Cozy Chicks: In an instant ... gone.
In an instant ... gone.
Ossie -- on top of the bathroom mirror.
I had planned to talk about my garden. (Such as it is.) But then real life reared its ugly head.
We never know when someone we love will be instantly snatched from our lives. Eleven years ago this week, my cousin lost his middle child to a car accident. It happened so fast. One day here ... one day gone. It's a devastating loss his family has never recovered from.
Something similar happened to my sister-in-law just yesterday. No, she didn't lose a child. She never had children. But she has cats. Or she had cats.
She went away on vacation for a few days leaving her beloved cats in the care of the cat sitter she's trusted and used for more than a decade. On Wednesday the cat sitter said her boy was fit as a fiddle. Less than 24 hours later my sister in law came home to find her boy dead in the middle of her living room. There was blood around his mouth, but no other sign of trauma.
Ossie was a bad boy. He was constantly in trouble. He bugged his housemate Mollie. He broke things. He climbed places where he shouldn't have gone. He should have been named Mischief, because that was what he was always into, and my sister in law loved him more fiercely than she ever loved a pet.
I know exactly how that feels. I have had many cats over the years, and I've loved them all. But once in a lifetime there seems to be a pet that demands more love from you than any other. For me, that's my tiny son, Fred.
Like Ossie, Fred is constantly in trouble. He should have been a greyhound. He loves to run. And even more, he loves to chase things. Or rather, he loves to chase the other cats. He talks. OMG, does he talk. But mostly at night...when the rest of us are trying to sleep. He has kitty OCD. That means sometimes he just runs and runs and runs and the worst thing you can do is pet a cat when it's suffering from that. Except ... if I pet him when he's hyper, he calms right down. Not for anybody else, but I seem to have the magic touch.
Rest in peace, Ossie, and know that you were deeply loved.
I'm so sorry Ossie passed away. I know your sister-in-law's heart is broken. I have five dogs, two of whom are 13 years old. I can't even think of losing them. I'm sending comforting vibes to you & your sister-in-law. I hope Ossie's wonderful,quirky antics are great memories for everyone who loved Ossie.
I have been where your sil is right now, and it is a horrible place. My last cat was with me from the day she was born until she passed away at almost 20 yrs. She was my family, and it hurts like losing a family member, although not everyone understands that. My sympathies are with her as she grieves her loss.
Our Golden mutt died suddenly...I didn't know they can appear fine fine but get a tumor that can rupture and they bleed out before you know what's happening. I wish no one would ever have to feel that. I always tell bereaved fur parents to be extra kind to themselves during the grieving.Our pets would never want to cause us pain so I believe it brings them peace if they see we are gentle with ourselves.
Thank you all for your kind words. I'm always sad when a friend or relative looses a pet but for some reason--even though I never met Ossie--I feel like I've lost a pet because my SIL kept us up to date on all his antics and sent us many pictures.
My heart goes out to your SIL. Last year I lost a cat that I had a special relationship with. I still miss him. His passing made way (without my seeking her) for another kitty that was unhappy in the home she had. Glad I was able to rescue her, but I still miss Little One.
Rita, I'm so sorry you lost your cat last year, but happy that you could give another cat a good forever home.
So sorry for the loss of Ossie. Please convey my thoughts to your sister in law. I have lost pets and every one is painful.
My heart goes out to your sister-in-law.