 i i i hear you you know so you know that you have three children so i hear you and i it's it's true it's absolutely true tell me how you keep it spicy in your marriage you're in a long-term marriage right we're married um 33 years a long time yes this october will be this october will be 33. oh god if he heard me not remember that one we know each other 34 years we're married we got engaged after four and a half months