 and i have to tell you a little story there was a point when i was a 40 where i become a multi-millionaire and i had more money coming in than i ever dreamed of needing and so i said you know what i've got to stop just making more money with my money i just kept using my money to make more money i said i've got to stop and i've got to start spending some portion of it on fun i said i'm going to do something i'm going to get a hobby and i'm going to go try to do something for fun