only a few people come forward to give condolence or share the sorrow on top of it if one is unable to send them off in a dignified manner the guilt worsens nisarg tale an engineering student who has taken a lot of effort to rear his two german shepherd dogs echoes the same sentiment it is hard to think of the inevitable day without getting a lump in the throat right now i am happily spending my days with my bundles of joy alid and clara but i dread the day when they will leave when alid was young we almost him to a disease but he fought through and is now enjoying a healthy life i know what i went through in that one week the prospect of burying or cremating your beloved child is a difficult process so when a pet owner has to deal with not only losing them but also finding a decent place to bury them it gets tough arpita pandey a banker who recently lost one of her pets says in bhopal most of the houses have an attached gardens so some owners bury their pets there itself as it also serves as a memorial meanwhile most of them are left without any options to give a decent farewell to their beloved pets it is sad as well as tedious hunting for good place to bury your companionwords of solace dr ahirwar who has seen and dealt with a lot pet owners in the time of their grief offers some words of advice to deal with the loss i understand the situation of a pet owner when their dogs die we see many tough people breaking down in our premise when they lose their beloved pets it is a very difficult time as not everyone can relate to the loss and some people show absolute disregard to them by saying kutta hi toh tha itna kya rona however one should keep their wits about them and not fall for such lines i would say if you want to deal with the loss it is best to adopt another one so that you get to experience the same joy again i dont say do it immediately but eventually as you are ready if you lose a dog it is not necessary to get another dog you can get some other animal or bird as well the joy they bring will soothe some of your wounds and if you are ready adopt another dog or cat that might not be getting a proper family to live with this way you end up saving two lives saptaparna biswas