 Nor bring it up. And now he's put you in another pinch where you're analyzing, am I doing something wrong? Am I greedy? You said, well, crap, no. You might be a greedy person in this story, but you're not it. Dude, do you hear that? Yeah. This is coming from two dads, brother. You don't borrow $40,000 from your grieving son to build a retirement home. You just don't do that.