 You become a doctor, lawyer for mom or dad because they're putting you through school and you owe it to them. Then what? Then you get out of school and you really wanted to be a landscape architect? What can you do at that point? It's monstrous. It's an ugly, ugly trap to get into. So I recommend never doing that to yourself. I'm Dr. Ellen Kenner and my show is The Rational Basis of Happiness. And that means you can get on the line right now and give me a