 had we had sex before marriage. And I remember, you know, I said, well, yes, but he's the only person. And I can't say, you know, none of my friends could say the same thing here, you know, and I was, it was my little self, you know, trying to be a good person. And then he said, oh, so you guys told each other it was okay to have sex outside of marriage then. And I said,