divorced or not dating can be a daunting prospect in any circumstance but theres one thing in particular that screams run that you should probably be aware of three little words you should never say on a first date how long have you and you and kurt been together my husband and i have been together since our first date watching sunday blended family friday meet katie and kurts family photos five years ago i made a new years resolution to do something i had long intended to do write a family history deeply personal for our children michael and caroline then 24 and 19 dear kids heres why you and i are history