 right? Yeah. Yeah. But we can, we can get ourselves into that mode, right? If we're, if, and, and that it's not to say that these things aren't important. You know, we have reactions to important things in our jobs and our relationships and our understanding of ourselves and our own growth and our career paths in school. I mean, these are all important things. And so we tend to react really strongly to the things that are most important to us. So, yeah, it's, it's similar for me. My, my,