 met my mom after the GI Bill and he went to college in Utica and my mother saw him from the window where she was kind of having lived with a roommate and said, I'm going to marry that guy at the bus stop and went down and sat with him on the bus for about a month and finally started talking to him and then they got married and the only deal she had said was, I will marry you but I will not live in New York City.