 also yeah you gotta figure out if it was joint tenancy because what ends up happening is uh... let's say she says i want to leave a hundred thousand dollars to jesse but everything is held in both uh... my name that's her talking and uh... my husband's name i enjoy tenancy that's done then the will means nothing you know there's nothing to probate inside it so i know that was the money uh... what i know that uh... you actually well what you're gonna do is get a lawyer gonna ask him that question