 OK, sorry. Keep going. No, no problem. And choice number three, we talk about serving sacrificially. And I think one of the keys there is we've learned is that the best way you can serve your spouse is by fulfilling your God given biblical roles. And so, you know, some of the choices that we talked about are choosing to please regularly. And, you know, we're not talking about taking out the trash or emptying the dishwasher here.