 sounds like from a storybook yeah i you know what i think you'll find it'll work because the idea is i'm sure that your husband loves you and and he wants to spend time with you and he doesn't want to leave you feeling abandoned and all alone and and uh without support but you know his friends call you know they say we're getting together let's go have a beer you know we'll do whatever they do you know watch the ball game we'll throw some darts we'll whatever it is they do and