Now, in this paradox between love and desire, what seems to be so puzzling is that the very ingredients that nurture love -- mutuality, reciprocity, protection, worry, responsibility for the other -- are sometimes the very ingredients that stifle desire.
En la paradoxa entre amor i desig, sembla sorprenent que els ingredients de l'amor -bidirecionalitat, reciprocitat, protecció, preocupació, responsabilitat- són a vegades els que reprimeixen el desig.