 I shouldn't be the reason that she is calloused in some way. I should be the safe place for her. And I think so many times as husbands, we wield our words without that occurring to us, that we're so familiar. And we are overly tough and overly combative at times with our wives. So that was a conviction I had. And so I'm encouraging men to think more clearly about their own. We talked about this toughness in terms of work, but also just toughness in terms of familiarity.