 paying off debt and saying no to things and sacrificing especially when you're making a big fancy pilot's income and everybody at work when you roll into the vet's office they see the car you're driving like isn't your husband a fancy pants pilot you're like yeah we get a we had a different kind of this thing's paid off that's right you're still got payments on your car you got it but you got to go with that mindset that's right very good good job you guys how's it feel to be free free um