what does it mean to be a super attractor in her book super attractor author gabrielle bernstein lays out the essential methods to get a life beyond your wildest dreams being a super attractor is about having a manifesto for claiming your desires she says the first step is acceptance accepting that you are a super attractor will change everything youll trust that its safe to release the past and youll no longer fear the future youll tap into an infinite source of abundance energy joy and wellbeing she addsthe mental shifteventually this wellbeing becomes a norm for you and you grow to embrace it as your birthright most importantly youll know intuitively how to show up for life and bring more light to the world around you says life coach peri pakroo the simplest idea here is to stop looking at your dreams as something unattainable instead put directed thought and action towards the concrete details of that life does it mean working in a certain profession pursuing a life in art or music travelling the world either for work or pleasure whatever it is start envisioning that life as something that you will actively work towardsfor most this is a big mental shift building a life on your own terms starts with trusting and valuing your personal visionthe blueprintpakroo adds im a huge believer in dreaming big and working in small incremental steps achieving big goals takes time some days when im not sure what to focus on i focus on the tasks that i can do that day that will yield the most impact towards getting me towards my dream life also make it a point to regularly slow down and feel your feelings its a great way to keep your energy powerfulfeel your feelingswhether its through formal meditation visualisation nature walks or other ways of slowing down take time out to stay in touch with your emotions thats an essential step because the key to change is when instead of the mopping over the problem you shift your focus on the solution thats when you shift the momentum of your lifeyou begin raising your vibration bit by bit and you start to attract solutions this makes you move on to a new story says lynda field life coach before you can create the life you want you have to know what your success and happiness will really look likethoughts are things so get your ideas down on paper however becoming a super attractor requires much more than an exciting plan you will need to be open to selfchange and have the courage to move forward towards your goals even when the going gets toughsuper attractors are motivated and focused developing a strong sense of selfworth is key to their success we cannot attract the best if we dont think we deserve it field adds build your selfesteem with positive affirmations like i deserve to succeed i deserve to be happyyoure a rockstarask yourself if