Watching him reshape his identity during his illness, learning to witness and accept his pain, talking together through his choices -- those experiences taught me that resilience does not mean bouncing back to where you were before, or pretending that the hard stuff isn't hard.
Observá-lo remodelar sua identidade durante a doença, aprender a testemunhar e aceitar a dor, discutindo juntos as escolhas; essas experiências me ensinaram que resiliência não significa se recuperar para como estava antes, ou fingir que as coisas difíceis não são difíceis.