 Sounds strange to you, but that's how I kind of like see and process things. So I want to say that I'm still learning. And I do think part of the ability to write is to go back and give grace, is to go back and show love, and is to go back and understand, even for my father. And I don't think I could have said that, you know, 20 years ago. And just hope that maybe my kids give me the same grace and the mistakes that I make, right? We are human. And again,