at first id thought my mom died on my birthday to bring my father and me together since then ive realized that her gift was an opportunity to finally find the fortitude and the wisdom to do what she never could so i left him behind and thats where he remains behind me a mothers final gift this is what i suggest to the black men of the ivy league find yourself be yourself let your innercharacter be what stands out beyond these letters symbols and titles be the john doe that is very smart and funny rather than the john doe that is the kappa the social disunity of collegiate black men