creating strong warm relationships is not everybodys cup of tea pick up ways to to bond with peopleshow interest in people everybody loves a little bit of attention more so when its personal so make a personal connection with people ask them about their loved ones as it gives people a sense of belongingness bring out a human element that creates instant bonding however make sure to not to get too personal maintain that healthy warm distance in personal aspectstalk about their interestshobbiespassion its common wisdom that people love to talk about their interests profession passion find something an idea or a hobby that others are interested or passionate about and just ask a question its always wise to make the person feel wanted by knowing hisher interests or passion its a sure shot way to create bondingbe a good listener a good listener is always a winner allow people to express themselves when people talk about the problems listen and ask pertinent questions you get to know people through their struggles and challenges and if you do so with empathy then you create bonds that will last a lifetimebe real when youre comfortable youre real dont pretend masks eventually fall people always appreciate genuine emotions when you are who you are you share a part of that with the other person creating a stronger warmer bond