 whoever's the next of kin, you don't ask them for an opinion on what you should do. You immediately just do it and inform them because it's always the child first. Right. And here's the other thing, and I hate to say this, and I'm not saying this about your mom because that obviously was not the case, but quite often we have reports of moms, other parents going, oh, no, that would never happen. Right. They interfere with the disclosure. Right. And we don't want that. And one of the things that,