 that takes a toll on you at the time, especially your kids. My oldest daughter told me, or my youngest daughter one time, she was like, you're lucky that dad comes to all your volleyball games and everything happens in school. She was like, he never came to any of my stuff. And I remember one day we had daughter, daddy breakfast at my school. And this is when she was young in Miami. And she was like, I was the only kid that didn't have a dad there. And I was like,