 i'm not hanging out with somebody telling me not to win yeah i do think he needs to clarify like he's not talking to have a party later he just wants a piece of paper if a guy says listen i want to marry you tomorrow i'm saying yes so that we can go into this with the right relationship with the right protections in place no one even knows you have the certificate like if you want to keep it a secret who cares and have the party later surprise surprise between you her and god that's