your expectations are in terms of your personal life or career convey them to your partner and listen to his too you never know this could lead to a successful marriagelove in the time of arranged marriagesaccording to a study titled how love emerges in arranged marriages by american psychologist dr robert epstein those who opt for an arranged marriage and have their partner chosen for them by a parent or suitable matchmaker tend to feel more in love as time grows whereas those in love marriages feel less in love over time also within ten years the connection felt by those in an arranged marriage setup is said to be almost twice as strong wonder why well the reason being that arranged matches are usually carefully considered with a lot of thought going into whether potential partners family interests and life goals are compatible epstein discovered that the one key to a strong arranged marriage is the amount of parental involvement at the beginning after all families of most couples screen for deal breakers while finding potential mates which eventually helps in the long runwatch tips for successful marriage revealed