 maintaining a posture of curiosity with one another. I think when you start dating, curiosity is heightened extremely so. Who is this person? They're so beautiful. They're so handsome. I want to learn more about them. And you enter into their space so easily at the beginning. And then I think when marriage comes in, and especially when kids are at play, it's easy for your curiosity to wane, and you forget to check in with the other person and