 And you tend to make your problems bigger than they really are. Just like your rear-view mirror says in your car, objects may appear bigger than they really are. That's what we do with our problems when we do this, when we fail to honor God's mandate here. And as a result, you may express envy and jealousy toward other people who seemingly don't have the same problems. Naturally, because of that, people start avoiding you. Your anxiety turns into loneliness.