 Um, you know, if you want to leave a legacy for the kids, that it's probably important, but I would say most people, uh, lean towards, you know, if we die without accidentally spending the money, we want the kids to get it as opposed to, you know, we definitively want to leave the kids money. But, but even if that is you, there are much better ways to leave money and create a legacy without sacrificing your retirement. So, so that's important. Uh, but, but to your point, Jen, how does, how does spending change? Well,