 have a hard time accepting those wounds or was that? No. No. First off, I'm one of those people that obnoxiously vomits their life out on people. You know, it's like on your first date, you just literally the day I met her. First off, we both realized individually, we said to ourselves, I said to myself, I'm incapable of being in a marriage or relationship because I will mess it up. And she was saying the same thing to herself. We both had come grinding to a halt.