that it didnt turn out the way we thought it would im not stupid to believe that it was a great film but i feel that the experience has given me a lot i will never defend it but i wont renounce it either ill defend my film when i feel that its a damn good film and you are still running it down so many people come up to me and say that they didnt like udta punjab or highway but there are far too many people who have loved it so to each his ownpeople see flashes of your sister pooja bhatt in you she stood out for her choice of roles and performances shes strong opinionated and speaks her minda lot of people tell me that i think its the upbringing pooja and i might have different ideologies but we are cut from the same cloth and it reflects in the way we have shaped upwith so many creative and opinionated people in the family what are the conversations like at the bhatts residenceoh we fight all the time and have these stupid arguments mostly the reasons are petty my house is a mad place and no one wins an argument because everyone wants to put their foot down i dont argue with my dad over politics instead whenever i want to know more i ask him we have a family group and whenever i see that hes not commenting on something i prod him and then he takes over of course sometimes his answers are vague and he gives me ambiguous oneline answers too recently shah rukh said that i should make bad choices also and that i am too good too soon a few days later i had a random message from dad saying dont be a bonsai be a mighty oak and i am like hello what is this please explain then he told me what he meant and in what context so thats how we are as a familyyou said that highway changed you in many ways is there a role that has had a similar impactudta punjab had an effect and it was a hardhitting one actually my character in dear zindagi is very similar to me i share too many shades of closeness with it in one of the teasers kyra says that she hates couples all of us have gone through that feeling where we have hated relationships after a breakup there are many such moments that most of us can connect with instantlyyou once said that you feel the safest in front of the camera is it because in those moments you can be someone else without the fear of being judgedfor the last four years being in front of the camera has been my life i feel most comfortable there when i am facing the camera i am not myself i am my character so i dont have to think about anything else in the real world not