 definitely gross over a hundred thousand dollars a year but i'm just struggling with you know just balancing everything i feel like somehow some way the money's not stretching the way it should um you know i come from a family who definitely didn't make that much money and somehow things felt different so i always thought six figures would be that big number but it's just not what it's not what i thought it would be it's not as much as it used to be is it just you working or does your wife work as well