the guys said hum aapke saath toh nahin match laga sakte na match toh equality ka hota hai mere friends kahenge ladki ko harate hue sharam bhi nahin aayi says radhika sharma a du student if a girl beats a boy at a sport it becomes a huge deal boys are actually mocked if they lose to a girl people say things like chudian pehen le ladki se haar kar aaya hai says rohan narang an engineering student where i live kids play games like hideandseek together but when it comes to any of the sports the guys if they let their sisters play with them say yaar isko dheere ball dalna ladki hai bechari said kalika mehra an engineering studenttoo athletic to be attractive not only are girls considered not strong enough for some sports apparently they magically develop some special muscles which make them unfeminine and undateable if they play sports girls say that if theyre good at sports theyre often mocked at school for being less womanly apparently some girls even quit sports because they didnt want to seem unattractive a classmate of mine was very good at sports but throughout her school life she was addressed as stud hulk and sabu she was not even overweight or very tall not that that would have justified these comments says sohini aggarwal from ambedkar university once when we were in class ix most of my female friends stopped playing the sports they enjoyed it had suddenly become uncool for girls to play because their boyfriends thought girls who were into sports were too aggressive to date says shireen a student of class xi any girl who is into sports is seen as not curvy enough or too muscular a friend of mine who was fairly good at sports would never do pushups for her gym test even if that meant a lower grade because after the test guys would tease the girls who could do the entire set theyd say yaar tere dole toh mujhse bhi bade honge nahin says sanchi a du studentcan girls and boys play as a team in most schools and colleges girls and boys have mutually exclusive teams for a friendly match it is still okay for boys and girls to play together but when it comes to serious business where winning and losing matter the teams dont mix the argument generally is that girls have lower stamina says purnima from hansraj college i play matches with my female friends at times but if i know anything about some of the other guys it wouldnt be the greatest idea for girls to play with them people seem to have taken movies like kuch kuch hota hai too seriously if they get to play with girls they will be like khelte khelte pat jaegi yeh toh things might be different if theyre allowed to play together as kids says sridhar kumar singh hansraj college when it comes to sports like archery girls and boys