in todays episode of anupamaa hasmukh tells anupama that she was trying to strike a balance between her two children who are spoiled brats and natures magic as well as leela who is a disgrace to womanhood he advises her to leave them alone and focus on her house her husband and her daughterhe tells anupamaa that he loves her but the shah family and their problems are not his and neither is anupamaaread alsoanupamaa update december 30 anuj asks anupamaa to set anu as her priorityin todays episode anuj loses his calm with leela and asks her to not keep using anupamaa for her own good anuj further asks anupamaa to set her priorities straight and not keep balancing everything anupamaa is stunned with anujs reactionanupamaa update december 29 anuj remains upset with anupamaa for getting latein todays episode anuj and anupamaa have a misargument about being late for anus competition and prioritizing leela later anuj anupamaa and anu return back home and leela tries to explain that she is not at fault and blames anupamaa which makes anuj angryanupamaa update january 3 anuj lashes out at leela and vanrajin todays episode of anupamaa anuj claims that his sanskars teach him to honor elders but not their lies vanraj asks anuj if he is accusing his mother of lying anuj says of course and that leela is wrongly trying to blame him repeatedly for hasmukh not returning homehe claims to understand anupamaas emotions but he believes they are causing problems in his marriageleela shouted at kavya for making a scene at kapadias house kavya says she is following in her footsteps leela complains about kavya to vanraj and hasmukh asks her to keep quiet vanraj says that whatever anuj said was true and he will from now on take up his familys responsibilities and not disturb themanupamaa approaches anuj anuj wonders how sadness entered their relationship and if he was too slow in conveying his message to her anuj expresses a desire to be alone for a period of timeankush on the other hand becomes drunk barkha disagrees claiming that they did not come here to drink barkha says she is embarrassed by her husbands failure ankush asks barkha what has she done as a wife for him barkha claims she purchased expensive hotel passes in order to relax rather than fight leela invites hasmukh to sleep inside hasmukh refuses claiming that it would have been better for him to die