<transcript><audio_12>I love the optimism and enthusiasm but that's not really actually how it goes it more of just wears you down and it changes you and it hurts you and then it makes it makes you wear your callus where you don't help those people who actually do want help and who actually</transcript><transcript><audio_13>are willing to change and so that we got kind of side iya of I will be the mediator I will lend my ear and I will be able to mediate this problem and we go in with it very naive we approach it very very very naive where you say</transcript><transcript><audio_14>something like this okay so this person is having a problem with this person but you know what I can step in and I can change things and I can make it where you know I can rectify these two people but we don't do it for the sake of</transcript><transcript><audio_15>rectification we don't do it for the sake of restoration we do it like this I oh yeah tell me all your Gaza tell me all the ways that this person has hurt you okay then we know now we have a biased review and we say okay you did this and this and this and you're just a</transcript><transcript><audio_16>piece of trash you're right you did to do you'd be surprised how often this happens you may say oh I'll never I would never do that you would be surprised oftentimes maybe we do stupid stuff like this video even realize that we're doing it you know and then you get</transcript> I love the optimism and enthusiasm but that's not really actually how it goes it more of just wears you down and it changes you and it hurts you and then it makes it makes you wear your callus where you don't help those people who actually do want help and who actually are willing to change and so that we got kind of side iya of I will be the mediator I will lend my ear and I will be able to mediate this problem and we go in with it very naive we approach it very very very naive where you say something like this okay so this person is having a problem with this person but you know what I can step in and I can change things and I can make it where you know I can rectify these two people but we don't do it for the sake of rectification we don't do it for the sake of restoration we do it like this I oh yeah tell me all your Gaza tell me all the ways that this person has hurt you okay then we know now we have a biased review and we say okay you did this and this and this and you're just a piece of trash you're right you did to do you'd be surprised how often this happens you may say oh I'll never I would never do that you would be surprised oftentimes maybe we do stupid stuff like this video even realize that we're doing it you know and then you get
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