weren't all that capable of putting up much resistance, plus the Redguards were extremely capable warriors in need of a new home, and history IRL has shown just how strong they can be (think Vandals, Ostro/Visigoths, possibly Mongols and Arabs).\n\nAs for Yokudan culture, we know that it's considerably different to modern Redguard culture, which is a mixture of Yokudan and the cultures already present before the invasion (so Nedic and Breton type cultures), with a mixture of Colovian and others thrown in too. I don't think specifics are known, but don't hold me to that.\n\nFinally, the HoonDing. Hopefully someone else can explain this better than I can, but I don't think the HoonDing has a connection to Shor/Lorkhan, as the Redguards view their being on Tamriel as imprisonment like the Altmer (or so I've heard), so they're not exactly a pro-Lorkhan race. It's more likely that the HoonDing is a separate entity altogether, that for some reason sponsors the Redguards.", "score": 8 } ]
I'd like some advice to securing a Windows Home Server and home network. I've been getting hammered by Chinese IPs since it went online.
I've put up my WHS2011 (Win2K8R2) and have had intermittent networking slow downs. I have a home router managing the NAT/Port security/ARP table etc and figured it was dieing. When i was looking at the router I noticed that the activity light was constantly active. I started looking around and saw the NIC on the WHS just going to town. It confused me as i hadn't put anything on the server yet. When I RDPed in to it and looked at the Performance Monitor and Symantec 2012 AV network activity I found that an IP from China was hammering the termsrv on every port. I've since setup a firewall rule to block that port and installed PeerBlock as a service with the entire China IP address ranges blocked. What should i do to secure and lock down my network but allow for the server to serve legitimate hosts? I'm thinking about booting up my old Catalyst 2600 and find a hardware firewall. Im open to different ideas and setups, but mind you this is a home network with a couple servers and 5~6 clients.
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[ { "body": "Drop remote RDP traffic at the router.\n\nIf you want to be able to access RDP remotely, create an ACL to allow remote RDP traffic from only trusted sources.", "score": 15 }, { "body": "Just to cut down on the amount of noise you could change the access port to an uncommon port. I think the term is security through obscurity? Either way don't rely on this technique as a security measure.", "score": 10 }, { "body": "pfsense is the solution I use. Peerblock (rss bluetack updates and all)and VPN services can be managed at the firewall/router level within the box. I've locked down everything but VPN for remote access but could (and have) easily set nat for servers/applications behind the firewall or in a DMZ. It also has the option for adding on an A/V layer and running all outbound traffic through a VPN or Proxy host. pfsense is the perimeter defense toolbox of choice for me.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "1) Hardware firewall\n\n2) Port scan your WAN IP. Close any ports/services that are open that you aren't using.\n\n3) Create rules to lockdown where you allow incoming traffic from (RDP, SMTP, etc).\n\n4) Find a \"best practices\" security write up for windows servers and go through it. A lot of those are good at showing you which services/applications can be turned off or modified to be more secure.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Do you do any business with China? If not, just block any and all IP ranges coming from China. I did that at one of my previous jobs for a local print shop.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "There are many ways you can deal with this.\n\n1) At your gateway (router) you can redirect the port for RDP (3389). So your public facing port is different from 3389. Depending on the software on your router it should be easy, it can be called either a Virtual Server or just Port Forwarding. I have ran RDP on an obscure port for over 5 years now without being hammered, but this isn't a final solution.\n\n2) If this were a Linux server I would setup Fail2Ban, which makes it so if there are enough failed attempts from an installed service (say terminal server) it would temp ban an IP. I'm sure there's a tool for Windows that can do this, and this kind of response would be very useful, and a long-term solution too.\n\n3) If you're running any proper routing software, such as a Linux routing distribution, pf/pfSense, DDWRT/Tomato, or any other high-class routing tool, you should be able to get the source IP. Then set a routing rule (or rule for a group) to just drop all traffic from that IP. Dropping traffic is better than blocking because it is more likely to convince the other end that you just don't exist any more.\n\n4) To better troubleshoot these kinds of situations, even lower-scale ones, you should really look at setting up better tools for monitoring bandwidth. If your existing gateway (router) does not have real-time bandwidth monitoring tools, or state monitoring tools, you should seriously consider implementing a better solution. For example, my home I use SmoothWall, and that is very useful for me because I can see bandwidth per IP on my network, which makes it dead simple to troubleshoot which host is doing too much stuff. Real-time monitoring of bandwidth and states is the most useful way to do it.", "score": 4 } ]
Why is one of these samples of polylactic acid yellow, and the other white?
http://i.imgur.com/uQLSN.jpg I made these two batches yesterday (1) and today (2). The first batch was made with a condensation polymerisation between D,L-lactic acid (1.5g) and p-xylene (10mL), catalysed by SnCl*_2_* (0.05g) at 150ºC (with reflux) for 1 hour without the tin dichloride, and for 3 hours with the tin dichloride. In the end I'm left with 0.114g of yellow polylactic acid. The second batch was made with an addition polymerisation (after cooking away all the water in the glassware in an oven) with D,L-lactide (2.5g), benzyl alcohol (5mL of 0.07M), Sn(Oct)*_2_* (5mL of 0.035M) and finally 7.5mL of dry toluene. This is heated at 130-135ºC (it wouldn't reflux at 111ºC even though that's the boiling point of toluene) for an hour. After heating, it's cooled down and put into it 400mL of n-heptane and the resulting solution is cooled for an hour at 8ºC. Then the heptane is decanted and our precipate dissolved in enough THF (tetrahydrofuran) to completely dissolve our precipitated crystals (around 17.5mL?), and the remaining solution is dumped into another 200mL of heptane. Then after some intense stirring it's vacuum filtered and I'm left with 1.37g of white and fibre-y polylactic acid. Now, polylactic acid won't form long chains in reaction (1) due to water breaking it down (which is made in a condensation polymerisation), but why is the it yellow? They're obviously very different chain lengths, but, that doesn't explain the significant colour difference, does it? And yes, all glassware was made clean quite significantly with acetone in both syntheses.
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[ { "body": "Tin chlorides tend to lead to yellow impurities. Usually they can be removed with an aqueous workup, but they can be persistent. At least in my experience.\n\n", "score": 5 } ]
The fate of the World Community Grid /r/MLP group - It's up to you to decide
Hey everyone! The point has come up on what to do with the [World Community Grid group](http://www.worldcommunitygrid.org/team/viewTeamInfo.do?teamId=JDSTCB5H12) now that BvB Charity Competition is over. (For those of you who don’t know, it was the first phase of a charity competition we did against /r/thelastairbender - summary [here](http://www.reddit.com/r/mylittlepony/comments/100178/benders_vs_bronies_final_results/)) The group is rather large at this point, and still cranking out some amazing numbers for WCG. We're up to **143 years** of computing time for sustainable causes, and the 16th largest team world-wide! There’s a few things we can do here, and we could really use some feedback on what you guys want to do with this group. 1. Keep going with the WCG, and don’t advertise it. It will be a subreddit group that will continue on for those who wish to participate in it. 2. Change the title of the group to be “My Little Pony - Friendship is Magic community”, and invite other communities to join us (Equestria Daily, Ponychan etc). Try to make it the largest community and earn the most points/time that we can. 3. Join a different distributed computing project (folding@home, for example) that can utilize the GPU to make much faster computations. 4. Change the title of the group to be "Reddit Community" and invite the rest of reddit to join us. Once again, if you're interested in joining the group, you can [sign up here]( http://www.worldcommunitygrid.org/reg/viewRegister.do?teamID=JDSTCB5H12 ), install the software, and start computing to help projects that benefit the world. I’d like your feedback on this before we decide what to do. Thanks guys!
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[ { "body": ">Change the title of the group to be “My Little Pony - Friendship is Magic community”, and invite other communities to join us (Equestria Daily, Ponychan etc). Try to make it the largest community and earn the most time that we can.\n\nThis, it'd be awesome to have anyone join up to help.\n\n\nI have nothing aginst F@H, but they have a looooooooooot of users as-is and the WCG could use a big group. That and everyone is all set up with WCG.", "score": 129 }, { "body": ">Change the title of the group to be “My Little Pony - Friendship is Magic community”, and invite other communities to join us (Equestria Daily, Ponychan etc). Try to make it the largest community and earn the most time that we can.\n\nThis this this this! We can do it! [](/twicrazy \"\")", "score": 44 }, { "body": "I say number 2, but still have references to reddit so there's an easily sustainable community behind it. I think this will be key to its future success.\n\n", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I suggest merging with Brony@home, [an existing folding@home team](http://www.neoseeker.com/forums/54588/t1744899-brony-home-discussion-thread-vii/) that is made up of MLP fans.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I suggest that the WCG team merges with Brony@Home, a distributed computing pony project that has already existed for a number of months. The Brony@Home team is currently one of the highest-ranked teams on Folding@Home, and a very large amount of the members ran WCG for the duration of the contest, so there's already a fair amount of people in both teams already.\n\nBrony@Home also has teams on PrimeGrid, Collatz Conjecture, Moo! Wrapper, Milkyway@Home, Einstein@Home, and a couple of others I'm probably forgetting, although they haven't really been used, as we were waiting until the Folding@Home team was getting a stable million points a day and this competition was over so that WCG and F@H wouldn't just die.\n\nIf the WCG team were to join the Brony@Home banner, not only would it add to the stats in the Combined BOINC rankings, but it'd also make us a recognisable force across multiple projects, and will allow people to run whatever project they want while still contributing to ponies.\n\nI'm currently working on some statistics and scripts for the Brony@Home F@H team to do with subteams, as well, so if you're desperate to contribute for /r/mylittlepony, I can easily set up a sub-team, so this subreddit can compete with the other subteams we have being created like Bronies Australia, UK of Equestria, MLP Music Archive, Everfree Radio, and Neoseeker. And this sub would probably win, for that matter.\n\nI don't really see any downside in this.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I created the [\"Reddit Bronies\"](http://www.worldcommunitygrid.org/team/viewTeamInfo.do?teamId=P2X5XVG212) team [a few months ago](http://www.reddit.com/r/mylittlepony/comments/tbb1o/fellow_bronies_muster_your_processor_cycles/), but yours has gotten quite a bit more exposure, so it's probably best that we merge my group into yours. Maybe we could get the combined group linked in the sidebar? Contact me if you'd like to coordinate in more detail.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "The second option is the one that gives the project the best possibility of being kept alive and strong. The third option requires that the group needs to be reestablished and it very unlikely we're going to get the same scale as we got with the one we currently have. With option two we will have the opportunity to get even bigger and give more computer power for charity. The first option seems to halt the progress and slowly decrease the activity. \n\nWell, this is my opinion on the matter. \n", "score": 4 }, { "body": "2! We want as many people as possible, and calling it a Reddit community will block off ponychan, equestrian daily and the like ", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I also favor option 2 and oppose 3 on the grounds that we already have a large base on WCG, and people are less likely to be motivated to continue if they have to get new programs.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "You know, you can use a site like [BOINCstats](http://boincstats.com/en) to create a mlp team on practically every project out there, plus it aggregates and graphs cross-project stats. That, IMO, would be the best option, because you can allow people to donate to whatever project they want, and still wear the /r/mylittlepony colors.", "score": 3 } ]
Something I realized about texting yesterday: Reverse the mentalities.
You know how most guys are thinking "Man, I really want this girl to text me"? Reverse that. Start thinking that this girl is who really wants you to text her! It's amazing what that did for my mentality yesterday. I was thinking about how this one girl was hot and cold with me, knew when I was free between classes and barely texted me. I realized that I never texted her and how much she must have wanted me to text her, as much as I wanted her to text me. It made me feel so much better and brought this lingering thought off my mind. Of course, now I'm wondering when would be a good time to contact her but that's another story. Oh and also, don't be overbearing. No one likes someone that texts nonstop 3-4 times in a row if they get no response. Let me know what you guys think about my little "revelation." EDIT: I did not expect this many upvotes! This is my most upvoted topic on Reddit, I feel special. I hope that I actually helped someone with this.
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[ { "body": "Nothing too revelatory, as long as you can remember when it's most appropriate to back off. Usually at the start of a new relationship (I use the term to describe two people beginning to interact, nothing serious) I find that it's good to initiate a few light conversations, and I can usually use it to help deduce her interest level and/or spike it a little bit. Otherwise, it's all about making plans. ", "score": 12 }, { "body": "Trying not to sound rude.\n\nThe reason this didn't get a great response is because this is really basic, beginner, stuff. If you aren't thinking like this then you are already assuming she isn't attracted to you.", "score": 11 }, { "body": "People are ragging on this post about how it's beginner info, but I wanna say I'm actually happy to see it posted! There are beginners in addition to the pros who browse this subreddit, and this \"basic info\" could be as helpful to someone else as it was to you when you realized it on your own. ***jewfro667, I thank you for contributing useful information.***", "score": 11 }, { "body": "Rule number 1 of life: don't wait for things to come to you. There's a good chance they won't end up coming. Go get them.", "score": 3 } ]
Tires for heavy riders
Hey everyone, I was excited to get my Fuji Declaration for urban riding after having a hard time deciding. It turns out to be a really good fit for the style I need in the city. I am struggling a bit with the tires though. They seem to 'deflate' quickly after I ride for even just one day, and I am struggling a bit to push the bike faster on the flats. When I look down, while sitting on the bike, the front tire looks ok, the rear tire looks somewhat squished. These tires are rated at 90 psi. I am around 290 lbs. I'm not sure how this works, but it'd seem I am putting some stress on my tires. Are there tires that are made for heavier riders? I want to stick to the 700x23 or thinner, I think.
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[ { "body": "I would get on a wider tire if I were you. 25c would be great; 28c would be even better. 90psi is also very low for someone of your size. You should be closer to 110-120 (obviously make sure your tire is rated for those pressures).", "score": 12 }, { "body": ">I want to stick to the 700x23 or thinner, I think.\n\nNo you don't.\n\nAt your weight you should NOT be running 23mm tires, or even 25mm tires for that matter.\n\nThe best guide to tire pressures is here: http://www.bikequarterly.com/images/TireDrop.pdf\n\nI'm 220lbs, and ride a 22lbs bike, I would never even think of riding 23mm tires, and even 25mm tires are a little too firm. Somebody of your weight should be on 28mm tires, or even 32mm tires...although I would recommend 28mm as many of those have higher pressure ratings.\n\nDon't worry about these wider tires slowing you down either. Having a smoother ride and rolling over bumps properly actually makes you faster then getting pounded in the rear by overinflated skinny tires.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "If you're riding in the city, get a wider puncture resistant tire and kill two birds with one stone. I weigh 200 and ride 28c tires on my road bike, 35c on my commuter. For both of them I use Schwalbe Marathon Supremes. They're pretty expensive but they last very well (something I've had a problem with, especially when commuting with panniers full of stuff). 2000 miles so far since I put them on at the beginning of July and the tread still looks almost new. \n\nEdit: The second bird is getting flats from broken glass and whatnot.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "interesting. I'm about 6-2, 265-270, and I've ridden 700x23 for years, w/ no problems. Gatorskins (110 psi)= no flats last 2 seasons", "score": 5 }, { "body": "At first glance, 90psi seems like its a little low for that size of tire. The tires I have on my cross bike are rated between 60 and 80psi, but they are 33 wide. My racing bike on the other hand, has tires rated for 120psi and if they get down to 90, it is noticable, I usually try to keep them at least around 110, they are 23 wide. \n\nI'm not really a bike pro, just observations based on my two bikes, you might consider looking into new tires with a little higher rating. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I only weight 170, but I inflate my 23c tires to 135 every other day. In two days the psi usually drops to 105-115. If I don't inflate them back to *at least* 125 I notice a significant decrease in speed and vibration dampening.\n\n Don't be scared to have rock hard tires! You will instantly notice an improvement in ride quality, I promise. FYI the max psi on my tire is 120, but I've been filling them to 135 for a year and I've only had one flat (puncture, not a blowout) in that time period.", "score": 3 } ]
Why is Little Big Planet PlayStation Vita Special Edition getting low scores on the PSN Store?
