i share all this not because i want to say look at me i had a big old gay wedding but because i had never truly realized how much our family and friends really love and support us and how much americas antigay marriage zealots live in an alternative reality my big fat sacred gay wedding we have to be mindful of the words that come out of our mouths god says that we have the power to speak those things into existence that are not as if they were talk that talk honey sybrina fulton has refreshed the memory of the debilitating pain of my mother who could barely stand seeing sybrina standing at podiums and press conferences surrounded by men and microphones has been remarkable standing for sybrina fulton on mothers day