 I don't think our marriage is going to make it unless we control, alt, delete, and build a new marriage from the ground up. Ready, go. Short of that, you're not going to fix it over here and solve this because you're going to play whack-a-mole. And if he's listening to his buddies like this more than he's listening to a wife who's homeschooling, working two jobs, and saying, please help, your marriage is on real, real shaky ground.