when things get intense its better to give yourself time and space so that you can make a wise decision rather than impulsivity to guide your discipline till youre a student your maturity level isnt that high as when you hit the real worldgirls who get married too young who have had very minimal exposure face a real hard time settling down this is because their maturity levels are not high enough which is from the mental health perspective from the physical health perspective their reproductive organs are also not mature enough having said that one should wait at least until the early 20s to have a child or expand your family concluded dr rachna