 That's almost a good guideline for you, right? When I was going to say, tell us how we can be open to it. So really what you're saying is don't necessarily just give into it, but open yourself up to realizing or noticing what it is that your chemistry is doing, what your heart's doing, what your mind's doing, what your interest is doing. Does it light you up? Does it repel you? All that stuff is sort of like your GPS to the soulmate, right?