in this blog i share kharys story as well as the photos he took while practicing 40 days of joy 40 days of joy a happiness practice my mother died in january of 2010 and i am no longer a caregiver and when i wish she were here to advise or support me i think back to a time before our roles reversed to a time when she was my caregiver i know her well enough to guess how she might advise me today a caregivers identity crisis the stress and strain of constantly being connected can sometimes take your life and your wellbeing off course gps gps guide the worlds most magical bridges