 discussed and, um, I'm just looking for a little bit of guidance on how to, you know, pose the conversation and, and frame it in a way that, that doesn't seem, um, you know, greedy or, or pushing. Um, you know, I am conscious of the fact that, you know, at one time it was his money. So, um, that is something that, uh, you know, I guess. When it came to you, Matthew, it was not his money. It was your mom's. You got to get that out of your head. Um, how did he ask you for the loan?