 That's right. And I think sometimes it's just simply a function of giving them the opportunity to be engaged and to ask questions so they don't feel silly or, you know, how it is when you're in school, you're afraid to raise your hand to ask a question because you're afraid the other kids are going to laugh at you. Oftentimes, the spouse is in that same situation where they don't want to speak up or they don't want to ask a question because...