girls lets face it wedding is stressful for both the bride and the bridesmaids what with all those traditions and dressing up and speaking the right things looming large over your head so why not destress by visiting the spa gift the bride and yourself a day at a luxe spa get on those extremely comfortable spa couches and while the masseuse kneads away all those knotted muscles talk about the impending knotty affair2 organise a sleepover your bestie might not be able to spend much time with you after the wedding an interesting way to relive all those fun memories is by organising a sleepover at your place bring some potluck or order comfort food snuggle under the duvets go over albums and school yearbooks and get nostalgic3 try pole dancing who says bachelorette parties cant last for a month make the most of this us time by doing activities together train the bride on some sexy moves try pole dancing or some interesting dance form with friends if dancing is not your cuppa chai opt for a short package at a fitness training centre get into your gym clothes and sweat it out not only will the bride and you spend time together but also get in shape before the big day4 quiz the bride whats a bachelorette party if there are no fun games and what can be more fun than quizzing the bride about her fianc and asking her what certain things mean to her you can ask her about the courtship period her idea of a perfect wedding night or her fantasies you can also give her clues on character traits or some event and ask her to guess the person or the dates when it happened spin the bottle and play truth or dare if you want to heighten the fun5 throw a costume party posting photos online and making a scrapbook out of it is an integral part of a bachelorette party so why not make that the sole aim of yours throw a costume party get your friends to get creative dress up or dress down pucker up the pouts and get the camera clicking make a colourful album out of the pictures and save them for eternity