 then we'll meet um i mean let's look at a different scenario scenario cheryl where um people are it doesn't matter what state i mean let's say it's florida but um you know they raised a family but their their kids move to you know pick a place uh you know any other state and i mean what's really important obviously family right and so they'll move closer to their kids to be around their their their grandchildren and their children and all of that so that's a lifestyle change so you have to