 When you go from a family that sits down at the table for each meal, says grace before eating, goes to church every Sunday, and then to Aunt Julie's and Uncle Mel's, a big family meal that included Aunt Julie's delicious fried chicken, homemade mashed potatoes, all from scratch, and where discipline consisted of one smack on the behind with a paddle or a wooden spoon, to a family that only goes to church at Christmas, if at all,