now youre talkingdo you want to be bulletproof at work secure in your relationship and content in your own skin if so its more important than ever to be aware of what your body is saying to the outside world unfortunately most of what youve heard from other body language experts is wrong and as a result your actions may be hurting not helping you with sass and a keen eye media favorite janine driver teaches you the skills she used every day to stay alive during her fifteen years as a bodylanguage expert at the atf janines 7day plan and her 7second solutions teach you dozens of body language fixes to turn any interpersonal situation to your advantage she reveals methods here that other experts refuse to share with the public and she debunks major myths other experts swear are fact giving more eye contact is key when youre trying to impress someone not necessarily true its actually more important where you point your belly button this small body shift communicates true interest more powerfully than constant eye contactthe steeple hand gesture will give you the upper hand during negotiations and business meetings wrong driver has seen this overbearing gesture backfire more often than not instead she suggests two new steeples that give you power without making you seem overly aggressive the basketball steeple and the aok twofingered steeple happy people command power and attention by smiling just before they meet new people studies have shown that people who do this are viewed as beta leaders alpha leaders smile once they shake your hand and hear your name at a time when every advantage countsand first impressions matter more than everthis is the book to help you really get your message across