 Some of us hearing about this today may never have really thought about the concept of oblivion or have heard it before, but it also occurred to me reading that we might have some experience with this in our personal lives. You know, there are many people who have had challenging relationships with relatives, with a spouse, you know, transgressions happen. Sometimes the relationship doesn't survive that. Other times there's kind of a tacit agreement that the only way to move forward is to, you