 and and so i think that was her that was hers it escapes the wrong word right but it was her source of comfort and she jumped right in to figure out anything she could she could find out yeah at one point you were encouraging her to like lay off until you knew for sure and then you realized she needed to be doing that research yeah that was an error i did that and she got she got real jumpy real fast and so i told her to get back on the computer