 um how do you it's like the story of the prodigal son right the prodigal son came back and they you know they um slaughtered the fatted calf i'm just glad that you'd returned home so i hear what you're saying that i think that you can lose some of the strength um but at the same time if people have left this church and they're disillusioned um what is the strategy to get them back you know you've got to meet them where they are but i i