in this noisy world a single genuine voice can be hard to find you need nerves of steel to be able to survive the highs and lows of this world and remain grounded his films pyaasa and kaagaz ke phool were about the inability of people to express whats troubling them when you live alone in big cities you need to have a good support system to pad you from the jerks in life the loneliness of vivekas inner mind pushed her to a breaking point if youre low dont cut yourself out insecurity is an overwhelming emotion in any creative profession the world is fascinated by these stars make new friends reconnect with old ones cultivate a hobby or focus on a cause those with supportive families survive the storms londonbased filmmaker nasreen munni kabir who compiled a book yours guru dutt intimate letters of a great indian filmmaker points out how guru dutt experienced great emotional anguish and loneliness like actor lily tomlin said were all in this alone and loneliness is the dirty secret in our outgoing world guru dutt had tried to commit suicide about two years before he finally passed away they look like they have it all till inner demons push them to the brink a good family support system can help you come out of darkness suicides are showbizs worst trend he was after all a married man pull back and make a go of it understand it is acceptable to talk about your inner pain and failure says film expert bhawana somaaya showbiz is not a place for the weak for designer alexandar mcqueen too the ache of living became too much the darkness is personal and the void can become overpowering actor kangana ranaut says our world is lonely in an interview before her death she said sometimes im invited to places to brighten up a dinner table like a musician these are stars living on the edge its the loneliness of the long nights that take a toll just like his mentor isabella blow who drank weedkiller to end her misery she had just mentally detached herself from her relationship with raj kapoor even nargis thought of suicide before she met sunil dutt after her death her husband wrote issy always looked amazing but inside she was very insecure i once overheard a remark about me she looks so bad in real life it can haunt even those who have a family says psychiatrist avdesh sharma when the mind gets used to the highs the lows can be devastating and theres a lack of belonging there is shame and scandal exhibitionism and eccentricity but there is also an energy a fatal attraction about the world of cinema that is obsessive people start withdrawing and build walls marilyn monroes probable suicide was attributed to loneliness the battles of the inner mind can be hard to interpret in her death viveka babajees individual spirit lost out in this sophisticated