We need to elongate the time frame upon which we judge the balance in our life, but we need to elongate it without falling into the trap of the "I'll have a life when I retire, when my kids have left home, when my wife has divorced me, my health is failing, I've got no mates or interests left."
Na duhet te zgjasim kohen ne te cilen te gjykojme balancen e jetes tone, por na duhet ta zgjasim pa rene ne kurthin e "oh do kem jete kur te dal ne pension, kur femijet kane ikur nga shtepia, kur jam divorcuar me gruan, shendeti eshte keq, nuk me kane me ngelur shoke ose interesa."