Recently, in a conversation with my Japanese tutor (a native Japanese speaker)
I brought up the word 美しい in regards to praising people and its usage in day
to day language. She mentioned to me that it is not really a word used in
normal conversation, as it was rather outdated and a bit too over the top,
which would make some people think you're joking. Other such related terms
like 美貌 or 美顔 are also not used frequently either.

She told to me that キレイ（綺麗）is a much better choice and can even be seen as the
highest level of praise in regards to beauty.

While I've certainly heard this argument before from online discussions and
other native Japanese speakers, it still confuses me a bit because I still
hear native Japanese speakers use 美しい when praising people.

Some phrases I heard recently are:

```

    今日も朝から美しいね。
    
    食べる姿は美しい。
    
```

Is this a generational thing? Is the current generation simply bringing back
an old word? Or am I simply overthinking the problem?

Any insight you can offer me would be greatly appreciated.
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meaning nuances colloquial-language
美しい - Uncommon in everyday conversation when describing people?
I can see your tutor's point, but I think they overstated it a bit. 美しい might
not be as popular a term as キレイ, but there are still plenty of people who use
it. Also, I'm guessing your tutor is older than 30. As far as I can tell, most
young Japanese girls these days would prefer to be called かわいい or 美人 than any
of those other terms.

It also raises the question of how to compliment men's looks. Probably most
guys would like to be called かっこいい or イケメン instead of alternative terms like
ハンサム、男前 or 美男.

Basically, words go in and out of fashion all the time. Right now, 美しい might
be somewhat out of vogue, but I think it's going too far to say it's outdated
or over the top.
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I think the word 美しい is refined, decorous and sophisticated rather than
outdated, so it may not be often used in daily conversation.

Of course, there would be some people who use it, in particular, gentle and
refined people.
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「美しい」という言葉の使い方は、少なくとも現代においては世代間の差異はありません。この言葉は文学的過ぎるので、書き言葉で使われても日常会話で使われることは少ないです。もし日常会話で使った場合には、ふざけているか非常に気取った態度ととられるでしょう。特に音楽や美術作品等に対してではなく目の前の人に対して使った場合には。
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