end in negative feelings it gets quite hard to look at the positive side as most say most marriages leave a scar on the soul and its very hard to recover from it but we really need to understand that divorce is the end of a legal agreement not the end of the world its imperative to consider the positive implications of divorce in your life you are no longer tied to a person and if their views and opinions hurt you before they are of no need now slowly youll feel that slight gush of wind that indicates your freedom from tightened bonds that refused to let you breathe it liberates you from endless ties of fights disagreements and pain regardless of whether you both have children or not your decision shouldnt vary rather your kids wont have to live in the centre of an unhappy home amongst fights and disagreements your children also suffer from the harshhitting environment at home these can largely affect the mental and emotional state of children and in many cases similar instances also start reflecting in their lives down the line hence your children will be able to lead a happy and content life devoid of any arguments or instability sure enough they wont be able to see their parents together most of the time but its arguably the best decision to come onto you can also focus on your children in a way youve never done before if you have been fighting that leaves you sad most of the time as a result you fail to look after your kids as well you miss out on a lets go out for icecream or how are you feeling today beta researches say that if youve recently divorced then you can find yourself indulging in your childrens lives more often this deepens the bond and increases love and trust in the end its you after your divorce youll find that theres no longer any baggage or emotional restraint between you and your former spouse they no longer manifest themselves in your day to day life this way both of you can start afresh and think of living a different life your life canvas is now fresh and new and ready to be coloured again you must have had dreams and aspirations that you had to subdue because of your marriage many times for the sake of your family you cant go after your dreams but now your newly singlehood will provide you with ample opportunities to pursue new hobbies meet and mingle with new people and do things you could never do while you were married the best part now you wont have to fight and argue rigorously after a stressful day you can sleep on your own bed and have the whole space to yourself even if the bed feels empty for some time in the beginning remember its the path towards your own discovery and independence the feeling although can be bitter