 know just to you could just bring up people and say hey i'm the editor of this magazine tell me all about what you're doing and people would talk to you know i love that aspect of it good for you i i've never used i i'm just nosy i guess i don't even have an excuse okay good for you well i'm generally i'm quite a sort of reserved person you know a little bit kind of you know british you just sort of go you're very proper yes exactly you don't really want to bother people