 to yourself and to the family and they're there to help you by cutting you off from access to the money one of the things that's interesting about type a's is that if you let them and this is basically what you do you take your type a out you put a noose or a collar on them i'm sorry like a dog and a chain and a spike in the backyard let them run around run around run around run around run around run around run around run around and they think they're getting somewhere and they're happy