 He thinks I'll end up single for the rest of my life, and it freaks him out. Now when he gets desperate, I feel the pressure to commit to a marriage very quickly, and that freaks me out. Because honestly, I don't know what a happy marriage looks like. My parents have had an arranged marriage, but theirs is a love-hate relationship that borders mostly on hate. As a child, I've once seen them get into a terrible argument, and my mom ended up with a black eye.