 Okay? And it doesn't mean you go along with things you shouldn't go along with. That's not what submissive means. That is not honoring. If your husband was doing cocaine, you're not submissive to that. No, but that's different. It's not different. It's still misbehavior. It's just an extreme misbehavior. Okay? And him not running his career well, causing him to keep a baby and get stressed out, to demand that you quit your job that you love...