for many people going to the gym is a way of life a necessity to feel good they join a gym so they can stick with a routine for others though they buy a membership yet hardly ever go fear underlies this lack of followthrough be fearless hit the gym with confidence i dont have sons i have two daughters ive never had to say no to violent movies and video games ive never had to explain that hands are not for hitting neither of my two girls ever picked up a stick and pretended it was a gun why understanding the back story helps you solve the problem