 well the man's name is steven vander velda he's a dutch beach volleyball player and if you say all he got caught with a younger girlfriend he had sex with a twelve-year-old girl this is not one of those romeo and juliet things are somebody where there's two years difference between uh... an eighteen-year-old high school students sixteen-year-old this is an adult man having sex with a twelve-year-old girl he went to prison for it