 But actually, over time, as people kept saying and saying and saying, you'll be fine, don't worry, you're doing brilliantly, oh, it could be worse, you could have had stage four cancer, all these other things, we've heard it all. So actually, it goes back to people not being comfortable with actually my situation and not knowing sometimes what to say. And I think one of the biggest things that I guess I've learned from this is sometimes we have to become comfortable ourselves with someone else's discomfort. Linda.