 Remember, I've often seen spouses that come in that it's not necessarily always the guy. You know, I've met with couples that he is absolutely the investor and she knows where everything is and she is, and he just turns it over to her. So it's for either of you. So this really, this show is for anybody that's listening. But it's about when he laterals you a ball and you weren't expecting it, and then he wants you or he hopes that,