while she is busy balancing her personal and professional life mercy s mother mridula barkakoty believes in life to the fullest according her life comes once we should enjoy it to the people especially women never compromise health and happiness do things that make you happy wear that make you feel good mercy who seems to have stopped aging since her teens shares the words of wisdom her mother imparted my mother always tells me never to compromise on physical health and mental eat your food time no how big a fight you with your care of your skin your hair your first to keep yourself only happy and healthy wife can keep a family together they say men like wine but unfortunately it s not same women take of yourself first everything can wait and all thanks to her mother mercy has found happiness in her marriage because she has learned herself happy trust between the and open communication are the key elementsvertika saxena left with her motherfor vertika saxena negi marketing and communication professional from her mother has been her mentor forever right from tackling problems to cooking tips my mother s advice has been an essential part of my life at the beginning of a new my mother had that trust between the spouses and open communication are the key elements to successful relationship trusting partner new family is not a norm should be a habit she said owing your responsibilities and fights as well and solving problems yourself will give you strength and sustainability besides this my mother gave me a piece of advice on managing my finances advised me to buy a gold coin any denomination on our anniversary each year rather than some luxurious gifts to each other she had said that this will help us during the tough days or we preserve them for children s marriage luckily we have been following this through years and this has helped us during trying times and helped us for the down of our dream home said vertika never consider your marriage only as a responsibilitylupamudra dutta with her mother nirala duttalupamudra dutta a tech writer from and artist by passion her office work hobby and her life as a loving wife with perfection when we asked her to tell us the best advice she received from her mother on marriage lupamudra smiled and said we all receive so many advice marriage especially from mother a better idea do nt i tell you what on i would give to my if have one consider your only as a responsibility it s a beautiful relationship between you and the person you