 Right, and we get that from other people a lot because it makes other people uncomfortable. Yes, usually, yeah. And, I mean, so often that can be a selfish motive when we hear it. It's like, you know, well, don't worry about it so much. That has more to do with the person telling you not to worry about it so much because they don't want to worry so much. Yeah, and they don't want to hear you talking about it. Right, right, you know, the difficulties. You know, and then, of course, then there becomes the concern that I hear time and time again from friends, clients, and others, well, I don't want to burden people with this, or...