 all of it or most of it to be able to manage your help manager house right now that's okay there's nothing wrong with that you're working two full-time jobs and you've got chaos at home your wife has a full-time job yeah oh by the way yeah wow three full-time jobs right so you're not a bad guy you're just your timing sucks yes and it's kind of a deceptive question yes you can be a man yes you can run a successful business and be a good family man you can't do 50 things at once