 you're in brand new parents so and not to wake them you know and you can't sleep until they're asleep so they don't let you sleep with the baby on your chest in case it falls to the floor i'm like why don't they just make the floor trampolines everything's safe you know there was this kind of maternal whale song that i felt felt through all of us you know this these parents that were all just clinging on he had these had these lacerated sort of