(Laughter) But no, in our mind up there are a host of things going on that we don't always know how to bring to the person that we love, because we think love comes with selflessness and in fact desire comes with a certain amount of selfishness in the best sense of the word: the ability to stay connected to one's self in the presence of another.
No. En la nostra ment hi passen moltes coses que no sempre sabem exposar a la persona que estimem perquè pensem que l'amor és altruista i, de fet, el desig conté cert egoisme, en el bon sentit de la paraula: l'habilitat de connectar amb un mateix en presència de l'altre.