there are lots of moments in life when you seem to be the only one craving for sex and your partner just doesnt seem interested enoughmost couples have faced this situation sometime or another in their sexual life even as the sex nosedives and vanishes for daysmonths and in worst case scenarios maybe even for years learning to recognise the symptoms behind a low sex drive helps to get out of the sticky situation here are the most common myths about your low sexual levelsmyth 1 too much stress leads to low sex drive banker rohit khanna complained about high stress levels to his partner i was having a tough time with my boss in office that affected my interest in sex but aradhana just wouldnt understand we ended up fighting with my wife accusing me that i just wasnt interested in her anymore and i was put off by the thought of indulging in sex with her finally we both had to visit a counselor who helped us see the problem for what it was it was also a time when i had begun to doubt my own sexual prowess so yes it was extremely traumatic beat it psychologist poornima adhikari explains couples often go through high and low phases in their sexual desires it could be triggered off by anything and stress is most often one of the major reasons for a lack luster sexual life the hectic lifestyle of today bears ugly aftermaths and thus couples must figure out ways to destress they should look into common areas of interest that help them bond and find happiness together and talking about your problems is a great way of lowering high stress levels so communicate take out time even if its just 10 minutes every day to talk about things that are troubling youmyth 2 womens low libido are governed by her hormonesshraddha singh a hotel executive reveals that men often believe that hormones regulate a womans intrinsic moods and desires anand my husband always fought with me when i told him that i just didnt want to have sex today he inevitably blamed it on my hormonal levels saying that women were victims of their hormones but thats such a huge misconception our hormones are just like our male counterparts too she adds often a low libido is caused by eating habits fatigue not enough sleep and many more physiological factors also its about our mental healthbeat it adhikari points out that low sex drive in women often stems from how they feel about themselves and how they view their relationship with their partner so when women complain about a low sex drive their partners need to make them feel good about themselves couples need to sit together and work out how on to improve their existing relationship the woman must be going through some kind of complex feelings that need to be detangled to take the relationship forward at a physical level myth 3 medications help