 That's why dating is hard. That's why marriage is hard. That's why divorce is hard. That's why family is hard. That's why church is hard because it's about relationships. But say those first two words again. Be what? Kind. And what? Okay. And forgive each other as God forgave you. Now, I don't want you to mix up words because I've talked to many people over the years, you know, that I meet and I say, you know, how do you get to heaven? Well, my dad told me to just be nice.