 And she's going, hey, I'm not your business colleague. Stop talking to me like that. So what is she expressing when she responds like that? So that's what I call the husband paradox, right? So right straight back to the garden, men were created to work, to do things. And we have a certain potency in that regard. If we don't know how to flip that switch when it comes to cultivating and we come back home and we're not actually seeing our bride as the gift that she always was,