The difference between couples who sustain a strong sexual connection and the ones who don't is not that they don't experience these difficult hurt feelings, it's that they turn towards those difficult feelings with kindness and compassion so that they can set them free and find their way back to each other.
La diferencia entre parejas que  mantienen una fuerte conexión sexual y parejas que no, no es que no experimenten estos  sentimientos que los dañan, si no que se enfrentan a esos sentimientos con ternura y compasión para que los puedan liberar y puedan volver a aproximarse uno al otro.