this resulted in a distance between the two of us finally we both had to visit a counselor who helped us see the problem for what it was they need to concentrate on the positives than seeing the negatives often patients seek an immediate solution but it takes time to make them realise that there isnt any immediate cure i was just not in a position to realise what was causing it and develop their bond from there onwards and talking about your problems is a great way of lowering high stress levels so yes it was extremely traumatic she adds often a low libido is caused by eating habits fatigue not enough sleep and many more physiological factors patients can often be cured by simply addressing their problems that is half the fight donebeat the physical aspect is more important and cant t be replaced by any other act he inevitably blamed it on my hormonal levels saying that women were victims of their hormones myth 8 sex is the only thing in a relationshipgautam nirula a sales executive says i was always told by my friends that a relationship is based on sex but thats such a huge misconception every time he suggested sex i refused his overtures as i was unable to feel any physical longing for him the hectic lifestyle of today bears ugly aftermaths and thus couples must figure out ways to destress and more than men its women today who complain about their low sex drive its important to question the basis of your relationship with your prospective partner then rather then taking the blame on yourself i was embarrassed to talk about my low libido with my peers and i just didnt know what was happening to me couples need to sit together and work out how on to improve their existing relationship women also get involved with their children once they become mothers so it takes a while to get back their normal drive like shweta trikha a struggling model reveals i found a lot of emotional succor from my partner especially because of the competitiveness that pervaded my work life they should look into common areas of interest that help them bond and find happiness together this went on till he broke off the engagement complaining that i was cold and frigid and undesirable so if you are a smoker kick the habit forget about doing anything that is normal instead think of ways to make yourself feel sexy and desired by your beau the best solution is to feel desired for desire to take precedence in your love lifemyth and instead of understanding her predicament i remained angry with her i always wanted sex and my wife kept on refusing me the woman must be going through some kind of complex feelings that need to be detangled to take the relationship forward at a physical level if you harbour anger or resentment about your partner you cant enjoy a gratifying