 Okay, so we've had basically a spending addiction for our entire marriage that's never been addressed, even though you guys have done a great job still, you know, building wealth. Right, but this money has been with us for 30 years. Have you done the math with her to show her, hey, honey, I know you don't like math and numbers. I'm just going to show you we're going to run out of money. We're 62. If we make it to 95, here's what's going to happen.