to have a happy family you have to keep your mominlaw happy this is the whole enchilada but most married women mostly newly married fail to strike the right chord and end up ruining many relationships but your mominlaw is not as hard a nut to crack as you thinkheres how you can work it out understand her you are breaking into an already established family which has its own traditions and habits dont try to change everything as per your needs understand her point of view communicate yours and then come up with a common solution be openminded dont come with a baggage embrace the new ideas that your inlaws have you dont have to completely change yourself for them you just have to love everything about them find a common interest no woman in his world can not like shopping or watching tv if she has an adventure streak explore it if she likes going out take her and finally try to genuinely enjoy what you are doing with her go for a lunch date offer to take her to her favourite restaurant bonding in the afternoon hours really works show genuine interest in her talk about her childhood your husbands childhood her interests her dreams and youll find many reasons to bond with her relax and be yourself no one expects you to suddenly turn into a different person clap along dance along but do not force yourself to do what you are not comfortable in she will love you once she understands you as an individual work it out with your spouse love your mominlaws son your husband respect him understand him and dont send him in a fix to choose between you and his mother be the glue bring them together resolve issues and talk about your feelings with your inlaw mishapaultimesgroupcom