 doesn't mean you got a great marriage it takes two parts there and then over that we lay forgiveness of course all right so um today we're going to spend a lot of time talking about growing and nurturing your love i got a lot of content i need to get through uh and we may not get through it all today which means you'll have to tune in on monday to hear the rest of it before we do that email came in yesterday that i thought was rather interesting thought i'd share that with you