 so that's i i don't well i mean if you want to talk about narcissism let's talk about it how narcissist do you have to be if you're the first lady jill biden to go out there and actually make people believe that your husband is competent when clearly i would say it's it's senior abuse that's my opinion i think this is straight up senior abuse well i i do too i i think you're right on and i but i think she's got she's so narcissistic that