 to do something towards this and to not continue to dig this hole. She's not a victim. She chose to spend more than she makes. She didn't make a lot of money, but she chose to not live on that to the tune of $76,000. And so, you know, these are very concerning things in a second marriage, and you're coming back in, and it sounds like a lot of years in between the two times you've been married to her. And, yeah, a lot going on here, brother.