i think we should practice asking for help we can start small like by asking for directions although the gps devices on our phones are rapidly making that need obsolete or asking someone to hold the door for us when our arms are full baby steps are fine asking for and giving help we should do it more for our family the autism spectrum was like the alaskan winter there was no light the darkness went on and on and on then one day a yolkhued color broke across the horizon and it stayed but we havent forgotten what the darkness was like my son had autism then he didnt