 dared one kid did once but uh yeah no that was not okay it did not go well okay right i just i don't know if there's if that's a shift that's happening where the way you talk to your parents is changing but the way that the mom didn't react i'm sitting there going what i i wouldn't take it in any tone but was the tone kind of like the valley girl oh shut up no they were they were having a serious conversation shut your pie hole yeah yeah