 to really say, yes, okay, this is where we're going. How do we practice that in the smallest ways, in the ways we love one another, in the ways we're intimate with one another, in our friendships, with our families, with our chosen families? How do we always be in that moment of how can I be willing to be creative in the midst of violence, in the midst of the unknown, to really, really, really be having those conversations, to speculate,