 That's it. It's survival. It's making your way and, you know, figuring out how to get through the mess of life. It sounds to me like one of the ways, one of the key ways you figured that out was being able to pick and choose who the right people were for you to deal with and really gain their trust. Am I right or wrong about that? It's not just gain their trust, but also provide my trust and friendship and caring about people.