 We'd all be perfectly happily married after about a year because, you know, I'd point out everything wrong with you and you'd fix yourself and you'd point out everything wrong with me and I'd fix me. And after about a year, we'd run out of things to complain about. Well, obviously that doesn't work. And I think here's the deal, you know. If the wife is criticizing the husband, that leaves the husband feeling like a failure, which he is very sensitive to.