 you take chasing women literally that's true yeah i will speak for myself i haven't found any dates that way but it is a nice low pressure way to meet people you don't have to really worry about what you're going to wear right plus you have an excuse for being gross and sweaty on essentially your first date they don't need to know that you will also be just like that when you go out to dinner how can you talk though you're like hey hey i grew up in new york