 One of the ways, if we're a perfectionist, right, we don't only put a lot of pressure on ourselves, but then we kind of look down on anybody else who's not doing it our way because we're the one who knows the right way to do it. And there's only one way to load the dishwasher or only one way to vacuum the floor, whatever it is. And then that puts a lot of pressure on people. And plus, marriage is about two people going through life hand in hand. And if I'm self-sufficient and I'm telling my husband, I don't need you. I got all this thing figured out, man. I can take care of all this stuff.