change in life is imminent every situation brings in new challenges and something like marriage can completely change you every person changes when their spouse enters their life and their family relationshipsgrow stronger and slowly the priority shifts towards your spouse thats what i had thought my marriage will be about i had the fantasy that it will be all about my husband and me when we get married togetherread alsolove capsule i cheated on my husband with my yoga trainera boring marriage where theres nothing but silence can be too much to bear at times my husband and i havent really been on good terms with our everyday fights and arguments due to our hectic schedules we come back home and simply lie down on the bed because we are mostly exhausted all the timecommon reasons why men and women file for divorcethere is only a limit to how much a couple can tolerate when it comes to a disappointing marriage if things havent been going well with your partner and theres too much resentment fights sternness etc then your marriage is probably heading towards splitsvillebut i didnt have the slightest idea that my marriage would be a loveless one that too with someone who would never ever change his priorities when i first met suresh i was smitten by his gentle and sensitive nature he was quite nice to me when we first met and i could see how sensible he was he took everyones opinions during decisions he listened and paid heed to his mother and sisters a lot which only showed how sensitive he would be to my needs it was quite visible that he would be a great family man this only raised my expectations for this marriage but after my marriage i expected us to get closer but nothing of that sort happened even though it was an arranged marriage and it would take time to get to know each other i could see him spending all his time with his mother and sisters as he didusually but i was nowhere in the picture it was always him and them and if ever we sat together to spend some time his mother would pass by and he would call his mother to our room so that all of us can have a nice time together its as if he never tried loving or prioritising me in the relationshipafter a point it became frustrating in the marriage it had been more than a year that my husband and i had no emotional relationship our bond was only a show of responsibility the worst of it all was that he only wanted to spend time with his mom he only talked about taking her with us on outings and even on dates i doubt suresh even knows the real meaning of a date he is a complete mammas boy who hasnt changed even one bit it is sometimes impossible to deal with him and i find