 So I think that's the first thing. If you don't know what to say, then just ask, say, look, you know, I'm really sorry. I don't know what to say, but please tell me, how do you want to go forward with this? How can I help? And I think on the days that, you know, I did feel bad, it's that acknowledgement going, you know what? It must be really, really bad for you right now. This is not great. This is rubbish. But do you know what? Do you want to go for a walk? Would you like a cup of tea? Do you want me to go and do the shopping for you? Or I'm here, I'm listening. Do you want to talk? And I actually...