i posted on my facebook page the words twenty years as this is my official 20th anniversary with my wife robin a significant portion of my online community mistook my 20 years to mean my cancerversary which if youve read my previous stuff you know i dont celebrate the probiotic candidate as we go through the aging process and experience grief and loss and as friends and family pass on the need for connection to extended family friends community and to all of humanity becomes even more important being connective means being ready to connect wheelchair wisdom invisible threads are the strongest ties