and i dont mean they have a ball park budget they need to narrow down i mean most havent even considered how much their grand plan will total up to when all is said and done plan your wedding spending ahead to save you money and stress i put all i had into both of my marriages and while i do believe that i deserve the full benefits of those marriages i do not believe that my exhusband should have to pay me for my own life and support alimony really next cute kid note of the day why being a girl is wonderful what happened next hailey forgot to include one very important cute kid note of the day i will lie to mommy