bimal goan boys are not so bothered about money they want goodlooking and working girls girls are bothered about financially sound boys always they also want healthy and goodlooking boys not many girls are bothered about character they are blindly jumping for financial status and good looksbimal also says that girls want boys who work abroad and can take them abroad especially to europe america and to a lesser extent the gulf countriessometimes the expectations are too high recently ms sequeira had a 75yearold male visitor as he struggled to climb her stairs she thought he wanted a match for his daughter but the man wanted a bride for himself his one condition the bride should not be over 35yearsold another prospective groom only wanted a softskinned bridecaste and age are also factors but only to a point generally boys want girls younger than themselves and girls do not prefer boys more than three years senior to them but eduardo once married a 63yearold widow to a 36yearold yes she was very wealthy sequeira also knows younger women agreeing to marry much senior but wealthy menthe moral bar has come down too eduardo says about five or six years ago many boys would specify that their wouldbe wives should not have had boyfriends in the past nowadays there are no such demands and there are boys who are even willing to marry girls with a single child or even divorcees strangely girls or widows always prefer bachelors eduardo sayssequeira a fulltime teacher has been matchmaking parttime since 2000 i am not happy with the expectations of boys and girls nowadays the boys and girls are very demanding she says she rates the ability to adjust very highly in sustaining a marriage says eduardo marriages today are not those of before today its more of a business deal but it works because the partners are mentally prepared for itbimal says he verifies the claims made by his clients before finding matches for them but there are times when brides and grooms conceal important details psychiatric or medical problems like impotence or even finances and assets