But some time ago, I came to a realization that I wasn't getting much better at the things I cared most about, whether it was being a husband or a friend or a professional or teammate, and I wasn't improving much at those things even though I was spending a lot of time working hard at them.
Dar acum ceva timp, mi-am dat seama că nu deveneam mai bun la lucrurile la care țineam cel mai mult, de la a fi soț sau prieten până la a fi profesionist sau coleg, şi nu deveneam mai bun la lucrurile acestea deși petreceam mult timp muncind din greu la ele.