 And my goodness, what a life well lived after serving in Vietnam, serving in the FBI for 28 years. A free ticket to the show, he said, late in life to children like me. 41 when he had his daughter Caitlin, 42 Victoria Tyler, who was in medical school carrying on a family tradition. But that story of him greeting refugees, I know that one because my immigrant grandparents made me do the same thing.