I was thinking about buying LBP Vita in the future from the PSN store and then I saw it got 2.77 stars out of 5 on the PSN store! Why is this happening? Is it because you have to buy the network pass separately?
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[ { "body": "It's been nothing but a pain since I bought it on Wednesday. Very little was being done to help people and even now they can't say when we'll get our refunds. Shambles. It's got nothing to do with the game itself just the way the release in the EU was handled. I'm sure the review will go up when it finally stabalizes and they allow people to bloody install the thing.", "score": 3 } ]
I feel like everything is moving too fast and that I'm right on the edge of something and am terrified. Anyone care to give me a push or even just a hug?
After posting here a few times and doing a lot of reading, I feel like a lot of things are happening all at once and very quickly for me over the last few weeks. It feels a lot like when I finally, after agonizing over it for years, admitted to myself that I was attracted to men. I think I'm afraid. Of what, I don't know. But I feel like I'm at a point where I need to make a decision about how I want to ID and who I want to be in the future. That if I let it go now, I'll never get it resolved. Figuring out my gender identity has been almost an obsession over the last 3 weeks. I'm finally away from home and I feel like a whole world opened up that I hadn't had before. In the time since I moved away for school I've bought an epilator and did my arms/underarms, bought feminine soap and skincare products, started growing out/shaping my nails, and purposefully changed my walk so it was more feminine. On monday I'm going to order my first set of panties and maybe buy a girls shirt, something I've always wanted to do. I'm looking into getting my eyebrows done. I want to get on an anti-androgen ASAP and talk to my doctor about finding a therapist. So much is happening so quick I'm somewhat overwhelmed, and afraid I'm going in the wrong direction. Looking at my shaved arms gives me a pang of panic - not because I miss the hair (hardly), but because it makes me somewhat uneasy about what it means, especially when I consider doing my whole body (although that might just be an aversion to pain...I'm going to shave it all monday and if I like it I'll epilate.) I don't know where the anxiety is coming from, but it's there. In the past, like when I considered whether or not I was "gay," I feel like I'm near to admitting something to myself and making a move on the feelings, but that I'm going to do what I did for years. Every time I've thought about my gender identity (and before that, my sexual identity) over previous years, I get really obsessive about it, do tons of reading, look at timelines, get opinions, take silly tests and quizzes online, experiment a little, compare myself to others and find similarities and differences, do some soul searching...think I'm close to something, and then *BURY IT*. Put it away, ignore it, *NOPE.jpg* Come up with a list of reasons I'm not. "It's just a kink, you're too manly, it's your bipolar, it's because you're gay." Last time I grew a beard as a counterpoint to growing out my hair. Time before that I shaved my gotee and started dieting and exercising and looking for a GF. At home, every overtly feminine move I made was met with ridicule and anger from my mother, so I never explored it much there. The only time I've ever really crossdressed was for a halloween party, done in secret from my parents with the help of a friend, who wanted to go nuts with it, but I insisted on going for realistic. I was nervous as hell and felt really conspicuous, but I was really happy about the compliments I got. And now I've lost the thread, so I'll end it here. I feel like I need a push, an "It's OK, It's Normal." Anything. A hug. I'm very nearly crying now, and I don't even know why. Sorry, and thanks. I'm going camping for the weekend, so I'll check back in on Sunday. Thanks for all your support thusfar. **Edit**: Hello again everyone I, just got back. Thank you for your comments and support, I'm feeling much better now. Getting out and doing stuff to take my mind off everything helped a lot. For now I'll stick with the direction I've got and see what happens. I've never met a community this helpful and supportive anywhere, you all are amazing.
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[ { "body": "<<< HUG >>>\n\nit's ok hon, it really is. go get yourself a therapist, you're doing everything right. it's ok to be scared, we all were at some point or anther. it'll be ok. just pop back on to vent, we'll all be here for you. you can lean on us while you find your legs. \n\n;-)\n\nnow you go out there and be fabulous!", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I can relate, and then some. I kinda was in the same situation: once I left for college, I started to be more of myself (mostly more feminine). I am still attracted to girls, however, so I can't exactly relate on that aspect.\n\nAnyway, it is very scary at first when you get flowing into doing what you want, and it's normal. I mean, you've been basically someone else for the past 18ish years! \n\nSo...that being said, try to find a gender therapist/doctor to at least explore the idea of hormones more. You'll thank yourself later for it. Also, if you ever get uncomfortable with something, don't do it. It's your life, so make it how you want to!\n\nThe more so part I mentioned, was that I started hormones, came out to my parents, started laser hair removal, changed name+gender legally, \nand started full time all in about 4-5 months. So yeah, THAT was crazy, but it was DAMN worth it. So don't get too discouraged. It'll get easier, and you'll get more comfortable too.\n\nFeel free to PM me if you need to.\n\n\nBest of luck! ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Fear and the excuses we make for ourselves are normal - I did much the same (beard included). We make the excuses because we are fearful, because we want to find a way not to have to do it. To not have to accept we are trans and that we have to do something about it to be happy, to be at peace.\n\nBut as you move along (at your *own* pace - this is *not* a race) and you start to find yourself you start to make fewer excuses, you start to enjoy/appreciate/need things like hairless arms/body.\n\nIf you feel it's all moving to fast slow it down and take a deep breath.\n\nPlenty of hugs, support and best wishes. :)", "score": 3 } ]
Will you consider Miguel Cabrera the Triple Crown winner if he ties Hamilton for HR lead?
It's amazing how close he is now and honestly this is getting way less attention than you'd imagine because of all the other great stories in baseball -- Trout, the Nats, the O's, etc. But right now he leads by a lot in AVG and RBI and is one HR behind Hamilton. AFAIK, he will officially win the Triple Crown if he and Hamilton tie. But to what extent do you think that will "cheapen" it?
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[ { "body": "Batting, RBI, and HR leaders, as well as obviously \"Triple Crown\" winners are all just arbitrary statistical leaders. It is not a real award, it is just a statistical quirk. Ask the question in isolation: would Cabrera win the \"homerun title\" if he tied hamilton in homers? Answer is yes. In 2003 A-Rod and Thome both hit 47 homers (the most that year). They are listed in all the record books as both being #1 in homers that year. What is the triple crown? It is being #1 in those three a categories. Would Cabrera be #1 in all three even if he was tied with someone else in one of them? Yes.", "score": 17 }, { "body": "I would think so. Kershaw was tied in wins last year but led the league in everything else and \"won\" the pitching triple crown so I would imagine the same principle applies to hitting.", "score": 10 }, { "body": "That's if Hamilton ends up returning to the team. He flew to Texas this morning to get a checkup on his \"sinus condition\" that has kept him off the field since Tuesday. Hopefully he'll get it checked out and return this weekend, but he's listed as day-to-day.\n\nIn the words of Keith Olbermann, aren't we all just day-to-day?", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Kershaw and Kennedy tied for wins last year and CK is still considered the Triple Crown winner for pitching.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "The other night, Justin Verlander was told by a reporter that many sportswriters think that Trout will win the AL MVP even if Cabrera wins the Triple Crown, to which Verlander responded \"Bullshit...\" \n\nI agree with JV on this one, but what say you, /r/baseball?\n\n[link](http://www.thebiglead.com/index.php/2012/09/20/justin-verlander-it-would-be-a-joke-if-miguel-cabrera-didnt-win-the-al-mvp-and-the-sabermetric-crowd-groans/)\n\n", "score": 3 } ]
Music Midtown -- Friday night, tag-along?
Male, late 30s, all my friends have "settled down" and no one wants to hit up Music Midtown. I love T.I. and Foo Fighters, and yes, I remember when Joan Jett "I love rock n roll" came out on my transistor radio. I don't even have a ticket yet, this is a last minute thing.
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[ { "body": "I live a couple blocks south of Piedmont Park - and while I'm not attending, I'm going to be enjoying the music from my porch.\n\nOn the way home from work yesterday, I forgot about the closing of 10th street and...well, was very disappoint. ", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Best show ever. Best moment: fucking Dave getting all emotional to some southern love from the audience. I am honored to have been a part of that moment. ", "score": 3 } ]
Eng Mecânica ou Electrónica...?
Estou num estado de bastante indecisão. Pedi mudança de curso (estava em Eng Informática) para Eng Mecânica e Electrónica e entrei nas duas. E agora a tomada de decisão é que é mais difícil. Gosto bastante das duas áreas. Não sei se existirá redittors tugas nestas áreas, mas se sim, o que achas dela e o que mais gostas? O que gostarias que te tivessem dito quando começas-te? etc. Obrigado ;)
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[ { "body": "Pá, por experiência própria, eu estou em Mecânica na FEUP e gosto bastante, porque adoro compreender o mundo de mecanismos (dito muito resumidamente) à minha volta. Sei que quem gosta de Electrotecnia aprecia mais o controlo de sistemas eléctricos.\n\nSem entrar em grande detalhe sobre o que se dá no meu curso, isto é o que te posso dizer. \n\nAbraço", "score": 3 } ]
One day in... what can I expect?
I've been a smoker for about 9 years. My last cigarette was about 24 hours ago. I actually woke up feeling pretty good today. I miss the habit but the cravings aren't really bugging me much. It hurt a little breaking my morning routine. Cigarette and a cup of coffee on the porch in the crisp morning air. Anyway... what can I expect? When will I not think about smoking? I recently found out I'm pregnant so I really DO NOT want to slip. I can do this, right?
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[ { "body": "What can you expect? A significantly larger bank balance, a reduced chance of lung cancer, more energy, nicer breath and teeth, and above all the satisfaction of being free from the trap and never being dependent upon nicotine again\n\nCan you do it? Of course you can. Anyone can, it's easy. If you think it's going to be hard it will, and vice versa. \n\nYou got this", "score": 6 }, { "body": "I still think about smoking to this day, every time someone lights up on a TV show, breaks at work etc. So don't expect that to go away really but you can do this! Think of your baby and think of all the money that you are not wasting anymore. I am taking that $5 a day to a savings account and it feels nice to see that grow its also a good motivator. And as the weeks go by taste and smell come back and that is also very exciting you don't realize how much smoking really impacts those senses. Quitting smoking is not easy stay strong come here often read others stories and get support it helps to know your not alone in your struggle", "score": 3 }, { "body": "What amazed me most was my sense of smell coming back. I always thought I just didn't have a good sense of smell, because I couldn't smell things other people could. 3 days after quitting, I was walking down the street, and could smell everything I walked past! Restaurants, coffee shops, not-so-pleasant garbage. It was like a blind person suddenly getting sight!\n\nHonestly, the cravings won't be that bad. Nicotine withdrawal is so mild, it basically is akin to feeling a little hungry- you just have a vague sense of wanting something. Its the habit that will get you. But you can still have coffee in the crisp morning air, just without a cigarette. Get an e-cig if you think it will help.\n\nI'd recommend reading \"The Easy Way to Quit Smoking\" by Allan Carr. In a nutshell, it doesn't focus on why you should quit: expensive, unhealthy, ugly habit, etc. It focuses on why you smoke in the first place. People say it relaxes them, they like the taste, its a social habit, etc. But the book breaks down why that's all bullshit, and its just a nicotine addiction. And it describes how chained to the addiction you are- a slave. Think about it: Do you plan parts of your day around smoking? I used to get off the bus a stop early to fit in an extra cigarette before work. If I was driving, I would take the long way to have an extra smoke. If I got to where I was going but hadn't finished my cigarette, I'd have to just wait around outside until I was done. I hated going to a social event where I wouldn't be able to smoke. No matter what the weather- rainy, snowy, hot and humid, freezing cold- I'd have to be outside, miserable but smoking. Just think of what a slave to the habit you are, and how good it will feel to be free! I'd really recommend the book, because it goes into detail about a lot of points and about what exactly nicotine addiction is, but that's the gist. You aren't \"giving up\" smoking, you're freeing yourself from a lifetime of slavery to an addiction.\n\nAlso, don't feel too bad if you slip once in a while. An occassional cigarette won't harm your baby, and taking that negative attitude of beating yourself up over breaking down and having a few drags will just hinder your progress. If you do slip, just forgive yourself and move on. In fact, I still keep a pack of cigarettes in my freezer in case I do ever want to slip up. Most of the time I just have no desire to smoke because I remember what a slave I was to it, but it comforts me to know its there, and I have \"slipped up\" and few times and had a smoke, without it completely derailing all my progress.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "When I'm in a slightly stressful situation, for example I had 3 problems left on a math exam just yesterday and ten minutes to finish in. Not that bad... Except I suck at math. Upon hearing I was close to the time limit I freaked out. My brain just locked up. I couldnt think about anything but how bad I wanted to smoke out of nowhere. I almost started bawling like a child for no reason. I didn't, because after 30 days I'm used to the anxiety passing (10 minutes, 2 hours... It passes eventually), but let me tell you it's pretty intense until you can identify it as a nicotine withdrawal.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Do you exercise at all? If not, start! Running/crossfit made me never want to pick up another cigarette again. ", "score": 3 } ]
Trying to get started, just a few questions
I've just started the Keto diet and I'm pretty excited. However after entering my last few days into a food journal, I've found that I have been eating more protein than fat. Should I try to raise my fat intake, or lower the protein? For an example, yesterday my calorie total was 1,665, my fat intake was 104 grams, and protein was 113, my carbs were under 30 grams.
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[ { "body": "sounds good to me. fat has more than twice as many calories as protein, so your still higher fat in your macros. ", "score": 3 } ]
Pastor and the Housekeeper
In France, the young assistant pastors do not live in the main rectory. That is reserved for the Pastor and his housekeeper. One day the pastor invited his new young assistant pastor to have dinner at the rectory. While being served, the young pastor noticed how shapely and lovely the housekeeper was and down deep in his heart he wondered if there was more between the pastor and the housekeeper. After the meal was over, the middle-aged pastor assured the young priest that everything was purely professional...that she was the housekeeper and cook and that was that. About a week later the housekeeper came to the pastor and said, "Father, ever since the new assistant came for dinner I have not been able to find the beautiful silver gravy ladle. You don't suppose he took it, do you?" The Pastor said, "Well, I doubt it but I'll write him a letter." So he sat down and wrote, "Dear Father, I'm not saying you did take the gravy ladle and I'm not saying you did not take the gravy ladle. But the fact remains that it has been missing since you were here for dinner." The young assistant received the letter and he answered it as follows: "Dear Father Pastor, I'm not saying that you do sleep with the housekeeper and I'm not saying that you do not sleep with the housekeeper. But I do know for sure that if you slept in your own bed you would find the gravy ladle."
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[ { "body": "It is funny, but my problem with it is, why would the old pastor sleep in the housekeepers bed instead of just inviting her to his probably much more expensive and comfortable bed?", "score": 52 } ]
Someone pays this person to do their IT work...
I'm working with a company's 'IT Guy' to get them connected to a shared resource we are offering. [Here was](http://i.imgur.com/AC6It.png) the response I got when asking basic questions to get started.
