 first yeah but let's not make this another five-year engagement after that and then one day i got my patience with this personally i mean i'm just speaking for dave because you know just i think sharon would have been long gone if dave waited eight years yeah she'd be going um what's that country song get me to the church or something i don't know but anyway that old uh little big town had a song but yeah that's it whatever paint paint the church white whatever the thing is yeah no get married get married as fast as you can