my plan when we picked up the van was to take a picture of me lying dramatically on the hood giving my saddest ive been dethroned from coolness face but after driving it for 08 seconds i realized my shame was vain and there are twelve cup holders when you buy a minivan our collegebound kids know full well that they are leaving their childhood and embarking on the extraordinary journey of crafting their future adult selves beginning or ending when our kids go off to college im seeing a lot of lets stop judging pleas lately but i dont think thats the answer i judge most of us do just keep that nonsense to yourself a stranger shamed me right before my eyes