 If you're in a conversation with other people and you're talking about someone who's not there and someone says, don't get me wrong, everyone knows, everyone knows that that's going to be followed by the word but and then a criticism of the other person. And sometimes extra words are added at the beginning like, don't get me wrong. I mean, he's a great guy, but that Bob is just the laziest person I know. Mm-hmm.