what are we afraid will happen if we stop shoulding all over ourselves we have been taught mistakenly that if we dont should ourselves into action we will become like those giant sloths that hang on trees inert if not controlled we would be unkind ungrateful ungenerous unproductive and every other un you can think of how to stop shoulding yourself to death breaking free from the should police in our zeal to manage our increasing health problems we didnt notice that many health problems we are working to manage shouldnt even be there in the first place i have seen this trend in veterinary care as well true health in a faux health world how cnns escape fire applies to veterinary medicine