No one knows what you’ve been through unless they’ve experienced a deep loss but to each individual their pain is their own and only you ( they ) know and experience your own loss/ pain in your (their) own way.
Haye sidaad jeceshahay laakiin waa in aad is ogaadaa qolkeena jiifka waa in hoos loo soo raraa maxaa yeelay waa kugu dhib in aad meel sare korto