 heard of he asked us he said well i've only got 45 minutes for you which is a great thing you know and he said let's get to it right and he said you know we can do one of two things we can either one talk about how bad your marriage is and the crisis that you're in which it was or he said number two we can do this um i can talk to you about the truth of the lord jesus christ and the forgiveness that's available in the cross and how you can build your life on marriage on the rock and we were just like