One that they were unable to grieve because they were the strong one who held the family together, or whose feelings of outrage and anger were unacceptable or unmanageable at the time or because the loss of the breadwinner catapulted the family into a precipitous fall losing home, community and means of support.
Zato što nisu bili u stanju tugovati jer su oni, ili ona jaka osoba koja je držala obitelj na okupu, ili su osoba čiji osjećaji bijesa i ljutnje su neprihvatljivi ili neizvodljivi u to vrijeme, ili zbog gubitka uzdržavatelja što je katapultiralo obitelj u strmoglavi pad gubitkom doma, zajednice i sredstva potpore.