 athletes as well as maturity and you know what you don't win them all and that's okay but patting them on the back like we'll get them next time kiddo no like what did we do wrong what caused us to lose this game how are we going to fix that having those conversations at the end of the game in the huddle is important because that's getting them ready and separating them from all the other kids in the league when they're trying out for a high school ball later on