 um my family on one side of my family they have a family plot out in the out in the ozarks on top of a hill they get a little over the top with some of the graveyard accoutrements you know like i just think it's weird if you're putting wind chimes up in a cemetery i'm like who's listening to that you know they my uh families to do this thing that i would make fun of called the southern graveyard vigil where they would go and constantly put like