 It doesn't mean you have to give them a thousand things. Sometimes when someone in your position who really cares about their brother or friend or someone, and you just want to give them all you can give them every moment, but you don't know how long they're going to ask or when they're going to ask or how long they're going to listen, that you try and dump it all. Just trust God. Be continually in prayer for it. And when he comes to you, just say what you feel on your heart.