After this, he went down to Capernaum, he, and his mother, his brothers, and his disciples; and they stayed there a few days.

 So Mary came to Jesus to tell him that it was so. The King James Version translation of Jesus' reply makes it sound very discourteous. It makes him say: "Woman, what have I to do with thee?" That is indeed a translation of the words, but it does not in any way give the tone. 