And more importantly, if their childhood has not been lived according to a tyrannical checklist then when they get to college, whichever one it is, well, they'll have gone there on their own volition, fueled by their own desire, capable and ready to thrive there.
A co více, pokud neprožili dětství  podle tyranského seznamu, když jdou na vysokou, ať je to jakákoli, jdou tam z vlastní volby, hnáni vlastní touhou, schopni a připraveni tam prosperovat.