while rahul was a reserved and serious guy ragini was a vivacious and bubbly girl who brought happiness to rahuls life in another case study of a newly married couple the girl was a cleanliness freak who didnt mind dusting even umpteen times in a day to keep her home spotlessly clean while the guy was an easy going man give space and keep an open mind troubles creep in when one begins to force hisher liking on the other sans any interest towards others hobby could they have avoided the split relationship expert arvinder singh states a relationship between opposites is not at all destined to be doomed now we realise that in a way we have increased the means of relaxation for us finding a middle path where both partners accept the fact that they are different and also respect each others differences is the best way to avoid separation due to differences with in no time he concluded that she was just too different interestshobbies manisha and girish a delhibased young couple found newer ways to enjoy their conjugal life when manisha tried her hands at her hubbys hobby of gardening while he started enjoying her passion for sufi music which was strictly his wifes taste moreover when partners try out myriad love making tactics sexual life can only get full of variety and adventure as you have something different to try out daily suggests arvinder on the whole the differences between partners can be done away with patience and effective communication rather than with the motive to control or win over the other charuamarindiatimescoinwhy cant boys stop thinking of sex while he appreciated her efforts initially but over the time her constant nickpicking and cribbing about his lifestyle made him feel criticised says madhumati in couples where opposites attract a quiet calm wife works as a soothing balm for an aggressively extrovert husbands temperament giving a true example of compatibility there are chances that the spender is either getting a sense of satisfaction from spending lavishly or is trying to divert hisher attention from something not so pink she is coming from says arvinder adding if the problem is about excessive socializing the partners must come to a consensus that theyll attend not all but some parties thereby taking out time for exclusive evenings for the two of them onlyspending habits agree or not but excess of money or the lack of it is a potent reason to bring trouble in your paradise whereas the saver derives a sense of security from the money he mansi kaushik a delhibased teacher comes from a middleclassfamily where money always a constraint supports psychologist madhumati singh life becomes all the more colourful and enriching in content when partners having different hobbies and interests come together i believe the age old saying opposites attract holds good even nowso if you have also started questioning the fate of a relationship with your opposite partner after reading a recent