second date no one is getting anything out of being dishonest and you never know when youll have an awkward runin into him or her dont stretch the date9 dont go all the way keep it in your pants trying to score on your first date is never a good idea unless both the parties have different kinds of arrangements and never planning on seeing each other again that is all on you and your date but if you think there is chance for a second date holding out on your date is advisable10 dont come out as too strong remember you are on a date and not a battle ground if there is however a difference of opinion stir the conversation on a lighter subject where you both dont have to carry on with lets agree to disagree motion11 up and ante dont do it it is not a competition just two people on a date if your date is telling you about their last trip to london or cannes you dont have to be been there done that just nod and go along with it12 feminists hold your ground dont be an advocate you have the right to enjoy finer things in life it is not always about struggle if at the end of the date he offers to pay the bill just know that he is not at all patronizing you13 dont spill all your beans here are few things better left unsaid like your family genealogy about your birthmark or your whole tell me about yourself section or worst what you did last summer they might be kind enough to laugh at your stories or a give out playful nod but all along they might be playing a tune inside their head and would tune you out completely keep something for your future dates14 its all in the past let not start the date with previously on my life because talking about your exes is the worst first date conversation topic ever never go down that road if you want to be open about it just be discreet with details remember this is not a tellall live interview session15 dont be a creep as far as friend requesting your date goes you might want to wait until 23 dates never be the one to send them a friend request while you are still on a date or as soon after the date is over dont ever do that try keeping your addfriend trigger finger under controlcompiled by lency pangin