 Do you ever hear a song or see pictures that just trigger what we call an at-my-funeral moment? When you think, this is the song my friends should hear, these are the pictures that show how I want my family and friends to remember me. Hi, I'm Tim Smith of R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home and Berceuse Funeral and Cremation Traditions. One of the greatest services we offer is the opportunity to pre-plan a funeral or memorial.