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I just went out for lunch with a friend and when the waiter asked what we want
to drink, I ordered 'お[水]{みず}下さい' whereas I noticed my friend asked for
'お[冷]{ひや}下さい'.

Which expression would be more common or is there some distinction on who,
where or when to use either one?

よろしくお願いします
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word-choice synonyms
Usage of お[冷]{ひや} ＆ お水
Both are used. お冷 is a bit more chic and it is only cold water (to drink)
while お水 is just _water_ in a general meaning.  
You will never be repressed for using お水 instead of お冷, vice versa.
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Apparently the use of 'Ohiya' should be limited to the staff who are serving
their customer at traditional eateries because it is actually a traditional
code.

So, you can ask for a 'Omizu' then your sushi chef would serve a glass of
water and may say "Here is your 'Ohiya', Sir." But apparently not the other
way around - I didn't know this but the other way around somehow sounds wrong.

But if you must:

I'd only use 'Ohiya' at traditional Japanese eateries (hence "chic" as prev.
comment), not in a French restaurant or McDonald's.

Also, if I were invited to my friends/families house, or they are serving food
& drink as the host, I'd use 'Omizu'.

Given that 'Ohiya' is a code amongst catering staff, asking for an 'Ohiya' is
the equivalent of calling your host "waiter/waitress" - sounds a bit
pretentious.

Another thing is that 'Ohiya' has more subtle nuances than 'Omizu'.

For example, you can use 'Omizu' to mean 'bottled water' whereas 'Ohiya' can
only be used when you mean a single portion of water in an open container like
a glass/Yunomi, not in a pitcher or a bottle.

Anyways, unless you are working at a bustling sushi restaurant, you don't have
to worry about it - it's like walking into a supermarket and asking for a
'code 300' which is an internal code for a 'manager'. If you are just a
customer, you don't need to know such thing and if you use it, that won't
impress anyone.

The only difference here is that you'd better to know what 'Ohiya' is, but
that doesn't mean you have to use it.

'Ohiya' is a reserved (and quite archaic) code for the people who are serving
you. Stick to 'Omizu' and you'll save yourself from minor embarrassments ;)
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It's more of historical authenticity and many modern Japanese don't know about
it (incl. myself) - a bit like if you are greeted with "How do you do?" the
correct (traditional/educated) response should be "How do you do?" NOT "I'm
fine, thanks" - although the latter response is getting common and very small
number of native English speakers would appreciate the difference.

If you want to be very pedantic about Japanese language, use only 'Omizu'
(unless you are the serving chef/waiter) but it won't cause you huge damage if
you use 'Ohiya' at an eatery.

I'd still avoid using 'Ohiya' to my friends/family - sounds a bit too
commercial for a private setting.
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As already mentioned, "ohiya" is originally jargon used only inside sushi
restaurants to mean "cold drinking water poured in a yunomi (cup)". Another
word categorized in this class is "agari", meaning "hot green tea".

While the use of "agari" is still limited to sushi restaurants (and I
personally never use it), the word "ohiya" is now very widely used among many
types of restaurants and izakaya in Japan. I believe the majority of people
consider "ohiya" as just a bit more elegant synomym for "omizu", not
considering its origin. You can safely use "ohiya" even in McDonalds or French
restaurants, at least here in Tokyo.

However, there are also a few people who worry about its origin and avoid
"ohiya", especially as a customer. Such people consider this word as
unnecessary, old fashioned, unofficial, or even impolite when used in high
grade restaurants. I personally use both "ohiya" and "omizu" without
consciously thinking about them, but when in doubt, always stick to "omizu"
and you'll be perfectly OK.
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