And it's exactly the opposite: we turn up the volume on the things we didn't expect to hear, such as "I spoke nicely to him," "I asked him to take me home," "I asked him to finish quickly," and we turn down the volume on the things we did expect to hear: the gun in the glove compartment, the isolation.
وهي العكس تمامًا: أن نستمع جيدًا لما لم نتوقع سماعه، مثل: "تحدثت اليه بطلف"، "طلبت منه إيصالي للمنزل"، "أخبرته أن ينتهي سريعًا"، وأن نتجاهل ما توقعنا سماعه... السلاح في علبة القفازات وعزلة المكان.