 so candace when joseph goes after something he kind of goes all in oh yeah yeah so at what point in this process did you decide he wasn't crazy instead you wanted to go all in uh pretty much the same after the personal alone i think it both hit us at the same time and we looked at each other and said okay we got to do something about this yeah this ain't cool it's not cool something's got to give what was your biggest fight as y'all worked through this