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> あなたの私生活についてとやかく言うつもりはありません。

I don't give a damn about your personal life.

I have also seen についてとやかく言う translated as "quibble over". Could another
translation of this sentence be:

> あなたの私生活についてとやかく言うつもりはありません。

I really don't want to bicker about your private life.

Is についてとやかく言う normally understood as metaphorical rather than literally
"bicker" or "quibble over"? There was no other context for this quote, so I am
also wondering if とやかく is that harsh of an interjection.
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What is the harshness of についてとやかく言う?
Translations depend on context. You can translate literally, use metaphors,
...etc, but it all depends on context and, especially in Japanese, the
relation between the 2 interlocutors (level of speech used)

Usually you take the literal translation to get the general meaning:

> あなたの私生活についてとやかく言うつもりはありません。
>
> I have no plan to complain about your private life. (とやかく meaning "this and
> that, all kind of things" here)

Then depending on the context, interlocutors, and situation you can find
synonyms for "complain" like "quibble over", why not. It also depends on who
you aim at with your translation.

The use of the ます/ません form in some cases can be sarcastic so there's nothing
wrong using "give a damn" in English. (although there's あなた at the beginning,
so this is less likely)

[Tangorin](http://tangorin.com) gives these example sentences:

>   * 私個人の生活についてとやかくうるさくいうのはやめてください。
>

>
> Get off my back about my personal life!
>
>   * 細かいことでとやかく言うのはよそう。
>

>
> Let's not quibble over trivial matters.
>
>   * 彼女は私が遅く帰って来たことにとやかくいった。
>

>
> She went on at me for coming home late.

NOTE: I realize you say there was no context with the sentence. I personally
think this is not a harsh expression and shouldn't be translated as "give a
damn" or "get off my back" unless the level of speech is lowered considerably.
(あんた、おまえ、つもりない...etc.)

とやかく言う is a metaphor.

とやかく which original characters are 兎や角 shares the same etymology with とにかく and
ともかく that you may have heard more often. (note that 兎耳 {うさぎみみ} is a gossiper
(or someone with long ears) )

Etymology:

According to the following 2 links

<http://gogen-allguide.com/to/tonikaku.html>

<http://gogen-allguide.com/to/tokaku.html>

> とにかくの「と」は「そのように」、「かく」は「このように」で、いずれも副詞。

Both と and かく are adverbs that can be written using 兎角 or 左右 independently
from the meaning of the characters. (ateji)

```

    wrong theory
    
```

I think the etymology of 兎や角 (and derivatives) comes from the Chinese
expression:

龟毛兔角 = Turtles with hair and rabbits with horns = Things that don't exist,
impossible

By stretching things a little, 兎や角言う could literally mean:

"talking about rabbits and horns" => gossip, fantasizing, making things up
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