 way that she was thinking about that and so don't worry mom I have a house covering this so it's not me I'm not pulling money out of my pocket I have an asset that's working for me and that's when it really kicked in that that is you know kind of a special place in my heart that that that particular property that money goes into my mom's allowance account and she gets to use that for her living and and just being able to be comfortable about that gave her the peace of mind and it gives me the peace of mind