And shame is really easily understood as the fear of disconnection: Is there something about me that, if other people know it or see it, that I won't be worthy of connection?
Dan rasa malu memang  mudah difahami sebagai bimbang  sekiranya tidak terhubung: Sekiranya,  sesuatu tentang saya, diketahui atau dilihat orang, saya tidak akan layak terhubung?