 you don't get burned okay if you are by house and her roommate that your decision but don't buy a house for somebody not married to you don't put her name on any thing unless you're she's your wife or don't put your name on anything is hers unless you're her husband on you'll get into a mess and I talk to those people every day on the show and they will tell you over and over don't do that show now then back to you buying a house and answering your question arm