 So either your shared language is going to be fostering a healthy communication culture. That's going to be something that your kids are going to observe. They're going to want to care because it's building life. Or you can have a shared language that is negative or you're walking on eggshells all the time because you're always waiting for the next explosion to happen type of thing. So I'm not sure if you're going there with that. But yeah, couples can share language in many ways and they can share culture and certainly build it together.