 It's either you're doing what you want or I'm doing what you want. So you have this four quadrants of the circle, of the wheel. And so I call it the wheel of consent. Which, after I'd been teaching this for 10 or 15 years, I thought, you know, I should really look in the dictionary and see what consent really is. And I was kind of surprised, but as I thought about it, it made a lot of sense.