 my wife talks about uh... fire out there you're not near it we're not know that they're here you're between a rock and a hard place and the only thing that's going to change this this is not something you can cut cut away at a budget although we're gonna make sure you have a budget before you leave here we gotta find ways to get the income up and unfortunately i think some of it lies with you but i think your wife holds a key in this as well i think there's something she can do part-time on the side at nights