 to impose its will. It forces the husband and wife together to agree on and impose their will on the chaos and force it into order. That's what budgeting does. And it forces you to discuss the things where you are not aligned. And that's why I give great hope for Phil because he was answering. He's over it. He's ready to fix this. Sure, sure. He's ready to say no to himself, to his wife, to his daughter. Yep.