down to makeshift alliances that are emotionally vacuous in nature it takes several months sometimes even years before guys can subdue the memories of their traumatic pasts and move on in life after finding someone new jayan elaborates the survey has also revealed that when a relationship goes awry it impacts the mans sense of identity and self worth men have bigger egos to admit that we were jilted in front of our friends more so expressing our unhappiness and discontentment of the situation can cause us to be ridiculed and teased says jatin gupta a call centre executive this seems to be the point where the female bestfriend steps in women understand the situation better at least they dont laugh at your face or tease you just because you get emotionally or worse case scenario cry insists jatin rather than crying over spilt milk experts urge men to go into therapy or counselling sessions to analyse as to why the relationship went wrong the important thing is to pick up the pieces and realise that the end of a relationship is not the end of lifehow to cope seek the help or support of a trusted friend or a family member express your sorrow or frustration in whatever way possible rather than suppressing it divert your attention to things that you enjoy doing indulge in a hobby or anything that takes your mind off the break up follow us on twitter for more stories