 or the gift that they want to give as an object of love to someone else, or that they have received, excuse me, from someone else. Matthew 7, 12, the Lord Jesus said, Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them, for this is the law and the prophets. And so it is a terrible thing. It is the essence of selfishness. It's almost a murderous heart. You don't care.