 but no one told you no one told me but it just triggered the mum guilt is was just real so i hadn't slept in the lead up to the birth and then um i had an epidural he wasn't coming out vaginally what else happened he had the umbilical cord wrapped around his neck twice he was born the wrong facing the wrong way around then there was meconium which can cause infection so i had to call an emergency cesarean in the end i think this is after being in the hospital for nearly two days