 It would be great if it was like the movie The Notebook and you died holding hands on a twin size bed at the exact same time in a nursing home. But you and I know like most spouses, one dies before the other. Yes. And so they may have a great plan together. But once one spouse passes away, the surviving spouse, if the right trusts are not set up, they can turn around the next day and say, well, my stepchildren aren't getting anything anymore. And they start going.