 and so you know you lose a lot of that communal thing where you know you talk to your friends and you're all watching the same shows now there's sort of like you have to ask for oh do you have netflix okay well i you know well there's this show that i watch you know so uh and then again you've got all of these services and if you subscribe to all of them you're paying as much as you were paying for cable so a lot of that is sort of frustrating and i a lot of these things that you