 And he's like, well, okay. And so it's hard for him to say no to his friends. Well, you've got to be one of those friends that says, hey, here's what we're doing Friday night. You know, invite him to spend time with you and with the children and make it a little bit hard for him to say no. And then just, you know, shower him with a lot of kindness. And I think he'll be kind of flattered if you say, you know what, I love you and I want to spend time with you.