 We get to serve one another. And that whole get to thing is we're all excited about the big things in our marriage that are exciting. We get to buy a new house. We get to start a family. We got a new puppy. Like you love all those things you get to do. But what about when the diagnosis comes in? What about when there's a loss of a family member or a bankruptcy? It's like those things you get to do also with your spouse. And when your mindset shifts and,