 And so it's okay to grieve. It's good. We're tempted sometimes to say some really bad things when we see someone we love grieving. We tell them to accept it. We tell them that they'll get over it. These are really terrible things to say. We say these things because we want the other person to feel better. And so it comes from a place of care and concern, of course. And so if someone says this to you, don't be upset with them, of course. But hear their concern first.