 they want a they want a piece of the action right um if you have realized or if you're broke and you people around you're like hey you got to sell some of this stuff to pay your bills then there's going to come that moment yeah but also is going to come a moment when you collect whatever is you collect in your 65 or 75 and you realize oh i can't take this with me right and so then you got to ask yourself what am i going to do with this am i going to be charitable with it am i going to