 this is a family meeting now but yeah this is the uh... and the fact that the nice is calling and tells me number one you really love your and which is so sweet but i think we need to have a big family meeting though here's the next steps that we're going to take and you lay all that out that we just talked about yeah if this were if this were my answer my mom uh... there would be uh... an absolute come to jesus meeting to make sure she understands she's been scammed and this is not real and uh... let's address the loneliness as well