him to approach a counsellor it was the counsellor who helped him realise that he needed help to resolve his lack of selfworth loving yourself attracts partners with the same energy psychiatrist dr sagar mundada shares emotionally welladjusted individuals more often than not do not seek validation from others they also take their time to get to know the person on the other hand someone who has low selfworth is likely to end up in a fragile relationship as they are more vulnerable and hence more likely to fall prey to emotionally manipulative individuals who feed off their vulnerabilities your guide to finding love in 2020begin a new chapter in romanceditch the old ways and start afresh mentally and emotionally prepare to move on dont live in the past if things have not worked out accept that and move onfocus on loving yourselfyou attract what you are not what you want if you are positive and happy you are more likely to attract a partner who shares the same energymeet new peopletry and get to know more people online and offlineattend events that interest you and try to make friends before you try engaging with people on a romantic level dont focus on finding a partner focus on finding a person you can relate to emotionally and intellectuallybin the long checklistsshred those exaggerated checklists sometimes people obsess over a list of traits thats humanly impossible to match as a result they miss out on the possibility of a good relationship because the said person did not check all the boxes on that enviable list of qualitiesultimately its about learning to love and accept yourself dont look for a partner who will complete you instead fill that emotional void by working on yourself when you are emotionally in a happy space and can regulate your emotions well you attract someone with the same positive energy as you hone your ability to navigate relationships