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> それでは皆様。本日の晩餐を始めさせていただきたいと思います。

I'm a bit confused with honorific forms.

I understand 始めさせて as "Allow me to start" and いただく as the humble form of もらう,
but why is it いただ **きたい** と思います. Is it just the "want" form ? As in "I think I
would like you to allow me to start today's dinner." ?
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Confused about ～させていただきたいと思います
(I had to ramble at the beginning. For the quick answer, please go straight to
the last part.)

「させていただく」 is (or was) indeed a "controversial" honorific phrase among us
native speakers. It is, however, so incredibly wide-spread now that we do not
even discuss it often anymore.

If you search 「させていただく」 on Yahoo Japan, many of the first few hundred hits are
indeed regarding this controversy itself.

[https://search.yahoo.co.jp/search?p=%E3%81%95%E3%81%9B%E3%81%A6%E3%81%84%E3%81%9F%E3%81%A0%E3%81%8F&search.x=1&tid=top_ga1_sa&ei=UTF-8&aq=-1&oq=%E3%81%95%E3%81%9B%E3%81%A6%E3%81%84%E3%81%9F%E3%81%A0%E3%81%8F&ai=XyfinzCgRpyhKC.JRT.rXA&ts=5700&fr=top_ga1_sa&b=131](https://search.yahoo.co.jp/search?p=%E3%81%95%E3%81%9B%E3%81%A6%E3%81%84%E3%81%9F%E3%81%A0%E3%81%8F&search.x=1&tid=top_ga1_sa&ei=UTF-8&aq=-1&oq=%E3%81%95%E3%81%9B%E3%81%A6%E3%81%84%E3%81%9F%E3%81%A0%E3%81%8F&ai=XyfinzCgRpyhKC.JRT.rXA&ts=5700&fr=top_ga1_sa&b=131)

The point of the controversy as viewed from the perspective of the opposing
faction is that the phrase is simply too artificially and overly humble while
yet sounding kind of pushy with a "weird" **combination of causative and
humble**.

「させていただく」 simply means, or is supposed to mean, the same as 「します」 or 「いたします」.
Until a couple of decades ago, therefore, using 「いたします」 was regarded as 100%
polite enough for business use, so it was what most people/businesses used for
humble and respectful speech. Some people, however, still strongly believe
that 「いたします」 is humble, polite and respectful enough, hence the above-
mentioned controversy.

A couple of decades ago, some people -- perhaps some large and influential
corporations -- started using 「させていただきます」 in speaking and writing to their
customers and it caught on very quickly, resulting in "everyone" using it in
no time. The expression was new and it sounded very nice and polite to many.

「～～させていただきたいと思います」 literally means " _ **I think we would like to kindly
receive the favor of you graciously letting us ~~.**_ " No wonder why there is
a controversy, eh?

Thus, the sentence in question means:

> "And now, ladies and gentlemen, I think we would like to kindly receive the
> favor of you graciously letting us start today's banquet."

I trust that you could easily rephrase that the way it would sound more
natural to English-speakers.
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