 to make themselves feel good. And if you're rising above him, he has a tendency, he'll have a tendency to try to pull you down. He does it with some harsh words. This is a case where counseling could really be of a good help because it can help you and he, but especially you, have a conversation with him so he can learn how he's hurting you and give him some strategies on how to overcome when he gets angry and he falls into these bad patterns.