 During the early years of the marriage, she'd patiently watched and waited as Raymond grabbed her brass ring after brass ring, and the ups were always followed by downs, like the time her husband was forced to buy out his multi-mixer business partner for $68,000 when the family was already $100,000 in debt. We'll take out another mortgage on the house was Raymond's solution. But no solution ever seemed to solve the main problem. Ethel was married to one of those dreamers who wakes up