 that we know and the biggest lie was that his health was fine in his brain was fine and we are ultimately seeing the the his the end of his life is much as you wanna say oh no no you can say that you have to admit that he is declining and and this is something we have to deal with because he may not make it to November for all we know right absolutely right and I I'm with you I had a version of the same kind of experience you're talking about I took care of my mother