 Because if we walk around pretending like it doesn't hurt, the perpetrators just say, oh, I was just joking. It's just politics. It's like, no, no, no, no. That that changes the shape of a person's soul. In an interview with Oprah, she revealed what changes the shape of her soul. Somebody said something. Somebody changes this. Toughen up, lady. She is too much. My God. You know.