new delhi from social boycott of muslims who resort to triple talaq to the appointment of an arbitrator to settle marital disputes are some features of the new guidelines issued by the all india muslim personal law board aimplb for married couplesthe aimplb on monday told the supreme court that it has issued guidelines for the husband and wife at the time of dispute which has to be followed days after the court reserved its verdict on a clutch of pleas challenging triple talaqread alsohow can theologically sinful triple talaq be a practice supreme court asks muslim law boardbefore it reserved its verdict on the constitutional validity of triple talaq on what was the last day of its hearing the supreme court asked the all india muslim personal law board aimplb how it is that a custom which is theologically sinful is part of the practice of a communitygiving details of the guidelines framed by it the aimplb told the apex court that if there are differences between a husband and his wife they should first try to mutually resolve the issues by keeping in mind the provisions of the shariat islamic law and try to overlook the mistakes of othersit said in the second step if the dispute is not resolved mutually and no desired results are achieved then there may be a temporary withdrawalin case of failure of the first two steps then senior members of both families should try to reconcile or one arbitrator may be appointed from each side for resolution of the differences the fresh aimplb guidelines saidit said the muslim community should boycott such persons socially who have pronounced three divorces talaq in one go so that such incidents may be minimisedthe affidavit of aimplb said that only if the dispute still remained unresolved the husband may pronounce one divorce during the period of purity of his wife and leave his wife till the time her waiting period iddat endedif a favourable situation arises during the waiting period the husband should retain her and then both of them should live as spouses if the husband does not retain his wife during the waiting period then the marriage will be automatically dissolved after the lapse of waiting period and both of them will be free and authorised to start a new life the board saidit however clarified that if the wife is pregnant during the waiting period then the period will extend till the time of delivery and the husband will have to bear the expenses incurred during waiting period and in case the dower dowry has not been paid then he has to pay it immediatelyif they reach any amicable settlement after the wait period then both of them may restore their relationship by the solemnisation of their marriage afresh with mutual consent along with a new dower the guidelines saidread this story in marathithe board has also suggested a second way to annul the marriage in which the husband should pronounce one divorce