 and she got to the point where they had to sell the house and he wasn't living there so she had an open house that day and was you know she never failed praying for her husband they had she had to sell the home she couldn't afford it herself and right before the open house right before her schedule she gets a knock on the door she opens the door on the other side of the door is her husband wow and he comes in and says you know i mean i need to talk to you and i don't know how long they were separated or you know how long they had been divorced