 communities as our spaces our relationships even our bodies are under threat we continue to survive and thrive and that level of resiliency i think is an asset to anybody who's trying to do any kind of work in justice in our communities now for some words of wisdom from you a lot of people are proud because it is pride month but there are people out there who are still struggling still turned away from their families because they haven't come out or they have and they haven't been accepted so what's your advice