as these todos start to accumulate even if they are things you want to do all of the sudden all the space you desired for peace harmony and chilling this december turns into holiday stress that sucks up your time and pushes your peace right out the window what to do if youve got too much to do this holiday admittedly sometimes intheflesh encounters are important in establishing a deeper intimacy but anitas friendship one of those small good things in my daily life was very real despite the delivery system and it makes me think maybe theres room for real friendship in the virtual realm when the death of a facebook friend hits home in real life