 yeah well it's whatever they want but it's like i have no desire to go to mexico honestly i do not and then she's also talking well maybe we'll get married over in italy because it's so much cheaper and like how is it cheaper in italy when you gotta fly there her brain clicks in like a hundred different directions i'm like just just let me but you don't seem excited you haven't been asking me about it because you threw about 12 different things at me i'm like just let me know when you figure it out and hopefully it's in this country and if not we'll figure it out