 it's true to what would happen he said yeah i know but it's really about the effect that happens on your daughter who sees it it's not about whether you at your age would be caught cavorting al fresco behind some binge up an alleyway and i said yeah but you wouldn't he said but anyway uh push comes to shove patty would ask me on a regular basis every couple of days how are you about that scene how are you about that scene and i said um well now that you've cast elaine my lovely wife