The indulgent self-pity was starved of oxygen, and it was replaced with the clean air of acceptance -- an acceptance that I did hurt this wonderful person standing next to me; an acceptance that I am part of a large and shockingly everyday grouping of men who have been sexually violent toward their partners.
A indulxente autocompaixón estaba famenta de osíxeno, e foi subsituída polo aire limpo da aceptación -- a aceptación de que ferín a esta marabillosa persoa ó meu carón; a aceptación de que pertenzo a un gran e alarmantemente grupo de homes que exerceron violencia sexual contra as súas parellas.