 Yes. So we've done marriage counseling already, um, that I set up that then he denied marriage counseling, but he was ready. No, I know. So we've done these things cause that's where it's led to. Um, I've also, he went two times to the one I set up and then he denied going cause he was essentially being blamed for things and he didn't like it. He's getting defensive and it's like, well, not saying that I'm perfect, but you know, your selfish habits are creating an issue.