 really feeling like it should be tit for tat, that it is 50-50, that if I give a little bit, they should give a little. And that's just not the reality of what happens in marriage. We've been married 31 years, and there's been seasons where it was 90-10, where Javi gave 90% because I couldn't. And then there were seasons where it was 80-20. So it's always varying. But that's where grace and love and mercy come into your marriage.