 well this is just ridiculous she was she had her kids strapped to her and yeah she was just trying to you know and i mean if you look like a dude and i'm like i'm sorry sir people don't know if you cluck like a dog but people don't know like what your your pronoun is supposed to be and it's put people on pins and needles well the problem is i don't want to i'm not going to buy into your delusion so you want to be you you be you but leave me alone yeah