ross said he didnt follow the cowboys growing up it all came out when my son was very small she said my parents were missionaries it was in a courtyard like a beautiful tiered trellised garden ross said and im like wait what ross said other people may think itd be amazing to date a football player but immediately i knew in my mind that that was gonna be resistance to our relationship and might make it more difficult so there was a whole thing going on that was antigay he says youve been a good guy i didnt have the option to go into the shadows i think what was the big jawdropper was that he played professional football in the nfl ross said i mean there was nights i cried myself to sleep rohrer said he was scared about what reaction hed receive the couple met randomly at a restaurant in west hollywood rohrer said