 This doesn't sound right to me. Unless he looked at his client, your husband, and said, if she sees these text messages and this stuff and X and Y and Z, you're toast. Like they don't make offers of compassion is what I'm saying. It feels to me that if this went before a judge, they'd go, yeah, you're not paying lawyer fees and you're going to get the house and you're not going to pay his debt. Is that a possibility? I have.