 no it's not it's simply saying i've heard your side you've heard my side we've got the majority this is how it's going to be right exactly so i just wanted to point that out that's all well i you know what laura there are times i talk to people and i say okay i understand we're going to disagree that's okay you can disagree but if you're going to tell me and and i've made the case for a long time and i don't hear many other even pro-life conservatives making the case why are you having the abortion at all