 According to The Knot, the average cost to be a bridesmaid adds up to about $2,000, roughly $1,300 for the bachelorette party, about $250 for the wedding and shower gifts, $250 for hair and makeup on the big day, and about $130 for the dress. The cost of having a wedding, especially having the type of really huge thing that you see on Instagram, a lot of people look for back doorways to do it, such as charging their guests, but