 I'm scared about how I've led this family and I'm scared about what comes next if we keep owing all this money. Will you join me? And then at that point, maybe she might say, hey, what did you do with Andy, my husband? And she may say, I still don't feel comfortable with it, but at least she sees you recognizing what she now has been experiencing. Can you do that? Yeah, absolutely. Okay. And then when the time is right, after you've done what Dr. John just said,