im back from a crazy girly holiday in greece i cant begin to tell you the fun excitement sense of independence adventure freedom and happiness that came as part and parcel of being abroad with a group of likeminded womeni find it so amusing that there are many eyebrows raised about the concept of a girls holiday especially if its abroad its almost as if it were synonymous with sex bad behaviour and exploring our wild side nothing could be further from such misconceptions a girls holiday is an invigorating oxygen shot its almost essential when the carbon dioxide of drab monotonous daily routines fogs the brain and saps the spirittwo girls in our group were married three were divorced and we all have kids of course it was filled with gossip exchange of life stories perspectives and lots of laughter but what made it uber special was that each of us were equals and each an incredible emotional support system to the other and what made it truly relaxing was the lack of man to pander to or children to be responsible about constantlywe jumped off boats swam deep into the sea soaked in hot springs danced on top of tables at restaurants moaned about the onset of ageing and cellulite while tucking into waffles drowning under chocolate sauce and banana caramel icecream discussed our upcoming work assignments whilst sipping chilled champagne on sunny beaches tottered over cobbled streets whilst shopping in our high heels and captured every moment of the trip in thousands of photosi feel so sorry for those women that are controlled dominated suppressed and forbidden from taking such holidays its one of the most memorable uncomplicated and happy ways to holiday relive being free and form strong meaningful lifelong bonds with wonderful womeni went with my college friends on a boys holiday to goa a couple of us are in relationships and some single we partied a lot and took lots of photos including some of us with women in skimpy clothes just for fun one of the single guys in the group posted it on facebook and my girlfriend saw them though i was not in the photos with the women she is upset with me and cries every day as she feels im hiding something from her i love her like crazy and its killing me how do i win back her trustfact is you didnt do anything so you cant even apologise about it its just a jealousy spat i guess the only thing you can do is tell her to look deep into your eyes and her heart for the truth tell her shes welcome to snoop around but shell just be wasting her time and that her trust means a lot and her lack of trust says a lot tell her the single guys were entitled to their masti but you value her too much to lose her to a silly holiday romance that you never have and never intend