 I'm not saying you guys can't make it. I think you can make it because I think you're a strong dude. Uh, but, but I would want the information that a good counseling session or two would give me. So if we gave people listening, let's start with three questions to ask before you tie the knot. Three questions, like three, three main points financially to discuss. My first one would be like, what's your philosophy around debt? Like if you,