 or you're at some type of brunch or outing and you're like going over the menu saying, I can't eat this, this is a bad food, or this is not like a healthy option. Those are comments that while they might seem very innocent, they might seem very much like, well, I'm just talking about my own experience. You have to think about how those are coming across to other people around you. And so, for example, when you're asking the question of,