If they're talking about having lost a family member, don't start talking about the time you lost a family member.
ئه‌گه‌ر باسى له‌ده‌ست دانى  ،كه‌سێكى خێزانه‌كه‌یان بكه‌ن ده‌ست مه‌كه‌ به‌ باس كردنى ئه‌و كاته‌ى .كه‌سێكى خێزانه‌كه‌ت له‌ده‌ستدا