 getting yourself entrenched in that messaging and not being open to having an actual conversation, like, like then we don't solve problems and we don't start the conversation with let's talk about all of us on all sides, quote of the issue, wanting to keep our kids safe. And I think that's what's happening in this conversation so far in Seattle, which is, is really encouraging if they can keep the focus on that. I mean, I went to a big, big public high school too. And actually, you know, when I was the,