 The problem with the word should is it's kind of externally imposed. It can be externally imposed. What would my parents tell me is the right amount to give? What does the culture tell me? What does my religious leader tell me? And I really like to ask people to go inside themselves and figure out what experience they're having from their giving. What I've found, though, is that if it's not a little bit uncomfortable, if you're not stretching yourself enough,