 If they then say, well, that'll never work for me, you could just say, well, it might, it might. If you want to talk about it any time, I'm here to help. But then please just have your expectations really low. The secret to happiness is low expectations. I don't think you're going to have a, unless it's a very unusual situation, a high percentage of the time you're not going to have a high influence over your parents. Can I tell you why, Marie? Yeah, go for it.