 And if someone says, I love God, and then he hates his brother, he's lying. For he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he's not seen? And this is a commandment we have from him, that he who loves God must also love his brother. This sounds like an impossible scenario. How can I love a thief? How can I love a crook? How can I love an abuser?