 you know, I guess there's a way to harmonize that. You don't have to have it on you at all times. If you've ever seen a preteen bent over a phone for hours on end, you realize this new book by Jonathan Haidt, The Anxious Generation, how the great rewiring of childhood is causing an epidemic of mental illness. We've got kids that are depressed, withdrawn, antisocial, rude. They're on their phones all day because the parents don't have the guts to take those things and drive them over with their cars.