 Where you go to bed, get on your knees, and review your day. What did you do that wasn't all that great? And did you commit sins of pride? Did you commit sins of vanity and confront yourself with it? That's hard to do. I mean, you know, prideful people do not like to look at their defects. It's a very uncomfortable place to be, but force yourself to do that. And the last thing I'd say is, if this is you, make a list of your spouse's virtues.