child want pick vocation parents choice bid make wellchosen perfect till clip done keeping mind interest aptitude child dangerous parents self fabricate logic impose choice toxic parents dictate career option sending children guilt trigger off seeking value payback years upbringing get along daman second year student came across soft verbalize diligently participative career counselling sessions clear goal picking job engineer mnc based state one interactions travel opens mind builds personality expressed fear much suffering bring upon parents blame job farther home interest echoed three others group youngsters poke into sadly emerged youngsters playing parents desires fear hurting losing saddening see even educated nurture hangout emotional blackmail comes influencing children careers another youngster gauri masters psychology hesitatingly shared doctor father mother school instructor sent brother hostel higher studies keeping back since felt needed trade protection gauri mother reply said one child side preparedness emergency many examples despite educated generation rear insecure filled brim building complex managed build course lives navigated journey parenthood lived insecurities beliefs probably imbibed parents gradually passed children upbringing name family values dubiousness much influence parents children lives kind mold parents err pick default on societal programming bump generations ago willing let go biggest sufferers children sadly parents false belief true ownership child time passes gets stronger bid protect children fail see individual entities hampering growth questioning nous rendering unable make sound decisions stable guess would bear in mind tike brought casual dose cared always slope satisfying think examples applicable parenting general belief says know right child unfortunately tougher belief chances order child life choices thus greater chance child development low self esteem inability undertake challenges form independent meaningful emotionally intense mightiness feel learning slowly break umbilical cord giving distance small fry taking small independent decisions accepting failures trusting decisions validating capability disco biscuit long manner forming healthy child bail finally requires shift perspective realize one us experience discover life meter ways gulneet chahal assistant director pau ludhiana certified life sentence skills trainer coach