while men may keep asking themselves the eternally puzzling question what do women really want there are several things that the fairer sex unfairly assumes about men does he help without you telling him and several men find sexual intimacy more satisfying when theyre in a a committed and loving relationship just like women men too sometimes are not in the mood for sex men think about sex way more than women if you thought that men are always ready for lovemaking think again this could be for a variety of reasons stress at work or home if you want to tell your guy something say it directly little things that make you smile are his way of expressing his feelings he enjoys and wants that dont try to drop subtle hints to men they dont get it all guys get performance anxiety at some point or the other for different reasons but remember that thinking and fantasising is not the same as doing women often complain that men dont listen when they talk most men begin to get annoyed when a woman starts whining and clingy accept it dont fret hes probably processing everything youre saying and thinking about it silently some men like to talk about feelings albeit indirectly men enjoy spending time by themselves too dont take it personally there are some men who like to express their feelings of love through actions a recent survey said that the only reason men take longer to commit is because they want to be absolutely sure about their decision and not because theyre scared to commit dont feel shy about taking the lead pay attention to the things he does around the house or just for you ask him how he would surprise you with a romantic getaway they like being pursued while each man is different here are some simple things you should know about your testosterone fuelled counterparts men like it when you initiate sex be innovative and ask him questions that might reveal how he feels for you experts say that most men wished their partner initiated sex more often help him relax and be supportive so while spending time together doing activities that you both enjoy is fine give him space to pursue his own hobbies as well while this might be true in some cases men usually prefer to listen quietly without giving the expected monosyllables like ok yes or fine