if the findings of a recent study are to be believed the modernday man has an uphill task when it come to impressing the woman of his dreams real relationships a recent study conducted by a parenting website surveyed 9000 women aged 16 to 75 on what they look for in a longterm partner the findings show that todays woman wants it all when it comes to her man she wants a highearning honest ambitious and handsome partner with skills in and out of the bedroom like carrie from sex and the city young women want their very own mr big older women are keener on looks and money than their younger counterparts who want it allsiobhan freegard cofounder of the website says its interesting to see what each generation of women looks for in a man and how younger women really seem to want it all looks money ambition and honesty the fact that the importance of sexual chemistry dips in your 30s and 40s suggests that women could be going through a temporary sexual midlife crisis as they concentrate on their careers and raising a familyalso despite the differences in womens wants both generations agree on one thing sexual chemistry is a must the results also show that women in their 70s value sexual chemistry more than those in their 40s