 we've got ourselves to the point in this country where we're essentially, we've become addicted to confrontation and you're, you mentioned neuropathic. And again, you're, you could have written the book for me. Uh, I talked about that in one of the chapters. And, uh, so everybody in the country seems to be saying, look, what's going on right now, isn't sustainable, right? That's the big word of the day. I agree. So what I've done is I've put together a,