 Because nobody hears the word no in your place. And so the grown-ups in the place are going to have to circle the wagons, you and your wife, and say, all right, as grown-ups, we're going to do what's best for this family in the long term, which means in the short term we're going to say no to some things to ourselves and to all the non-grown-ups in the family who don't get a vote. I understand. Is that old school dinosaur stuff or what? No.