But some time ago, I came to a realization that I wasn't getting much better at the things I cared most about, whether it was being a husband or a friend or a professional or teammate, and I wasn't improving much at those things even though I was spending a lot of time working hard at them.
하지만 얼마전에 깨닫게 되었는데 제가 중요시하는 일의 실력이  더 나아지질 않는다는 것입니다. 남편으로서든, 친구로서든 전문가나 동료로서 말이죠. 그리고 이런 것에 시간을 많이 투자하고 열심히 하는데도 제 실력은 발전하지 않았습니다.