i do my best to keep things in perspective acknowledging that harriet is not in pain that we are not talking about a major illness here no heart problems no cancer so much to be grateful for at 95 but even this a simple cataract operation is unbelievably stressful and complicated the elder care blues waking up dead this could be a surprising week wherein sudden news ideas or changes in circumstances alters your plans or thinking astrological aspects are signaling something new is emerging probably in an unexpected way astrology now surprises in plans ideas communications