 You don't gotta become best friends. You don't have to be as close as you once were. You don't have to re-engage in that relationship, but I promise that unforgiveness festering in your heart will do more bad to you than it will do to anybody else. And so we go out of our way to offer forgiveness because it is the way of Jesus. It has eternal ramifications. So we let go of grudges and we hold onto forgiveness.