 or that I'm this or I'm that, the first thing that they notice is that I'm black and I'm a male. But it's like, those are the first two things that anybody from a societal standpoint, when they see me, that's what they first notice. What was the conversation like around your body when you were in these kind of like early teenage years? What were the conversations like? And what was the language like about your body and other bodies at that time?