 And when you try to threaten them, it backfires. I'm Dr. Ellen Kenner. You're listening to The Rational Basis of Happiness, toll-free, 1-877-DR-KENNER. And right now, I'm turning to the phones. Richard, welcome to the show. Yes, thank you very much. Tell me your question. Well, my question is, what can I do in a particular situation? The situation I'm speaking about is driving.