 And, you know, he comes to me and talks to me, and he does listen, but I feel like it's just not, he's not really listening, you know. And I say, well, maybe it's because, you know, you're expecting, you know, too much of this when in reality, you know, it is what it is. And, you know, it's, for example, in his relationship, you know, I'm like, well, maybe you're being too possessive and you need to just let things, you know, come and go as they do and accept things and,