the barnes noble review who is the average millionaire does he eat gourmet or fast food does he drive fancy cars take chic vacations and indulge wherever and whenever he can or does he resole his shoes turn off the air conditioning when he leaves the house and spend a lot of time at home with close friends and family through his surveys of over 1000 millionaires thomas j stanley phd answers these questions and provides us with further insight into the thoughts and lives of this wealthy segment of the population in the millionaire mind a followup to stanleys new york times bestseller the millionaire next door the millionaire mind may surprise readers with its findings about the kinds of people that millionaires really are interestingly many millionaires were not straighta students in high school nor did they attend prestigious colleges instead they were often told when they were younger that they were not bright and that they would not be successful these challenges taught them how to surmount obstacles and motivated them to try harder and to take risks to get ahead financially the major risks that these millionaires have taken and continue to take are financial ones they must overcome the fear of taking risks and they must maintain this courage throughout their adult careers stanley discovered that many millionaires share similarities in techniques to allay their anxieties and stay on track financially some of these include believing in myself counting my blessings every day countering negativethoughtswith positive ones sharing concerns with spouse visualizing success outworking outthinking outtoughing the competition hiring talented advisors constantly upgrading my knowledge about my occupation spending considerable time planning my success exercising regularly having strong religious faith stanley also reveals that millionaires are very often successful in marriage as well as in work the typical millionaire has been married to the same spouse for over twentyfive years and that they usually lead relatively frugal economically productive lifestyles perhaps most interesting to readers will be the section that stanley devotes to how millionaires chose the career in which they would be most likely to succeed so dont miss out on picking apart and analyzing the thoughts and habits of millionaires with thomas stanley and the millionaire mind a book sure to be as brilliantly revealing and fascinating as his previous bestseller on millionaires thomas j stanley phd is a researcher author and lecturer he has studied the wealthy for more than 25 years the millionaire next door published in 1996 has sold more than one million copies in hardcover and nearly one million in paperback the book has been on the new york times best sellers list for more than 150 combined weeks his previous books include marketing to the affluent which best of business quarterly named one of 10 outstanding business books selling to the affluent and networking with the affluent dr stanley lives in atlanta he was a professor of marketing at georgia state university where he was named omicron