 and actually make us happier. So it may just be that our boomerang kids are giving us years in our life, but also life in our years. I was about to say, how can parents make this a positive? And I guess you just pointed it out. Yeah, there's a million miles between being loved and being seen. So our kids have changed. They've grown. Different things matter to us. So the first thing we should do is we should listen more than we talk, because that gives them an opportunity, a space to really show us who they've become and what matters to them. That's the first thing.