wants to celebratewith a sexapade and when the team loses he wants to sleep quietly he hardlybothers what i want in both the situations my sexual urges hold no importanceand all that is important to him is his cricketcelebrationsmy husband was betting on thebangalore team to support him even i spent the whole evening watching thematch with him without any interest with an expectation that post the matchwell have a steamy night and as bangalore won my husband was so excitedthat i felt well have a great night ahead but quite unexpectedly hewent out to party with his friends leaving me home waiting i felt soworthless shares binal vohra amumbaibasedteacherinsecuritiesspeakwas it ok for binal to feelworthless or was she plainly exaggerating the issue as her husband feltanswers relationship counselor arvinder kaurit was natural for her to feelthat way her husband had sowed the seeds of insecurity in their relationshipand now every trivial issue will make those insecurities stronger in her mindsince she was left alone back home without any explanation now on she willmisinterpret and misunderstand his addiction for cricket as lack of love forhersolutiontheyhate it they crib about it and they try to kill it but still live with it their hubbys cricket love is what we are talking about wellafter spending long nights waiting for their hubbies and wasting weekends overmatches many women have finally shunned cribbing and explored their own way tobeat the cricket boredom while my husband watches matches i preferplaying a game on my playstation shares reena i go out shoppingon match days and if its a weekend i plan a girls day outleaving the husbands back home enjoying the match with their mates tellsgeetika pradhan mumbaibasedadvertisingprofessionalrelationship counselor arvinderreccomends its all about the levels of understanding and empathybetween partners if you respect your partners passion and give himherspace to enjoy the game you are clear of anymisunderstandingsalso at times you can get huddledwith him on the couch and watch the match together you never know that youmight develop interest for the game or his mood just swings from being plainsporty to sheer sensuous and you hit theboundarydevelopa passionlast but not the leastdeveloping your own area of interest is the best option to avoid fights croppingup due to clash of hobbies when you also have your own passion to follow notonly will you get a chance to keep your partner waiting for you while you arebusy having fun in your area of interest but youll also understand theemotions that your partner feels while following hisheartcharuamarindiatimescoinwhich isthe best position for sex