may be doing so that the relationship can be strongereveryone is doing good jobs in their field but i am not able to clear any interview for a job i am in a customer care team where no one speaks with me as they think they are good at their work i feel disgusted stressed out depressed and anxious i get the feeling of being worthless please help anonymousmany of us tend to use our peers achievements as evidence to prove that we are not good enough this leads to us abandoning ourselves our skills and the hard work we may have done to be where we are this also impacts our selfesteem poorly organisations reject job applications and not people whenever possible seek feedback from the hr to understand what could be improved in your profile take additional skill building courses that can elevate your application reach out to acquaintances who work in the companies you wish to work with spend some time understanding the process of the interview and adapt your preparation to it remember to acknowledge the hard work you have put in over the years take ownership of your positive qualities and advocate for them in your interviews confidentlyim 20 and my father passed away recently i dont know how to cope with this loss im lost most of the time i cant share it with my brother or my mother because they are facing the same thing i miss him every second i laugh for the sake of laughing but im hollow inside please help anonymouslosing a parent can be very difficult loss brings pain anger numbness sadness etc whatever you are feeling is valid and should be acknowledged grief has no script it is messy unpleasant and chaotic you dont have to pretend everything is okay its okay to be honest about your state of mind these feelings are an outcome of extremely painful life realities in such challenging times i advise you to actively seek whatever comforts you if it is talking to your loved ones or taking some time for yourself healing from grief isnt a straight line sometimes we may feel stuck be kind to yourself through this whenever you feel ready reflect on your relationship with your father identify ways in which you can honour his memory and contribution to your life perhaps continuing a ritual that you would share togetheri lost my father 3 months back to covid he was admitted to hospital a day after we celebrated his birthday one day we were enjoying together the next day he was struggling to live it has been very difficult for my mother and me to cope with this loss a lot of people whom i thought were friends turned their backs on me i have trust and attachment issues due to which ive started to feel lonely ive always been insecure of me being overweight but that has increased significantly please help anonymousloss of a loved one