 Instead of compromising, we blame. Instead of listening, we shout down each other. We keep shouting louder and louder until nobody has really any clue how anything started. You know the old axiom that you don't discuss religion and politics over the dinner table? Oh, when Thanksgiving comes, Christmas dinner comes, oh, don't talk about politics and don't talk about religion. Why not? Now, I think we've lost the way to do that.