 yeah well it seems good like you really are able to prioritize what really matters and knowing that being there for your best friend's kid's birthday party like that's more important and you know those are like the things i think a lot of times and i mean i know i'm guilty of this too like sometimes it's like your career might feel like your entire life but there's so much more to it and you were saying that when you went back to um boston you were working at the sports hub but this also allowed you to start fangirl fantasy