its a clich that weekends are raunchier with a little extra homework you can spice up your weekdays as well with long commutes and hectic work hours no one can blame a couple for having a somewhat less than satisfying love life during the week as opposed to the weekend when couples have more facetime with one another however all relationships need that extra boost to work besides it is a fact already established that chemistry is something that couples need to work on 247 complacence has destroyed many a charmed union so we strongly recommend that if your sex life has been facing a bit of an ebb during the week with the odd raunchy weekend to make up for it you should see it as a sign that the only way is up here is our themed guide on how to spice up your chemistry during the week and a gentle disclaimer nothing is etched in stone if a theme works for you on a certain day feel free to swap themmonday dirty picture there is no better way to settle into the long week ahead other than watching a steamy flick after coming back home and while at it why not download or rent a film to charge up the atmosphere if porns not your significant others thing an erotic thriller or arthouse erotica such as 9 songs or lust caution might just do the magic a piece of advice the film is not a manual for what you need to do its merely a catalyst for action so if you watch 50 shades of grey it doesnt mean that you have to tie each other up after watching the filmtuesday food and wine ok so its not even midweek yet but adding a dash of romance could well set the tone for a sequel to your naughty monday and nothing works better than a bottle of wine between the two of you it would suffice to get you both toasted choose a light chardonnay given the weather complement it with lots of water to avoid dehydration it is not recommended that you or your significant other cooks remember the idea is to light up your evening with something romantic so you dont want to be overburdened instead why not surprise your lover by ordering in hisher favorite dish from her favourite restaurant avoid murg afghani or chicken tikka and the like stick to light crunchy fingerfriendly food better still opt for dishes that can be shared so that you both can have that crucial bonding momentwednesday workout together if youve conquered the hump of the week no pun intended and have made it to midweek its time for a stamina booster plan a jog or a brisk walk with your partner after working hours and reaching homeremember exercise stimulates the sex drive if you can arrange for a trial of one of the many experimental regimens that are being touted as the next best thing better