 You could not bring his name up. Her mood would shift instantly. You know, we owned a bar and the day he was supposed to come home, they had all the signs up. This is how horrible the story is. Welcome home. You know, two soldiers show up. I was talking about it. And my grandfather, my grandmother remarried. She lost her first husband, Greg's dad. So my grandfather was a big guy. He owned a bar. He was six, five, like 400 pounds or so. He used to do beer commercials and stuff.