It's a word that's pretty much not used for little boys, because if a little boy leads,  there's no negative word for it, it's expected. But if a little girl leads, she's bossy.
Eshte nje fjale qe rralle perdoret per djemte, sepse kur nje djale i vogel udheheq, kjo gje nuk pershkruhet me fjale negative, sepse eshte e pritshme. Por kur nje vajze e vogel udheheq, atehere ajo eshte prepotente.