your ex without discussing it with you first either way both are a natural aspect to our growthby jennifer twardowski huffingtonpostin at one moment youre both super close and telling each other everything but then a few years later you just chat and see each other once in a great while there are many reasons for these changes in the friendship dynamic they seem to want to compete with you rather than support do they criticise the way you dress are they always coming to you looking for help do they make comments to you that highlight how they did that better so here we have outlined five signs where it may be time to breakup with your friend as we are growing and evolving as human beings we may realise that some aspect of ourselves is no longer serving us 4