 statistics on like finances being like a huge contributor and divorce and we were kind of like that's not going to be us here yeah we're gonna we're gonna go ahead and tackle the number if that's the number one thing let's get that off the plate yeah yeah i agree very very good all right stephanie talk to the person out there who just got married and their husband or their wife is a little ramsey crazy and they're driving them nuts uh tell them whether they should do this or not