once the euphoria of having a baby wears off the scene at home changes for many new moms earlier you would be eagerly waiting for your husband to come back home from work or make spontaneous plans for the evening but now it is an exhausted you trying to throw a smile in his direction while pushing the baby towards him as you desperately want to go to the washroom in peace or to the kitchen to grab a bite the physical and emotional turbulence due to hormones at times makes it natural for women to put love for their partner on the backburner that leaves many relationships even the good ones staggering but given time they are bound to bounce back as things settle down and both of you get more sleep while sharing the workload there is a possibility that the relationship just gets strongerto keep the love going dont let intimacy take a backseat try these simple tricks to put love and energy back into your relationshipsex is a big issue for menwhile women do not feel like doing it for a long time after delivery men easily tend to feel sex deprived it is normal to have a bit of a lull in sexual activity after a baby is born dont try to postpone it for too long you can consult your doctor and as per their guidance start with it slowly confide in your friends who are mothers to learn from their experiences talk to your partner and make them understand the physical changes that you feel be more affectionatethis comes easy to women who have motherly feelings towards all after they have a baby including your partner too in this makes him feel wanted despite the lack of sexual activity send him cute texts through the day expressing your love and eagerness to be with him instead of the regular texts of complaints or grocery lists it will make you feel less guilty about ignoring him tooaccept help from othersget things organised by taking help from people around you look for a parttime house help or if your family can lend a hand to look after the baby for some time dont hesitate to accept it use that time to make plans with your partner it might just be an evening out to sit and chat or go for a stroll but it makes a big difference to the relationship stay connectedyou can avoid having sex and yet get physical with your partner when you are sitting and watching tv or even while rocking your baby to sleep snuggle up to him dont miss any chance that you might get to steal a glance hug or kiss sometimes make kisses more passionate instead of just a simple peck on the cheek these little touches mean a lot and makes you stay connectedenjoy all your emotionsholding each other just for a minute before getting out of the bed giving a kiss for no particular reason