 anymore you've been trying to fix everything for everybody and you just run around buy stuff you got to stop it yeah and hold on the line Sarah Christian will pick up and we're going to get you FPU the nine lessons and you and your husband need to sit down this weekend and binge them watch all of them yes and do a budget and we'll give you every dollar every dollar premium for that and sit down and control these expenses as well and that's going to be cutting your lifestyle