regardless of which area of your life where you find yourself most ambivalent you wont move forward until you allow yourself to take charge and make the best decision you can with the information you have available to you dont be ambivalent about ambivalence health isnt built in hospitals disease is treated there health is built every day over the course of a lifetime in the places we work and learn and play and pray and love and live or it isnt and if it isnt the health care system cant fix it you can fix the health care reform hullabaloo