 at the airport and we're driving home in the car and I said, you know, I have to tell you, I'm gay. And the wife says, oh, fabulous, we have a big party for you. And I'm like, holy cow, it's so different than America. And she had a party two days later for all these gay friends of hers. It was magnificent because in Holland you were respected not only as an artist, which was like being a doctor and somebody creative,