 thinking about making a call or doing something and remembered that man grabbing me, but, you know, putting his hands on my face at, you know, at the baseball game and telling me, you're good enough to do this. You know, those things never leave you. And so we try to tie a story, you know, some kind of lesson into every chapter, because as I said, there were things that I, that certainly I failed at and had to go back and do them. I mean, a lot of people don't know, but when I moved down to North Carolina, I went to work for Alan Kowicki and then