query my wife is too attached to her family she visits them twice or thrice a week which is taking a toll on our marriage as we dont get enough time with each other even if we live apart from our parents she talks about them all the time how can i deal with thisresponse by aashmeen munjaal your wife is too attached to her family and understandably so if your problem is that she is giving quality time to her family and choosing them over you then i would suggest you shun such ideas from your mind in the world of manifestation and affirmation you shouldnt think what is bothering you rather think what you want if you want quality time with your wife think about that think about how you want to spend time with her for example if you wish to have her undivided attention for 5 hours daily then think about how you will spend those 5 hours qualitatively also start penning your thoughts write down your interests write down how you would like to spend time with your partner and you will see the change in your lifeas a professional ontologist i can also share another trick that will help put your mind at peace put an alarm on your phone and then close your eyes sit straight and visualise you and your wife talking about your favorite topics doing things that you want to do and having a great quality time together keep imagining it keep visualizing it and you will see wonders happening in your relationship within a week dont allow negative thoughts to come to your mind redirect them to all the positive things you want to happen dont give energy to your negative thoughts and channelise all your energy towards what you want i wish you luckontologist and relationship expert aashmeen munjaal founder shukrana gratitude foundationwant expert advice for your relationship send us a mail at expertadvicetoigmailcomread also tips to help support your partner through job lossread also his storyher story my wife thinks i am a loser