What made disagreement tolerable, what it made it possible for us to share a life, even when we didn't share a faith, was a virtue, but one, I think, that is perhaps less aspirational and a lot more confrontational than the one that people who talk about civility a lot today tend to have in mind.
Lo que hizo tolerable el desacuerdo, lo que nos permitió compartir una vida, incluso cuando no compartimos una fe, era una virtud, pero una, creo,  tal vez sea menos aspiracional y mucho mas confrontacional que la gente que habla  mucho de civilidad hoy tiende a tener en cuenta.