 In fact, while it may hurt their feelings for a season, the right thing to do is to speak truth. Open rebuke is better than love carefully concealed. Faith for the wounds of a friend. Paul says that love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in truth. So to love our neighbor is going to require us to make it not about us, but to do good toward them. And doing good toward them to not do harm would mean even speaking that which is true to them