 It's the grand opening of TotFest Annex, Friday, July 12th, corner of Main and Custer, Weatherford. TotFest. I'll be honest, the first few months were tough. When I left the military, I was excited for a fresh start, but civilian life has been harder than I thought it would be. Figuring out a new career while also being a good mom, wife, and friend. Some days I'm barely keeping my head above water.