 the way life comes at you. Because otherwise, if we chose it ourselves, we would choose a much easier path, right? If we could lay things out for ourselves. And yet it's almost, it's necessary. I almost said almost, almost said almost. It is necessary to be challenged. I know this is the hard part about live. You can't erase any of it. Okay. But you have to be challenged. And that's an interesting thing to sit with. The first time I was presented with that in my own coaching, um,