you can argue that people reconcile out of fear or crappy financial consequences or keeping it together for the kids but i also think mixed up in there is compassion a great big heart that is trying very hard to love someone who has grievously hurt them the compassion trap whether you are looking for some diy inspiration for your big day or want to capture every moment of your reception in real time now when it comes to any aspect of planning your wedding theres an app for that the top 5 wedding apps of 2013 when you become a parent your priorities naturally shift but that doesnt mean you should disappear minimalist you selfcare is not selfish