 Conflict cannot be eliminated, so it must be managed. All couples have conflict. Every single one of them. And you're not going to avoid it, so you've got to manage it. And, you know, here's the bottom line is, it's not conflict that destroys marriages. Most people do. Why do you get divorced? Oh, we're fighting all the time. No, no, no, no, no, no. It's not conflict that destroys marriages. It's conflict avoidance.