 is that i've got to get myself in a safe environment if there's some sort of abuse so it sounds like you've already started implementing that but i don't know about the counseling that's the one thing i haven't seen here and that's going to be paramount for you guys if there's ever even a chance of this working out because he's a child and i'm wondering if you're racking up this kind of debt dave correct me if i'm wrong it's something going on 125 000