Now, while the natural parenting instinct is to comfort and protect and reassure kids, in 1930, the psychiatrist Alfred Adler had already cautioned parents that we can love a child as much as we wish, but we must not make that child dependent.
Embora o instinto paternal seja reconfortar e proteger e tranquilizar as crianças, em 1930, o psiquiatra Alfred Adler já havia advertido os pais de que podemos amar os nossos filhos quanto quisermos, mas não devemos tornar  as crianças dependentes.