 end of the club was the toilets like everybody was like a family so for me finding that kind of sense of belonging like for me it was really like you know a plus plus plus plus on top of the music i mean you really became steeped in in the whole genre and i know you set up a band you started a man called lust of a dying breed in the early 2000s what did your family and in particular what did your mother make of it because she had imagined you being a preacher