 well I'm generally I'm quite a sort of reserved person you know a little bit being kind of you know British it just sort of goes you're very proper yes exactly you don't really want to bother people um but this this gave you the the kind of fruit in the door type thing that people weren't didn't offend in any way you know it was just they were also interested towards you and it also meant that I could cover a lot of subjects that I wouldn't you know ordinarily look into um