 Not my own contribution, but it's a traditional thing. I have to give her money in public in front of people, everyone. That's how he demonstrated his worth to her. In turn, Brooke Tu presented her groom with a selection of traditional mats village women wove from dyed palm fronds. He wouldn't accept to put his feet on the mat until I showed him the most beautifully woven mat out of all the mats. It was my demonstration to him of my worth.