 No one wants to be held in less respect or thoughts of their family and their friends. They just don't want to talk about it. And they don't know how to explain it to themselves, so they push it way, way back in the mind. In fact, I've had a number of these say, you know, I had this experience. I didn't know quite what to do. I thought maybe I was going crazy, so I just kind of didn't deal with it because how could I deal with it? There was no one to talk to. There was no one to have any answers.