im pretty sure that every person reading this article or for that matter even those who are not own a cell phone and if they are in a relationship or once were or are looking for one they must have more than often depended on this little device to reach out to their partnerone does not need any survey or study to realize how important cell phones have become in our lives today it has grown beyond a simple tool to stay in touch and has often been the comforter communicator friend confidant and much more no one would have ever imagined the degree to which the cell phones status has risen in our lives from friendly chats to taking significant decisions it does it all cell phones have become so common that it is no longer unusual to see students talking and texting their friends even during lecture sessions while parents may have introduced their kids to cell phones thinking it would help keep a tab on them but for children its like being given a new lease of life the phone has especially come as a boon for those kids who are awakening to newfound feelings of love and find this tool an easy means to explore those feelings thus as with various other facets of our lives cell phones also have a huge role to play in our personal relationships distance has lost its meaning thanks to the cell phone which allows us to connect to our partner almost instantly ironically if the result of a new workshop is to be believed cell phones can actually prove to be a big hurdle in our love lives in their book how to play hard to get how to catch and keep mr right not mr right now relationships advice columnist dr cindy pan and radio personality bianca dye say that women who want to attract and keep a mans attention should go for the oldfashioned style of playing hard to get and write love letters for sms love messages can actually sabotage their prospects of finding lovethey point out that when a woman sends a sms to her boyfriend or a potential boyfriend she frets terribly till she hears from him the more time the man takes to respond to her message or call the worse her imagination gets she starts assuming that he is having an affair or probably isnt too impressed by her and is therefore avoiding herof course writing a love letter in blood may be charming in its own way but how much blood does one waste if one wants to communicate as frequently as possible in this instant sms era where you can text your loved one at the drop of a hat patience is no longer a practiced virtue dr sanjay chugh psychologist points out it is thanks to technology that nowadays even when partners are travelling they can be in constant touch with each other thereby reducing the missing factoranchal