 Problem is, criticism doesn't work. I mean, if it did, we'd all be perfectly happily married after about a year, because I'd point out everything wrong with you, and you'd fix yourself, and you'd point out everything wrong with me, and I'd fix me, and after about a year, we'd run out of things to complain about. Well, obviously that doesn't work. And I think, here's the deal, you know, if the wife is criticizing the husband,