 least to just knock down their door and take them away but also if you come from a marginalized community there isn't that trust there with law enforcement that you think the right thing is going to be done so if you're not ready to call law enforcement there are a number of organizations in the u.s that i can recommend that you can reach out to there's organizations like life after hate which is an organization that supports people exiting hate movements and also supports their families there's parents for peace which supports families that are coping with a loved one