 if you need help i'm here for you i will go with you to get help but you don't judge them and you just listen because when i talk to veteran officers all the time and i ask them three questions most of the time when i see them i ask them are they cit trained the crisis intervention team officers number two i always ask them well how are you doing today how are things going today but the third thing that i ask them always gets a curious look but they always respond