the breakthrough that will lead us to the life we want cannot happen without first examining the life we have been living with everything we are managing and enduring we may have lost touch with the vision of who we wanted to be and how we wanted to live 7 ways to create the life you want however nice it was my days wearing that particular pair of mindblowingly tight black jeans didnt actually win me much in the way of happiness i realized that the things that bothered me like my inability to feel confidence in my own worth werent just about my body they were about a state of mind that living in that body had fostered heres what its like to struggle with body image issues as a man