 when you're taking on responsibility and that's not your responsibility you're carrying something as a seventeen-year-old kid that you don't need to carry you're a young man and this is not your job the adults in her life failed her your mom and dad are being generous in giving her a place to stay it is not your job to finance her life at seventeen okay i want to relieve you of that it's not an act of love on your part it's an act of desperation and displaced misplaced honor