 had been, I mean, ruled with, you know, with an iron fist in a velvet glove kind of thing. We don't teach any of that anymore. And we just, it's kind of every person for themselves. You don't, I mean, everybody's on their phone. They don't bother to sit down and have dinner together. They don't talk about their day or whatever. And it's kind of funny. I went to my son's house a couple weeks ago and