i am fairly disappointed and asking myself have i chosen the right guy for myselfdr though marriage is no less than a gamble still keeping these factors in mind helps you making the right choice you can merely judge hisher etiquettes and looks in that time similarly some people like to marry a girlguy from the same profession or somebody from a creative field or someone who doesnt have odd working hours he is a nonvegetarianfood habits seem to be one of those insignificant issues when it comes to marriage but you may face trouble because of the same in long run at the time of the courtship frankly discuss the pros and cons of your job with your prospective spouse so that there is no miscommunication in the future pakhi kapoor a software engineer says finally i am getting an opportunity to go abroad for six months for training i have met several girls after that but after our meeting i realized she was a spendthrift and would hardly take hours to blow off all my moneydr abhishek rawant a medical professional tells i recently met a girl through a matrimonial site my other side my workeverybody cant be measured with the same yardstick some people are very ambitious and careeroriented while others are idealistic dreamers therefore before finalizing your life partner make a take note of hisher income future prospects and inclination towards investment but i was disappointed to see her as she was overweight today i cant help but wonder if i rejected her on the right groundsa so if you are willing to sacrifice some of your habits or are willing to try your spouses favorite delicacies then only take a chance says dr parikh neelam malik a charted accountant says the man my parents had chosen for me is based oversees and i denied taking the decision by only looking at his picture soon after i got a chat invite from him whenever i step into kitchen to cook some nonvegetarian fare i always find her cribbing and making faces expressing her displeasure sameer parikh psychiatrist suggests when it comes to the profession of your spouse you should give it a serious thought a newly wedded couple has enough of compatibility issues to deal with and unmatched food habits only contribute to the building tension he is landing in india soon and we plan to meet before taking things furtherdr this way you get a fair idea of a persons intellect hisher lifestyle hobbies career decisions financial priorities views on marriage and other things chugh recommends if you interact with somebody on a regular basis you get to know several things that otherwise you might fail to find out in a brief meeting but if a couple is poles apart in their culinary choices then there is a serious problem beautiful face may attract you for a couple of months in the initial phase of your courtship but a beautiful mind will impress you for