 i've never had an invite we were up in uh near the mountains in salt lake city and then but that was just the informal so yeah yeah yeah and we went to milan for the formal yeah the announcement yeah the fun the party yeah and then to paris of course well for the party the engagement party yeah the actual party obviously i mean so yeah i can relate can't wait for that i think a lot of us could relate because how many of us have had the formal ceremony in italy