 And so you ask me, will you rub my back? And I don't want to, but I don't know how to say no. So I say yes. And then I do that for three minutes and I go, I didn't really want to do that. And then I can see, oh, I do that in my relationship as well. Now here I can actually see it up close. So it's an opportunity to see more of those dynamics in yourself in a low stakes situation. So that's the way I see it in the larger picture is,