 So, you know, I can't say, I can only say that when I was little, and this might be similar to a lot of people and their families, there was no discussion of the things that hurt you. There was no discussion of the dysfunctional things that were happening. And my fault was always, right, in the essay Fool's Goal, is that I talked about things, that I cried, right? They called me the crybaby. It was almost like...