what would you tell two starryeyed lovers about to embark on the rosy path of marriage thats the question my brother and his fiance asked me to answer in a short speech on their wedding day i told them there is no such thing advice to the young on their wedding day when i started this search 20 years ago this is what i knew when i was two months old i was adopted through the elizabeth lund home in burlington vermont my birthparents were young teenagers my birthmother was white my birthfather was black thats all notes of an adopted self part 1