 What is a good mother? And I just wonder whether you think you're a good mother. I'm a good enough mother, as to quote Winnicott. What does that mean? Well, because, you know, motherhood isn't all apple pie. It isn't all... It's a tough-enough station, I think, as we call it in Ireland. And mothers are often idealised. So how do you get over the idealised state of being a mother, which means that you must be lovely in many different ways, or terrible...