 Some of his friends worried. But Bo never complained, and around men in particular, he carried himself with stoic severity. Women saw a more concerning aspect. In the Harrison's kitchen, one of Kim's friends grabbed his hand, flipped his forearm over to reveal the neat rows of cuts. "'You have such nice arms,' she said. "'What the heck are you doing to yourself?' "'I'm getting ready,' he told her. "'What are you getting ready for?' "'Pain.' "'Bo, what on earth are you talking about? I'm just getting ready.'