the writer behind the viral blog post marriage isnt for you sat down with huffington post live on wednesday to explain marriage isnt for you writer seth adam smith reveals wifes reaction to his viral post my son the one whom i am always ushering from place to place is not one to be rushed when allowed to move through this world in his pace given time to think and explore he flourishes and teaches me to see the beauty that surrounds us advice from a 6yearold how to slow down and enjoy the adventure but the other day in my inbox i had an email with the title life is short have an affair and i have to admit it threw me for a loop the content of the email was even more disturbing is that the best option available to unhappy couples toto i dont think we are in kansas anymore