 And if I really love that person, I'm going to help get that speck out of their eye. But not until I've looked in my own eyes. Is there a problem in my own life I need to address? Now, I will never be perfect. So this isn't a passage about perfection reaching out to imperfection. If that were the case, I would never reach out and get the speck out of the guy's eye. But I do need to understand how deeply I need help.