you will only open the doors of your home to a smiling and buoyant spouse when you put in that daily tadka of effort to put a smile where it should be she will take questions on itimes as well and reply to them online but at the same time there is guy friend of mine i am in love with him getting out of bad marriages is based on economic ability and financial independence to do so which is not something most middle and lower class housewives have the security of i think its worth it especially if you want to be with that person for the rest of your lifeaddress your relationship issues to pooja bedi send her an email at poojabeditimesgroupcom and she will reply to you through the heart chakra in bt what to do hi pooja one thing that i cant understand about the middle class is that when one is married he maintains that relationship until he dies whereas sorry to say upper class people like celebrities keep changing their marital status or become a fan of pooja bedi by registering on itimescom and getting involved in the agony aunt discussion on the site i am 34 yrs old bachelor from kolkata west bengal i was shocked when i entered her home and reality i dont know how to tell that i really like her are there any chances that she may slap me or reject me because i really fell bad that shes in a relationship with other guy i really care about her and i am quite worried whether she might accept me as her boyfriend also you seem confused about your feelings towards multiple partners can i get your advice why is it so i want to tell him about this but even scared to lose a good friend like him but i am quite shy towards girls we all want better jobs homes cars and salaries and heavily invest time and energy to make it happen 17 yrs old i have a crush on a girl but dont know how to approach her you shouldnt trivialise things by casting all nets to sea to see what the tide brings in you can clean a home superficially and make it look slightly presentable for visitors or you can clean it with diligence so that you are not greeted with filth when you open cupboards or have a mountain of clothes topple out of cupboards in addition most divorces in celebrity or high income families are splashed all over the news and papers so they become more noticeable many marriages stay together simply because even if youre beaten neglected abused or treated as a doormat there is no other option i really like her if you are sure hes the one then gently initiate conversations and discussions of homosexuality in a general context such as something you read or saw on tv etc and gauge from his reaction what his thoughts are