 That whether it's, I hear people, my husband used this example. He said, I have only heard about your people through a calendar while I was in medical school. He said, I never imagined I would be married into your oyate, our people. And then he said, but I remember because I told him, well, what do you think made you do what you've done in your life? I said, because the first thing I recognized about you was your nachi, your spirit.