And in the presence of contempt, whether or not deception follows -- and it doesn't always follow -- look the other way, go the other direction, reconsider the deal, say, "No thank you. I'm not coming up for just one more nightcap. Thank you."
Dhe ne pranine e perbuzjes, edhe nese mashtrimi bie poshte -- dhe kjo nuk ndodh shpesh -- shikojeni anen tjeter, shkoni ne tjetrin drejtim rishqyrtojeni marreveshjen, thoni "Jo faleminderit. Nuk do te vij vetem per nje endje te vogel.