 is the woman. The woman will not tell the man why they're in the ring tonight. If he does not know, that is his problem. Here are the rules. If the man upsets the woman, he must apologize. If the woman upsets the man, the man must apologize. Best vacation ever, we went to the UK. My daughter was studying in Scotland, so we went over to visit her. We thought it was gonna be great because everyone there speaks English.