what just happened see what hes got planned give him a chance because hes the man youre like the greatest guy lets say his name is john there is no difference stander added he should be the one to hunt you down not vice versa 4 youre a catch but im not sure were on the same page shes not cooking im moving in with my girlfriend youre at day 366 and he hasnt proposed you tell him im taking my stuff out and ive got to tell you this has been the happiest time in my life it was really great and i wish you the best of luck in a relationship 5 if you must leave if he cant come up with a plan you have to go on thursday theres going to be an awkward pause the married in a year author told abc news youre only supposed to give him four seasons the reality star continued about those frustrated by their lack of bling 151 patti stanger known as the million dollar matchmaker thinks it only takes 12 months to get your boyfriend to propose say goodbye to emotions once you take your emotions out of the equation youre no longer attached to the outcome she advised what if he comes back because you cant take away the sex maybe youre living together which is my no no without a ring so now you have to go back to yourself and say what do i want millionaire matchmaker patti stangers holiday dating tips valentines day dating tips from patti stanger and paul carrick brunson stanger who will return to help people find love on we tv tonight at 10 pm etpt said she has five tips to get your man to drop to one knee 1 tell him meet me at tiffanys what is your plan 3 now what do you do because you get to choose and decide your future but you want him to come up with the plan hes going to panic youre going to call a recruiter and youre going to say i want to get another job in another company that appreciates me whats the difference between the job and the man shes not doing my laundry and once youre not attached to the outcome who has the power you do hes going to think im not getting sex anymore and i know weve been living together for x amount of time so you say john listen when we first met i really thought we were going to get serious and get married in that case stanger said she has one suggestion for your potential hubbytobe shhhh then you say nothing stanger continued for those thinking this all sounds too simple stanger drew an analogy if you were promised a promotion after 12 months but you dont get it what are you going to do next 2