 at the forefront of an argument, I think there's often a much deeper thing at play. And I know you mentioned in your intro there that sometimes there can be some wounds you carry from your past or things like that, that you're bringing with you with that sock on the ground. So it becomes much more than just the sock on the ground. So I think that it's just important to note that yes, chores can be a leading division point, but I think oftentimes it's a call to go