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[ { "body": "Oh no. Someone made a type-o! Get out the pitchforks! \n\nOr they are not as smart as you. Be happy you know your shit, cause guess what! There's someone out there smarter than you and feels the same way you feel about you! And I look forward to their post of a Screen cap of your next gaffé. ", "score": 21 }, { "body": "You know the subnet and a likely IP on that network. Shouldn't be to tough to figure out what you want now even if the kid didn't know what you were asking. I didn't even understand cidr notation for a while until someone explained it to me like I was five. You have a chance right now not to be a complete and total dick to the guy. ", "score": 10 }, { "body": "He probably meant the clients range from 192.168.1.10-90.\nHe told you the subnetmask befor, so you still got you answer, not a big deal.\n\nThats one of the worst things in IT business, everyone is always fighting each other trying to prove how much better they are compared to others. \nI think its a effect because everyone knows that they know nothing..", "score": 8 } ]
How did any of you break into project management?
So here is where I am now: * Mid 20's * Business and technology management degree from a *very* good school * Landed a job 1 year out of college (been here 18 months) as 'support'. I ended up being a full time sysadmin, and through trial and error ended up administrating a windows domain, 100 end users, exchange, vmware, etc. Got that down right now and keeping everything alive is a lot easier than it was when I walked in the door. I still use a lot of google-fu (more than I should) * Prior job experience is a few unrelated internships and 4 years of part time onsite installation and relocation work. Pretty much I feel like I am going to stagnate here. Environment is toxic, no budget, no policies (I make them and no one enforced them so I stopped wasting my time), no chain of command, nothing. Sales rules, operations drools might as well be our motto. I have no certs and I suck pretty hard at book studying. I choked my way through a CCENT book to get a better grasp on networking but never bothered with practicing for the test. Where the fuck would you go from here. I eventually want to get into more of a project management role. But I know that is 10 years of experience away. I think I might look to get a Jr. Sysadmin job at a larger company with rules and such but that would most definitely represent a MAJOR pay cut. Any ideas? EDIT: For what is is worth things I have done (other than straight tech): * Gathering quotes and comparing vendors * Acting as interim office manager when office manager is away. Dealing with facilities, electrical, contractors, etc. * Accomplished an office move and all the bullshit that entails * Open and closed a satellite office * Dealt with the building flooding, and a lot of power losses * Been the point of contact for shit going tits up for almost 2 years
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[ { "body": "First of all: Realize that everything is actually a project and treat it as such. Upgrading a server? You have to plan resources, cost, time, communications, etc. Application update? Same thing.\n\nSecond: Invest in learning about PMP and CAPM certifications.\n\nThird: Stop living by an imaginary experience clock. I have done more \"project hours\" in the past three years than some PMs will do their entire career. Do good work, produce good results and don't be afraid to take on the challenge of leading a small project on your own.\n\nFourth: Project Management is nothing more than cat herding. Prove you can herd cats of all types and you will be fine.\n\nFifth: Be patient. You are too obsessed with titles and that will not get you anywhere in your career. I did more awesome projects as a Workstation Analyst than I have completed in two years of being a regional IT Manager.\n\nEDIT: Removed excess words. Because proofreading.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Pardon the typos - its midnight here and I'm on an iPhone (don't judge me). I'm a 28 yr old IT Support & Projects Manager at a billion $ company in Australia - and I'm completely non-tech. I've only been in IT for about 3 years, never studied any degree at all. Hope I can give some advice based on what worked for me.\n\nGetting in to PM work, if you've got a basic level of tech (higher than me - for example I know what AD is, and what it does, but I've never seen or touched it, just picked it up from conversation) - the first step is grab a couple of industry certificates. The Project Management Institute CAPM is a good one. I'd also recommend ITIL v3 Foundations. Regardless of your opinion on the usefulness of certs, with no experience they show potential employers that you have the capability to look at business outcomes that IT can enable, rather than \"tech for tech's sake\". \n\nAfter that, research your ass off. Get onto LinkedIn and join some PM groups. Have a look at gantthead.com and other sites, join the community, learn the lingo. If you can track down someone that you respect that has PM experience, talk to them as well - see if they'll mentor you maybe. Buy good books and read them - folks, if you're not reading or learning, your career is not going as well as it could be, trust me. Download podcasts on PM (there's a heap in iTunes) and get up to date on trends and current issues.\n\nDo all of this until you're confident with it - you don't need experience implementing, but you do need to understand outcomes-based PM and how it delivers to the business. If you can, draft up some projects/business plans that you think will help your current workplace, and propose them to the highest level manager you can - just remember to ALWAYS tailor your proposal to your audience. \n\nAbove all, while you're learning this stuff, make sure PM is something you WANT to do. There's a lot of work in moving from Tech to Mgmt roles and it can be very tough, but I'd you love it you'll do well.\n\nIf it help makes you feel better - 1 day into my first \"IT\" job as a Service Delivery Manager a couple of years ago, I had to ask one of the sysadmins to explain to me exactly what a server was, what it did, and why I was trying to convince my client to buy one. If I can get to where I am now from there, so can you. \n\nFinal and most important piece of advice - getting into PM, you'll be working with stakeholders who don't understand (or give a shit about) technology. And that is perfectly okay. For the vast majority of businesses today, IT is a \"necessary evil\" to let them do what they need to. A smart handful are using it as a strategic advantage. But in the end, if what we do isn't delivering business outcomes, then it is pointless. Remember that in every project your work on: \"What are you actually trying to achieve by doing this?\"", "score": 5 } ]
Question about a dedicated PhysX card
I am planning on picking up a 680 in the very near future and have a 560Ti just sitting around, would it be worth my while to use it as a dedicated PhysX card (specifically playing Borderlands 2 right now) or will the 680 be more than sufficient to handle any PhysX related tasks?
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[ { "body": "If you have a GTX 680 and the 560 ti is just sitting around, sure, it gives it a use. It might only be used in like 2/3 games, but its better than it just lying about.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "I just sold my old 560ti for $150, I don't think the tiny performance gain is worth $150.\n\nI vote sell it instead, I'm sure the 680 is more than powerful enough on it's own, very few games use PhysX anyway.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "If you have it use it. There is no reason not to. It's not like it's hard to remove the card later if there isn't much of a performance difference.\n\nInstall it, play the three physx games you have, then remove it when your done with them or have a better use for the card.", "score": 3 } ]
Is there a movie out there that isn’t somewhere someone’s favorite movie???
Sometimes when I am watching a movie I wonder if no one in the world considers this movie their favorite, or if for every movie made it is at least one person’s favorite. If there are any movies out there that you think have nobody considers their absolute favorite post it here and maybe you will get proved wrong. I think of Jack and Jill and The Flintstones in Viva Rock Vegas as the two movies that I cannot see being anyone’s favorites.
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[ { "body": "*Swing Vote*\n\nI don't know why that was the first movie I thought of. But I think it's just forgotten enough and just mediocre enough and just random enough that I'd be seriously shocked if someone told me it was their favorite. Hell I'd be shocked if someone told me they saw it.", "score": 23 }, { "body": "I guarantee there are kids who who'd say Jack and Jill was their favorite movie. 10 years ago, there were probably kids that would have said Viva Rock Vegas was their favorite movie. When I was 6 the first Flintstones was one of my favorites.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "From Justin to Kelly, that american idol movie that came out after the first season. I felt dumber for just watching the preview.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "balistic: eeks vs. server \n\nI dont even care to spell it right honestly, the movie is that much crap", "score": 3 }, { "body": "The trick is to find a movie that is perfectly mediocre. It's not good or bad enough to even remember, and cannot possibly be somebody's favourite. So, I would say Extreme Measures.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "When Baby Geniuses came out, I thought it was the best movie ever. I was 9. So cross that off the list.\n\nI'm so sorry, please forgive me.", "score": 3 } ]
Men seem to love redheaded women. Women, how do you feel about redheaded men?
We guys grow up hearing "Tall, dark, and handsome" used to describe typical hunks out there. Some of these words are not so quickly relevant to ginger lads. Ladies, what are your two cents?
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[ { "body": "My husband. RAWR.\n\nHis hair isn't super red anymore.. it's gotten really dark. An auburn color, I would say. But his beard still grows in ginger red and it is goddamn sexy.\n\nHe's also covered in freckles - EVERYWHERE. I tell him he's like a sexy cheetah.\n\nHis hair is long and auburn, his beard is bushy and red, and the freckles. Oh yes. Sexy cheetah-viking-hybrid thing going on and I can't get enough. The freckles especially... I don't know, man. I can't describe enough how sexy I find dozens of freckles cascading over his fair-skinned biceps, shoulders, and forearms. His eyes are even a green/hazel color with little black freckles in them. It's amazing.\n\nSo, yes. Fuck yes. All day, yes.\n\n\n\nAnd on the other side of the cute spectrum, I have two red-headed and blue eyed boys that are super adorable.", "score": 4 } ]
Paranoid Android - Why have I just discovered this now and why isn't this everyone going crazy over this?
This is, by far, the most amazing ROM I have ever used. Turning regular applications into tablet apps is freaking awesome. Using tablet browsers instead of regular is amazing. Being able to lower or raise the DPI is probably my most wanted feature ever. It actually gives REASON for a high resolution screen. It's so great I don't understand why phones aren't released like this from the beginning. I have nothing of real content but a request of a circle jerk telling me more I can do with this. The best tablet apps etc because I am seriously impressed.
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[ { "body": "But I have a phone and a tablet.... Are tablet apps on a phone really ... The best way to go? \n\nSeems like things would get a little cramped \n", "score": 22 }, { "body": "I agree. Being able to set the size for each app is awesome. Gives me much more info on the screen at once. \n\nI also love putting the status bar on the bottom. Not having to bring my thumb all the way up is great. http://www.imgur.com/oGitQ.jpeg", "score": 21 }, { "body": "I've been using PA for about a month now. Being able to drop the system UI DPI all the way down to 160 has RUINED my ability to EVER use anything else.\n\n\nI've even had a few higher end owners ask about it. They couldnt believe how much screen space my shitty little entry level phone has.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "There is actually a rom for this for the LG Optimus V. Not sure why anyone would consider using this on a 3.2 inch screen.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I don't want to tell anybody about it yet. On my s3 it has just enough issues that I wish I hadn't flashed it, but so many advantages that I can no longer imagine using anything else. Once it's more stable, I'll recommend the fuck out of it to anyone with a high resolution display, but while I have to reboot at least once a day? Not yet. It's amazing, and I can't switch away, but... Give it time. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": ">telling me more I can do with this. \n\nHere's one that I love: Swype is so tiny, even at 320 DPI. I went into the paranoid preferences manually and made it 420 DPI, and now it's huge and easy to swype and I never miss any keys.", "score": 3 } ]
What should I start watching on Netflix?
I've watched the following already : Breaking Bad. Arrested Development, Sons of Anarchy, Prison Break, and Wilford. So what's another great show I should start?
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[ { "body": "Dinosaurs.\n\nFarscape.\n\nBetter Off Ted.\n\nEdit: Wow. Who's the pissy idiot who downvoted literally everyone? Sad life much?", "score": 5 } ]
[Hiring] [Krakow, Poland] Rapid Web Developer (PHP/JS) [PL]
**Nie musisz mieć dużego doświadczenia aby dołączyć do naszego zespołu, najważniejsza dla nas jest pasja do programowania, umiejętność kreatywnego i twórczego myślenia oraz chęć rozwijania swojej wiedzy i umiejętności. Jeżeli spełniasz tylko część powyższych wymagań prześlij swoją kandydaturę, może właśnie szukamy kogoś takiego jak Ty!** O nas - Coleadium Inc: Coleadium jest firmą działającą w zakresie promocji online, wyspecjalizowaną w pozyskiwaniu zainteresowania i w akwizycji klientów, mającą siedzibę w Carlsbad, w Kalifornii. Coleadium wykorzystuje zasięg Internetu do tego, by zapewnić reklamującym się klientom wiarygodne dane potencjalnych zainteresowanych. W dążeniu do odkrywania nieskończonych możliwości rynku internetowego, Coleadium zostało utworzone w roku 2005. Aby móc lepiej sprostać potrzebom swoich klientów, przedsiębiorstwo posiada obecnie trzy międzynarodowe oddziały w Carlsbad, w Nowym Jorku i w Krakowie. Opis stanowiska pracy: Dla wzmocnienia naszego zespołu zatrudnimy w pełnym wymiarze czasu pracy mid lub senior developera aplikacji internetowych. Idealny kandydat dysponuje długoletnim doświadczeniem w szybkim projektowaniu skalowalnych aplikacji internetowych przy pomocy PHP, nie odstraszają go nowoczesne technologie, takie jak MongoDB lub node.js oraz zna się na jQuery, CSS no i oczywiście HTML. Umiejętności fachowe: * Co najmniej 3 lata doświadczenia w projektowaniu aplikacji internetowych przy pomocy PHP oraz olbrzymie zainteresowanie i doświadczenie w zakresie języków programowania. * Gruntowna wiedza w zakresie PHP 5.3 OOP oraz doświadczenie z frameworks jak FuelPHP, Yii, Kohana, Lithium lub Laravel itp. * Idealna byłaby znajomość innowacyjnych technologii, takich jak node.js, MongoDB, Redis itp. lub przynajmniej brak obawy przed nimi. * Opanowanie javascript oraz jQuery są warunkiem koniecznym, doświadczenie z node.js lub angular byłoby mile widziane. * Doświadczenie z interfejsem programowania aplikacji, łącznie z integracją i projektowaniem interfejsu programowania aplikacji są warunkiem koniecznym. * Wykształcone umiejętności w zakresie user experience w połączeniu z talentem do projektowania interfejsów byłby dużą zaletą, nie są jednak warunkiem koniecznym. * Dużą zaletą byłyby: znajomość XHTML i CSS do W3C, WAG Accessibility, kompatybilności pomiędzy platformami oraz kodowania semantycznego. * Wymagane jest zamiłowanie do technologii open source, aktywne członkostwo we wspólnocie open source (konto GitHub?) Szczególne kompetencje zawodowe: * Zdolność do przejmowania odpowiedzialności za wdrożenie pomysłu na produkt w procesy end-to-end. * Sposób podejścia do tworzenia, oceny, cyklu nauczania, oparty na strategii „Lean” Erica Ries. * Wykształcona umiejętność tworzenia prostych i skutecznych projektów funkcjonalnych i graficznych dla swoich prototypów. * Zdolność do pokochania swojej pracy! * Zawód stanowiący raczej hobby niż pracę, możliwość wykazania się licznymi własnymi projektami, które powstały dla czystej przyjemności tworzenia. * Nieograniczona inicjatywa własna i zdolność do samodzielnej motywacji często prezentujemy koncepcję, którą należy później przekształcić z pomysłu w gotowy do dostarczenia klientowi obiekt. * Umiejętność skutecznego komunikowania się (w języku niemieckim LUB angielskim). * Szczególne zorientowanie na działalność komercyjną oraz dobre wyczucie tego, co stanowić będzie dla użytkownika pozytywne user experience i co najlepiej da się sprzedać. * Zdolność do własnego rozwoju w szybko zmieniającym się środowisku. * Rozwinięte poczucie humoru, ambicja i przyjemność z zapału oraz odczuwania dreszczyku emocji, które niesie ze sobą praca w dynamicznym środowisku. * Radość ze ścisłej współpracy z zarządem oraz kierownictwem technicznym przy tworzeniu prototypów nowych koncepcji i produktów testowych. Środowisko pracy: Nasz będący na miejscu manager mówi płynnie po angielsku i niemiecku, nie zna jednak języka polskiego. Chcielibyśmy zatrudnić programistów, którzy mówią płynnie w jednym z tych języków lub przynajmniej są w stanie skutecznie się w jednym z nich porozumiewać. Utrzymujemy również aktywną wymianę z naszymi oddziałami w Stanach Zjednoczonych oraz z innymi partnerami, zatem chcielibyśmy by nasi koledzy uczestniczyli w tej komunikacji najlepiej, jak to będzie możliwe. Oprócz oferowanej szansy gwarantujemy również dosyć solidne wynagrodzenie dla ciała i ducha: konkurencyjną płacę, atrakcyjne świadczenia dodatkowe, nie wspominając już o swobodnej, a mimo wszystko dynamicznej atmosferze środowiska pracy, elastycznym czasie pracy, wybitnych projektach, innowacyjnych technologiach, piwie i napojach energetyzujących Red Bull, przekąskach, hackatonach po godzinach pracy i w weekendy, pogodnych kolegach oraz o możliwości współpracy z ludźmi, którzy są takimi samymi zapaleńcami i są równie bystrzy. Wynagrodzenie: w zależności od kompetencji - 3500 PLN i więcej! Kompetencje socjalne: Jesteśmy przedsiębiorstwem zaangażowanym w ideę równości szans. Równość rozumiemy w takim znaczeniu, iż my wszyscy otrzymujemy taką samą szansę wykazania się naszą błyskotliwością i również sami myjemy nasze filiżanki po kawie. Preferujemy współpracę z ludźmi, którzy regularnie robią jedno i drugie. Szansa oznacza, że Państwa głos może być skutecznie brany pod uwagę. Dajemy szansę, by się uczyć. Dajemy szansę, by nauczać. Nadzwyczajność stanie się jednak faktem, dla tych, którzy będą robić jednocześnie te wszystkie trzy rzeczy. Specjalnie podkreślany to w szczególny sposób, gdyż nie bylibyśmy tym, czym jesteśmy, gdybyśmy nie wierzyli w ogromny potencjał naszych pracowników. Naszym pracownikom pomagamy także w ich czasie wolnym: jeśli sądzicie Państwo, że macie właśnie TEN pomysł na kolejnej generacji web 2.0, to proszę dać nam znać, a my zrobimy wszystko, aby pomóc Państwu w realizacji swojej wizji. Lokalizacja: W Krakowie odkryliśmy nie tylko potencjał ekonomiczny, ale także licznych utalentowanych ludzi i chcielibyśmy poszerzyć nasz zespół o tak wielu błyskotliwych programistów i projektantów, ilu tylko uda nam się znaleźć. Nasze nowe biura mieszczą się w Krakowskim Parku Technologicznym. Krakowski Park Technologiczny oddalony jest od centrum miasta o 15 minut jazdy jedną, bezpośrednią linią tramwajową (linia numer 10). W bezpośrednim sąsiedztwie znajdują się również inne młode firmy oraz przedsiębiorstwa bazujące na działalności internetowej, tak więc można mieć nadzieję, że w przyszłości na tym obszarze powstanie silna wspólnota developerska. **Translator forgot to mention:** * You can chose your Operation System (Windows, Linux, OSX) and the computer you want to work with! * We give free Gym membership and private health insurance on request! * **Performance based bonuses!** **PM for more infos!**
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[ { "body": "I remember you posting the same ad with 3k PLN, now you are offering 3,5K. My point is, 850€ is not enough to hire good PHP developer with at least 3 years of experience. Even in an eastern european country. ", "score": 3 } ]
FTP-passive not working
Shit is killing me. Simple outside vendor coming into box in DMZ via 21. Connects to FTP server then errors out Transfer channel can't be opened. Reason: A connection attempt failed because the connected party did not properly respond after a period of time, or established connection failed because connected host has failed to respond. I see that after connecting the client attempts to connect to server again but with a whacky dynamic port. I understand how passiv works (or at least I think I do), but is there way to have the ftp client use a specific port I open or the server to force the client to use a port?
