 Don't dump gasoline or lighter fluid, smother it. If the fire is small enough, you could probably take care of the problem by just putting the lid on the pan, which originally she probably could have done that. Before she blew on it, she probably could just put the lid on it, and that would have been good enough. It's a bigger fire than you'll need to smother it by dumping either baking soda or salt on it. Just make sure it's baking soda, not baking powder, or else you'll be in for an unfortunate surprise.