Many things that seem normal in English look arrogant in Japanese. I think I
found a special case where the reverse is true. In Japanese is it normal to
speak in the third person when referring to oneself? I have seen this done
before on Twitter.

What about in face to face conversation or other conversational situations? Is
it normal to refer to oneself in the third person?

Whenever I try to speak in the third person about myself in English I always
get accused of looking pompous. This is not the case in Japanese?

What's the difference when using the third person to refer to oneself instead
of words like 私、僕、or 俺？
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first-person-pronouns pronouns perspective
Speaking in the third person
A young girl can use her first name to refer to herself in informal
situations. And this gives the impression of acting cutesy. There's no rule
that says it's only limited to girls, but statistically speaking this method
of self-address is more common in girls than boys, men, or even women.
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_**Update:** I didn't comment on the fact that speaking about oneself can also
be a matter of using "he" or "she" for oneself, as well as using one's own
name._

I have never heard anyone in Japanese use `彼【かれ】(he)` or `彼女【かのじょ】(she)` to
refer to themselves. As far as I can tell, it has more or less the same
implications that it would in English, and you can follow the same instincts.
So, for example, you might use the third person when writing a bio on a web
site when it's understood you're writing _about_ yourself.

The point is that using he or she has no special place in Japanese for
referring to yourself.

Using one's own name to refer to oneself, however, is something that is done
in Japanese and different from English.

Women up to around 30 or so use their own name in place of a first person
pronoun commonly enough. However, it is reserved for certain social contexts,
like within their relationship, family, or close friends, and definitely not
for circumstances like work or school.

Some people think of the use of one's own name as being "girlish", but that is
debatable. I think it's a matter of opinion as well a context.

Men can also use the term, but in even a far, far more restricted sense. A
father talking to his young child, or a man in a very specific context with
his girlfriend/wife/partner.

For men learning Japanese, I would absolutely recommend not ever using one's
own name in place of `私【わたし】`, `僕【ぼく】`, or `俺【おれ】`. If the circumstance comes
up when it might work, as it has with me in some relationships, you will know
beyond a shadow of a doubt. Or, put another way, if there is a shadow of
doubt, you shouldn't do it. _(Note I'm not saying it's an indication of
closeness, just that it's the result of a context far too specific and
complicated to describe here.)_

For women learning Japanese, you would have the option to try it, but it's an
art, not a science. You would have to watch your female peers as a guide to
see if they felt comfortable using it given their age, standing, and social
context.

For both men and women learning Japanese, it is far more beneficial to learn
how to drop the first person pronoun altogether than it is to master using
one's own name for that purpose.
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This is actually more complicated than it seems.  
The general feeling in conversation of referring to oneself in the third
person BY GIVEN NAME(or self chosen name re:Cher, Madonna, etc) has either a
childish (one who hasn't learned about the contextual nouns with which one
should refer to oneself by in a given situation) or an arrogant slant to it,
but again this is context based because if you are a Taoist or Buddhist or in
an area with high prevalence of such philosophies you might have attained Mu
in which case using self referential pronouns and nouns is no longer
appropriate, in this particular case you wouldn't exactly call yourself by
your given name but rather say something more like 'X/Some call me NAME' but
generally you would be avoiding such use and remove the nouns/pronouns that
refer to the self or you as an individual (excepting maybe 'this person')
since Japanese doesn't require it and that you have reached Mu would be
extremely obvious from looking at you and the context would be readily
apparent already. Japanese is very friendly language to this kind of thinking
and interaction already, and it isn't unusual to NOT refer to yourself even in
formal settings, with many words satisfying the religious/philosophical
requirement such as actually meaning 'an unforgivable mistake' rather than
meaning 'I am sorry' as they are usually translated.

So to sum up:  

>   * Third Person: normal with children  
>
>   * Third Person: not unusual with young women  
>
>   * Third Person: common and normal in highly specific context between those
> close to you, or when you have a particularly unique and
> pleasant/ironic/punny sounding name when spoken in Japanese.  
>
>   * Third Person: Standard usage if you have only one name and don't
> 'belong' to any class, group, or caste (ethnicity, job, etc), family, etc.
> (a highly specific context)  
>
>   * Third Person: not uncommon with people with no defined identify or
> 'self' (both an individualist and someone who reach Mu would could readily
> do this), this falls into the domain 'children' as well as this is WHY
> children do as such, usually.  
>
>   * Third Person: unusual and condescending/arrogant when used by masculine
> males or females over a certain age, the aged (but not wise), anyone
> entrenched in social hierarchy speaking formally.
>

This was only in conversation, everyone else covered other areas thoroughly.
And remember there is nothing wrong with sounding arrogant, or offending
people!
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