 I feel like he's on the verge of exploding, and I want to reach out to him and let him know that he doesn't have to approach things that way. But I feel like whenever I try to reach out to him, he thinks I'm being preachy. So just any suggestions. He's younger than I am, and we had a pretty hard upbringing, and I just don't know how to reach out to him and get him to see that there's an easier approach to things that are more emotionally healthy and spiritually...