 And for her, clearly, to be courageous to share because there's a lot of fear that lies behind the individual too that's also the supporter or the loved one. Like, hey, I don't want to say the wrong thing. I want to make sure that I'm helping them. But at the same point, honesty. Honesty has to be part of the equation when it comes to the healing and the growth of the individual and of the relationship. So for you, when you look back at your wife sharing what she saw,