 maybe it's just the fear of failure that's his biggest obstacle. He's so scared to fail that he's not trying because when you try to find a job, you're going to fail. And I got it. I mean, I get it. I was out of work for six months and at that time we just had our fourth child and it took six months and I was working hard and every time you get a reject letter in the mail, it was like depressing. And I was out of work during the winter and