interrelated there are men like francis hughes a marketing professional with an mnc who think women with an interesting job is a plus and not an essential for attraction it is enough that she is passionate about her job the worst would be to date or marry someone who hates her work as shell carry that grumpiness back home making it difficult for any companionship to bloom he avers dr kamal khurana marriage and relationship expert attributes this difference in outlook towards each others professional commitments to mans organic role as the provider and womans as the upholder deep within women still prefer men who would provide for them protect them and by virtue of which earn a higher salary than them men too continue to be deeply conventional in their ideas expecting a woman to still look after the house and kids even if she goes out to do a job says he then how about making the differences work explains dr khurana both should have the right selfesteem and live together like paying guests to run the house the unisex mindset should extend to finances as well and if you cant rationalise your expectations you are your partners gravest enemy a job is never dreadful or embarrassing the key lies in owning yourself your people and subsequently your situation anweshamittraindiatimescoin