 And it was interesting, I'd had other functional relationships. So the fact that this one was not, I just somehow lost myself in it. So that was huge. That was a big piece of it. And working with her somatic experiencing, obviously, you know, just, you know, talk therapy. She did something called schema therapy that was really important. I talked about that in episode four of my podcast, the first with Dr. with Sharon Baker, who's a marriage and family therapist.