 that when we step back, and I'm careful, Pastor, with this, because Christians who run in with like a coffee mug and a t-shirt bumper sticker verse aren't helpful. I've been in tragic situations, and what wasn't helpful was, it'll be okay, God has a plan. It's like, shut up. This is hard. I just need to, you know what I mean? I mean, I need to sit with this. But as time goes by,