 any kind of source of progress towards better acceptance and better lived realities for queer and trans Arabs has come from within our communities and has come from indigenous and native approaches to building that progress, right? Like anytime that you're going to come at society or a community and judge them and shame them and condemn them for any kind of collective behavior, you're really going to ice yourself out. You're going to encourage people to be reactive and defensive and all that stuff. So