 my late twenties and early thirties and, you know, and learning it, like, listen, like the whole life is fair thing. It's no, it's not. And, um, and yeah, like I'm, I appreciate it. And I'm happy that you were, that you were starting to see with that perspective at this stage of your life, because I wish that I would have, you know, in my twenties and thirties would have been better. Ernie, what are you picking up about a man?