 as lactose intolerant that has nothing to do with you you don't have a duty to that kid you you have nothing to do with it someone else's kid now you can tell the parent uh and say here and then you can well you know what you don't even have a right to tell the parent you can't say well i want to be on i want to be on that website a chat room so i can contact the parents you know they can say no to that too uh hello tim