 Yeah. And that's one of the main thrusts that I tried to get across in the book here too, is that communication is a skill. Like it's not something that it comes wired and you're kind of just given whatever wiring that you were born with and you need to just deal with that. Cause a lot of guys, yeah, I'll talk to him. I was this guy where I'd say, Hey, I'm just not a talker. I don't need to, I don't need to process things in this way. I don't need to, you know, and, and, and some of that's still true, but for the sake of loving my wife, um,