 He doesn't love you. He's not supportive of you. What do you do? Well, I would say he doesn't love you. You don't love him. You've got the evidence. So you want to, number one, refuse to accept any unearned guilt. Whatever kept you in that marriage for the 23 years that was so horrific, get some therapy ASAP so that you learn not to accept the type of guilt that he's doused you with that has worked