 I asked a girl out, they'd say no, I'd go inside to introspect, try to work through figure out why this happened, come up with a solution and move on. And then I got to Penn, I experienced some of my own chatter. And then I ended up taking a psychology class. And I learned in that class that lots of people do exactly what my dad had told me to do, when they struggle with something, and they benefit as a result, this ability to introspect was a remarkable tool