The eulogy virtues are the ones that get mentioned in the eulogy, which are deeper: who are you,  in your depth, what is the nature of your relationships, are you bold, loving, dependable, consistency?
Calităţile epitafului sunt cele menţionate într-un epitaf, mai profunde: cine eşti ca personalitate, ce relaţii ai, eşti îndrăzneţ, iubitor, de încredere, sincer?