 I'm gaining weight. What about your friend who actually is a higher weight than you? And when you're saying that, how are they experiencing that comment as someone who is in a larger body and hearing you talk about your weight in such a negative way? Or if you're at the dinner and you're talking about what you're eating, what about for the friend who perhaps is eating what they want and they're feeling pleasurable in their food, but they're seeing you critique and judge yourself. Now they're feeling like,