You could say that I get paid to argue that the language we use matters, and I would like to argue that many of the metaphors we use to talk about love -- maybe even most of them -- are a problem.
Poderíase dicir que me pagan por dicir  que a linguaxe que usamos importa, e gustaríame dicir que moitas das metáforas que usamos falan do amor poida que a maioría delas sexan un problema.