you dont have to be in a relationship to have fun being single is equally great read on to know how being in a relationship is great it makes you happy and you surely get to spend a memorable time with your loved one but that doesnt mean you cannot have fun all by yourself as well being single is necessary at times it helps you understand yourself better and also lets you do things that you otherwise wouldnt have been able to had you been with someonego on a holiday alone one of the best ways to enjoy yourself is by venturing out all by yourself it makes you feel liberated and builds your confidence as well choose a destination as per your personality if you love shopping paris would be a great option or if you love water sports thailand or lakshadweep could be your best betfocus on your career if you have a job that you love this is the time to concentrate on it says clinical psychologist mimrah ansari spending your maximum time to work will not only help you achieve a professional high but will also make you feel happy and powerful this does not mean that you have to turn into a workaholic but giving your best at your job will liberate you as wellspend time with friends if you have missed out on socialising with your gang of pals go ahead and party hard you could meet your friends over the weekend or simply call them over to your place after work hours and just chill with them these memories will go a long way in nurturing you and creating wonderful memoriesshop or go out for a movie how many times have you cancelled plans because your guy or girl couldnt make it for that late night show well you dont have to rely on them anymore there is something about going out all by yourself to watch a movie or simply shop says relationship counsellor sauleha shaikh most people dont like the idea of going out all by themselves it helps build your confidence and also shapes your personality it teaches you to be independentlive for yourself not by yourself often people confuse between living for themselves with living by themselves you must realise that this is the time that you need to invest in yourself it shouldnt be your aim to only look out for love rather it should be a quest to find yourself and learn how you can be the best if you have been thinking of learning a new language or doing some sort of social work do it now spend this time to enhance yourselfrevisit your interestshobbies utilise this time to indulge in your interests if you love cooking simply start your own cooking class and invite your friends or neighbours to come and learn from you or if you love gardening create your own garden on the terrace or balconyessential tips for living the perfect single