being the eversosnarky lady that she is molly simply replied you have tinnitus and are going about it all wrong i asked her to start from the beginning heres how it went down the curbside consult my ears are ringing we all do it the minute after we decide to move out to a home of our own were tapping away at a registry imagining creating the perfect meal in the perfect kitchen outfitted with the perfect pots and pans want a side of infertility with those eggs in the simplest of terms good communication only involves two steps empathy and clarity the most common communication errors occur when the message gets lost between the sender and the receiver good communication is as simple as paying attention