 mental things happen divorce you could just get burn out yeah distress that happens all the time yeah business owners all of those things happen all the time everything you just said 70 miles an hour you're running all the time as a business owner and then it shuts down and everything's dependent upon you and you're going well i need help i don't know how to do that i can't i don't know how to you know i don't know how to add people i can't hire anybody because somebody asked me to do this they said