nsengiyumva joseph who works as a motorcycle transporter in kabuga says that it starts with a woman who loves you cares for you and respects you but later it changes here he gives an example saying that if a man is still married to a woman he will pay for the bath water he will not eat at night without the man coming but if they have been together for five months he will not put water in the bath for him or wait for him to eat instead he will start asking him where he was late another thing is that when a woman starts to change her character it causes love to decrease and bodies to go away causing the man to go looking for happiness elsewhere with a smile nsengimana said well the way a woman gives birth she gives birth to habits and mostly they are not good tunguhore isaac who has one wife and one child says that the reason why women are left behind is that sometimes they do bad things and refuse to have sex with their husbands saying they are sick he said now my father how are you going to cut me off tunguhore said that mostly women are the ones who attract it because you dont spend seven days lying around a man so that he doesnt have to study elsewhere the other thing this man said is that there are women who once they find someone else never come out of their mouths with a word that is sweet to the ear but always hate and hate her there are also others who get married and break up and take care of themselves make up and dress well before they have their first child he adds how clean and the words that come from a woman are what make him sweet tunguhore says that there is no reason for a woman to feel pressured to behave the way she wants women say that it is the bad habits and qualities of men ineza solange a 28yearold mother at 743 pm was selling shoes near giporoso train station in kigali city she says she has not been living with her husband for two years they broke up because he was cutting her back ineza says that being cut in the back does not mean that a woman is behaving badly but it is a habit that men have he said my wife started to cry when i had my first child i havent even breastfed yet i think its their bad habits he goes on to say that men tend to be selfish and aggressive when he asks you something and you answer him without fear he sees that you have disrespected him and starts looking for people who listen to him better than you a website called cheatingwayscom reveals five reasons why men leave their wives feeling unsatisfied with his wife his wife not taking care of him tired