 That's right. And also insisting that our elders tell us, tell us our families, you know, my father before, you know, he passed away a couple of days before my book was sold, which was, which was, yeah. But, but he, I, listen, I feel him through, through all of this. He was the last person in my family who lived in the Jim Crow South. I mean, who knew what it was like to live in the drink. And so I,