 devote so much of their precious free time to making themselves look perfect um and then obviously photographing themselves and sharing images of themselves on social media using filters and and it just gives this incredibly um unrealistic expectation of what people are supposed to look like and that's what worries me is we'll get to a point where we don't remember what people are supposed to look like and it doesn't just apply to young people you know women of my age as well we're not allowed to look old we've all got to look like Nicole Kidman and you