a partner for any kind of help to survive i have been able to make my decisions because i am independent i thank god that i am a working womanyou have been through a lot including two failed marriages and have emerged stronger from them what saw you through these challengesthe one thing i did is i never blamed myself i knew where i fked up and was well aware of the mistakes i made aaj jo main bhugat rahi hoon kis galti ki wajah se bhugat rahi hoon i goofed up despite seeing the red flag now i can either keep sulking over those mistakes and blame god for adverse circumstances or find a way out i have realised that nothing is permanent good and bad times are like day and night so when your time is good dont let it go to your head the bad phases are inevitable but nothing can happen if you are prepared for it my daughter is also like that she is prepared for both good and badshweta with palak and reyansh instagramyou have taken to social media a couple of times to clear the air around you and abhinav kohli her estranged husband and his accusations how do you deal with toxicity and trolling on social mediai never read the comments these negative comments are mostly posted from fake accounts fake wohi hai jinhe khud ki identity se satisfaction nahi hai so these comments hold no weight i dont need anyones advice or judgment and dont intend to become an inspiration to anyone either everyones struggle is different i just want to tell them that i am able to face challenges because i am financially independent if they can get inspired by this and become independent its good enough if i tolerate bad behaviour and insults fearing that people will say ki iski doosri shaadi bhi nahi tiki it will be a bad influence on my kids they will mistake it for a norm and think agar aapko life chalaani hai toh yeh aapko sehna padega i want to tell them that its not okay your selfrespect is paramount you can compromise for a day when you are visiting someplace as a guest but zindagi bhar compromise nahi ho saktadid you fear being judged and trolled for the failure of your second marriagehonestly i did try to save my first marriage because that was my upbringing ki sab samajh kar chalna chahiye however i didnt waste time in my second marriage mujhe pata tha kharaab ho gaya hai toh kharaab hone hi wala hai no matter how much i try to salvage it after a point i decided to finish it not even for a moment did i think about what people will say as far as i am able to buy my own breadandbutter i am fine with it people can keep getting entertained with my personal and professional lives when you dont give a damn about what others think they