 I think that what he's facing is what a lot of couples face, which is that feeling of you've finally found something that you think is going to be the breakthrough moment. And with this plan, it is a watershed moment, right? But you have this wake of all the other things you've done and tried and got bought in for, buy in from, from your spouse that didn't go so well. And so they're seeing a trail of like failed mishaps. And you're like, no, this is the one. This is the one. Like,