 Uh, and, um, uh, if the wife calls a timeout, says, well, she's coming back. Well, the husband is not going to feel disrespected. He's going to, he's going to feel respect with that because, okay, you respect me, you love me. And, and, uh, um, you know, and we're going to, we're going to get this resolved. All right. So stonewalling temporary solution doesn't really help anything because you can't get a resolve. Call the timeout and then come back at the appointed time.