his story we had a love marriage4 years back and my wife always had this dream of being a mother so she was after my life to start a family just a month after our wedding i was okay with it because i knew her dream well and we are well settled too however it had been almost 4 years since we have been trying we have even seen different doctors and they all said that she and i both are weak in different ways to have kidsread alsohis storyher story i dont love my husband anymorenot every marriage is smooth and devoid of hiccups because there are 2 different individuals involved in a marriage with different opinions here is a case where a wife who had a love marriage feels she has fallen out of love from her husbandone day i got to know from an acquaintance that my wife had been consulting atantric for the past week or so to remedy our inability to have kids she never spoke to me about it being an educated woman i never realised how desperate she had become i spoke to her about this but she became very defensive i cannot take this her pain and also the dark trap she is walking into please help how do i knock some sense into herher story my husband and i have been together for 8 years pre and postmarriage he knew i always wanted to have 2 kids but our medical reports say otherwise all doctors have said it wont be possible unless i go for surrogacy even ivf is impossible for my body just a few backs back i got to know of a tantric who has done wonders for two couples there was no sacrifice expected so after some time i gathered courage and went to him he just asked me to bring my husband and my hair entwined together a few dead insects and a fresh pair of both our underclothes so what is wrong if i leave no stone unturned my husband found out and our fights have turned into something very ugly i am unable to accept that i cannot have kids what is wrong if i try everything please help me make my husband understand my perspectiveresponse by vishal bhardwaj founder and relationship coach at predictions for successthere is no one more powerful than destiny moreover parenthood is a behaviour if you wish to be a parent and the biological way of producing a baby seems infeasible you simply can go and adopt a baby with the right legal proceduresfor her motherhood is a wonderful feeling and we live in a society where a woman is incomplete without having kids but if you wish to be a mother you can be someone who needs a mother also do not believe in any superstition that promises you lead to motherhood if as a couple you and your husband both have certain medical complications to conceiving it could