 money is the number one cause of divorce money fights and money problems so if you're in agreement on money you got number one out of the way that's right kids how many to have and who runs the house after you have them huh the kid or the parents ah how we raise these yeah how do we raise is anarchy gonna be the deal here okay uh in-laws and crazy people in the family how are we gonna deal with the extended family is mama still gonna tell me how to cook