 what I should do when you disobey or when you don't come in or when you're running around, knowing that I have fears that your father was an alcoholic and that you may be going down a similar path or that you may be doing things that are unhealthy or bad for you. And you let him, people can be pretty rough on themselves. So if you ask him, you say, what do you think? So let's, you're growing up. I'm not going to treat you like a child. What do you think I should do?