 however if she uh... in how much in advance uh... rob uh... is uh... well let me put it this way uh... when did mom call you and say it's over i'm canceling and event and uh... the wedding what's the time uh... i'd about two weeks ago okay i was so i am so she called you and she calls you two weeks before the wedding are actually takes place okay uh... now you're a lawsuit against the venue you have against her