 Sympathy and people's moralizing and saying if it was an aged parent, well, she lived a good full life and so on. No, that doesn't help. It doesn't ease the pain, does it? No, it doesn't. See, you and I are human and we've got hurts and we've got sorrows and we've got weaknesses and we've got temptations and we've got what the Bible calls besetting sins, the places in our lives where we are most apt to fail.