a loser of a marital match has no chance in hell of succeeding so why go for it also rootless as i have been of late do i want to get into such a relationship and not change cities if my work demands it i am not so surehowever this status is not half as much fun as it sounds ask the 40yearold carrie bradshaw in satc who at 40 realises credit cards can buy you manolo blahniks and extra closet space for your designer togs but not love you may not want to marry for the next three years but will you regret this decision in five it is not easy confesses 36yearsold juhi galihar a selfemployed entrepreneur at times i do miss having a family a husband but then my married friends say they wish they had decided to focus on their careers instead of taking a break to take care of their kids well you cant have it all