cougara woman 40 years or older who pursues a man at least eight years her juniorpuma a woman in her 30s who dates younger men and is often considered a cougarin trainingi exasperatedly feel that the expressionspuma and cougar have been mistakenly coined intheory the cougar phenomenon could have been an empowering termbut instead it mistakenly focuses on the words women who pursueand predatorlogically its ridiculous toassume a woman who is attractive successful confident and financially soundto be a predator i say this from experience that she is the hunted not thehunter far from being wanton she is in realitywantedwe may gasp at celebrity cougarrelationships such as demi moore and ashton kutcher susan sarandon andtim robbins madonna and jesus luz etc but in reality these sexy welloffsuccessful famous hotbodied sensational women are goddesses to most andprize catchesand for those that think this is another decadentwestern phenomenon id suggest they research the bonda tribe of malkangiridistrict in orissa where the men only marry elder womeni saylets do away with degrading terminology and liberate our minds ourhearts and our lives age is simply an issue of mind over matter if youdont mind it doesntmatterive been in love foreight years with a man who is 40 married not happily though and has asevenyearold kid i am 27 and waiting for him to marry me the problem is thati cant stand the fact that he loves the kid like crazy he tells me thekid is not his own his wife had an affair with some other man but yet heloves the kid more than his life i want to get out of this relationship despiteknowing the kind of love he gives me nobody can xyzjust dothe math on this youve been with him eight years and he has a seven yearold kid with a woman he claims slept with someone else this 40yearold manvilifies his wife cheats on her while shes pregnant claims his son isnot his and has kept you dancing to his tunes theres nothing honestabout him wake up i have aproblem talking to girls i get scared and feel shy i am a 11th standardstudent and whenever i do talk to girls i say things i shouldnt i wantto enjoy their company what do i do piyushjust keep the conversationsimple and stick to non intrusive topics that 11th graders like chattingabout gadgets movies music film stars etc if you are genuinelyinterested in their likes and dislikes you will kickstart a healthy friendshipwith them and easily realise who is most compatible with you its thefirst step in the journey of a thousand miles good luckim madly in love with mygirlfriend shes also a muslim but her parents are against us marryingthey dont want her to have a love marriage even though i may be theperfect guy we cant live without each other mohammadafshan im not against arranged marriages in situations where a boyand girl have not found suitable matches however to oppose the marriage of acouple in love for no valid