 Oh, that's just something they can exercise. But most couples just don't exercise that. They don't do that well. They don't really seek to understand. They don't really sit and actually listen to what's actually happening. We hear the words, but are we truly listening to where they're at? And so one of the things we have seen with couples is just their lack of communication and built that habit into their marriage. And so bitterness and resentment start to come in. And when you're silent, you're going to build a case against your spouse.