 Or out of defiance, he gets really angry. She's not fair. I was just being nice like Mommy and Daddy were being nice. And he decides to kiss in spite of that and to do it as much as he wants. And he's going to kiss every boy because that's what gets under your skin. So I would get the book, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk, on my website, drkenner.com.