when all else fails just laugh laughter sends a message that no words can ever quite match and as long as it isnt done as a putdown sharing a laugh is always a positive feelgood way to communicate without words people and their behaviors sometimes its just crazy people should forget the fact that their friends are either married or engaged they arent part of their relationship nor is there a life script that says you need to adhere to societal norms or rush to get married just because others have done so what i learned about dating from mom and dad