 just telling her, yes, you know, you do have a dad, and well, what's his name, you know, and she wants to see him, and I show her a picture, and I talk about how I just tell her I don't know what to tell her, you know, because she's too young to comprehend just everything, and so I tell her, you know, that her dad's a really busy man, he lives far away, because she wants to know, well, why doesn't my dad come visit me, and so I make excuses, and I tell her that, you know, he's a busy man, he lives far away, and then