 But there is a lesson here for all of us, if only we're willing to learn it, which is that we're all defined by moments. Only a few moments when all is said and done. Now, most of us will never have a moment that ends up in the history book like Trump, but even so, when we die at our funeral or for years after that, those closest to us will not vividly remember or remember at all the vast majority of the things we did and said.