Watching him reshape his identity during his illness, learning to witness and accept his pain, talking together through his choices -- those experiences taught me that resilience does not mean bouncing back to where you were before, or pretending that the hard stuff isn't hard.
Le regarder redéfinir son identité pendant sa maladie, apprendre à être témoin et accepter sa douleur, parler ensemble de ses choix ; ces expériences m'ont appris que la résilience ne veut pas dire  de rebondir au point où on était avant, ou feindre que les choses difficiles ne le sont pas.