unless it is a cultural taboo do not shy away from mentioning the dead persons name or talking about the situation if he or she had been arrested you would use their name and talk about the details a horrible thing has happened and many people are hurting 10 ways to love a grieving friend back then heart disease was a death sentence about the only treatment a doctor could offer was bed rest the medical field couldnt stop or even slow the suffering much less prevent it aha at 90 how far weve come how much work remains you dont have to be steve jobs to change the world just be your best self and boldly power through whatevers holding you back to make it happen or do you want to come with me and change the world