 identifying as a progressive and how that shapes your feelings about what your boys, quote unquote, should be. You talked to some conservatives about their own views. Were you surprised at how much politics was a part of your book? In a way, I was not surprised. I have three boys and the final one was born right as the Me Too movement was exploding. It was a year into the Trump presidency and just raising boys felt like this incredibly fraught political project. You know, as