 We just can't do it. And so what we've got here is, as you said, selfish and immature guy who's putting his own impulses ahead of the good of his family. Have you guys reached out to a counselor? That's what you need. Yes. So we've done marriage counseling already that I set up that then he denied. You're not done. And then he set marriage counseling when he was ready. No, I know.