 from a narcissist. And she said, some of my clients, they love the person, they have children, there are financial reasons that they can't leave. So we teach them techniques and tools. We called it building an emotional toolbox to thrive within the relationship. Or obviously there's a time where you need that. And then also how do you have the tools to walk away from it and protect yourself and get out safely? Not that I was physically unsafe, but it was emotionally unsafe. How do you