breakups can be very tough and throw you in the dungeons of depression and if these demons are not defeated early on they may just turn our life upside down forever so chin up and try to fight your breakup blues like a warriormusic mantra youll have your moments of listening to sad songs and heartbreak songs but know that music is a powerful thing in your life you just have to choose the right one for you if you want to get over your breakup there are so many songs out there about moving on from strong female artists to badass male artists you just need to pick whats good for you and remember that the music you listen to will influence your mood so pick carefullyfriends are forever in hard times such as these having friends around is pretty much the best thing you can have in your life they will be there with shoulders to cry on beers or chocolate waiting for your comfort a listening ear or two and advice if youre willing to take it dont shut yourself out from the world now is the time to step in it and surround yourself with as many friends as possible they will always know what to do to get you out of your heartbreak state because theyve all been there and know what its likeparty your blues away please notice we did not say drink your sorrow away we dont advise anyone to get shitfaced drunk after a tough breakup why because one of three things can happen you end up doing something you regret wake up in bed with someone scary wake up with a tramp stamp wake up naked in a strange place etc you end up somewhere you dont want to end up jail hospital unknown creepy dudes house with no windows you end up feeling worse than the night before add hangover headache throwing up constantly and some blackouts to the pain caused by heartbreak good job learn the difference between drinking your sorrow away and partying your sorrow away the last one means that you are actually having a good time at a party and have totally forgotten your ex even if it is for just a night but then you wake up safe in your own bed no hangover and with awesome memories from an awesome party kudos to youfind yourself again this my friend is not the time to hide under the cover not leave your house for days and clutch to your tv remote for dear life because it lets you watch the notebook for the seventh time this is the time to discover yourself all over again its time to find out what you like and want to do who you want to be how you want to be seen by others what are your passions and what on earth you want to do with all your free time breakups can be powerful life changing motivators