we are not perfect and nor do we claim to be please dont try to change us as we are happy the way we are and we want to be loved with our imperfections women love shopping but we dont and we can never make shopping a hobby so please understand that shopping may make you happy but for us men well its just a task that needs to get done we are different as the saying goes men are from mars and women are from venus please understand that we are different dont expect that we will have the same likes as you we may carry the committed label around but that doesnt mean we cant talk to any other woman do give us space boys are boys and so we need sometime off we need time to hang out with guys play with our gadgets and do things that we like do give us some time off for ourselves if we miss your call we are not avoiding you on purpose we may just have not been around the phone so please trust us we may not be as good at talking but we are good at listening unlike women men dont share every little thing that happens with them in the day we would rather just listen to you please dont ask us the question am i looking fat it puts in a situation where we know that we have to say no or we are dead meat we are forgetful we may not be good at remembering dates like birthdays anniversaries etc accept our apologies god has made us that way what can we do emotional man as the saying goes men can seem difficult to deal with but we are emotional too we dont like to reveal our emotional side stand by us in the good and bad days and we will do the same for you forever