there are only two things that i can promise my daughter without fail i can promise her love and the truth one of these is much much easier to give her with any real consistency but both are key to being the best father i can be to her what i know about fatherhood now that i have a teen with a disability its one thing to be a single mother by choice it arrives with a positive narrative to tell your child its a whole other everything to have single motherhood thrust upon you because the father has unconscionably chosen to abandon his child fathers who abandon their kids a tough fathers day topic