 no no honestly it's it's been good but like I said it's just we've we've been we've never kind of they just like I said they don't do okay so you said you said to them I don't want this and now that hurt their feelings that's where we sit today correct yeah pretty much okay so what would you think then that what you know I don't know what to do to solve that other than it's been said because you don't need to say it again right