month relationship with a 30yearold married man who lied to me at first saying he is unmarried and then fooled me by saying that he doesnt have any relationship with his wife i blindly agreed and even got physically intimate in my home later i tried my best to break up now after three months this guilty feeling of lying to my parents and getting intimate is still haunting me was it my fault is it necessary to tell my future husband about my past because of my past relationship i feel making love is a mechanical thing is it truewhat you have experienced is your naivety at 20 it is possible that you ignored warning signals in your desire to be with him but do not for one minute believe that there was any malintent or deception from your end as for your future love is something beautiful and meaningful shared between two people and honesty is a part of it however if you feel that you would like to bury your past make sure that its buried and not living in your heart or headi had been somewhere once to meet my friends there i met a girl who was my friends friend later on my way back home my best friend said he also noticed her i think he said it was love at first sight he doesnt even know her but hes asking me to talk to her on his behalf hes kind of attracted to her please guide me in this case where i will be just a messenger boyyoure playing cupid in a sense so weigh and aim the arrow with care first enquire from your friend whether she is involved with anyone or fresh out of a relationship and what kind of person she is if all is clear and its not a situation to be handled with caution befriend her and tell her she has a secret admirer and that you will list his five best qualities and if she approves you would get the two to meet laugh and add how can it hurt at best just say thanks for the coffee dazzle him for the last time with your smile and walk awayi am a 20yearold boy im in love with a girl of the same age she loves me and bears a lot of pain for me but i think that she wouldnt be in my future because she has a lot of suitors she said she only loves me but i cant believe my luck at times what should i do marry her my girlfriend has a good impression where everybody likes her and this makes me tense i tried to break up once but she gets really upset but i never want any guy to turn up with chocolates or flowers again i hate her sometimes because she smiles at these guysfirst all of this jealousy insecurity and not believing in yourself and your own self worth