 okay i have to think about that for a second now everything's current okay that's a good place so the good news is the good news is in this way you're not really beholden to anybody you're not dependent in in the way that this is his house or you're you know you have a level of independence here that's in this case good um and at this point really it's just if you're talking about the financial side it's you walking the baby steps like anybody else uh the good news is i think you have a good income you know obviously it's better when you make 10 000 in a month