 that i uh why didn't he listen why did he go out i told him it was dangerous richard i watched the blood drain out of my friend mary's face we both knew what it had meant we've never given any thought to when consciousness is on and when it's off i had told her the day before i had died and can't come back but none of my friends had heard of it either so one of the things that near-death experiencers and ufo experiencers have in common is they find that when they when they tell others