 Stanley's wife experienced a serious mental illness. They argued. You need to take your medicine or you need to go for a walk with me or when Susan doesn't want to do that. It's like, but you need to do it. The doctor said to do it. Stanley learned that Susan had to make her own moves. I can encourage her. I can help her discern what is needful. I can't do it for her. Be supportive of others as they learn this delicate balance. A message from the Mennonite Churches and Faith and Values Media.