 uh driving erratically or speeding or weaving in and out you want to go to another lane and stay as far as far away from them as possible so the you know just to be proactive that's what you do so avoid the situation but let's say you can't right and this guy's banging on your window inviting you outside you know what are you half a man what kind of man are you get out of your car uh what what is the um i guess the recommended way to de-escalate a situation like that