 to succeed at finding a spouse and commanding a relationship that's worthwhile. And not just taking some schmuck into your life because that's all you can get settling for this weak, weak example of a spouse. Many of you know that. When I say that right now, you're going, man, I know. I just took what I could get. But you don't have to. But you have to be aggressive. You have to be a winner. You have to know what winning means. You have to have a goal. You have to go after the goal.