cant deny the fact that relationships have generally fallen prey to many modern world factors like high stress long work hours mobile dependency and social media narcissism a condition where an individual spends a large part of his day is self promotion according to sunaina gandhi a us based clinical psychologist and special educator fb and whatsapp have started acting as social podiums for individuals where they can easily show their emotions through pictures and posts their dp display picture status messages and posts say a lot about their life and emotional state gandhi claims that failure of so many relationships is to be blamed on the drastic decline in patience amongst people they want to gratify their needs as soon as possible this has led people to become more selfcentred and insecure and no prizes for guessing that people are no longer patient enough to work towards their relationships and have in fact started comparing their lives with others due to heightened level of insecurity individuals are indulging in social media stalking by taking tours of others profiles some people are stalking their spouses to keep track or seek attention some are stalking their colleagues to keep an eye on their progress social media has become the compact peephole for people concludes gandhi well with the facebook updates of couples reaching the courtroom guess its time for indians to actually try some social detox