 contact with people who understand what you've been through, is what I tell people. Don't bottle it up, don't live with it alone, but begin to seek out other people who have had this shared experience, and thereby I think there is a new culture of consciousness of these phenomena that is growing in our midst. So, the nature of the cover-up, if this phenomenon, and when we talk about the paradoxical nature of it, and it's, I use the term inscrutable,