rashami desai never spoke about her marriage or problems with husband nandish sandhu until they participated in the dance reality show nach baliye recently the couple who didnt win the competition but was the first runnerup revealed many details of their relationship on the show but not all of them were pleasant when asked why she chose this platform to talk about these issues rashami told us its about the circumstances and the situation people pass a lot of judgment about each other in india and that is a tendency i dont like as a person i dont judge others because i have no idea what circumstances they are in so i never chose to talk to anybody in the media about my marriage nach baliye is a show about love so i was sure that people will not get any wrong message from it for example my mother and i fight sometimes but its never our intention to hurt each other thats very obvious and practical so i never wanted ki koi inn cheezon ka mazak udaye ya mere husband ya meri family ki disrespect ho thats why i decided that i wouldnt let this become a topic of discussion but national tv pe kis hisaab se dikhayenge aur kis jagah main bol rahi hoon that matters a lot we never wanted to talk about anything troubling or give out a wrong message humne socha tha ki jo bhi bolenge sach bolenge kuch galat nahi bolna hai on how her relationship with nandish has changed after the show she said there are a lot of things which i wont be able to put in words the way we see things usmein thode point of view change ho jaate hain weve understood about each other ki kahin na kahin hum mein communication zarur kam hai and kuch mistakes bhi hum kayi baar karte thay jo hum accept nahi karna chahte thay so we understood that we have to work on it and we did and were tryingread rashami asks nandish to apologise for the trouble in their marriage currently the actress is taking a break from work after nach baliye there are a lot of offers but im being a little choosy at this point ive done many shows back to back and i never had any time to spend with my family in the last nine or 10 months so now i want to spend some quality time with them she explained she hasnt done any fiction show after uttaran either but that she said was conscious uttaran went off air in january and after that honestly there werent many offers because that show ran for a long time so koi mujhe kaam dega bhi toh kis basis pe dega uttaran pe hi and already my character in it was so powerful that mujhe koi bhi dekhta toh wohi character dikhta my seniors have also advised me that jab bhi kuch karein hamesha break leke kariyega taaki aapne jo