 And that image is stuck in my head as I wonder if that would be my future. Seeing how conflicted I am, my best friend gives me a book. It's called The Secret. Now you may have heard of it. It talks about how to manifest what you want in life. And it has a chapter on attracting the partner of your dreams. It talks of doing all kinds of fun stuff like sleeping on one side of your bed to create the physical space in your life for this person to come in.