 that we will never really know what it's like to be someone else. You know, like even the people we're closest to in our lives, we talk about them in the context of ourselves, my spouse, my best friend, my kids, because we can't help but look at the world through our eyes. I've spent every day, almost every day of my life with Sarah for the last 20 years, but I don't really know what it's like to be Sarah. I only know what it's like to love and be loved by Sarah.