 that's thinking ahead okay go back to work in the baby steps and the best way you can serve dad is to take really good care of your family and your kids and build wealth and then you'll have the money to write a check and if you want to have an addition and you got a couple million dollars 15 years from now won't be a big deal at all you can do it but you don't have to worry about today good lord you thought the guy was 80 or 75 this is the ramsey show