and thought processes but i have taught him that he needs to respect women and he is extremely respectful towards me and his dadiwhat also helps in living in a joint family set up and with the right values he is very religious very spiritual and sees us all begin our day by praying in the morning we begin the day with a lot of respect for each other for the environment and for the higher power above so i feel if you instill the right values in your child you dont have to take extreme measures to teach your kid how to behave with the opposite sex nowadays there is hardly any discrimination between boys and girls some of the girls in my sons class play better football than him some of them run better than him and my son is very appreciative of that fact he doesnt feel oh being a girl she is better he feels that she is so good and i need to beat her they are already on the same level to an extent that when they fight he is like because she kicked him so he kicked her back i tell him you cant do it to a girl so he says what do you mean by that she is like methings are very different so i have to tell him at the end of the day girls are more gentle so treat them with a more gentle attitude i know he would never do something disrespectful towards a woman