 you know she saw it's almost like i'll call her her leader for lack of a better word but saw saw her going up in achieving more and doing more and instead of congratulating her you know she started hating on her and i'm like that is that is it is not a good quality exactly right and by the way one other thing to add to this now this takes some maturity and i wish i could tell you that i that i did this right away i had to learn this and i will tell you i had to learn it