 It is one incredible ability to be able to foresee the other side. And it doesn't always work, especially mediumship. If I don't feel the connection in the first 10 minutes, I just say, look, no harm, no foul. Maybe I'm not your person, or this isn't meant to be, or they've picked somebody else out. I don't try to force it. I don't pull on the energy. I learned that a long, long time ago. There has to be