 Man, your family needs a stable presence right now. They don't need running around and selling this and moving this and going into my mom and dad's house. I've been where you are, and I've been so scared, and I walk around with my family asleep not knowing what's coming. I've been there, man. You've got to go talk to somebody. I'm telling you. You're going to end up making a huge mistake, either relationally, either financially, or both.