upon coming out publicly in may 2010 i thought that that would be last time i would ever have to come out boy was i wrong since then i have had to come out again and again but last week i found myself in a comingout situation that i had never experienced before and i wasnt sure what to do coming out again i think about harveys impassioned plea quite often it whispers in my brain with both inspiration and reservation inspiration because as an out woman i have experienced what only coming out will teach you and reservation because as a christian i also know that coming out and purging all secrets can be a dangerous painful prospect you must come out how harvey milks challenge resonates with gay christians today