 But the moment the moment if he I don't think he will get to this, but the moment he would get to saying, you know what, mom and dad, thanks for the gift. But I'm going to give that's got to cause them if it doesn't cause them to look inward and go, what is happening? Why? I mean, that holds up a mirror. It's like, you know, like remember Beauty and the Beast. He had the mirror and he could see what was going like. It holds up the mirror that you have to go. What am I doing that would cause my child to give me back fifty thousand dollars for