 the same distance right and like there's there's all these patterns but every so often there's a car accident and that's contingency right so this is the kind of stuff where what i say is that the way that social change happens and also our lives unfold is what i call contingent convergence it's not the most beautiful phrase but it's i think very accurate in saying okay so there's there's these contingencies that change the path you're on and then once you're on that path the sort of