 people with the same multiple people the same name and uh it might create such a thing you might have spent a whole day on sunday morning just going through your phone deleting people's contact uh so i think it's a time issue but i think more importantly it's about attachment um and some people even jokingly saying that the second you save their phone number they ghost you in a way i understand it's it sounds really silly but uh it does seem like you know for people uh on both sides it become an issue that's