 A woman can be a tyrant, and a man can be stuck in the relationship feeling like a real wimp and not know how to leave the relationship. So it goes both ways. So I'm Dr. Ellen Kenner, and you want to have a wonderful relationship in your life. Okay, see what you think about the following question I received from Ralph. Dear Dr. Kenner, I've got a good job, a nice home, money, a nice car, a pretty girlfriend.