watch the full segment on huffpost live mtv veteran kurt loder recalled an infamous 1989 controversy involving skid row kurt loder talks sebastian bachs controversial aids tshirt gay marriage as nbc is reporting local law enforcement officials are investigating the case as a hate crime after learning the suspect new york man fatally shot in alleged antigay hate crime over her french fries and diet coke a 5yearold girl saw me become a monster and learned what hate was when my wife kisses me goodbye in front of my office in midtown i feel that little girls stare over and over but aged 30 years i want to be safe in nyc but i feel like a monster