 he's 13 13 13. and so my son simply asked him after he had served me he said may i please have a cup of ice and the flight attendant didn't hear him so he just he pushed the cart past me because i'm in the aisle and i reached over lightly i put my hand up first and i was trying to get his attention and he didn't see it so i politely tapped him on his shoulder and when i did that he swung his arm around he said don't hit me were you surprised that that was his reaction oh absolutely what's your definition of a light tap