love is beautiful but it can be lethal as well it can be the source of euphoric pleasure as well as unbearable pain when we are in love with someone we may constantly worry about losing him or her and when our heart is broken after a failed relationship there seems to be no hope no tomorrow and no life whatsoever but dont forget that a coin has two sides lets look at a few points that would help us to understand that a heartbreak can actually be a good thing as wellit will be a wakeup callthere must be a reason or two for which the relationship ended a break up gives you the opportunity of selfreflection even if you ended up breaking your heart not because of your own mistakes but for your partners faults take this as an opportunity to learn a lesson from it you two have to part ways because you were never meant to be together perhaps destiny has a better plan for youit teaches you to be bravefacing life after a heartbreak is not easy but you continue living dont you no matter how many sleepless nights you spend you get ready in the morning and go to work no matter how much you cry you will someday laugh over a funny joke wont you a heartbreak teaches you to be brave and strongyou learn to enjoy your own companyyes loneliness will irk you in the beginning but gradually you would learn to appreciate the time you spend with yourself this is the perfect opportunity to indulge in selflove or start a new hobby or two also isnt it the right moment to go for the solo trip you have been planning for yearsit tests your patiencethe pain following a heartbreak is so unbearable that it tests your patience like nobodys business there will be days when you will miss your partner so much that you would give anything to talk to him or her sometimes the floodgate of memories would unleash such a storm that you could hardly hold yourself from knocking at his or her door but you would always stop yourself at the last moment gradually your patience would help you go through such moments till the time your wounds heal completelyit prepares you for future relationshipsbesides the pain associated with a heartbreak we often overlook the lessons it teaches us for a future relationship its like a watch and learn experience you now know what mistakes to avoid and the qualities you should cherish