 I didn't have the courage to say, and then she started crying. And she said, I didn't have the courage to say I'm crying because you're being such a jerk. And then the USA Today goes about how people are treated like this all the time. If you're really, really overweight and you go to the hip pain specialist or the knee guy or the ankle guy, they got to be able to say you should lose some weight. Don't they? The idea that that's disrespectful is bizarre to me.