 And my uncle, as he gets right there, my parents fold themselves. They touch his feet in a gesture of respect. When they stand, he speaks first, as is his right. May God bless you and yours. Take care of the children and do not become too American. What happens next is shocking to me. My mother speaks to my uncle for only the second time in my life. And she says, thank you for your blessing. We will take care of the children.