 And there were men at the meal. How dare I speak at the meal? So I was like, I'm sorry, I don't understand. I'm supposed to cook the food, serve the food, but sit for four hours and not speak. And his response was, well, that's what my friend's wives do, right? So it wasn't his fault. It's what he was taught was normal. So that's why I do not blame him. I want that to be very, very clear. It is not his fault. He was as much a victim as I was.