 Right, but if a friend said, listen, I want to tell you, I'll make up a name for her, Judy. I want to tell you what Judy's saying. Judy's saying that when you dated her, you were cold and that you didn't care about her and that now you're so open and she really wants to discuss this with you. It's very important for her because she needs to get on with her life. What do you need to say to that friend? I need to tell him to stop talking about it. Yeah.