 Your spouse is a mirror. They reflect back at you the ways that at times you're not pursuing or engaging or loving them. And that's hard because that means I've got to have ownership. But we've got to be intentional in our pursuit of our spouse, intentional in our date nights and the time we spend with one another. Intentionality will help a marriage thrive. Couples who aren't intentional, they have a marriage that begins to struggle because they have taken one another for granted.