question i have been dating my boyfriend for two years now and we always talk and find a solution whenever we have an argument i dont know what has happened to him now he has stopped talking to me since last three weeks he does not reply to my calls or messages and i remember we had no problem at all till the last time we met he has suddenly started ignoring me and i have no clue about the reason i dont really understand this and feel really depressed what should i doby anonymousresponse by ms rachana awatramani i comprehend that your partner has stopped talking to you suddenly however earlier you both spoke to each other and discussed about your fights and arguments i see you know each other since two years and this is the first time that he has not replied to your calls or messages from past three weeks it can be difficult for you and i am sure you are worried about him i understand that your thoughts are disturbing you and this situation is giving rise to various questions in your mind and making you feel depressedi would recommend that you speak to one of your common friends and ask if everything is okay with him and his family you can speak to a counsellor to discuss your depressive feeling and take guidance to cope with it i would also suggest that you spend some time with yourself and reflect on what do you exactly want from this relationship if you are sure he is ignoring you and wants to break up then you should prepare yourself as you cannot force anyone to be with you take your time and reflect on what you want and what kind of person you would want to be with ms rachana awatramani is a counseling psychologist at insight counseling services in mumbai want expert advice for your relationship send us a mail at expertadvicetoigmailcom