These aren't just people being jerks. These are people that are saying, look, I don't want to talk to you now, or I didn't want to talk to you then, but I still care about you.
하지만 이런건 사람들이  못됬기 때문이 아니에요. 단지 지금 당장이나 그때  말하기 싫었을 뿐이지 상대방을 그래도 걱정해 주고는 있는겁니다.