 So the first segment of my life got me away from controlling manipulative people telling me that I have to be as messed up as they are in life. That was my parents. And so I learned you do not have to be controlled, manipulated. And number two, you don't have to be as messed up as the people around you. You don't have to believe the lies that they live in their life every day. You can live a different way, even though they tell you it's the only way to live. Number two.