 Jeff turned on his heels and with a look of chagrin asked, why do you always say that? Say what? Drive carefully, Jeff answered. It's like you don't trust me driving or something. No, son, that's not it at all, Terry explained. It's just my way of saying I love you. Well, Dad, if you want to say you love me, say that. That way I can't mix up the message Jeff offered. But Terry hesitated. If your friends are here with you and I say I love you, you'll get embarrassed.