To be able to control your emotion and be unmoved/uninterested/unbothered nowadays is 'strength'. But humans have evolved emotions for a reason (quite complex system btw), so are we evolving backwards or in a circle? Or are some people to weak to handle the displayed emotions? In the same breath I hasten to add to understand the benefits of controlling your emotions in a confrontation

In a real fight:
* If you make a bad decision, you die.
* If you don't decide anything, you die.
Aikido teaches you how to decide.www.aikido-makato.nl