 And it's the S's. You need to seek counsel if you are experiencing things like a addiction, abuse, F, financial infidelity. Right. Those are the times that you seek counsel. And then from there, the E is you need to evaluate your options. What is it? Is it me having to separate funds for him in order to keep myself and family safe for a while until, you know, the right counseling has taken place and we've seen evidence of change?