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[ { "body": "Step #1 -- In case you haven't already, familiarize yourself with the traffic patterns of Active vs. Passive FTP:\n\nhttp://slacksite.com/other/ftp.html\n\nStep #2 -- Try a PASV FTP connection from another host in the same subnet. Make sure the server is working properly with PASV FTP before trying anything else.\n\nIf everything checks out during the local attempt then I would say the next logical thing to look at is your firewall. Make sure that \"FTP Inspection\" or \"FTP Fixups\" are enabled in its config. The firewall, if it supports such a feature, will watch the port 21 session and \"learn\" what port to expect the PASV connection on, and to allow the connection through to the server.\n\nAlternatively, if your firewall doesn't support the feature, most FTP servers have the option to specify a PASV port or port range -- If you can do this then you simply need to make sure that those ports are open to the server (and NAT'd if necessary, of course). Note that the availability and method of configuring this option varies widely server to server, so check the docs.\n\nHere's how make the firewall change on a Cisco ASA:\n\nhttp://www.cisco.com/en/US/products/ps6120/products_configuration_example09186a00807ee585.shtml\n\nIf you're using something else, check the documentation on its FTP features.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "If your firewall (as d3 suggests) doesn't support FTP inspection, you can also use active mode on the client and open up port 20 as well.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "What router/firewall are you using? could have something to do with the settings on there. It needs to create stateful sessions, and if the firewall isn't configured correctly, you could have problems there.", "score": 3 } ]
Plastic bag recycling?
Does anyone know of a place to recycle plastic grocery bags? Back where I used to live our Publix had a bin out front for that purpose, but I haven't seen one around here yet.
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[ { "body": "I recycle my bags at Publix. It's usually a green trash can near the entrance. I'm pretty sure most Publixes around here have them.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Every Publix near Tower Rd (so by Splitz, Archer & Tower, Haile, both Butler Plazas, and also by Santa Fe) have them, Walmarts have them too, by the doors.", "score": 3 } ]
New to r/Survival, looking for some tips on my bag
Hey guys, I'm new to the subreddit and wilderness survival in general, and my goal is to build a bag that would cover all the basics for ~$250, here's what I have so far: Knife - Kabar Becker BK2: From what I've read on here and all over, it's a solid, reliable knife that'll last for years to come, and it's reasonably priced. Axe - Estwing Hatchet: I know a lot of people don't include hatchets in their bags due to weight issues, but it's just under two pounds and brings some added utility to the pack (can be used as a hammer , etc). Would probably sow some kind of loop to slip the handle into on the outside of my bag so it wouldn't have to take up space inside. Fishing Net - While I do enjoy pole fishing, it takes up more space than a folded net would by a longshot, especially when you include things like tackle and whatnot. Plus when it comes to a survival situation you're not fishing for the sport of it. Sabrecut Saw - Takes up next to no space and is lightweight, good for taking apart those bigger branches that I don't want to dull my knife on by batoning. Knife/Edge Sharpener - pretty standard. Firestarters - Ferro Rod, Waterproof Matches, 2xBic Lighters, Vaseline soaked cotton balls: from what I've read on here it's a good idea to have three ways to start a fire, and those are the most solid/reliable ones from what I could tell. Cottom balls in a photo film canister for fuel. P38 Can Opener - This is less of a wilderness survival one, more of a general survival one. Plan on keeping one in my wallet at all times, just in case. Water Purification - Lifestraw: The way I look at it, this will be good for quick use when I really need water, if I need more to fill my canteen I'd have to boil some to fill it. Paracord - Goes without saying, so many uses. Swiss Army Knife - Small and lightweight, but you get a lot of utility out for not a lot of room taken up. Stainless Steel Water Bottle/Cup - Obvious reasons, though I haven't been able to find a good Bottle with a cup that can fit on the bottom, anyone have any recommendations? SAS Survival Guide - From what I've heard, an incredible amount of knowledge packed into those pages. Invaluable to have. Basic Butchery of Livestock and Game by John Mettler - Hunting is new to me so this one is a pretty obvious choice. I'm going deer hunting once the season starts in the fall with a relative who knows how to field dress and is going to teach me, but I doubt I'll always be lucky enough to bag a deer. This will come in handly for the other animals that I won't have a chance for someone to teach me. As far as hunting goes I already have a bow and have been practicing at the archery range near my house lately. I know it's not the best thing to hunt with as far as saving space goes, but the fact that it can take down big and small game alike, and in the woods you'd be surrounded by a limitless supply of ammo make this seem like the best option for me. I already have a bag to store all this in, as well as a tent/sleeping bag. I can gather some basic things from around the house like toilet paper, gauze, and extra clothes but some of the more specific medical supplies I'd still need to get. All this stuff together came out to a total of around 200$, giving me a bit of room for a few more items. I know I need some first aid supplies but from what I've read the pre-made kits you can buy in the store are pretty terrible. Is there any other glaring hole that I'm missing? Any advice would be appreciated. EDIT: I'm from the Western New York area, planning on camping around here and in the Adirondacks upstate a bit too for some geographical reference.
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[ { "body": "I would say you have gone quite heavy in the pokey-stabby-choppy stuff and pretty light on the warm and dry stuff. Might I suggest at least a cheap tube tent or tarp and a foil blanket or two. Also with that many sharp edges in your kit you will need some bandages and bacitracin. Infection and exposure are two of the worst killers humanity has ever known. ", "score": 13 }, { "body": "I think it's always worth watching a few of those [youtube videos](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xiGo6Dy9eso&feature=related) about guys who actually have serious survival skills. You learn a lot. Also, read the SAS guide before any attempt at actual *'survival'*...?", "score": 5 } ]
Berserkers are so strong.
So I played to Act 2 with an Outlander on Veteran - and I don't know what it is, maybe I just can't play the class or I completely skilled them wrong - but I kept dying a lot and wasn't very effective. I decided to make a Berserker. Focusing on Shadow Burst with a Wolf Shade backup and a point into a few choice passives and I just can't die. It took me something like 30-40 minutes to beat the Act 1 boss with my first character. The Berserker? 3 minutes max. I pretty much skill all vitality, make sure to Shadowbind (lvl 1) a whole group of creeps, and then I just Shadow Burst through them all healing myself and spreading damage around. Single boss fight? Pull up your summoned wolf, tear into the enemy with your claw, and enjoy free armor. Since your Shadow Dash heals for a percentage of your max health, if you get in trouble right click 2-3 times and you're at full health. Rinse and repeat! I have some work to do but I don't think I'll have too much trouble later on in the game - someone correct me if I'm wrong.
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[ { "body": "Sounds like you found yourself a strong build. Share it with us when you've locked down your late game goals. Here's a tool to help.\n\nhttp://torchlight2armory.com/skill-calc?i=1#c8WRBO", "score": 8 }, { "body": "That's the way that beserker type classes have always worked in almost everything, since you can't really sit back and kite. \n\nIf you have enough armour/healing/lifesteal to get through an area, you'll do it quickly, if you don't you have to backtrack and grind, since you don't have many options if you come across enemies that outdamage you.\n\nThat said, I beat the act 1 boss inside of 5 minutes on my frost embermage, spamming ice and abusing the +90 damage to frozen targets bonus, so maybe you just somehow poorly specced your first character.", "score": 3 } ]
Thank you for the wonderful past month. I'd like to leave you all with something before I go.
I've been playing this video game nonstop since release day, and it is honestly one of the best and most beautiful games I've ever played. After leveling three characters to 80 and experiencing as much of the game as I could, however, I must put down the game and get back to my regular life. I'd like to share with you all a small collection of my absolute favorite moments from my journey thus far. Feel free to share your own. [[Imgur gallery]](http://imgur.com/a/dVYjM#0) Thank you Anet and r/guildwars2. It's been a blast.
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[ { "body": "Why can't you play the game casually at the same time as enjoying real life? That is part of the joy of a non subscription game ;)", "score": 87 }, { "body": "Yikes - I just cracked lvl 40 last night on my first character and have been playing since head start. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Those are great shots. Hopefully you'll still give WvW a shot with a bit of organized group stuff, it can be quite amazing. :) ", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Can you not balance real life and game time? Might wanna see if you have like an addiction problem or something?", "score": 4 }, { "body": "And thank YOU for going about this in a great way! A lot of people have raised just one character to 80 and complained about the end game so much that they \"threaten\" to stop playing like spoiled little kids. GW2 will always be there and hopefully when new content is released you'll come back and join in on the fun once more! :) BECAUSE YOU CAN! That's the great part!\n\nAlso, that armor on your elementalist is downright BADASS. Is that human T3?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Protip: You can have a regular life and play GW2. Its a secret skill passed down by our ancestors called 'moderation'.", "score": 3 } ]
Can anyone recommend virtual running games like 'Zombies, Run!'?
I'm interested in giving it a shot to see how it might change up my weekly runs. I like the idea of having a story being narrated that is interactive with my pace and location. Anyone try it, or know of any alternatives? Can you recommend? Thanks R/Running! **EDIT:** I forgot to ask, do any of you use it along with EndoModo? Do they interfere with one another? **EDIT 2:** Lots of very positive feedback = purchased on Google.Play store. Thanks for the comments everyone, keep on running!
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[ { "body": "I use Zombies Run! and really like it. It gives me something to look forward to besides running, and the story is pretty entertaining. Overall my favorite feature is the sudden Zombie chases that get you going faster. ", "score": 18 }, { "body": "I have used it for a few months as well. I don't use it with every run, only occassionally when I really feel the need for something different. It is well written, the voice acting is good, and the zombie chases are great for making you pick up your pace. I think it is well worth the $8, especially given they are continuing to add new missions (such as the supply missions).", "score": 11 }, { "body": "I've used Zombies, Run! for about 4 weeks now and I also enjoy it. The story is entertaining but more importantly its really motivating. Getting chased by the zombie mobs forces me to pick up my pace and push myself which is really hard at the end of my run. \n\nI've recommended it to a couple friends cause I think they would be in to it but it's not something I would recommend for everyone. For example there's a chance it may get boring in the future. It was hard for me to justify spending $8 on an app but then again I go out and spend that on a drink at the bar.\n\nAll and all I think its great and recommend it. I would be curious to hear other fitness alternatives like it too. Zombies, Run! is far different than anything I've seen so far. ", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I use both Zombies, Run and EndoModo. No they don't interfere with each other. I just make sure I set up EndoModo on countdown and then initiate my Zombies, Run mission. I do have one issue, I use Pandora and Spotify instead of playlists and I always have to switch it back on after the opening scenes on Zombies, Run. Anyone know how to avoid this? I like Endomodo for the metrics and Zombies, Run for the entertainment. ", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I use Zombies, Run! paired with Runkeeper (yay for Android multitasking). It would probably work with EndoMondo as well.\n\nThe only problem is that I never hear anything when picking up something and I usually only hear zombies when they are on my neck. Yeah, Zombies, Run! + death metal isn't exactly a winning combination...", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I used Zombies, Run! for a week or so, but haven't touched it since. I LOVE the concept but the zombie chases always seemed to come when I was waiting to cross the street or something and I felt I wasn't getting that much out of it. It also seemed like I had to mess with my phone too much to turn my music back on (this was several months ago, don't remember specifics). Music works better for me. \n\nZombies is really well done though, and I'd probably use it if I didn't have to run in traffic.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "I have been using zombies, run since it's release (was a kickstart backer), and love it. I have, however, run out of stories and am just waiting for more. When I want to do some intervals in my runs I will still go back and re-do a mission and put the zombie chase function on. It is especially fun on early am and twilight trail runs when there is dim light and nobody else around. :)\n", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I've been using it for a while as well and love it. The story is good, the voice acting is good, it tracks your runs for you, and of course there are the zombies (which almost always manage to find you just as you get to a hill). Considering the other shit we spend $8 on, this app is definitely worth it. ", "score": 3 } ]
How do you guys find your patterns? And do you keep a log of what you make?
