once and for all ill say that its easy to pass judgements sitting in some dark room and with access to the internet what isnt easy is to understand both sides of the story and have a sensible approach he saysi was reading everything that was being said about me and my family on social media it did affect me for some time but i also had people who stood by me throughoutgashmeer mahajanimy father wasnt perfect nobody isthere are two sides to every person everybody craves perfection but nobody is perfect neither am i nor was my father shares gashmeer as he briefly explains the relationship between him and his father while it was said that we had dumped him in a tiny apartment and were ourselves living a life of luxury i just want to put this out there that he had chosen to stay separately on his own for the last 20 years as a family we couldnt do much but accept it because you cant force someone to do something they dont want to it was pretty much a onesided relationship he would visit and stay with us when he would feel like it and when he felt he didnt want to be with us and wanted to live freely on his own he would leave when my first film had released he stayed for a longer period of time he was a moody person who liked to be selfsufficient he didnt like anyone to do the work that he could be it cooking his own food maintaining the house or keeping himself safe also the reason why caretakers sent to his place used to be removed by him within a day or two says gashmeer adding but since the last 3 years he had started limiting his contact with people including us his family and his closest friends he wasnt someone who would strike up a conversation with neighbours or be part of a morningwalk group where he stayed this was also a prime reason behind us learning about his death late all this may sound like a justification and honestly at this point anything i say will be interpreted in multiple ways and i have made peace with that gashmeer also shares that while his father might not have been the most ideal person he chooses to focus on the good part there were multiple reasons that led to strained relations between us but he was my father and my mothers husband there are many deeply personal aspects involved in this but certain dark secrets of a family are not to be put on public display he was one of the most handsome actors in the industry whose smile was infectious i choose to focus on that shares gashmeergashmeer mahajani with his family including father ravindra mahajaniwhile it was said that we had dumped my father in a tiny apartment and were ourselves living a life of luxury i just want to put