 To me, it's pressuring people to be dishonest about how they truly feel. You miss your flight, and they're like, well, you can get the train, that's fun, right? Or you get on the flight, but then you lose your luggage, and they're like, well, new wardrobe. And even if the intent is positive, what you're doing is being dismissive of that person's kind of true feelings, or I should say not allowing the space to express their true feelings.