 uh from a former relationship are our family unit and it is now my job honey to go and provide for this family unit i know it's difficult right now because you got a baby coming any minute and you got i mean my my daughter-in-law's getting ready to have a child any minute and she's got a three-year-old who's you know that's more than anybody should have to deal with right there that right there is enough okay and your wife's got two