 remember that ever happening but it did but uh these two guys came over we smoked a cigar hung out in the yard all night that's who i am i'm just you know a fat guy in a house in the suburbs who just hangs out i mean i'm having a good time but the it was like the most important thing uh i did as a parent and i do mean this i want credit for this because i was driving a cab when link it was born i know i've never mentioned that to you on the show before but yeah i used to drive a taxi and um