in everything there is no place where god is not going to the temple and following rituals is an individual choice the truth is that we must treat everybody as god one must be happy that ones partner is in sync with them and one must be proactive in finding a loving solution anger is not a solution it will only destroy peace for which we are trying to go to the temple with love anything is possiblefor her marriage is not me it is we imagine if you were forced to do something that you hate that is difficult but if you believe in god anyway then what is the harm in going to the temple it need not be every time but one has to strike a balance to make a marriage work remember god is everywhere in everything not just in the temple there is no place where god is not all living beings have atman the spirit or the soul and the soul is none other than paramatman the divine the supreme immortal power most importantly we cannot lose our peace and in a marriage it is all about taking two steps forward not two steps back both partners must come forward to make it workvishal bhardwaj founder and relationship coach at predictions for successreligion and spirituality are two subjects that look similar but are very different spirituality is an umbrella under which religions take shade hence its absolutely possible for a person to be spiritual and yet not religious it is important to understand the major difference that spirituality connects to the people whereas people connect to the religion this case speaks to the misconception and wrong learning about being religious and spiritualfor her you are absolutely right about following the spirituality that connects to you you should connect to the supreme absolutely like how you like and see it there is literally nothing right or wrong in it especially in hinduism we have so many different ways to connect to the god and idol worship is just one of the most common of it hence people think thats the only way whether its through trees animals rivers mountains or even yourself meditation of soul hinduism welcomes you to connect to the god with the way you likehowever i would recommend you to be sensitive about your familys belief and not question it because as i discussed above its a personal journey to connect to the god your own route your own conveyance and your own conveniencefor him the purpose of worshiping is to connect to the god and undoubtedly not about impressing other worshipers till the time your partner is not disturbing or questioning your belief and practices i will strongly recommend you to let her follow her journey of spirituality herselflet her explore and maybe one day she will find a good reason even if not religious to accompany you to temple or other religious places forcing her to do it