 and stop the borrowing you can't you can't dig it you know you can't dig your way out of a hole you gotta you know you can't just keep get out of a hole while you're digging out the bottom you can't just keep digging so no more debt chop them up get on a written plan take care of food first lights and water second house third then you've got money left out of that i mean there's right two three thousand bucks laying there to do some stuff with and we can begin to work on this and then the other thing too is on the days you don't have the kids i'd pick up extra time