 and i'm just so it's about people's stories and i don't know how to answer and it's overcame yeah and they don't grow up in these wild environments and you're just like oh my god i think it's a little bit and then go be somebody yeah and they did yeah but i mean like that that the stories and stuff that i mean i just grew up you know boring compared to some of the i was just saying you're probably promised for you based on those two stories aaron is in tulsa oklahoma hi aaron how are you uh... better than i deserve uh...