 Reality TV star Julia Hart always felt out of place in her ultra-Orthodox Jewish community. In her 40s, she began to explore the secular world, but found it hard to shake off her upbringing. As much as I had eradicated a lot of the things that I had been indoctrinated with in my own world, somewhere in my psyche, I was still this man-pleasing wife. How Julia found her footing as an unqualified ex-ultra-Orthodox mom, after the World Service News.