appealed to the warring parents not to burden their children with their matrimonial problem and try to look after themwe would like to convey to the parties that their two minor children are watching them very closely showing the children that their parents can respect each other and resolve the conflict respectfully will give them a good foundation for the conflict that may god forbid arise in their own lives the parties should try to do their best to remain relaxed and focused it is critical to maintain boundaries between the adult problems and children it is of utmost interest to protect the innocence of children and allow them to remain children it said