nagpur young boys carrying guns to schools to kill seniors teenagers committing crimes of passions adolescents making use of cyber media to take revenge many incidents have come into light in the past couple of years where youngsters have been known to commit some grave and gruesome criminal activities without any rationale the accused in the kush katariya kidnapping case ayush pugalia has added to the increasing number of teenagers and juveniles in the country violence in most cases is a planned infliction by a person who feels he has not been treated fairly rather than a spontaneous act say psychiatrists the bottled up anger in a person that drives him into doing the unthinkable has ways of showing and family members can help him by identifying these telltale signs of repressed feelings helping them deal with these feelings would not only help the person but also stop an untoward incident in the future they say youngsters these days do not have what we call psychological immunity as the social structure is breaking they think of instant gratification and not of the consequences of their actions with too much privacy and an open access to various media the situation worsens for them said dr praveer waradkar associated professor at the psychiatry department of indira gandhi government medical college iggmch it is not very difficult to identify suppressed anger one can easily see it in a persons behaviour and speech which are full of negativism the triggers that give rise to anger can be like repeated rejection failure and frustration many times this aggression is picked up from the parents said psychiatrist dr vivek kirpekar parents can help by trying to discuss the reasons for the behavioural changes they observe in the children he advised keeping their feelings to themselves can do more harm than good on the other hand openly discussing the problem may lead to finding a solution if necessary they should seek professional help added kirpekar not just family members others around can also identify the signs of the violent streak in a person most people who gain pleasure by afflicting pain to other people without feeling guilty about it have a few common traits these people tend to be very talkative boastful and aggressive they also go out of their way to gain the confidence of people around them said psychiatrist dr salim mujawar he also advises that it is better to keep a safe distance and not get too close to such people do not give them too much liberty and meet them only in a group as far as possible he said impulsive explosive behaviour is a rare phenomenon most times there is an easily identifiable background of excesses these would be people who let their desires drive them rather than observing the rules they are poor in maintaining relationships and are generally irresponsible it is when they themselves cannot bear the pressure of their own flaws that a trivial issue can trigger an episode