 to make sure that what they were telling me, that he wasn't around any longer because you can't go with somebody's wife in that lifestyle. So I had to make sure that it was accurate, that he was gone, he wasn't coming back, and then I started dating her. Those were all death sentences. If you sleep with somebody's wife, that would be a death sentence. If you kill somebody that was involved with somebody else, another family member or your own family member,