the phoenix new times is reporting that pinal county sheriff paul babeu who has become one of the faces of the antiillegal paul babeu arizona sheriff allegedly threatened gay mexican exlover with deportation video on one very ironic valentines day in 1971 my father married my mother knowing she was in love with another growing up romance and dating are relationships ever really mutual im marrying the love of my life and unlike new gingrich rush limbaugh ronald reagan and bob barr the author of the defense of marriage act when i say i do ill mean it if were talking family values im ahead attention gop candidates i have family values too