 yeah i think the first one was probably the hardest and then you at least know what to expect right you do get better at it i always say don't don't stop if you can manage just keep being open be open to life because everyone is that much of a gift my wife's first one was 23 hours oh my gosh i mean you talk about they're worried about the people going in fetal distress but of course you know god is good i had five of them