 and uh but then it lands back it lands back on alissa and then when she came at alissa alissa went back went yeah but you bought an airline ticket that's true and you got this prescription and you got these other things you could have you know it's a matter of choices and you're making bad choices tone matters but i think the girl i think you're right the girl's hurting financially yeah and she's not very good at relationships yeah they're all the all the tones were off on this one