 however if she uh how much in advance uh rob uh is uh well let me put it this way uh when did mom call you and say it's over i'm canceling and the ven and uh the wedding what's the time uh it's about two weeks ago okay so what happens so she calls you and she calls you two weeks before the wedding uh actually takes place okay uh now uh you don't have a lawsuit against the venue you have it against her