unbreak my heart might be a great song to listen to but in real life its different being in a relationship is a great high but its certainly not easy when you are no longer in it everything suddenly looks painful dry and lifeless but as they say life must go on so here go a survivors guide to deal with breakup blues1 dont break your head over why the relationship didnt work in life some questions are answered best when they are left unanswered 2 talk to your close friend heshe can be of help to you3 revel in your new found single status develop a new hobby interest we know its easier said than done but give it a try4 if your bankaccount is loaded do indulge in retail therapy if its not its better to go for windowshopping a credit card debt is not a solution to your breakup it might hit you really hard after a while5 judge your own life as an outsider and that will give you a perspective6 join a health club not the one where heshe goes go for walks or join dancingkickboxing classes medical science has proved that any form of physical exercise is a great mood elevator theres no point in sitting and see the world pass by be a part of this world and get moving7 idle mind is devils workshop stay occupied organise parties for close friends at home change the decor of your housebachelor pad as that will clear clutter in your physical space and give you happiness too8 dont get into this habit of checking hisher status or wall posts every now and then in facebook dont show to the world how miserable you are without himher no need either to defriend himher remember emotional intelligence wins in the long run9 never ever get into a relationship immediately after your breakup give yourself some time10 now that you are single again prepare a brand new bucket list