 I had still one of my best friends from college. He used to always tell me, people are too busy thinking about themselves to be thinking about you. And it didn't really make sense to me until I got, honestly, to about maybe my mid-20s, when I realized that so many people are literally consumed with how they look and how they feel about their bodies, that they're not worried about how you feel or how you look in your body. And that was a big change for me, too, because...