 are and i mentioned this yesterday because i know turtle boy is frustrated that for example they brought in jen mccabe and that they seem to be on the side of the mcalberts as he calls them but i said yesterday i don't blame this family for anything they've been through a lot they were probably extremely definitely extremely vulnerable after this happened and i think they're a grieving family and they just want answers so yes it's horrible that they have to go through this period let alone if they have to go through it again but