 for my peace of mind, for my mental health, I prefer to know what he's up to. Because imagine he says, I'm down your house. I can imagine constantly checking your emails. Exactly. For an update. And I can imagine, I can see it on your face as well. It's the loss of control, isn't it? You are not in control of this situation in any way. And as well as the loss of control, there's also a shaming that's going on here.