 Paul in 1 Corinthians 7 and elsewhere says that if we're going to pursue a serious relationship, and I think as Christians, that's what it should be. You don't just date around just to date around. You do want to find someone that you can settle down with and marry, and that has to be a Christian. There aren't a lot of requirements that the Bible outlines, but one of them is as a believer, you're only to marry in the Lord. And so if you're dating somebody as a Christian who isn't a Christian,