 because you're going to walk through seasons of marriage where they're going to be incredibly difficult. You might walk through a season like we did where I hit a season of depression. Our first five years of marriage almost ended us and it was difficult. It was painful. I did not have to stay. I did not have to fight for her. I did not have to recognize that there was something deeper than what I was seeing that I got to come alongside and help her heal and redeem. And that mindset shift for people, if they're listening right now, you're right. You don't have