the couple began dating in february 2011 shortly after longoria had finalized her divorce from basketball player tony parker eva longoria boyfriend who should she date next some parents need a serious timeout no negotiation no bargaining no giving in off you go to be by yourselves and think about what youve done time for some timeouts affairs usually reflect something about a persons existing relationship thats not being faced nevertheless affairs can be psychologically healthy for some people why an affair can be psychologically healthy we may think that rewarding every child will make them feel good and it may for a moment but it may also make them feel that they are entitled to praise and recognition for merely existing and that does no one any favors a warning against a culture where every child wins