And then, once you do that, you can figure out how to present your second self in a legitimate way, instead of just dealing with everything as it comes in -- and oh, I have to do this, and I have to do this, and I have to do this.
E logo, unha vez que o facedes, podedes pensar como presentar o segundo eu de maneira lexítima, no canto de enfrontarse a todo tal e como vén e estar: "oh, teño que facer isto, e isto, e isto outro".