 Process it and think through it and come to conclusions with you on those things and be a partner in that rather than a child, because he's going to rebel against being being a child. It's just it can be a problem. Now, I'm going to give you a little bit of homework. Maybe you can find it at your local library. But there's a book by John Eldridge called Wild at Heart. The subtitle is Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul.