They might notice. Or worse, if you say "woman,"  people on the other end of the table think you're asking for special  treatment, or complaining.
Ata e kuptojne. Ose edhe me keq, nese permend  fjalen "grua", njerezit perballe teje mendojne se je duke kerkuar nje trajtim te vecante,  ose je duke u ankuar per dicka.