 the choice is up to them but typically you want them anytime you have kids you don't want them to receive any assets until after they're 18 because they can't receive it until they're 18. right um i usually like the age of 25 that's usually what i suggest because you know they're out of college they're not going to blow it all you know partying they're probably looking for a good steady job a good place to live maybe they're getting married that sort of thing so