 pull a new one in, and then all of a sudden we let that word soak up all the sin, and we never really change the way we actually treat people. It becomes the word's fault. I've been called fat, overweight, obese, husky, big guy, chunky, any number of words. All of those words just loaded up with venom. You could call me obese. Obese actually became worse than fat at a point because obese had this weird... Obese was like fat with a doctorate where it was like... Connected to death.