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I found the following in a footnote in an academic text:

> 巻末付録を参照されたい。

Apparently, this is 参照 + さ(未然形 of する) + れ(連用形 of れる) + たい, where れる is
honorific and たい has the following meaning from
[goo](https://dictionary.goo.ne.jp/jn/132366/meaning/m0u/):

> ３
> 「ある」「である」「なさる」「くださる」や尊敬の助動詞「れる」「られる」に付いて、他に対する希望・要求を表す。…てほしい。「正直者がばかを見ない世の中でありたい」「別表を参照されたい」

Literally, I think it means "I want the reader to refer to the appendix". Does
this usage of たい require an honorific when the meaning is "I want (somebody)
to do (something)"? For example, can you say 参照したい here instead of 参照されたい
without changing the meaning?
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Usage of たい in 参照されたい
This is an interesting construction. Here's my understanding of this.

  * In general, -たい can only be used for something **desirous to the speaker**. When talking about someone else's desires, -たがる is used instead -- from the basic underlying idea that the speaker cannot truly know what is going on in someone else's head. So the root -たい is suffixed with -がる, meaning _"seems like, looks like, behaves like`[whatever came before the suffix]`_".  
Since the expression in your sample text uses -たい, we know that this is
talking about something the author wants.

  * されたい is simply される (passive for する) + -たい. In basic literal terms, it means that **the speaker wants** (the -たい) the action **to be done** (the される passive).

Applying that to the sample sentence, we get:

> 巻末付録を **参照されたい** 。  
>  I **would like** the appendix at the end **to be referenced.**

In functional terms, this is used as a kind of more polite and indirect way of
saying:

> 巻末付録を参照 **してほしい。**  
>  I **want you to reference** the appendix at the end.

This latter -てほしい construction is much more direct, and in all languages I've
studied, direct statements may be viewed as less polite, perhaps even
confrontational, while indirect statements are generally viewed as more polite
and less confrontational.

### goo's analysis

This may be a quibble, and is more of a deeper-level semantic argument.
Beginning learners may want to ignore this section. :)

I confess I don't agree with goo's analysis. If we view the れる here as purely
an honorific construction, then the action is still being done by the
listener, and the -たい would then apply to an action done by the listener, and
would point towards the state of mind of the listener. However, as I've been
taught, -たい _cannot_ be used when talking about the state of mind of the
listener -- this can only apply to the speaker. This is why I view the される
verb in 参照されたい as the passive rather than an honorific.

Viewed either way, as the honorific or the passive, the resulting meaning is
the same, so this difference of opinion probably doesn't amount to much. :)
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> Does this usage of たい require an honorific when the meaning is "I want
> (somebody) to do (something)"?

参照したい only means "I (=author) want to see...". As your dictionary says, this
(ら)れる is important.

This ～されたい is a highly literary and stiff expression, and I think only a few
people use it today. Even in stiff academic articles, ～を参照 or ～を参照のこと is far
more common. Its classical-Japanese version, ～されたし, may be a little more
popular (e.g., "ご注意されたし", "日程を調整されたし"), but no one around me actively use it.
Although it's technically keigo, IMHO, this looks rather blunt/pompous if used
in business emails.

You can combine たい with other (subsidiary) verbs and express "I want somebody
to do something", for example 見てもらいたい, 見て頂きたい, ご出席願いたい.
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