We're told that civility is simply a synonym for respect, for good manners, for politeness, but at the same time, it's clear that to accuse someone of incivility is much, much worse than calling them impolite, because to be uncivil is to be potentially intolerable in a way that merely being rude isn't.
Nos dicen que la civilidad es  simplemente un sinónimo de respeto, de buenos modales, de cortesía, pero al mismo tiempo, está claro  que acusar a alguien de incivilidad es mucho, mucho peor  que llamarlos maleducados, porque ser incívico es ser  potencialmente intolerable de una manera en que  simplemente ser grosero no lo es.