And I think the reality is that love is a process, and I think the problem with thinking of love as something that's binary is that it causes us to be unduly concerned that love is fraudulent, or inadequate, or what have you.
V resnici pa je ljubezen proces in problem pri dojemanju ljubezni kot nečesa, kar je razdvojeno je, da povzroča neupravično zaskrbljenost, češ da je ljubezen varljiva, neprava ali karkoli vas že skrbi.