when people discuss matters about sexual and physical abuse and harassment against women, it’s not about ignoring what happens to men or their man fee fees. those are important too, but shouldn’t be used as tools to derail or dwarf the other subject. doesnt mean we can’t all talk about them. to butt in and say “WELL MEN HAVE THIS HAPPEN TOO” or “NOT ALL MEN” is like me talking about the endangered species of a rainforest frog and saying part of the problem is the tree snake, and another biologist bursting in and saying “NOT ALL TREE SNAKES” or “TREE SNAKES HAVE BEEN VICTIMIZED BY POISONOUS FROGS”, instead of being like “hm okay that’s a problem for the frog. Gee i wonder why the tree snakes are suddenly overindulging on a frog diet. maybe it’s because of the patriarchal spider monkey making the tree snake’s life a living hell, as well as the rest of the jungle’s lifeforms, and eating other foods the snakes need. i wonder what can be done to make lives easier for both the rainforest frog and the tree snake.”

you get where I’m going with this? probably not, because everyone has reading comprehension problems it seems.

and quite possibly have not watched enough Animal Planet XD