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> あたしと学校とりかえっこしてみない？

I already know it means "Why don't you try swapping school with me?", "Why
don't you, and I, try swapping school?", but I wonder if it can also mean "Why
don't you try swapping school for me?", like "Why don't you try staying with
me instead of going to school?".

Would this be right?

> あなたはあたしとあたしの学校とあなたの学校をとりかえっこしてみない？  
>  You + with me + for my school + your school + don't try swapping?

If so, then the first sentence can have two meanings, can't it?

* * *

As you can see, you have to use と after あたし to show who does the action
together with あなた and you have to use と after あたしの学校 to show the thing that
will be swapped. The things being swapped are あたしの学校 and あなたの学校 (あなたの学校 is
swapped for あたしの学校).

I was wondering if あたし in the top sentence can be, figuratively, the thing
being swapped, instead of who あなた does the action with.
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Does と mean "with" or "for", here?
Short answer is yes, technically the sentence may be interpreted in two ways.

Imagine you are playing a multi player version of Sim City. You built a
school, and your friend built a school as well. You suggest to swap the
schools:

## Why don't we swap each other's schools?

> あたしと学校とりかえっこしてみない？

  * 「あたしの学校」と「あなたの学校」を、とりかえっこしてみない？

AFAIK, the following are correct:

  * swap school for school
  * swap school with school
  * swap school against school

* * *

Your friend is obsessed with the new school. She thinks about school all day
long, and doesn't chat with you any more. You ask "what are you going to do
tomorrow?". She replies "I will spend 23 hours with my school, and one hour
with you. School is first priority, you are second". You propose to her:

## Why don't you swap "me" with "school"?

> あたしと学校とりかえっこしてみない？

In this case, the English phrase to me sounds natural, but the Japanese
version is tricky. **I** understand you're trying to say:

  * 「あたしに対する優先度」と「学校に対する優先度」を、とりかえっこしてみない？
  * 「あたしと過ごす時間」と「学校と過ごす」を、とりかえっこしてみない？

Which in essence is similar to:

> why don't you try staying with me instead of going to school?"

Anyway, you're not wrong. It technically works, but may be subjective. And
"とりかえっこ" may not be the best choice of words here. I wouldn't use it in such a
way, and I don't think it's safe to assume the listener will understand your
intention, but that's just my humble opinion.

Note that "〜してみない？" may be used as the following example, sometimes genuinely
and sometimes sarcastically:

> For god's sake why don't you 〜 for just once?

  * たまには 〜してみない？
  * たまには 〜してみたら？
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The original sentence suggests that "my school" and "your school" are swapped
(for fun). The Japanese language doesn't have grammatical plural forms, but
read it like "why not swap (our) school **s** ". Now, you are asking if it's
possible to read this sentence like "me" and "school" are the two things being
swapped, right? Honestly, the latter interpretation never occurred to me. The
original sentence is virtually unambiguous.

とりかえっこ is not plain "swap" or "trade". This っこ is a suffix that forms a casual
game or a game-like activity involving two or more people (see: [What does
とびっことりっこ mean?](https://japanese.stackexchange.com/q/94610/5010)). Do a google
search on とりかえっこ, and you can instantly notice this word is typically used in
children's books, where costumes and so on are temporarily exchanged between
two characters for fun. So the original sentence strikes me as "Why don't you
play school-swapping (game) with me?", and it's almost impossible to read it
as if 私 herself is being swapped.

If the other meaning is clearly intended, you need to 1) stop using っこ, and 2)
[use と twice](https://japanese.stackexchange.com/q/83411/5010) to clearly mark
the two swap targets:

> 私と学校 **と** をとりかえてみない?  
>  Why don't you swap _me_ and _school_?

Now it's crystal clear that 私 and 学校 are the two things being swapped for
whatever reason. Of course, we need some special context to make sense of
this.

**EDIT:** Likewise, 弟とボールを投げっこした only means you and your brother played catch
because 投げ **っこ** always refers to an activity involving two or more people.
弟とボール **と** を投げて遊んだ means something very weird; you enjoyed physically
throwing your brother AND a ball. 弟とボールを投げて遊んだ is ambiguous, at least
technically speaking.
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