 And we capped off the night after watching fireworks, watched a movie called the Patriot with Mel Gibson, because let's face it, everything that Mel Gibson is in is just top notch. But there was a scene in that movie where Mel Gibson's character, and I don't want to give a spoiler, but you should probably see the movie by now. Mel Gibson's character, I'll just say this. He loses a member of his family and it's a really difficult scene to watch because