it is said that distance makes the heart grow fonder but in many cases it also becomes the reason for a split as in the case of actress isha sharvani and cricketer zaheer khan after an eightyear onandoff romance the two have finally parted ways i am single today yes we were together for many years but it is all over between zaheer and me now she said prod further about the reason for the split and isha says i dont want to talk about that it is way too personal and something that should remain between two people it is not right to wash dirty linen in public we respect each other but a source close to the actress confirms that distance is the cause of the split she is based in chennai while he travels all over the world for matches last year isha was there to support zaheer at the world cup and at his ipl matches but this year her absence signalled that its over the breakup has happened sometime earlier this year there were rumours that the two were looking for a house where they could move in after they tied the knot but the actress rubbishes that there has been a lot of speculation about my relationship status and there were rumours that we had purchased a house and that we were getting married all nonsense if it was true then i would have gotten married by now right i didnt want to react then and i just let people say whatever they wanted to our families of course got very worried but what is done is done says isha bring up recent reports suggesting zks closeness to vjturnedsinger ramona arena and she says unfazed how can i comment on that zaheer and i remain friends but whether we meet or how often we meet again these are very personal things and should stay between two people he is focussing on his career and i am focussing on mine we have long careers ahead of us right now im completely focussing on my dance reality show every week i have to step up to the challenge he is an excellent cricketer and i hope he does really well he should not shift his focus from cricket says isha is she missing being in a relationship i am happy being single she smiles i dont plan my life i would have never thought i would do a reality show before subhashji signed me for kisna i had never thought of doing a film when i signed the film i gave subhashji my passport picture costing 20 something as important as a life partner i am not going to plan who and how either what god has in store for me will come to me what was never mine will never be i think i have lived a very charmed life i love my life she says