 as a victim if you try to change their definition of you if you try to step outside of their definition of you you destroy their own narcissistic narrative and so i and so i when i approached mitch to play mitch and you talked to him quite a lot i met up with him about three or four times he was my main source of research i asked for photographs i asked him to record a song for me i asked for a playlist of his favorite music after after shady war