I sew and I knit. For knitters, Ravelry is the ultimate website as there is a massive, massive pattern database (displayed in thumbnails, and you can browse projects finished by others in these patterns), forums and the ability to log all of the details of each of your projects (start date, finish date, type of materials used, any notes you have etc.). Is there anything like this for sewers? I've gone through the regular pattern catalogues online (McCalls, Butterick, etc.) and I've also been introduced to Colette and the Wiksten series by my local sewing shop. Is there a more efficient way to find sewing patterns? How do you guys find your patterns?
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[ { "body": "I think it depends on what you're looking for. I use [BurdaStyle](http://www.burdastyle.com/) for free patterns, users can also review the patterns, which is helpful. I personally tend to find and alter patterns a lot, and my go-to patterns are actually Japanese sewing books and historical patterns, but for more traditional patterns (think \"normal\" clothes), definitely BurdaStyle.", "score": 6 } ]
Plans for the Gene Polisseni Center
Saw this laying in a contractor's truck bed on my way into work today, so I snapped a picture. http://i.imgur.com/2bv7Y.jpg
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[ { "body": "Looks like they found a plan to re-navigate traffic to that rear SAU lot and the RIT Ambulance, but I wonder what they'll do for the bike path :/\n\nAlso, it doesn't look like there will be much nearby parking for the Polisseum", "score": 18 } ]
A Friend Wrote Up A Diet & Training Schedule, Just Looking For A Second Opinion.
Hey guys, I hope it won't be too much to ask; I am just looking for a second opinion on a diet & training schedule that a friend of mine wrote out. I am looking to gain weight (about 1-1.5) stone by changing my diet and going to the gym regularly, as well as getting a little more into shape. Though I trust what my friend says I think it is always a good idea to get a second unbiased opinion on anything or at least some extra advice! Thank you in advance, I really appreciate it. Here is the Document: https://docs.google.com/open?id=0B7agIEbN5qs4R1RRX2V1eHlJZGs
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[ { "body": "I assume by \"press\" he means \"push up\". Base the reps for the bodyweight exercises on a percentage of your max reps. Don't make them arbitrary number that you may or may not make. \n\nThe training program he gave you will not make you bigger. It's more a cardio/weight loss program. \n\nThe 10AM gym peice needs to be fleshed out. This is where the gains will come from but it makes no sense. It's a list of body parts with no rhyme or reason to them. Do a balanced program based on the big 6 movements, some core work and loaded carries. It doesn't have to be complicated. Work with progressively heavy and challenging weights.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "it's terrible. he's got you doing triceps/shoulders a day before hitting chest & back. and, well, it's a body-part split and don't get me started on that. stu gave a good recommendation, upvoting. \n\nit's polite to read the faq first, but besides that, it does offer some decent programs to consider...they're all focused around big, compound lifts so you can't really go wrong with them.\n\nyour friend is not certified or working towards becoming a PT is he? that program is overly complicated, inefficient, and lacking sense and substance. even the bit about sleeping, which I like the concept of incorporating advice on, is weak with 6hrs...shoot for at least 7. and for ***'s sake, get warmed-up prior to doing a bunch of stretching!! you don't stretch your muscles cold. at least do some jumping jacks for a few mins; i don't see that mentioned. \n\nseems you have a lot of time to get fit...in a nutshell: diet, diet, diet (low carb is a very sensible and efficient approach here...or, cut out processed carbs in any event)....exercise: 3-4 days of weight training for at most 45mins per session, ideally following one of the programs mentioned in faq. on one or 2 days where you're not lifting, do HIIT. on one or 2 days not lifting, do some steady cardio for 40mins or less at moderate intensity. \n\nany questions?\n\n\n\n", "score": 3 } ]
The things I put up with
[](/rarityannoyed)I'm really tired and cranky today. Why you ask? I was woken up at 2:30 in the morning by a phone call from another guy in my seminar. He was calling to ask if I could explain something on the homework for today, because he "know's I'm smart, and know what I'm talking about." And I actually obliged him, I spent five minutes on the phone, half asleep, explaining how to find Nash Equilibrium points for a specific thing according to game theory. Then it took me forever to fall asleep again. The things I do for others.... [](/rdsad)And I'm still waiting on the banner. I was hoping to be able to wake up and see it this morning, to start my day.
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[ { "body": "[](/ajwut)That's... kind of a dick move. Who the hell calls someone else at 2:30 in the morning? My sympathies for your night of sleep.\n\nI WANT THE BANNER TOO!!!!!", "score": 4 } ]
Underground cave rivers!
I just came across this scenario: http://i.imgur.com/uz6Ev.png Which made me think about how cool it would be to have long rivers in caves. The one I encountered was sadly only like, 10 blocks. But imagine underground rivers hundreds of meters long, where you would travel with boat, trying to spot ores.
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[ { "body": "Yes please!\n\nI imagine it would be like some of those lava lakes you find underground, only transversable?", "score": 13 }, { "body": "As a long time MtG player the ideas of [Underground Sea](http://magiccards.info/query?q=underground+sea&v=card&s=cname) and [Underground River](http://magiccards.info/query?q=underground+river&v=card&s=cname) resonate strongly with me. ", "score": 6 } ]
Reddit, the person you love is leaving and you have one chance to try to get them to stay. What do you do?
Bring your romantic comedy worst. I think I'd go full balls to the wall honesty and let the chips fall where they may. That way it either works or it doesn't work and I can move on knowing that I tried at least. You?
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[ { "body": "I've been in this situation.\n\nI open the door and politely let her out, without letting her touch my hand this time.", "score": 47 }, { "body": "Nothing. If someone makes up their mind, it doesn't matter what you say. Even if they stay initially, you're gonna keep running into the same shit. \n\nKick em to the curb", "score": 25 }, { "body": "I'd do what I did before. I'd apologize profusely. I'd try to get them to understand. \n\nThen when they didn't I'd live my life trying to get over them, knowing that they're happy somewhere with someone else. Then try to force myself to be content with this fact but inside I'd be dying knowing that I could never make them happy and I'd live in self loathing for the rest of my days. \n\nI miss you Joey. ", "score": 16 }, { "body": "I'm pregnant... \n\n*That's nice. I'll send for the rest of my things. Wait... what?! You're a guy!*\n\nI'm part seahorse...\n\n*What's that supposed to mean!*\n\nD-Do you remember when first met... on the beach?\n\n*I've been trying to forget it! You were ranting about being an invader from the-- You don't actually mean.*\n\nYou're the one I met first.", "score": 16 }, { "body": "ITT: People that don't understand what love is.\n\n\nI would just tell her \"Nothing I can do will make you change your mind, only you can do that. I just want you to know I still love you, and what I want most, what I need most in this world, is to make you happy. If walking out that door and never seeing me again will sincerely make you happy, then I hope you will never come back. But if you ever do decide to come back, I will be here. I will always be here\". Then, when she hopefully hesitated at the door, I would shoot her kneecaps out and chain her to a pipe in my basement.", "score": 13 }, { "body": "She can't. She's my daughter and she's stuck with me till she turns 18, so that's another 11 years.\n\nNon romantic situation though.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "No reason to try to stay with someone who does not want to be with you. Often when someone leaves you, they'd already made up their mind weeks or months before.\n\nA graceful exit is all you can hope for.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "I would simply stop talking. I talk a LOT, so that would set off alarm bells in his head. Then, when I had his full attention, I would appeal to his sensitive, romantic side by improvising a heartfelt monologue about every little aspect of him that I love and treasure. If that failed, I'd sing \"our song\" (I'm a trained vocalist and he's a musician too, so we both understand the emotional power of music). \n\nAnd if THAT failed...I'd just let him go. But I'm willing to bet he'd come back at least once for \"closure\", when I'd try again.\n\nBut hopefully this never happens.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "When I was seventeen years old I experienced my first love. She was absolutely gorgeous, and I don't mean the type of beautiful that you look at and think: \"Damn, she's smoking.\" I'm talking the type of unparalleled beauty that you'd imagine to challenge Aphrodite, or some goddess that could only exist in your dreams. On top of this she was insanely intelligent, and cultured to boot. Her biggest hobbies involved practicing artwork, writing, reading, and cooking. She could make me laugh by making silly faces and spark a warmth in me that no-one else could; even if it just required something simple like playing Pokemon Red and Blue on the couch together. \n\nShe was literally perfection to me.\n\nWe dated for about two years until we hit that rough patch all relationships go through. You know the one. The fires start to die down, everything gets sort of mellowed out. I remember feeling like I was going insane when she came to me one day and told me, very hesitantly, that she thought she had feelings for another guy.\n\nAnd that was when I made my first mistake. \n\nI told her that no matter what happened I'd always stick by her. That despite this little bump in the road, I'd just take it in my stride. I genuinely thought it'd just be something to fade into the past and would never be brought up again. \nA few days later she ended up going to the movies with him. Now before you critique what I'm going to say next, you need to understand something about myself. Ever since I was very young I had a massive self-confidence issue. This was the first girl I had ever fallen for like this, and she was carved from what I believed to be *literal perfection*. I abandoned my self-respect with this girl in the hopes that it'd make her see how much I loved her. I'm not judging those who have polyamorous feelings, either, I can empathize with them. I am however going to illustrate what happened next with the utmost care.\n\nI was cheated on a total of seven times in this relationship, without my knowing. I had the faintest feeling that there might be something else going on, but I was too scared to look into it. Instead I allowed myself to become ensnared in this awful web of self-pity and blissful ignorance. I truly believed that as long as I had this girl I'd be okay. No matter what.\n\nWhen I finally discovered that she had slept with a guy, on the night of my birthday when she left the party early to \"head home\", that was the night I simply left her. \n\nThere were times in that relationship where I would have spent my life's savings on that girl just to prove I cared about her. There were times where I would have leapt off buildings, attacked someone, or have done anything for her. I transcended, or rather descended, from love into obsession. And that was the scary part. I didn't even know what was wrong with me at the time, I just knew that something had changed inside myself.\n\nReddit if there's one thing I've learned from this it's that you can't hold on for too long when something's about to die. You have to love yourself in order to be loved and love others. Self-pity and ignorance are not traits that will ever help you grow strong. Ever since that train-wreck of a relationship I had to grow up a lot. I was very innocent at the time and my life became a living hell afterwards. It did get better. But I needed to have the strength to let things go, and this was the relationship that gave me that. I was emotionally dependent on her, and that was the most horrible thing I've experienced in my life.\n\nWhen it comes time to see the girl go, let her walk away. You don't want to damage yourself and those around you when you know it's time to move on. If you think there's a genuine chance for you two to be together, go for it! But know when it's time to let it die. \n\nThere is no point in holding onto something when she or he wants to end it.\n\nEDIT: I accidentally a lot of words and grammar.\n", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Most of my ex girlfriends were cunts. Even if I did love them, I'm better off with my life minus them", "score": 3 } ]
Coming out to my family.
So, last night my parents and I went out to dinner for my birthday, and back home for birthday pie (because fuck cake, that's why). I had been planning on telling them that night and had invisioned myself beingall swave about it. Nope, didn't happen that way, I just sat there nervously until the end of the night and just blurted out "I'm bisexual!" At first they thought I was joking, but eventually realized that I wasn't just kidding around. I doubt I'm going to come out to everyone, at least until my son is 18, and can't be taken away from me for that. Overall was really nervous, but am glad I did it.
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[ { "body": "I'm almost sure in the US your son cannot be taken away for that legally, but possibly for ostensibly other reasons.\n", "score": 4 }, { "body": ">fuck cake\n\nOh no you didn't. No you fucking didn't! YOU DID! Someone out there hates cake!\n\nOh well. I hate pie, if it's any consolation.", "score": 3 } ]
Look for the narwhals!
Great concert last night here in Columbus, Ohio. Those of you going to see the Clockwork Angels Tour keep your eyes peeled for narwhals during an animated scene late in the concert. Thought of reddit naturally. I wasn't able to capture a pic in time as they were on screen only briefly.
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[ { "body": "I was there last night too. I thought it was an outstanding show, the guys sounded great, the light show and effects were awesome, I really enjoyed it. My only complaint is that the crowd was dull most of the night, they didn't really get into it until the last few songs. I don't know, to me it just looked bad. Here the guys are putting on an excellent show, and the crowd was just . . . blah.\n", "score": 3 } ]
car in the 25-30k range
Looking for a fun sporty car in the 25-30k range. Been thinking about a newer mustang gt or a challenger. Not wanting any thing too old, I've already owned 3x 1974 chargers and a 1974 roadrunner. Needless to say I'm done fixing cars for some time. I'm open to suggestions; don't be afraid to post stuff outside the price range. Note: I live in Utah, so something good for the winter will be a bonus but not a must.
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[ { "body": "Mustangs are fun, certainly. You could get a new 2013 GT at the high end of that price range. Even then, a 2013 V6 is almost as powerful as a 2010 GT was, and you could get a new V6 Premium with all the options for $28ish.", "score": 3 } ]
Yay... "Shuffle" button is broken in "Play Music" app on Jelly Bean
It randomly decides to work. It'll either keep songs shuffled no matter how many times you press it or it won't shuffle them. You have to just keep pressing it until it works. Before anyone says "Use app X instead, X is better" I don't want to. The play/pause, forward and back buttons are integrated into the lock screen and I like that. Galaxy Nexus. stock rom
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[ { "body": "It is working, just it is a very funky system. You have a queue, any song you play from a playlist, album, \"All by Artist\", etc. selection will add the song you selected to play and all other songs in the same group to the queue.\n\nIf Shuffle is on before you select the song, then those new songs added to the queue are shuffled. If you shuffle after you chose a song and have added the songs to the queue, then shuffle will do basically nothing.\n\nI absolutely hate this. It is annoying and tedious, and I'm not sure if it is supposed to be like this or what, it is annoying.\n\nYour queue will always play one song, and then switch to the song below it. Shuffle does not jumble up how songs are played in the queue, but how songs are added to the queue. If I go to my playlist \"Jogging\" and chose \"Call Me Maybe\" it will add all songs to the queue.\n\nTo clear the queue, press Menu > Clear Queue.\n\nIs this a bug, or a 'feature'? I don't honestly know.", "score": 5 } ]
My buddy's having a kid in 5 months. I want to give him a collection of parenting advice. Help me out reddit?
I've been trying to think of a great baby shower gift for a couple months now. Then it came to me, there's no better gift than knowledge. He's a young father having a girl. I figured you guys could help me construct a collection of advice for him because I definitely know nothing about parenting. Edit: Ahhh so much parenting knowledge. You guys are the shit.
