 But you also need to pay attention to, and you feel so at home and relaxed with them, but you also need to pay attention to the really earthy, practical, nitty-gritty stuff. Like what? What would that be an example? The nitty-gritty stuff. Well, these are just called boundaries. Oh, okay. We all have people that we love in our lives and we feel like they're soulmates and they're home and they're so important to us.