you dont look at the clock you dont sit down you dont look tired or impatient or frustrated you act as though theres nowhere else youd rather be than here like nothing is more important than this moment labor nurse before the divorce my family was a like blanket that kept my children warm with its love after the divorce my family resembles a quilt but a blanket and a quilt still serve the same purpose advice from a broken family during the holidays when people fall in love they usually want to jump in and make the marriage commitment they generally believe wholeheartedly that what they feel now will never change and they dont anticipate what will happen after a few years of marriage 7 things a sex therapist says you must know before tying the knot