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[ { "body": "*I heard the news the other day,*\n\n*A tiny baby's on its way!*\n\n*Congratulations! Here's to you!*\n\n*I've some advice to help you through:*\n\n**Don't...**\n\nDrop him, kick him, try to lick him,\n\nBite him, light him, baby-fight him, \n\nPoke him, choke him, roll-and-smoke him,\n\nBeat him, cheat him, cook-and-eat-him.\n\n*Say goodbye to relaxation,*\n\n*Welcome grim anticipation,*\n\n*Wave hello to sleepless nights,*\n\n*Naps in work; domestic fights.*\n\nLearn to love the sound of crying,\n\nBaby-food and nappy-buying;\n\nKnow you'll finally get some rest,\n\nIn eighteen years - they'll fly the nest.\n\n*\n\n*And still, no matter what I say,*\n\n*You'll live for each and every day.*\n\n\n\n", "score": 10 }, { "body": "Just be aware that **a lot** of people will also be wanting to give them parenting advice. They're going to get sick of hearing it really quickly. \n \nI suggest you try to do it in a fun or creative way. Maybe a collection of \"bad\" advice or advice for situations that are completely unlikely to happen. You could pillage TV shows for ideas, such as : \"What to do when your baby shoots your boss and you get stuck taking the blame\" or \"what to do when your baby turns out to be the next Antichrist\"", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Babies cry - ALL babies cry. Some babies cry a lot. Babies cry with their entire bodies. Deal with it, there is no magic cure for it, man the fuck up and take some weight off your wife. Offer to take the little screaming eagel for a walk so your wife can get an hours sleep or just alone time.\n\nBabies take up a LOT of time - Again, taking some of the load off your wife will generally make for a smoother relationship and everyone being happy. \n\nChanging diapers isn't a big deal - Start right away, after a little while you'll barely notice. \n\nBabies cost a lot of money - Set som aside for those unexpected expenses.\n\nAll babies develop in their own way according to their own plan - Don't compare your baby to other babies.\n\nDon't google symptoms - Just fucking don't. Don't let your wife do it either.\n\nMost people let their kids sleep on their bellies now and then - They really do sleep better that way. Doctors will yell \"YOUR BABY WILL DIE OF SIDS!\", most parents do it anyway.\n\nYour wife will pull the heaviest load - Acknowledge that. Relationships will be smoother. Also, try to help out where you can. Get up on weekends to let your wife get those extra hours of sleep, make her a fucking sammich for once.\n\nDon't forget your SO - Babies put an enormous strain on relationships, talk a lot.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Everyone can give advice on how to be a good dad. I want to give advice on how to stay sane, throughout your life. \n\n**1.)** Here's an important one for you.\n\nDon't expect it to be love at first sight. My son was an annoying poop machine for the 1st year of his life as far as I am concerned. I wasn't really attached at all.\n\nWhen he started walking/talking/developing a personality that's when I really became attached to him.\n\nI think society places a lot of pressure on parents to absolutely love their children to death immediately. And I've found out through talking that a lot of dads felt the same way, they just didn't think it was OK to express that thought.\n\nSo if that is going on your head, it's OK man, it's normal. \n\n\n\n**2.)** It's completely OK when it is 5AM, and your baby has woke up for the 5th time, to just sit him down for a second, and turn around to just absolutely scream into your pillow. It will make you feel better and get some of the stress out, allowing you and your baby to feel better.\n\n\n\n**3.)** DO NOT MAKE YOUR CHILDREN YOUR LIFE. Love them. Cherish them. Help them grow. Take a bullet for them. \n\nDo not feel bad about dropping them off for a weekend and grandma's. Or that few day vacation every now and then. Don't feel bad for going to get plastered when grandma has him. Take breaks frequently. Keep in touch with who you are. If someone says, tell me something about yourself and you start with \"I have a child who...\" then you need to back up off a little. Don't define who you are and what you do by your child.\n\nTo put it simply. If you make your child your life for 18 years, when they leave for college, who you are will be ripped away from you and will leave nothing but a meaningless husk of a person. Keep your identity intact. It will be great for you and your wife. \n\n**4.)** You are male and you have a kid. Be mentally prepared for people to talk to you like you are mentally retarded and couldn't possibly keep your child alive for more than 5 minutes. People will automatically assume, regardless of reality, that your wife is doing all of the work and you are the faithful sidekick that steps in to help every now and then. You are THE second class parent. It comes with the territory. As you notice that without a single bit of knowledge about your situation, people will still offer you advice on \"helping your wife\". \n\n**5.)** This last piece is special. It is for the sanity of everyone else and you. Though your kid may be the most marvelous kid on the planet to you. Almost no one you know cares about your kid at all. Constantly showing pictures and non stop speak of your kids *will* annoy most people. I know it's not that warm and mushy feeling you want, but it is reality and it will help you keep friends.", "score": 3 } ]
Questions for Indy Players
So I have an alt that I have been training in mining. I have gotten to a point where I can mine pretty effectively. I was hoping to get more into production/research/invention. I had some questions. 1. I read that tier 2 bpos are unattainable now unless you buy them for large amounts from players who already have them. Is this true? If so, then the only way to get tier 2 blueprints is to get copies of bpos, or to invent them? 2. How does invention work? I read that you basically put in an item, a bpc, and some other stuff and poof you get a tier 2 bpc out? Is this the jist? Is there a chance related system involved with this? What other stuff goes in? 3. For invention purposes, can you use a tier 1 bpo? Does the research time/effort you put into this bpo affect the tier 2 bpc you can acquire from invention? 4. I am currently in a mining corp. I tried to get into research, but found all of the public slots taken for months out. lol. How do I get involved in this? 5. Does it make sense to manufacturer, research and invent all at the same time considering that these are all time extensive endeavors? I may have more questions down the line. Thanks!
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[ { "body": "> *How does invention work?* \n\nFor this example, I'll use a [mining laser 1](http://games.chruker.dk/eve_online/item.php?type_id=785) \n\nMake a copy of a T1 blueprint. \nFind an open invention slot (actually easy outside of trade hubs). \nGet the necessary [datacores](http://games.chruker.dk/eve_online/market.php?group_id=966) (in this case, laser physics and mechanical engineering) \nGet the necessary [interface](http://games.chruker.dk/eve_online/market.php?group_id=980) (in this case incognito data interface). \nSet up the invention job with a bunch of clicks. \n\n\nOptional: \nUse a meta 2-4 item with the invention job (cheap for mining lasers, horribly wasteful of isk for things like ballistic control systems). \nUse an appropriate [datafile](http://games.chruker.dk/eve_online/market.php?group_id=806) to change % success chance, or resulting ME/PE. \n\nThere are a bunch of other finicky details, but that's the major steps. \nhttp://games.chruker.dk/eve_online/invention_chance.php \nhttp://www.eve-guides.com/ittey/index.php \nhttp://wiki.eveonline.com/en/wiki/Invention \n\n> *Does the research time/effort you put into this bpo affect the tier 2 bpc you can acquire from invention?* \n\nNo. However, most T2 manufacturing jobs require a T1 item as one of the inputs. So for the mining laser example, a T2 mining laser production job requires a mining laser 1. Ammo does not. \n\n> * I tried to get into research, but found all of the public slots taken for months out. lol. How do I get involved in this?* \n\nMosey around high sec, or low, if you are comfortable there. High sec wait times for ME slots run about 4+ weeks. Low sec wait times for ME slots run about 10-20 days. High sec wait times for copy slots are running about 3 weeks. High sec invention slots are usually available \"now\" or in less than one day. \n\n> *Does it make sense to manufacture, research and invent all at the same time considering that these are all time extensive endeavors?* \n\nI currently occupy this role for my corp. \n\nIf you don't have a POS in high sec, then inventing means you have to plan about 2 months ahead: \"what will we need in 2-3 months?\" or \"what will be profitable in 2-3 months?\" This can lead to laughter when I announce in corp chat that I finally made a certain t2 item and folks basically go \"lol, we needed that months ago\" or \"lol, we don't fly those ships anymore\". They settle back down when I mention the lead times involved, and I don't mind the laughter because I make a lot of wrong decisions. My most profitable ones were ones I made by mistake: copying a heavy assault missile instead of a heavy missile (T2 heavy missiles take 10x the rocket fuel as T2 heavy assault missiles).\n\nRecently, I dropped several hundred mining crystals into the corp hanger. Folks were like \"LOL, that is like 6 months worth of T1 crystals, we need T2 crystals\". I explain that it will take about 5 weeks to make copies of my T1 crystal blueprints. Then I will need 1 T1 mining crystal to make each T2 mining crystal, so the mountain of crystals is inventory for production in 2-3 months. \n\nI don't let the laughter get under my skin because manufacturing and research are things you need to plan out weeks ahead of time. If you get into making capital ships, you need to plan things out a year ahead of time. The lead time could be shortened by a lot if we had a POS again. Putting one up in high sec is a hassle. In null, you have to have a tower.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "1. If you have to ask, you can't afford a T2 BPO. Hundreds of billions of ISK is not out of the questions. T2 BPCs are the most common (by a huge margin) way of doing T2 manufacturing.\n\n2. Invention is entirely chance based. You put in N number of max-run (ME research is irrelevant) BPCs together with Datacores (2 different kinds, you can buy these or get them from research agents), a data interface (which is not consumed by the invention so you can reuse it, there are different types of these too) and an Invention slot together.\n\nYou can improve your chances of successful invention by providing a copy of the T1 version of the thing you're trying to invent, as well as using something called a decryptor, that can do anything from increase your chance to invent something to improving the resulting BPC's ME/PE.\n\nhttp://wiki.eveonline.com/en/wiki/Invention is a fairly good guide.\n\n3. Has to be a BPC. Neither ME nor PE research on the BPC make a difference, the only thing that controls Invention Output BPC ME and PE is the decryptors you use (if any).\n\n4. You're going to want a hisec POS. This might require an alt buying a corporation with standings and anchoring it. There are also some fairly reputable services which can help you here.\n\n6. T1 Manufacturing is generally a loss leader. There is profit to be made but margins are very tight. Research is fixed profitability (you grab a BP, spend x time researching it and get pretty-much-guaranteed profits) activity that -- if you have invention and copy slots in a POS -- you can basically do for free. Invention is gambling, but can be very profitable if done in bulk, you just really need enough BPs and Copy slots to keep the invention going.\n\nSource: Have done indy. Have a Research & Invention POS both in my wormhole and in hisec near Dodi and turn a profit with them.", "score": 3 } ]
Tell me more about "Reformed" theology......
How closely do the modern Reformed churches adhere to the beliefs of the participants of the Reformation? What do you think of the Catholic Church of today? Were the Reformers justified in their attempt to reform the RCC? Do you look for reconciliation with Rome?
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[ { "body": "\n>How closely do the modern Reformed churches adhere to the beliefs of the participants of the Reformation? \n\nIt depends on the church. \nHow closely do the modern Methodist churches adhere to the beliefs of the participants of the Methodists movement ? \n\nI'd say many of them are a FAR cry from the evangelistic energy and enthusiasm displayed in John Wesley. \n\n\n\n\n>What do you think of the Catholic Church of today? \n\nVery Arminian, superstitious and completely backwards from the teaching of scripture in so many ways.\nSalvation through sacraments and interpretation of scripture by pope alone. \n\nRoman Catholicism destroys the canon. As far as they are concerned scripture is still being written. \n\n\n>Were the Reformers justified in their attempt to reform the RCC? \n\nThat question makes no sense at all. The Christian is called to preach the Gospel to ALL. RC believer , Reformed believer and non believer alike . God's word is to reform EVERYONE.\n\n>Do you look for reconciliation with Rome?\n\nThis also doesn't make any sense.\n\nReconciliation with Rome would mean Rome converting to reformed theology.\n\nThey would have to renounce popery, reform all their practices concerning baptism and Eucharist and Mass. They would have to adhere to \n\nTULIP \nAnd\nThe 5 Solas\n\n", "score": 6 }, { "body": ">How closely do the modern Reformed churches adhere to the beliefs of the participants of the Reformation? \n\nRegarding the five solas of the Reformation (listed in the sidebar), I think we'd be pretty close in line to what the original Reformers thought. If you mean every point of doctrine discussed in those days, it depends on the church. We wouldn't *all* agree with them eschatologically, and since I am a baptist, I wouldn't agree with them on everything regarding baptism. But different churches and denominations would have varying degrees of closeness to what the early Reformers believed. Of course, there were small variations even within the early Reformers. We tend more towards Calvin and later the Westminster Confession around here.\n\nBut what makes us Reformed around here, well, check the sidebar. Reformed people are also generally very Calvinistic, which is what the TULIP part is about.\n\n>What do you think of the Catholic Church of today?\n\nI think that it misleads more people than it helps. I've heard some talk of Catholics who teach that salvation is only by grace through faith, but that is not the way most Catholics I have known preach it.\n\n>Were the Reformers justified in their attempt to reform the RCC?\n\nAbsolutely. They saw some problems in the church, and they started writing about them. In fact, Martin Luther only called the pope an antichrist after he had practically been kicked out of the Catholic church. Most of the Reformers left the Catholic church because they had to. They could do no other.\n\n>Do you look for reconciliation with Rome?\n\nNot really. I don't agree with their soteriology and I don't agree with the authority of the pope. If anyone preaches the gospel according to the scriptures and still wants to retain the title \"Roman catholic\" I won't declare them a pagan for it, but it just doesn't seem expedient and it isn't very common.\n\nI know that there are some Reformed around here who see it differently though.", "score": 3 } ]
A lot of people wish they were famous, Reddit, what is the closest you've come?
A couple weeks back I was asked to be an extra in [this commercial.](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7yoe4r6Wpk&feature=relmfu) (I'm Thor) Getting to be on the set was really cool, and put into perspective just how much time and effort goes into these things. Reddit, what is the closest thing you've done to being famous? *if you aren't already*
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[ { "body": "I don't have proof other than some easily disputable points, but I created this [comic](http://cache.ohinternet.com/images/thumb/9/92/Trollfaceproblem.jpg/500px-Trollfaceproblem.jpg)\n\n...AMA?", "score": 3 } ]
Share Your Startup (September 2012)
Hey, It's that time again! Let's hear about everyone's start-ups. New ones - who are you? Ones mentioned before - tell us about your progress. As for me, I am starting a new website similar to Groupon and LivingSocial expect its going to give away products for free. The website will be a platform for businesses to promote their brand through sweepstakes. Now comes the dark side, i am already stuck on the choosing a name for my website lol- **Any ideas?** Here's what i have come up with so far- *Truly Free *Oh my giveaway *No Way giveaway *AllYours *Takem *Freeway *Red Milk *New Joy *Mellow *Unwrap *Freebot *Frop *Zero dollar deals *I am serious Looking forward to reading about all the new Startups :)
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[ { "body": "[The ACT Study Guide] (https://www.actstudyguide.com)\n\nI'm an ACT tutor, and over the years I realized that most ACT prep was too complicated and way too expensive. I started making short, easy to use little packets with all the essential tips and tricks needed for the ACT test, and I gave them out to my students. The little study packets were a hit, and eventually I had more and more kids asking for copies of the study guides. I decided to create a website and sell the study guides online, and that's how my idea started.\n\nLaunched the website last week, had my first sale yesterday. Marketing is tough, but I've got a few ideas I'm working on.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "[Now I Know](http://nowiknow.com), my free \"learn something new every day\" email newsletter.\n\nThis time last year, I had 12,000 subscribers.\n\nNow, I'm at 82,000.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "[What's That Charge?!](http://www.whatsthatcharge.com) - An archive of those cryptic charges that appear on your statement, along with explanations. Google is our user interface.\n\nEDIT: Self-promotion: We're giving a $5 Amazon card to any Mint.com users who don't mind sharing their list of charges with us. No personal or sensitive information, just the way companies identify themselves on your statement:\n\nhttp://www.whatsthatcharge.com/addyourcharges", "score": 7 }, { "body": "[Hacker Jobs UK](http://www.hackerjobs.co.uk)\n\nThere's is a sincere lack of high quality job boards available for the tech community in the UK.\n\nThere are plenty of options for job seekers out there but they are either saturated by recruiters or the jobs are incredibly generic and middle of the road. We aim to fix that... eventually.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "[oHiring: Hire the best people from oDesk, Elance, and online](http://ohiring.com)\n\nI've hired countless people from outsourcing websites for my web agency- and the process is always terribly painful. Contractors lie, their feedback is inflated, and multiple choice tests don't tell you anything about a candidates' actual coding or design skills.\n\nWe built oHiring to help companies find the best contractors through these websites with a super simple way to send out technical tests and challenges. No scheduling needed. \n\nIn the long run, we aim to build a network of the most skilled contractors on these outsourcing sites, eliminating the need for repeat screens, and helping the best talent find the best employers. \n\nWe've launched 2 weeks ago and already have 40 amazing beta customers, and are looking for more. Look forward to your feedback! \n", "score": 4 }, { "body": "FreelanceMeet (http://www.freelancemeet.com)\n\nThis site will help freelancers find other talented, trusted freelancers to collaborate with on projects and send referrals to. \n\nIt's in the sign up phase right now, but I've received from good feedback so far. I'm heading to a Startup Weekend event tonight so hopefully I'll make some good contacts and start building my team!", "score": 3 }, { "body": "[Avratech Industries,](http://www.avratech.com/) a boutique paintball gun manufacturer. We build the [Retro 7](http://markerbids.com/pictures/retro4.JPG), a modernized version of the first paintball gun ever, the Nelspot 007. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "[Omnom!](http://omnom.com)\n\nFind delivery restaurants and order online. We're working on an app that will be similar to an urban spoon for delivery.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "[bookkeepy](http://www.bookkeepy.com) \n\nWeb-based bookkeeping software for Small businesses and the Self Employed - main priority of bookkeepy is to be a simple and easy-to-use application.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "We just launched in mid-July. www.egraphs.com\n\nOur product is a next generation autograph, created by a celebrity using an ipad, it includes a personally written note & signature along with an audio greeting. Everything is verified biometrically to ensure the celebrity is actually writing to you. \n\nWe've had a pretty good launch period with a lot of really happy customers. Now we're focusing on scale, building out a handful of features for easier navigation and upgrading our stack to Play2. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "[The Photo Lab](http://www.thephotolab.ca)\n\nProvides professional photo editing services to photographers and consumers. So far we've edited over 10,000 photos in the last 30 days alone!\n\nGraduated university this past June with both a BBA Marketing, and BBA Finance. Part-time I've been working in the photo imaging industry for the past 6 years and edited over 200,000 photographs. Decided it was time to make my own business. This is also only my part-time job on the side with my business partner as I am also a Marketing Manager for a multi-national software solutions company in Seattle, Dubai, and Qatar. In other words, I'm writing this in the 2 mins I have to spare today haha.", "score": 3 } ]
Camppit. Today is Friday and you can't wait to get out of work. What are you doing this weekend?
