 my financial brain and make sure that it it's what we should do financially as well and then we'll make it happen but the main thing we're going to fill that house up with is love and so that's what really matters the reason why i built that pond is for my future grandchildren i've got teddy my first one now and my kids to enjoy you know you don't plant trees that take decades for yourself when you're 57 years old like you and i are right you're planting those trees today