 keep working okay it's fine unless you hate it do you hate it i don't hate it no no okay if however it does happen and you feel a little anxious about really starting to yank money out of your pre-tax account then get a side hustle and don't yank as much out understood understood now you're partnered and you own your house so what happens if you drop dead who gets the house so i've already i've already set it up so that it will it will go to my partner