what are the rules to be a foster parent?
["Don't take things personally. ... ", "Don't take things personally. ... ", 'Foster children are going to have problems, but all kids have problems. ... ', 'The specter of adoption. ... ', "No matter how much you think you've been around, prepare to be shocked.", 'Clothes. ... ', 'Education. ... ', 'Try your damndest with the birth parents.']