 Yes, absolutely. Yeah. I mean, it was, it was, and my eye, you know, was sort of the same thing. I was like, I'm, I saw it as I'm not seeing clearly. And, and that was, you know, that last straw, which I shared with a friend who said, you know, do you think you're in a narcissistic relationship? You know, that was all happening. And my cancer actually came back. So the night before that last