So I want to say, "then can you show me your face?" politely in Japanese. I'm
a newbie learner.

I'd normally go with, "それでは顔を見せることができますか" or alternatively "それでは顔を見せますか" But
I've heard a Japanese person say, "それでは顔を見せていただけますか."

So my question is, are my examples unusable? What's the difference amongst all
of them? And how polite are they?
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grammar meaning giving-and-receiving
Difference between いただけますか vs できますか
Firstly, I recommend you find some tutorials on giving and receiving verbs.

見せていただけますか is the verb 見せる in the te-form + the verb いただく in the potential
form + the question particle.

いただく is the humble version of もらう and both verbs mean "to receive". When added
to the te-form of a verb they mean "receive the favour of someone doing ...".
So 見せていただけますか is literally "can I receive the favour of you showing me" or
more sensibly "please show me". Basically you are asking someone to do
something **for you**.

顔を見せることができますか is simply "Are you able to show your face?" and 顔を見せますか is "will
you show your face?". Certainly they're both less polite, but whether there's
a situation in which you could use them in your intended context, I'll leave
to someone more knowledgeable.
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