be broadmindedenough to have sex with someone you are naturally attracted to says24yearold jayant batra working with an mncfully supporting the aboveargument rajat gupta 24 working as an executive with a private firm quipsmost guys believe in living in the present rather than wasting time thinkingabout the distant future so if a girl asks me for sex on our first date illoblige willingly much privacy most of the times itsthe venue for the date and the surrounding atmosphere that lures young couplesto have sex in case of men they should not insist incessantlyon asking the girl to be dropped back so as to avoid any possibility of apassionate contact with her sometimes too much of skin show on the first day itself gives out awrong vibe avoid anyprovocative discussion you should avoidindulging into an intimate conversation related to sex as a subject because ifeither of you drop a subtle hint or initiate such a topic the opposite sex mayfeel you to be an easy catch who doesnt attach much meaning to a sex escapade personally i believe in forging an emotional bond beforeindulging in close moments or sex when we asked gen xabout how comfortable they were to have sex on their first date they seemedpretty divided on their opinions however26yearold call employee kartik mehra shares you cant always blame men forsex on a first meeting gettingtoo hot and heavy opt for comfort clothing and remember the man should judge you byyour brains demandfor sex on the first date makes it clear that you are not interested in a longterm relationship i dont see anything immoral in having sex on the first meeting it can be reallydangerous as it doesnt allow you to be in your right senses and unknowinglyyou may agree upon a sexual act which you might regretlater at times its the girl who insists on it and on gettinga negative response from the guy very often women feel offended merely one date cant familiarise you muchwith a person that you agree to get cosy in bed immediately retorts22yearold sakshi arora working as a client and media relations executive thus shun away private places like a hotel room or a friendsplace that allows you to get cosy you feel completely used the level ofguilt is extremely high in case there was alcohol involved and you develop ahatred for the opposite sex that lasts a lifetime prevention as we all know is better than cure soplay safepeoplemonikarawalindiatimescoin nothing is a big deal as long as its healthy and done with fullconsent avoidtoo other than thisthe physiological upshot is tough to deal with in case the relation doesntcontinue after a few sexual episodes often you fall in love with someone at the very first stanceonly to regret your hasty decision if youre a ladytry arranging for your own conveyance so that your date doesnt get a chance toask you for a drop back home dr sharma adds there are repercussions likesexually transmitted diseases pregnancy and aids that arise its always