 um definitely uh we have some a great church family we've uh i had some co-workers that have been through fpu and are actually baby steps millionaires so once i kind of told them that i was going through this process they were you know checking in on me weekly like how's it going um you know her parents my brother it was just we had a great support group very good very cool all right when people say how'd you pay off forty eight thousand dollars in 16 months what do you tell them the key to getting out of debt is