 you know, how bad it was compared to the way school was, you know, prior to all these internet devices and social media, you get it at school and he gets home and he gets it in the Xbox chat room. And I just, you know, I didn't recognize how bad it was, you know, and he wanted to hang on to the friends he had at that school and he resisted it. So I let him make that choice for a while until I realized it was as bad as it was.