many people lost their respective partners to covid in the past two years due to overworking or other health issues some even had a cardiac arrest and in general when we lose someone we love we do grieve take some time to deal with the loss but the next healthy step is to move on however there are some people who judge you for doing so and try to shame you like asim riaz apparently tried to take a dig at shehnaaz gill for dancing at a wedding with friends here is why no one has the right to judge you and if they do they probably have their own insecurities as it is a reflection on themselves here is what you need to know about the one judging you and why we need to put a stop on this toxic mind frame asim riaz recently passed a judgment on his social media handle and fans think he was taking a potshot at shehnaaz gill who was seen dancing with her friends during someones wedding function he wrote just saw few dancing clips seriously people get over loved ones so soon kya baat kya baatshehnaaz was in a relationship with actor sidharth shukla who died at 40 due to a heart attack this death shook the country fans as not as he was healthy and much loved shehnaaz was devastated as they were in a relationship and all those who watched bigg boss 13 will know that she was head over heels for him and the two had a beautiful camaraderiewhy do people judge you especially for moving on from someone you lostthere are many reasons why people may judge you but here are the 3 main points that you must keep in mindthe one judging you does not know you that well yetthey feel threatened by how you may perceive themthey cannot connect with your belief system values behaviour some people cannot tolerate you with a smilethe judging comes out of negativity which is deep rooted in them they probably dislike you and this is one of their ways to vent out at youthey dislike what you do and judge you for what you are doing because something similar happened to them and they connect your episode with themselvesit is a clear matter of low self esteemhow judgements affect people1 we start blaming ourselves because you are constantly reminded of and made to feel guilty about it2 it increases the stress levels of the one who is being judged3 it creates a very negative atmosphere and furthers disturbs the mental health of the person in question some even start feeling like a loser and it can lead to suicidal thoughts as wellhere are some quotes from people who moved on after losing their partnersgrief can be the garden of compassion if you keep your heart open through everything your pain can become your greatest ally in your lifes search for love and wisdom rumithe reality is that