 I went by how he treated me, says Joanne Gastineau, who became his third wife in 2007. Mark led Joanne to Times Square Church, which was just what she needed, and she was just what he needed. They volunteered to scrub the church's public toilets and join the choir. For a weekly rehearsal, they drove from New Jersey, which sometimes took hours. They took the drive again on Sundays to perform at three services, 10 a.m., 3 p.m., and 6 p.m.