Hopefully this will be the start of another weekly post (see Wednesday's stupid question thread). Today is Friday - instead of sitting at your desk day dreaming about what you'll be doing outdoors this weekend, tell us about it! Maps, itineraries, pictures of packing up, whatever you have - show it to us and tell us about it.
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[ { "body": "This weekend I am working but next week my wife and I are doing 4 days (35 miles) on the AT along the TN-NC boarder.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Camping tonight!\n\nNothing spectacular, just a boring old campground at a lake in Georgia. But, I'm looking forward to the campfire and beer! Plus, my dog will get to swim a little.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Round Valley State Park, NJ... 5 mile hike to a lakeside campsite, stay overnight and hike out the next day.", "score": 3 } ]
A tour around the Royal York Hotel's kitchens (largest hotel kitchen in Canada)
Sorry that I couldn't just post a link to all the pics but they are from a variety of sources: [The Hotel](http://i.thestar.com/images/94/24/557ebf87444abb42967b5cb86928.jpeg) [Pastry Shop](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198995389/) [Garde Manger](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198994589/) [Garde Manger](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198994282/) [Entremets](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198999443/) [Banquets](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198995047/) [Soup & Sauce Line](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198996355/) [Main Kitchen Salt](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198996143/) [In Room Dining Cold Line](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198996829/) [York's Kitchen - Restaurant kitchen](http://www.flickr.com/photos/pdphotography/198998963/) [Honey Extraction](http://www.thegate.ca/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/Royal-York-Hotel_Honey-Harvest2.jpg) [Banquet Kitchen during Doors Open](http://www.flickr.com/photos/gailontheweb/516821790/) [Banquet Kitchen Steam Kettles](http://www.flickr.com/photos/gailontheweb/516850197/) [Rooftop Herb Garden](http://www.dinemagazine.ca/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/grdn1.jpg) [Same](http://www.dinemagazine.ca/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/grdn3.jpg) [Rooftop Bee Hives](http://www.dinemagazine.ca/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/honey3.jpg)
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[ { "body": "I've done some contract work in those kitchens before. How many cockroaches the size of small SUV's did you see when you did your tour?", "score": 8 }, { "body": "To save everyone the trouble because almost none of these links seem really relevant (wow someone making a sandwich... awesome.) just check the following in OP's post to get a scale of the size.\n\n- Soup & Sauce Line\n- York's Kitchen\n- Banquet Kitchen During Doors Open\n- Banquet Kitchen Steam Kettles\n\nAlso I did *not* know they had rooftop beehives! That's awesome.", "score": 3 } ]
[WSID] Fred Jackson is on the waivers, should I pick him up?
F. Jax got dropped by another team and I am fully loaded on RB. To pick him up, I need to drop a player... Trading to get another spot may be an option, but who should I trade...TEAM IS BELOW **Who should I drop?** and **should I pick him up?** * CJ Spiller * Andre Brown * Kevin Smith * Cedric Benson * Jacquizz Rodgers MY TEAM: QB: Brady RB: Andre Brown RB: CJ Spiller WR: Megatron WR: Bowe WR: Antonio Brown TE: Pitta DEF: SF K: Gostkowski BE: RG3, Matt Ryan, Benson, Jacquizz Rodgers, Jacob Tamme, Kevin Smith
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[ { "body": "You can safely drop Tamme here. \n\nThat being said, this right here is why keeping multiple TEs and QBs (and K, obv) is usually bad this early in the season. I can bet that the guy who dropped FJax has too many backups on his roster for non-WR/RBs too.\n\nIt's not just that you should rarely play your backups (though really, when are you going to bench Brady for Ryan or RG3?). It's that they eat into valuable bench spots for guys like FJax, Leshoure, Britt, etc. These guys have tons of upside but need time to return on your investment.\n\nDefinitely pick him up. :)", "score": 6 } ]
Need a plan for third trimester of pregnancy and post-delivery. Any ladies gotten back to pre-pregnancy workouts relatively quickly (and safely)?
(I posted this on /r/fitness and they suggested I should put this here. Thanks for the help!) I am 29, in good shape, and 27 weeks pregnant with my first child (just beginning the third trimester). I'm looking for a sensible plan to finish out my pregnancy and get back to my regular workouts ASAP after delivery. Pre-pregnancy workouts included running (3 - 5 miles), cycling, crossfit, kickboxing, step, boot camp, and body sculpting. At this point I am still running, kickboxing (on a bag and cardio kickboxing), cycling, doing step, and body sculpting. In addition to a daily workout, I walk my dogs for about 30 minutes every morning... more for their sanity than real exercise! What should I make sure to keep up all the way to delivery and what is the best way to safely return to my pre-pregnancy workouts quickly (best exercises, stretches, etc.)? Any advice is appreciated! Also, my diet has remained constant, low sugar, low fat. No real diet in particular, but basically Paleo + milk/whole grains. I have no real plans to follow a strict diet post pregnancy unless I find some compelling reason.
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[ { "body": "Why not just enjoy your pregnancy and maintain a regular diet, then when you have the baby rest and enjoy your new baby? Why rush these things. It is your first child...enjoy the experience. Perhaps walk them in the stroller when you are done delivering...and walk. Don't do anything crazy. You are going to need your rest, and deserve it. When YOU feel good, then add things in. You need to listen to your body though. However, enjoy your new baby...\n\nAlso good luck and I hope you are both healthy. ", "score": 37 }, { "body": "The general rule of thumb is that if you were fairly athletic before pregnancy, you can continue to do what you'd been doing (maintain your fitness) as long as you feel comfortable. \n\nHowever, if you're trying to *improve* your fitness, this can be much tougher - recovery takes longer, nutrients are more scarce, your blood pressure is higher, and cooling down is increasingly more difficult. If you ever feel too hot or out of breath, stop and cool down. Fitness gains are hard while pregnant. \n\nAs your weight goes up in the third trimester, so will your individual metabolism. \n\nAnd with your pregnancy, your metabolic rate is already pushing pretty high. In the third trimester your total metabolism is between 20% and 25% higher than your non-pregnancy rate. The third trimester is by far the most energy intensive - from 100-300 calories per day to build fetal tissue and maintain it in 2nd trimester, it doubles to 300-500 calories per day to build fetal tissue and maintain it in 3rd trimester. \n\n**Know that while 20% of the protein deposition that will occur during pregnancy happens in the first and second trimesters, 80% happens in the 3rd trimester.**\n\nThroughout your pregnancy, your ligaments are fairly loose will continue to loosen, which means your joints are less stable. Attempting to lift heavier than normal could increase your risk of injury. \n\nSources: \n\nhttp://web.utk.edu/~cpah/PregnancyPage/Changes09.html\n\nhttp://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21124024\n\nhttp://www.fao.org/docrep/007/y5686e/y5686e0a.htm\n\n**TL;DR:** The 3rd trimester can be seriously taxing by itself. Pay close attention to how you feel. ", "score": 15 }, { "body": "Check out [Kellie Davis' Mother Fitness](http://www.motherfitness.com/about/). There should be plenty of info there for you. ", "score": 3 } ]
Did anyone else have to repeat week 4?
I just "finished" W4D3, and this is the only week I haven't been able to get through. Granted I did much better today than I did W4D1, but I still couldn't make it through the 5 minute runs. I'm slowing down but still getting tired. I don't know if it's just an off week for me, because I've been fine until now. It's very frustrating. I think I'll repeat it this week but it's making me nervous for the rest of the program!
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[ { "body": "I just finished week 3 this morning. I looked at week 4 and instantly got freaked. My wife finished the program, and I'm pretty sure she had to repeat week 4. She said that it's okay to repeat weeks. Your body is getting used to this. If you can't do it after a week, do it again, and the whole time you'll be increasing your stamina. Keep going!", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I did the W3 workout 5-6 times, and I'm glad I did because W4 has been great. I suggest repeating it until you succeed 3 times total. Just do what you have to do and take your time. :) ", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I did week 3 for two weeks (yeah, not running during lady crampy time) and I failed W4D1, so I'm pretty sure I'll have two weeks into that one too. It's such a big jump in total running time, too much for me apparently.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "i've finished week 4 day 2 on wednesday and I am sure I will repeat week 4. Even though I can make it through the runs I've slowed down so much during them, i think i am faster with my brisk walking.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Repeat it! No shame there at all!\n\nPersonally, I ended up doing two extra days of Week 4 and then even did W5D2 a total of three times before I decided to go all out and do my W5D3.\n\nWith those extra days in the bag, I was able to do W5D3 without many issues other than a massive amount of sweat. ;)", "score": 3 } ]
Faith build... bad idea for first playthrough?
Hey all, I just got this game a few days ago and figured I'd make a Faith build (since that was pretty fun in Dark Souls). But I'm wondering if this was ultimately the right choice since instead of upping Faith, I have to up Intelligence as well to get enough mana for the miracles (which gives me kinda useless spell slots as well). Equipment-wise I only use the moonlight sword right now, but I haven't found any other Faith-scaling weapons or other equipment yet... So ultimately I'm wondering if it's even worth upping Faith any more than I have right now, since the only attack spell takes 100 MP so I can only cast it a single time -> kinda useless, and for the healing I have more than enough healing items anyway, and I haven't found any other worthy miracles yet nor any better weapons.
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[ { "body": "The best first playthrough is always going to be a blind playthrough, in my opinion.\n\n\nHowever, Faith based is a great way to go. Its going to be tough at first, but once you get the Blessed Mace in 5-1, and pump that up, you should be fine.\n\nHaving your Health Regen, with the Adjudicator Shield, Re generator Ring, as well as your Blessed Weapon kicking in, is awesome, in my opinion.\n\n\nIf you don't like the Mace, a Blessed MIrdan Hammer, is an amazing weapon. ", "score": 4 } ]
Good Morning! HAPPY FRIDAY!
Good Morning Random Acts of Polishers! I hope everyone's Friday goes swimmingly. I am hoping my husband goes to work today, he was home sick yesterday and he is such a baby when he is sick, its a little tiring. Today I will tell a story, because seriously I think of this every Friday. When I was in high school, like a million years ago, I had an awesome physics teacher, and every Friday he would stand outside his classroom between classes and enthusiastically yell at the top of his lungs "ITS FRIDAY!!!!" My high school was small-ish and you could hear it echoing the hallways throughout the entire school. It always made me happy. So Today I am that person, happily yelling as loud as I can that "ITS FRIDAY!" because weekends are fun. I am going to see Dredd this weekend because I have a silly fan girl crush on Karl Urban. He will be in a helmet the entire movie, but that is okay, he has one of those voices that I could listen to him reading the phone book and be happy about it. I have a thing for a unique voice, Patrick Stewart, Ian McKellen, Benedict Cumberbach, Morgan Freeman, you get the idea. What are your plans this weekend?
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[ { "body": "Well today I am staying home from work on scheduled time off (4-day weekend for my birthday). I'm thinking of taking in some junk jewelry and old coins to a jeweler to see if I can sell them for anything. Then I'm going to get a quote on getting window tint in my new car, because it's hot otherwise (and I like my privacy). \n\nTomorrow, my mother and I will be making/canning peach jam, which is what I requested as a birthday gift. I've never canned before, and peach jam is something my Gramy used to make. She died last year shortly after her 101st birthday, but it's probably been 20 years since she made jam. So I am excited, even though I know it'll be some amount of work. \n\nSunday, my husband and I are going up to Ikea so he can buy me my birthday present - a Helmer. Eeeee!!!", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Tonight Im watching my honey play at open Mic night, he said he is going to play/sing me a special song tonight, I wonder what it could be! Then Saturday I have no idea and Sunday we are doing pictures for our 4 year anniversary and fall photos for christmas cards :>. \n\nBy the way.....Sexy times was commenced last night....and afterwards I totally thanked you...my SO didn't even question it, he thought I was just crazy talkin because ORGASM. lol", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I'm actually excited it's Friday, because for once I'm off on Saturday! It feels like it's been forever! \n\nRight after work we're headed off to the In-Law's for the weekend. Going to the fair tomorrow, which I'm pretty excited about, if only because I get to eat ridiculous food.\n\nWhy are men such HUGE BABIES when they're sick? Geeze. Grow a pair.", "score": 3 } ]
Scottish Problems Logo Competition
FINAL EDIT: The competition is over, and /u/thescroogle has provided us with a pure brilliant logo! There's gold on the way to you bud! *************** EDIT: The logo stays for now, as we've had no submissions. If you have created one you can still submit it, and we'll take a look :) *************** So the Scottish Problems logo is more geared toward Glasgow at the moment(not that we consider Wellington's Traffic Cone a problem), so I was thinking we could do a community challenge. If any of you out there are good at Photoshop, we'd like you to have a go at making a new version of the Reddit Alien for the subreddit, geared toward every day problems in Scotland! If you are interested, submit your entry in this thread, and we'll get to voting for the best one! Whichever gets the most votes by 30/09/2012 will become the new logo (barring any 4chan shenanigans)! Good luck!
