 That's kind of what we're talking about today. So how do we lead our spouses in a better way when it comes to communication? Right, and Ryan Frederick has a passion for this. He is an author, and he and his wife, Selena, have been with us here before on the show. They minister to couples and families, and of the books he's written, we're talking today about one that is right in alignment with what you've been saying, Jim, how a husband speaks