 Um, but the second you didn't have to anymore, you stopped. And if that's the case, they really don't owe you anything. Like they don't owe you any gratitude. They don't owe you anything. You just did the bit. You did only what you had to to not go to prison and nothing beyond that. And if that's all you give to your kid, then they just, you know, there's just, there's no bond there. There's nothing, there's really no debt that they have to you. I'm sorry. Um, and they can just ship you off to the nursing home and put you out of sight and out of mind like you did to them.