 is informed thus it's not as scary it's just less emotion it's more facts yeah because what's it going to take when we have the unknowns around something like this george our brain does an unbelievable job of creating another narrative so it's like i don't know how what i have to do or i don't know how long it's going to take or i don't know how much it's going to cost well then your brain starts to fill it in and it's usually with really bad news yeah