 If you're thinking about holidays, you're thinking about things like that, like would you take your child or the young person in your life to a situation where someone's going to hit them in the head with a bat? No, you would not expose them to something physically harmful. So you shouldn't do it if it's going to be mentally harmful. A few months after our first visit, I called the Clausens via video chat. Nathaniel and Beth sat down in front of the camera while Kieran danced in a gold skirt in the background.