 Whether you plan the service in detail or just search out information, we offer a chance to look at the options and record your thoughts and choices so your family knows what is important to you. It is said that funerals are for the living, but the choice of how those services help friends and family with those memories, with those lasting connections, those choices are yours. For more information about pre-planning, for a place to record your personal at-my-funeral moments, contact R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, 757-723-3191,