know how to spend my time i have no one to talk to im an adventure lover but i have no one to go with what should i do anonymous selfreliance nobody can be a better companion to you than yourself i know its uncommon in india to have women travel solo but the trend is changing some travel groups curate special allgirl trips around india once you set your mind to a solo adventure you will be amazed at the kind of friends you make on your journeys after college many of us stop investing in forging relationships our dependency on the handful of schoolcollege mates can limit us as you can see your old friends are now moving in directions which are very different from yours leaving you by yourself taking the risk of finding new friends and joining groups with likeminded interests is a step in the right direction even though you may not feel jealous there must be some concern about the direction your life will take it is important to acknowledge these feelings and use this time to understand yourself better life choices become easier when one knows oneself i have this problem of not being consistent in anything i do i am always really excited about starting anything new and with energy including studying and making a routine for it but i fail to work on it consistently and end up piling everything for the last moment or lose interest please help anonymousyes consistency is king if you look around you successful people are those that have kept on keeping on a big culprit in not being able to be consistent is the attitude of ease and comfort most people are good starters and very poor finishers one attitude that we all need to cultivate is drudgery and routine are a part and parcel of life all of us want stimulation and excitement at all times this can be a big deterrent to repetitive work also doing things in a structured disciplined manner requires sacrifice it requires giving up of things that we enjoy like movies surfing etc so ask yourself what are you willing to give up no pain no gain many of us also make thoughtless choices in the subjects we select we follow or imitate we dont ask ourselves what interests us but then excitement fades because we havent chosen sensibly review your choices ask yourself why you want to do whatever you have chosen delineate what you are willing to give up to get results and put your nose to the ground and worki just want to disappear whenever i am walking down the roads people keep constantly staring at me even if i wear my mask it makes me feel like something is wrong with me and their stares just never end i dont like them looking at me that way as it makes me feel extremely nervous and anxious at the same time about the way