in your arms when you walk in to aparty says shilpa there are children who have their reasons forabsistence but sometimes they are counteracted upon in a very strong way by thefriends and the peer group friends often provide the means when a parentrefuses says anju propereducation neededyes we all know sex education is provided inschools period but with rampant teenage pregnancies it obviously is notenough shilpa says talking openly about sex is still not commonparents usually want some other organisation to do the sextalk with theirkids effects onchildrenseema says in the last five years i have seen thenumber rise rapidly around 5075 per cent young girls and guys lose theirvirginity much before they are anywhere near adulthood and this affects themmentally when kids are in std 5 they have crushes and before they are incollege most lose their virginity when such a relationship does not work outdepression hits them there are anxiety disorders eating disorders and feelingsof guilt that may ruin theirchildhoodexpert advice forparents a good relationship between parents may be important whereboth have similar parenting styles parents need to be role models and need tomake their child see how important is love affection care and commitment in arelationship they need to explain that sex is something precious to be sharedwith the person you love and not just an act of physical satisfactiontheemotional problems that come up with losing virginity at an early age and thatcome along with multiple partners needs to be explained to your child with a lotof patience children also need to understand that their parents are the one whothey need to confide into also all information from friends and elsewhere needsto be confirmed as it may not always be true children also need to judge betterfor themselves what is right and wrong and what will be good for them in thefutureadvice forteenagersthe only way you can guarantee that you wont catcha sexually transmitted disease and wont get pregnant isabstinence no one can force you into it if you loved meyoud do it can be countered with a if you really loved meyou would wait saying a no to a person even if it is someone youhave said a yes to earlier is perfectly okay always keep in mind thatdespite what rumors and gossip may suggest virgins are a majority in most highschools not a minority if you want to show someone how much you careintercourse is not the only way to go about it dont let others try toconvince you otherwise if you kiss someone passionately does not meanthat you have to go on to having sex with them