And when your person dies, your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, literally don't care if you were married, your friends and your family are just going to look around through friends of friends of friends of friends until they find someone who's gone through something similar, and then they'll push you towards each other so you can talk amongst yourselves and not get your sad on other people.
Y cuando se te muere una persona, ya sea marido, esposa, novia, novio --la verdad no importa  si estabas casado-- tus amigos y familiares van a indagar por medio de amigos de amigos de amigos de amigos hasta que encuentren a alguien  que pasó por algo similar, y los harán reunirse para que puedan hablar entre Uds. y no trasmitan su tristeza a otra gente.