 and so basically there's the schmuck part i was i was waiting for the schmuck part have you filed yet have you filed for the divorce yet no no i just i i just i can't afford to like i don't know i'm in tampa things are just everything's ridiculously expensive and i can't i've been looking to see you know what what my options are but i can't afford to like live alone right now didn't you say you make 75 000 a year i do