 that aren't just going to, you know, I wish I could, you know, blink them away, but I can't. Yeah, of course. I don't know. Some of these things are just, you know, they just carve really deep troughs into our soul. Yeah, so I think, I guess I'd say a couple things. I would say to her, listen, I really want us to have a deeper, more intimate life where we really connect. We're there for each other. We're the safe harbor for each other. I really want to have this deep, loving, tender connection