 gets jobs but then my 14 year old he's like i really want to start learning how to work and i want to start making money so that i can afford to go do these things because yeah i'm not funding that for you all the time it's exhausting and it's expensive um and so he's like nobody hires me though and so he's got to get crafting so he goes and door knocks hey can i mow your lawn for ten dollars but um yeah so he gets shut down in that way where he wants to grow