was there a reason for this ridiculous behavior if so was there a cure and was i going to be the next freud of the teenage psyche i finally found my calling teenzilla and the frontal lobe the good thing about going through a lot of bad stuff is that you figure out what matters while i would have liked the resources to entertain more or to travel with friends ive cultivated great friendships by having people over for potlucks why im glad the cool mom cliques dont want me i suspect i am not the only parent who found some level of comfort in hearing those words the unknown can be so much more consuming than the truth why my daughters autism diagnosis was a relief