 only when you get it can you experience that and take it to that next level of okay who was that what was that just like the empathic learning that that's not my feelings that's somebody else's who am i connected to so and it's interesting too how do you get connected to that person so much right there's a tons of great questions and then it leads to more so thank you for calling in cynthia i appreciate that let's see who we got next we got so many oh my goodness you guys are everywhere