 Have your husband have his cat on the other side two or three minutes when they ignore each other. That's enough for the day. The next day, do it a little bit more. So what we're going to do is let them both know that the assertiveness, number one, is not necessary. And number two, we're going to use a little first pet psychology to make sure that the cat that was there first is getting more attention, more treats, more things to do, more mental stimulation than ever before.