 to God and, and all of that. And you didn't really have, like, if there was something I could say, I would say do this, but I don't. And that we talked a lot about the ideology and stuff. Um, uh, so I, my husband and I, we just had to go deep with their faith and, you know, we do adoration and, and just freeing the rosary and of course going to mass and confession and stuff like that. And for, uh,