request go out and be his playmatebody language an effective tool body language is yet another tool which babies deploy profusely to emote when my son is excited he expresses the feeling by moving his legs and hands rapidly his eyes widen which are then yoked with cooing sounds like oooo aeehhh mum awahh etc indicating his other needs they say when a baby is born mother is born too as a mother one learns to tune in to her childs frequency my son has also empowered me to learn this secret language of love something which i was also born with as an infant but forgot to use aplenty as i grew upscientific and spiritual connection the feeling is like that of a magician who can make the baby smile pacify and comfort his pure soul the magic wand is that of unconditional love which facilitates interaction at a spiritual level too it is the intimacy of the two souls which adds depth and connect to each action in nurturing the other the efficacy of this fact is scientifically proven too neurolinguistic programming nlp has a concept called mirroring which holds that in order to create harmony between us and the person we are talking to we mirror their gestures expressions and postures my son and i mirror each others verbal expressions when i reproduce his coos mumbled words and expressions the result is no less than a rendition of some worldclass poetry played out by orchestra it is truly the infinite interaction with finite vocabularyreal communication is a lyrical ballad endless gabble defines the space which my kid and i cohabit an interaction where he babbles and i understand yes together we communicate arent these the grounding principles of real communication model taught in school the place where the symphony of feelings play a lyrical ballad castigating powerless words a world where the tiny ones creation of meaningless meh meh carry profound resonance that even a litany of thousand words put together cant deliver i feel if to be a woman is a thing of joy then being a mother is pure ecstasy as one can bank upon what unicef describes as social capital for building a better world with better understandingneed to open communication channels i have learnt that unless communication channels that connect the separate individual worlds are kept open and functioning to receive each others lifegiving energies we are doomed to loneliness alienation and suffering communication skills are vital for a joyous successful and healthy life and yet lets face it we just dont know how we are unskilled at this most crucial of tasks we blunder along venting reacting insisting dominating manipulating blaming and withdrawing with little or no awareness we fail to register the other or our own inner world for that matter we can only communicate appropriately when we are in control over ourselves to do this we must free ourselves of our fears and inhibitions our assumptions and prejudices our needs