if you must put a label on someone tell them they have a tendency to be successful tell them that they will excel tell them that they are wonderful tell them that they are beautiful tell them that they shine dont label me it is amazing how most people say they want a solid relationship but refuse to address how their thoughts create all sorts of relationship drama the opportunity to dig deep and allow the truth to be stated out loud releases everyone from a false sense of relating or obligation do you want a relationship to change i dont think this was a premeditated attempt to ridicule women that dont wear a size 2 nor was it an attack on men that lack the presence of washboard abs this is merely an instance where her motive was misrepresented maria kang is not the real problem selfacceptance is why maria kang is not the problem love yourself enough to change