 All I can say is that we were never really good with finances when it comes to keeping track. As long as we knew we had money to do things and pay things, we weren't really paying attention as much. I never really cared what she was spending money on. She never really cared what I was spending money on. And it didn't get to that. Like I said, she didn't realize it was something bad. So like $500 or $800 could be gone and her not even notice, right?