 yeah right from the scriptures where Jesus is on the cross and you have to remember when he's on the cross it's very difficult to even speak he's literally suffocating to death so every word as a potency is it something that's needful not just kind of a tossing off things that are non-essential and he turns to the beloved disciple and says behold your mother and then he turns to Mary and says behold your son and so he gives the church has always seen that