 my husband will never be able to have a relationship with his father. Okay, that's different. That's different. That's different than destroying your finances. Well, it's kind of a combo question. No, it's not. No, it's not. Your husband and his dad can choose to have a relationship in spite of the Parent PLUS loan issue and without you agreeing to pay the Parent PLUS loan. And so at no time have you destroyed your finances. Have you traded the destruction of your finances for the relationship?