youve been together for some time and the honeymoon period for sure is over your partner isnt as perfect as youd thought initially and you realise that your partner thinks the same way about you too but what bothers you is your partners been complaining lately saying that youve been driving him her crazy but if youve been dismissing it thinking that your partners just overreacting maybe you should watch your behaviour you could indeed be driving them bonkers if youre doing any of the following 1 snore like a drilling machine no one does this deliberately but it can be very disturbing and irritating for your partner to lose sleep because of it at least make an attempt and acknowledge the problem to start with you could also visit your doctor since there are things you can do to solve this problem 2 be a clingon clinging to your partner for dear life can become very stifling expecting the other person to take responsibility for your happiness and entertainment is the quickest way to make them feel claustrophobic and want to hit the road do your own thing and get a life that way the relationship is much more likely to survive 3 comparing constantly no one likes being compared there will always be someone somewhere who is thinner prettier richer more witty more handy a better dresser a better driver and so forth being compared to anyone only heightens ones sense of inadequacy and often reduces ones willingness to do something about a situation 4 not listen no one can be on full alert all the time but when someone is talking about important arrangements or issues do them the favour of giving your full attention sometimes your partner may be talking about things they find difficult or painful and if you dont listen attentively they might not talk to you next time but to someone else 5 be extensively jealous and possessive this again reveals your own sense of insecurity and your belief that you dont really deserve to have this person as a partner a little jealousy is natural but overpossessiveness can begin as something irritating and end up as a major issue the quickest way to end a relationship is to restrict someone else no one likes feeling imprisoned and the lure of freedom will become very strong and when your partner packs hisher bags you will only have yourself to blame 6 always be late there is no point in being fanatical about time but if you are always late for everything your partner will start to resent you maybe he or she really would like to see the opening scenes of movies or get to dinner parties when they are still at the drinks stage make the effort to be on time it shows respect for the other person 7 constantly complain there are times when complaining is appropriate such as when you find you are paying for the whole streets