 Okay. But the sense that, what do you know about, tell me in a nutshell, in a sentence, something about this girlfriend that really bothers you, continues to bother you, that makes you afraid of her enough to generate a phone call? Well, she can be out of control and not a controlled person is not exactly the kind of person that I wish to be. Give me a picture of out of control. I've done therapy with hundreds of people out of control. Throwing hot coffee in