 That's the, you know, that's the idea. So let's say that you've really listened intently to the last two shows. You've embraced that. You've learned. You're staying away from the four horsemen. You're practicing the formula. And you're really communicating well, resolving your conflicts pretty quickly and without a whole lot of drama. And there's some emotional safety that's being built between the two of you. So does that mean that you got a great marriage?