 with a pregnancy. And I remember we were in the car, both of us debating in our own heads. We were both, you know, pro choice at the time. And I wanted this baby. I wanted this baby. I'm going to get emotional. I wanted this baby. And then, um, one of us said, I think we should have him. And the other one, we should have tears and everything. So we have this wonderful, he's now 15 years old. He has special needs and I wouldn't change a damn thing. I, I, we, she makes my life perfect.