 who's turned on, oh, this is what it looks like to be a woman who's expressive. Oh, this is what it looks like to be a woman who's feeling this or that or the other. Because, you know, who has that experience as a young person? Mostly nobody. And so we grow up with this idea that, well, this is the right way to be sexy. And it comes from movies and stuff like that, of course. There are many, many ways to