parents nowadays leave no stone unturned in providing all to children from latest gadgets to surf the web to best publications to read from the most luxurious meals to the clothes parents want to raise their children in such a way they up to become happy and functional adults however it becomes major problem and a source of rift to score high marks top among the crowd while parents fall into dilemma what more can they do to make their children score better students have their problems as well lack of and breeds fear are considered as the biggest hurdles their performance further it was noted that all these distractions that they faced summed up to thing pressure in order to out possible solutions issue we talked to a few principals of leading schools in country in light of why parents their children fr thekkel tor principal of mt assisi school in bhagalpur bihar said undue pressure students exerted by overenthusiastic overambitious parents has the order of the day forgetting the stress that children go through discerning the he further stated that the reasons behind such pressure on children coming parents could be the result of unrealistic quest for social status and unrealistic expectations that they come up with not exams but only life skills can help children become independentmrs jaspreet kaur principal of bal bhavan international school in dwarka new delhi saying education is very important one life but to be a self sufficient the child should learn some life skills which the need the hour many of us take life skills for granted but the fact is that only life skills can help children become independent while it was difficult to identify a set cause of the issue fr jose said problem lies in an obsession with uniformity and unwillingness to adapt and parents need keep in mind that every unique and unparalleled it is his call to it is parents duty to help their children to realise their originality and not to copy being a herself mrs kaur parenting is nt a road and is nothing short of a challenging listen observe and their parents practise what teach their children and avoid hypocrisy at all times when it comes to actually proving by their own actions consistency in healthy with his teachers friends and parents throughout the is more important scoring highest marks in examinations this could give a hope to kids to gradually start sharing their thoughts and ideas freely with their this era of competition children must know that if there is somebody who will always be the pillar support them it is parents not but only life can help become independenthere are a few parents can