on the issue please remember to add your name and city of address at the end of your question if you just stick to routines create monotony role play and not make efforts to make each other feel special and do not spring clean and freshen your emotional closets on a regular basis what sets in is boredom apathy neglect and despondency with regards sankarlive in partners arent really bought off the shelf mumbaiwhether its a girl or a guy you cannot force anyone to feel a certain way about you she is a friend to you and you shouldnt aim to ruin that in any manner it will be a good indicator as to whether you should proceed or back off and retain the friendship the same holds good for the husbandwife equation especially when the role play is of provider and homemaker respectively aditya dear maam i am a frequent reader of your column the heart chakra in bombay times follow us on twitter for more stories for the last few years i have tried a lot of dating and networking sites but the women found out to be fake i just did a reality show where i had to swap playing mom with another mom i cant stop thinking about him shes already in a relationship and if she is respectful of it so should you be stay friends and if she ever breaks up with her boyfriend you can at that point figure out a gentle way to make her aware of your feelings for her but we arent willing to put in the same degree of effort to sustain and better our relationship with our spouse please suggest me how can i find real women for livein my query is that i am a 21 yr old guy in my class i have a good female friend of mine who i have crush on im but when i dont get chance to meet him alone i feel frustrated is it the money factor the status factor or what else could be the reasondivorce is not a classbased phenomenon compatibility is key to living together so network and socialize with women you share lots of common interests or hobbies with and that will set a good foundation for togetherness when i selfanalysed myself i got to know that i am bisexual it takes time to get to know someone well enough to want to share a home your life and friends with them she talks to me but she has a boyfriend i want to be in a livein relationship also in small towns of india divorce is considered a stigma and unfortunately for the unhappy wife many families are averse to taking their daughters back into their homes its evident that everything in our lives especially the quality of our relationships and routines are exactly proportionate to what we invest into them as he stays near my home i go to meet him frequently