 And how am I supposed to bless the person who spits at me and curses me and calls me names because I don't believe what he believes? This happens every day. Pray for those who spitefully use you. Wow. What a mandate. Love your enemies. Impersonal love is a wonderful problem-solving device in the problem-solving package that God has given to us. This mandate is a divine charge. That's right, a divine charge.