going for a hot date but are you aware of the latest rules between the sexeswith equality between the sexes at an all time high its a heated battle between them to win the game of love so if you want to score in the dating game follow these tips as they may help you in scoring brownie pointspaying the chequeguy talk i have always seen paying the bill as being a mans prerogative i mean whenever ive been out on a date i never let the girl pay its highly unsophisticated and not just that it goes a long way to leave a good impression on my date reveals gaurav sharma a software professional gal talk the jet setting woman of today believes in footing her own bills she works hard to earn a living and doesnt mind splurging a few bucks on a hearty meal whats more she might be treating a man she just met as a casual acquaintance on the first date and wants to show off her moneyaruna sen a home maker says i am an extremely independent person and would appreciate people who respect me for my free spiritedness i hate being taken for granted its high time that men woke up and took notice of a financially successful woman and gave credit to herhowever there are damsels who take offence if they are expected to dish out the bucks as shelley roy a freelance journalist puts it so what if i earn i expect my date to pay for our movies dinners and lunches who would be interested in dating someone who waits expectantly for you to fish out your wallet thats a complete nono a man who is chivalrous and indulges me with the bill payment is a man who is financially independent and likes taking care of me and thats a big criterion to consider on my wish listwise counsel psychologist suparna das explains for men its important that they dont go overboard trying to foot the bill go easy if she offers allow her to make the payments or try suggesting going dutch as that is seen as an acceptable norm in the dating circle you might end up being perceived as someones whos trying hard to flaunt his money and this might just rub the woman the wrong way for the woman if the man insists and if you happen to really like the guy use this opportunity to test his chivalry and open heartedness and enjoy the indulgence insteadlend a helping handguy talk men go completely floozy seeing women carrying heavy bags ask any man and he would most likely say he doesnt understand why women need to carry heavy luggage reiterates atul sinha a student it hurts to see women carrying heavy shopping bags in fact its been instilled in my upbringing even if i see my mom or sister carrying heavy bags i always treat it as my duty to help them out and shoulder the