she might not be quite enthusiastic when it comes to celebrating special days but she sure does understand and respects the spirit behind those days kirti kulhari in an exclusive chat with etimes on international womens day opened about women who have inspired her advice she would love to give men on this special day and more excerpts from the interviewis womens day really a day to celebrate or it has become just a fadis as much of a fad than any other day that gets celebrated i think more than anything else it is a reminder for everyone about what that day means while i am not a big fan of celebrating any kind of a day i understand the spirit behind it sometimes it does become more of a fad and loses its original spirit however if people remember the meaning behind it i think we are goodname three women who have changed your life and howwhile nobody has changed my life as such there are people who i look up to the names i would love to include in that list is my mother i have grown up not knowing my own mother very well i was closer to my dad but now over the years i have become closer to her and i know her so much more now i also looked up to my sister so much as she was very different than me she had these amazing qualities and calmness she is a beautiful person just her presence and being who she is has taught me so muchamongst the actors vidya balan is somebody i happen to know personally she really inspires me meryl streep also inspires me a lot i have never really met her being who she is has really inspired meif you had to give two pieces of advice to your younger self what would it bei would tell my younger self that you are perfect with all your flaws and imperfections i will tell myself it is okay to make mistakes to fall and to be not okay i would surely love and accept myself much moreif you could send one message to men on womens day what would it bei would like to tell all the men that we women love you our lives are incomplete without you we need you as much as you need us we are not competing with you we are with you we are here to support you and that is what we are asking for in returnhow important is a relationship in overall wellbeing of a womanrelationships are important for everybody they are not any less important for men when you have a healthy relationship and you experience love peace and happiness in your relationship it just has a very positive effect on your overall wellbeingi think this question is here because we all believe that women are more emotional they get carried away and feel more the feminine part of anybody is