actor baburaj recently made some interesting observations about marriage during a tv show the actor remarked that most divorces happen with couples with only one child while a second child signifies the strength of a marriage i have been studying couples for a while now and have found that most divorces happen with couples with only one child the first child just happens in the initial excitement of marriage by the time you think of a second child the passion would have died down and it would be a planned decision but a second child means the marriage is for keeps there will be little chances of separation the actor also said that the years when the children are small are the most trying for the parents and once they get older the couple will regain their romance if you can survive those trying times your marriage will last he said a