 And then the second one does a man. I just, it's crazy, but he passed away at 78 and we had the funeral on Wednesday and I've been out of the state for a large part of this week. So just a wild time. The one last thing I'll say is my, uh, my older daughter is three Ivy Beth. My, my new one is we'll turn four months tomorrow. I'm so grateful that God gave him time to be with both of them. Um,