 was that he had a poor upbringing and wants to help other families quietly without recognition. We need more of that in the world today. Janice Dean, Fox News. Everyone has a community to lean on. A neighborhood, school, kids teams, where you worship, work, workout, or any other place or group where you choose to belong. Communities can provide support when you need it, and even when you don't know you do. Like when it comes to preventing underage drinking and other substance use.