life coach and author by profession from left to right ayandrali holidaying in maldives ruckika during her last visit to ukfrom left to right ayandrali holidaying in maldives ruchika during her last visit to ukbeing single means being lonelyjust like every other decision in life being single comes with its own set of pros and cons one of them may be the emotional void and ayandrali who does not deny it opines i completely second the fact that being single can be lonely sometimes but on the other hand i also see married people who feel lonely as well for me its more about how to perceive things what is the guarantee that my husband will give me emotional support when i need it what if hes carrying his own emotional baggage and i have to handle his issues along with mine i definitely dont want that in liferuchika has her own take not everyone needs a companion for emotional support i have my students some quality friends and family who stand by my side alwaysabhishek agarwal 39 feels nobody is single by choice its about when destiny drops the right people in your life i have no qualms in settling down but i need to find the person with whom i can spend the rest of my life with everybody has their own journey some find love in their school days and some take their own sweet time like me casual dating flings and familywhat about casual dating and flings ayandrali instantly answers why not everyone need some quirkiness in your life on a serious note flings have taught me life lessons and have actually made me a stronger version of myself i dont trust anyone in the blink of an eye and have a better grip on my life in fact being single has liberated me from preconceived notions about relationshipsand what about having a family to fall back on after a tiring day the societal norms are changing i dont mind adopting a kid and having my own little family one day life has taught me to live in present i am okay settling down if i find the right person and completely fine even if i dont adds ruchikafor some career comes firstits all about how you prioritise things we belong to a generation that is quite career oriented and is running a rat race to be better than their peers is that impacting the relationships status as well well to some extent yes i have been completely absorbed in building my career since my twenties i actually never had time for relationships how could i have committed to a person when i was under financial responsibilities and had career on the top of my priority list tells rohan jain 34oh commitment is scarywith livein relationships becoming common and dating apps available just a few clicks away the concept of commitment dedication and loyalty have taken a back seat for many in fact our generation is