 And maybe I'll just, I'll read this quote from Mira Zussman, Shifts of Consciousness in Consensual S&M Bondage. Quote, it is the bondage which is sweet, for you relinquish free will and all decision making. It is freedom which is bitter and most hard to endure, for you must take responsibility for your actions, end quote. So maybe that's a little more juiciness for your response.