 To get that win. And so I, yeah, I mean, it's, it's, it's, and it's hard as a parent. It's hard because you have to approach it in a way to where they are going to listen and they are going to, but it's, it's just that society that we're in. Well, you've got to be teachable. You've got to be coachable. Even as an adult. I mean, that does not end. I mean, we, we still get coached.