 If you need to rely on family members who are willing, do that temporarily. Move in with mom and dad if you need to. Maybe it will be a joy for them. If you need to go into a shelter temporarily, do that. But come up with a wonderful longer-range strategy, even though you'll go through a difficult transition period, so that you can love your own life better. You can enjoy your own life better. One person that I know said, you know, the best thing I ever did in my life