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[ { "body": "The wee guy will need to be rained on. And how can you show low self-esteem in 130 pixels? There's a challenge.", "score": 5 } ]
Ultimate Harry Potter Duel: Sirius vs Fleur
Welcome folks to match number two. In this match we have Sirius vs Fleur. [Here are the rules](http://www.reddit.com/r/harrypotter/comments/10366e/come_one_come_all_to_the_ultimate_wizard_duel_32/) and [Here is an updated bracket](http://imgur.com/mhFTQ) Voting is simple leave a comment with who you think should win and why. In one corner we have the fan girls favorite hunk. The godfather himself [Sirius Black](http://harrypotter.wikia.com/wiki/Sirius_Black). Master of the arts Black managed to hide from the ministry for 3 years before his untimely death. He is also an animagus turning into a huge dog. Can he rip Fleur to shreds or is his bark worse than his bite? In the other corner I have [Fleur Delacour](http://harrypotter.wikia.com/wiki/Fleur_Delacour) Beauxbatons champion and wife of Bill Weasley. Can she muster up the magic to defeat Sirius himself. She did survive the Battle of the 7 Potters. Or will she not make it past ze dog. Ok guys Vote vote vote vote vote. You have until 10AM 9/22/2012. Make it count THIS IS NOT a popularity contest. Please try and upvote.
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[ { "body": "Sirius. It wouldn't even be close. He'd absolutely tear Fleur to shreds in a duel.\n\nOn an somewhat related note, Sirius is my pick to win the whole damned thing. ", "score": 8 }, { "body": "Sirius is very talented and was a member of the order in the first and second wizard war. And it was said that in the first war the order was at a major disadvantage so surviving that is a testament of skill and experience. He also created the marauders map together with James and Remus.\n\nThe only thing Fleur has going for her is her veela charm to throw him off.\n\nI'm giving it Sirius, unless the veela charm has effect on Sirius.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Sirius. Member of the order, way more experienced wizard, and Fleur couldn't make it past the grindylows in goblet of fire..", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Sirius.\n\nProficient enough in the depths of magic to master animagus illegally and at such a young age, as well as one of the contributors to the Marauder's Map. Labelled as exceptionally bright in his school years, and I doubt the veela charm would work (it can be implied he cared less about specific female attention as opposed to James in school, although better looking; his streak of conceitedness could probably rebuff veela charm).\n\nAlthough outplayed by his cousin in the Ministry (at which I could argue he could have been at a disadvantage, having to worry about Harry perhaps and not fully concentrating due to having to work around everyone else fighting), I daresay he's an excellent one-on-one combatant, as long as his cockiness doesn't get the better of him.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Fleur - She is strong (stabile in her mind), beautiful, very young and Sirius was a bit crazy and did not think before he did something, he was great before he went to Azkaban. ", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Sirius. He is an active member of the order of the phoenix, both times which is all the more impressive since he was hardly more than a child the first time. He can perform extraordinary magic, becoming an animagus for instance or creating the marauders map. The only thing that might go against him is that he would be a bit big headed (for good reason).\n\nI am sure Fleur is a talented witch, she got chosen by the goblet of fire after all, but she will not be able to stand up to Sirius. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Sirius, for sure. Though Fleur could try to seduce him, and considering 12 years in Azkaban with only Dementors for company, he would probably be tempted. :P But no, Sirius would win. He was incredibly bright and talented and he's got his animagus form on his side if he was in a fix.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Going to go against the popular opinion and say Fleur. She's an incredibly strong woman (that most of the fandom hates) and Sirius is a reckless teenager who never grew up. I still love him though.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I actually think it would be a very close match. True, Fleur couldn't get past a grindylow, but she got past a Welsh Green... They're both talented magicians for sure, and I think Fleur would put up one hell of a fight. Despite this, we know that Sirius has some tricks up his sleeve. He too proved himself to be an extraordinarily skilled wizard at the age of 15 (Animagus). I vote Sirius.", "score": 3 } ]
Successful Reddit Meetup
Just thought I would briefly post about the reddit meetup this wednesday. 4 Redditors turned up at Royal Oak. We enrolled Team Fap Fap Fap into the pub quiz - but unfortunately we came out penultimate at the end of the night (out of 9 teams). Quite ironic that we spend time day in day out immersing ourselves in trivial on reddit but still got well beaten on trivial by others :P But good times otherwise. Plan to meet up again around end of October. Will post about it around then.
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[ { "body": "I don't live in Thailand but I am subscribed to the the sub-Reddit. It makes me happy to hear it all went well. Maybe I'll join you guys one day!", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Doesn't sound too successful to me. . . :) cheers and we need to have a weekly reddit meetup going on that is less Fap based. We live in the Land of Smiles for god sakes. The last place in the world that the word fap needs to be mentioned.\n", "score": 5 } ]
Two Ents and .5oz of OG Kush [8]
So a frient and I were hotboxing the car around 7:30am when we hear a knock against the glass. Against my better judgement and protests he rolls the window down to find my neighbor, an elderly lady of roughly 60 years, standing outside the car. Before I could start panicking she asked if she could join us while producing half oz of her own trees and 3 blunt wraps. I have learned many things from my new wise friend.
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[ { "body": "Old people smoking pot I can believe. I work with a man in his 60s who does a greater variety of drugs right now than I have in my entire life.\n\nWhat I can't believe, is old people smoking blunts.", "score": 56 }, { "body": "Hell yeah! I wish that shit happened all the time. One time I was at my neighbors, and it was a duplex, there was a girl sitting outside on the porch, about 20 years old, and I looked at my friENT and said *Bro, she's smoking a cigarette, we gotta go over and see if she smokes bud, because this bowl would be better smoked in a group of 3* And so we go over, start chatting talking about work, what we do for fun, asked if she parties, and then dropped the question of if she smokes weed, and she said *Hell yes I do!* and I said *wanna go smoke a bowl?* and she went inside and grabbed her glass piece and we wont for a stroll down the street with this new neighbor of my friends, and it was a good night. ", "score": 28 }, { "body": "Flip flop hippity hop, off your rocker and over the top. Life sucks and the world's a lie, so put on some credence and let's get high !!!!!!", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I feel like self-post Friday has become an excuse for individuals to make up fantastical far-fetched stories about getting high with the elderly.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I had a 60-ish year old frient once. She was a crazy hippie lady who would do weird trance dances in my living room when she was high. She called herself Serendipity, and she was pretty cool for a while. It got a bit crazy at the end.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Pics or it didn't happen lol\n\nThis shit never happens, nobody is this carefree about weed these days. Everybody is a suspect now. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "A lot of 60 yo people smoke trees. I mean it was not something uncommon when they were young (in the 60s,70s) and some people like to keep it real till the end.", "score": 3 } ]
Anyone else into... *ahem*.. guys on the huskier side?
Hiya bros! So, I guess I've been thinking a lot about whom I am attracted to, and have noticed that I *almost always* go for guys on the huskier side--as in, 'chubs' (and I loathe using the word, because I think that gay-stereotype thing is overly simplistic, and only serves to further segregate). Something about a guy with a belly, and love for food just gets me going. This is not to say I am exclusively attracted to this bodytype, but I find a "gut and muscle" combo very alluring. I find myself wondering--anyone else here feel the same way? In a strange way, I find it very masculine. Thoughts?
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[ { "body": "You know what we call ourselves? CHUBBY MOTHER FUCKING CHASERS. That's right be proud!! Love them big asses! Love that broad chest!! Those large shoulders. Mmmmmm that wide back. Uhem. \nAnyways, you're not alone. ;D r/gaybears also exists ", "score": 27 }, { "body": "God bless men like you. I personally don't get it (I like my men somewhat lean), but if you want me to enjoy food and be real and have opinions on music and restaurants and beer instead of workouts and supplements and nair, I will HAPPILY do that. Every day of the week.\n\nI think 15 year-old me didn't quite believe there would be a day that people would care for my personality more than my body. He DEFINITELY wouldn't have believed that people would prefer my body. It's a nice early-20s wakeup present.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "I find guys on the chubby side to be more... real? Is that an ok word? They aren't at the gym 24/7. They're normal guys. I like it. I also have a thing for blue collar dudes.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "I judge a person based on the complete package. Not their looks in a vacuum (are they blond, chiseled, etc) but how they work with what they've got. I've met really sexy husky guys (fuck I've been one) and I've met really unappealing ones. The difference has far more to do with their personalities and how they carried themselves than any aspect of their physical features.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "I don't know if I'm into it to the point of \"chubs\" but I do prefer beefier/thicker guys. Skinny twink types do not do it for me at all. I mean, my ideal would be a beefy muscular ripped dude, but if I set my expectations realistically I would rather have a thicker guy with an extra layer or two than a super skinny dude with an 8 pack. I think the whole \"frat guy who was probably a ripped jock in highschool but now drinks slightly too much beer\" look is so fucking hot for some reason", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Nothing wrong with that at all. Like what you like and fuck whatever anyone else thinks. I find tons of husky to beefy guys very attractive. The whole zero percent body fat thing doesn't present masculinity and strength to me. It presents malnutrition and narcissism. ", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I think husky/chubby/bear guys are fucking hot. I think my perfect man would be a mix of all three. Strong, thickly muscled, covered in padding, and hairy.\n\n::weak knees::", "score": 4 }, { "body": "thoughts? *yesplz*\n\nits also fun to get them stoned...avarice.\n\n^Minimum ^requirements ^for ^this ^ride ^include ^weight ^over ^250", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I've got a little Pudge, and I almost think that a little Pudge is my favorite body type, not too much fat, just enough to know there is muscle underneath not just flab. I think it's hot for some guys.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I'm not into \"chubs\", as in worryingly obese men. But I love a guy with a bit of meat on him. Chubbiness is good. Hell, I frequent /r/gaybears", "score": 3 } ]
Best BL2 character for a solo player who just wants to mess stuff up?
I will shortly be getting my BL2 on, and although I am likely to play through more than once I was wondering what your thoughts are on the best player. I'm not into co-op, and I'm on Xbox and don't have gold anyway. My play style is rather impatient and gung-ho, so I'll tend to in all guns blazing with little thought for taking cover, so I am initially attracted to Salvador, but I played through the first game as Roland and loved it, and I've heard some say Axton's turret is beneficial for a solo player as a support. So, your thoughts?
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[ { "body": "Axton's turret is amazing with rocket pods. I drop it while I run so it can farm xp off of a Mob area while I go to my next objective.\n\nAlso it kicks ass against anything ever. \n\nedit: except crystalites, it never hits the crit spots", "score": 51 }, { "body": "I chose to play as Zer0, and it's still pretty fun. I think with whichever character you choose, you'll have a good time!", "score": 31 }, { "body": "I'm using Axton and I've only played solo so far so I can only speak for him, but the turret really is a boon. Make sure to use it often, because Axton isn't a complete killing machine without it.", "score": 11 }, { "body": "Probably the Gunzerker. You can build for health regen, increased skill use, etc.\n\nIf you have a bit of patience, the Siren's catalyst tree is amazing for wrecking enemies. You can build your phaselock to slag and deal fire, electric, and corrosive damage to the target and all surrounding enemies. Oh, your bullets also leave behind an acid cloud. And bullets that hit enemies while phaselocked can ricochet and hit an additional enemy. This type of thing goes on and on. It's a pretty fun class.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "Gunzerker hands down. I can't tell you how many times I was screwed over in the original Borderlands because I had no ammo. With the Gunzerker he replenishes ammo over time when using his ability.\n\nPlus who doesn't want to dual wield shotguns or rocket launchers?", "score": 7 }, { "body": "\"Impatient.\" \"Gung-ho.\" \"In all guns blazing with little thought for taking cover.\"\n\nI mean, he is called the gunzerker for a reason.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Probably Sal... But unlike BL1, the characters do not have a \"class Weapon\". So you could still go guns blazing with Axton.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Ive played every class with my main being a siren spected to support. But you can solo with any character. You can build all four of them to have a \"gung ho\" play style. Salvador is meant for that. But axton with the gurrilla tree build then secondary gunpowder tree is crazy intense. Then you have zero, who can turn into a fucking invisible shotgun ninja using a bloodshed tree build then secondary cunning tree. Now maya, you can have a cataclysm tree build with secondary motion tree. When you phaselock something, it pulls everyone around close to it like a singularity grenade, then bursts everyone on fire, then shocks, corrodes, and slags everything. You really cant go wrong. You just have to know your builds.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "So far she has not been mantioned (edit: yes she had been, but i didn't see it), so let me show you the virtues of Maya. If you go down the Harmony tree, you will get a lot of survivavility and health; on the motion tree you will find some good deffensive abilities and phaselock increases for crowd control. Finally the cataclysm tree, which I am using, makes me create badass fire explosions and constant fire damage when I have an enemy phaselocked and clouds of acid every time I shoot an enemy. \n\nI think that every character works, just have it your way :D", "score": 4 }, { "body": "i would go with siren. in BL1 almost everyone played as siren because of phasewalk and lilith was just straight up OP. everyone seems to think they really nerfed her but i don't think so. i'm doing a playthrough with my friend i'm maya and he's zero, and there have been plenty of times where he dies and respawns far away and i'm left with a lot of enemies and i don't normally have any trouble. phaselock is a lot more handy than i thought it would be.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "If you're really gun ho and love running in and causing chaos then try out gunzerker. He's great for destructive excitement.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Either Gunzerker or Siren. I've been playing Gunzerker along my friend's Siren and we both just run in and wreck shit. The Cataclysm tree makes Phase Lock a beast and it can devastate areas. Gunzerker is... you get to shoot two guns! I know it doesn't sound like much, but literally doubling your DPS is huge. If you go that route, I suggest hitting the far left tree until you get the \"killing something reloads all weapons not equipped\" skill. Then... do what you want. I just know that that one skill is amazing and lets you wreck everything with barely a hitch (upgraded weapon swap speed helps too). I can't really talk much about Siren, but she hangs right in there with Gunzerkers. \n\nGeneral Salvador advice:\n\n1. Don't get tunnel vision. It's easy to when you gunzerk, but when you get surrounded, you die.\n\n2. Gunzerk when your clips are full. Otherwise you waste time reloading when you could be shooting.\n\n3. You aren't invincible when you gunzerk. You get health regen, but you can still die.\n\n4. If you're in an open area that you've cleared and are on your way to turn something in, gunzerk with the guns you're low on ammo. The ammo regen is nice and the cool down is really not that long.", "score": 3 } ]
[20m] Is it wrong to sleep with a non-blood related aunty?
Hey, title tells you the meat of the question[she is 38 btw]. There have been obvious signals, and I'm just in a bit of a mess in deciding on what to do in the situation. She has kids that i know fairly well, and she is seprated from her husband. Thanks!
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[ { "body": "She is separated but not divorce - Strike 1\n\nBlood or no blood - there will be family drama once it is known - Strike 2\n\nYou are friends with her kids - Strike 3\n\nShe is outside the half + 7 rule - Strike 4\n\nYou are conflicted, brain says no penis says yes. Don't do it!", "score": 71 }, { "body": "It might not be wrong in the incestual way, but it still feels off and is a bad idea. \n\nShe's in the middle of a split, and she's depressed/lonely and probably making bad decisions. Part of her might be wanting to know she's still attractive to men after all these years. If you have sex with her, you'll both feel good physically for a day or so, and then you're both going to feel like crap... eventually. \n\nLet's be honest. Neither your family nor hers would support a romantic relationship. At some point, things would end. Then, you'll have these awkward situations where your \"aunt\" comes over. It might even make it so she no longer is friends with your parents. You'd ruin a lot of good things by being with her physically. \n\nAgain, it might feel good or right for a short while, but it WILL blow up eventually. Don't do it. ", "score": 17 }, { "body": "It's not wrong in any way but you should consider any sort of consequences you may have to deal with (family drama-wise) if her kids find out/something goes wrong/etc. Might not be worth it", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Usually I would say it would be ok, but since she's technically still married and you know her husband and kids pretty well, please don't! You're going to cause a shit storm in your family! This kind of thing is only ok if your family doesn't get together much and isn't very close. And even then you'd probably get a lot of flack for it", "score": 5 } ]