 and whatnot but here's the deal this is these are this is our public education system and these are our teachers principals superintendents working very hard with our kids and they're trained professionals and we need to trust them uh we you know when it comes to our kids we're not often rational you know i kind of have a joke you know that and i put myself in this too every parent's a little crazy it's a level of insanity when it comes to our kids we