We choose our own character traits but we could be influences by other people and it our decision in weather doing what the rest of the people are doing and being influences by them we should take a position on the issue and to be influence but by our own selfs and not pretending who we are really not just because the rest of the people are doing it, it doesn't mean that we have to do it to it our choose and decision in weather doing it or not, we should be influences by our own form and beyond of our own control and letting nobody controlling us let live our own life.