 You've made a decision to be in that relationship. You be in that relationship. You're married now. And you make it work. And if you have kids, all the more reason to. It's this easy, where's the ripcord? When can I pull my parachute? Or I'm bored. Or he doesn't ring my bell anymore. Then you know what? Learn to do it. If you've fallen out of love, trust me, you can fall back into love.