 you learn how to do the thing and you're no longer afraid of it the second thing you're afraid of is something that will legitimately hurt you standing in the middle of the interstate you should be afraid an 18 wheeler is going to turn you into a bug right and so yeah that's a you know a bear is standing in front of you you should be afraid that's a good thing but the other is just you're afraid because you don't know how and that's the investing thing that's wisdom