 everybody everybody yeah um a lot of a lot of my parents instilled a lot of this into into me from the get-go so they've always been kind of that driving force for for me especially not before we got married and then since since we've been married they've been you know a constant cheerleading team um so then her grandma then our friends you know who who know that we're on this journey or we're on this journey you know they've always been super supportive and