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In all of the resources I use (incl _Genki_ , _A Dictionary of Basic Japanese
Grammar_ , various websites), the `～ほうがいい` construction is nearly universally
translated "had better ~" and rarely includes the word "should ~". This is
while noting that `～ほうがいい` is a polite suggestion. Nearly all example
sentences I find use the translation "had better ~".

As a native speaker of English (Eastern Canada), the phrase "You'd better ~"
rings quite assertive and somewhat condescending, and in polite speech I would
rarely elect to use that phrase over "should". In fact, "You'd better ~" would
be reserved for people I was familiar and casual with.

Is it wrong to translate the phrase `～ほうがいい` as "should" in the typical case,
or to use it where I would use "should" in English?
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Translating ～ほうがいい as 'should' -- why does this seem rare?
This is one of the Seven Wonders of English Education in Japan of which my
poor English is a product.

Long story short, I can guarantee as an average native Japanese speaker that
「～～ほうがいい」 is closer in both meaning and nuance to "should" than to "had
better".

I was taught the complete opposite in junior high school in Japan (I was
indeed taught "had better" sounded **softer** than "should") and it took me
7-8 years to realize that I was taught wrong. I had a chance to speak with a
few Americans when I was around 21 about this matter and every one of them
told me with confidence that what we had been taught was incorrect.

Assuming that the authors of your textbooks have received the same type of
English education in Japan, the topic that you have brought up this time would
only be a natural result. They are simply teaching you what they have been
taught.

Once again, 「(Verb) + ほうがいい」 with no context (and said with no sarcasm), is
closer to "should + (verb)". A phrase such as 「絶対{ぜったい} + (Verb) + べきだ」 is
close to "had better (Verb)".

I think that the word "better" innocently lead our nation into believing that
「ほうがいい」 was the appropriate translation, which would actually be "true" if it
were just "better" instead of the more idiomatic "had better".
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