 and here's an email from one of our listeners named sandy she says how should i pray when i broke up with a man who said he was a christian but he's only going to church to get back in a relationship with me when i ask about salvation he doesn't understand what i'm talking about does this mean his name is not written in the lamb's book of life should i keep praying for his salvation ah well yeah i would say definitely keep praying i mean it sounds to me like you made the right decision