 And so that's where I go. The money is just a symptom of a bigger problem. And 37 years, truthfully, it's going to be really hard to uncover these stones and deal with the trauma underneath. And so it's going to take some work. But I'm telling you, if you guys live to be another 30 years, I'd want a marriage that's fun and a retirement that's fun and not one filled with communication where we can't even talk because it's going to blow up. She's going to be doing her thing. You're going to be doing your thing.