 Parents are certainly allowed to be concerned with whatever they like to be concerned with. It's not my job or any researcher's job to say, don't worry. But what we can do is present some data and put things in a larger context and ask, what are the things you should be worried about? We are often afraid of the wrong things. And when we are having national concerns about child abductions and child violence, we want to think about, well, what are the cause of these things? It's very easy to say, well, it's because of coarse media or