No one knows what you’ve been through unless they’ve experienced a deep loss but to each individual their pain is their own and only you ( they ) know and experience your own loss/ pain in your (their) own way.
“Waxaan aaminsanahay in kooxda ay guuleysan doonto, kuma xirna hal ciyaaryahan, waana muhiim in ciyaartoyda oo dhami ay ogaadaan sida loo wada shaqeeyo”.