 uh you know it adds time on there and you can get stuck into thinking like not i should have left earlier but more so like what is wrong with you why are you driving so slow you're killing me over here i've got to get somewhere and i'm going to be late because of you no not because of me no because of you and i think that's why people get angry at complete strangers who are just sharing the road with them so i think what you're saying is really good advice