it never ceases to astound me as to how strong loving lifelong respectful familial bonds dissolve rupture and erupt into flames when money in the form of inheritance becomes contentious or business dealings between family members go awry it is tragic that parents work relentlessly and at times live compromised lives to afford the best that their hardearned diligently saved pennies can buy for their kids and then those savings turn into the most flammable materials i often wonder how the departed souls feel when they look down no pun intended from the heavens at their squabbling greedy frustrated selfish unfair hostile devious inheritors do they rue the fact that they trusted some people wrongly and were fooled by others or simply that they should have either spent it all living super comfortable lives themselves because its really not doing much good being left behind this week my column has a very simple message to every family that has assets make a will and register it register your nominees in bank accounts and in properties if you feel theres a potential for conflict i suggest you even a make a video tape of the proceedings it may seem all very dramatic but i assure you much greater dramas ensue in the absence of absolute clarity and finally no one is too young to die so do it now and make it a point to update it every five years as it is often said hope for the best but prepare for the worsti am a 19yearold girl i met my a senior from school while attending a workshop when i was in the eleventh standard weve just met thrice but chat frequently through texts and even online now he has started to talk to me about sex and tells me everything about a mans desires and how a girl should satisfy it we even have phone sex i am now getting carried away by all of this i want to cut this relationship as i fell its unfair on my part i have started watching porn movies as well i feel this should not prolong as i am not able to concentrate on my studies please help me it is perfectly normal to have great curiosity about sex at your age however be aware that what you see in porn is often unrealistic over the top and not what you should expect in your daily sex life now that you have an awareness about sex and its distracting you its only wise to focus on more important things that will create a strong future for you thank him for the initiation and tell him that though the experience is going to be unforgettable its not something that you wish to continue exploringi am 19yearold boy studying in chennai i met an unknown girl through a social networking site and started chatting with her we also exchanged numbers and i started talking to her i like her a lot but