its been four months four months of sleeping in a sleeping bag on the living room floor my wife right next to me on the cushions off the sofa our son has our bedroom all of it hes 13 months old sleep training crossing dantes fifth circle one of the things i most feared prior to motherhood and one of the things that most annoys me about it now that i actually have children is the way women with children are reduced to mommies and mommies alone not allowed or not able to have an identity outside of their relationship to their children my mommy problem problem