distrust says child psychiatrist dr parul agarwal the best thing to do in such cases is to confront the child unless of course the childparent relationship has deteriorated to such an extent that the involvement of a third person is necessary she addsin delhi parents especially those from the uppermiddle classes have started jumping the gun after a recent scandal involving two school kids parents who previously approached detectives only if they suspected alcohol or drug abuse are now hiring them for routine surveillancefollowing the mms incident we have been getting frequent calls from parents about their childrens activities says sanjay singh from indian detective agency delhi he attributes the sudden paranoia to the increasing impact of media and access to technologyin january last yearwe were handling a similar case involving video clips of a girl but it was kept away from media glare unlike the recent mms scandal says private investigator pradeep sharma who is presently handling eight such cases where the job involves simply keeping an eye on the clients child when he or she is in schoolcollege