 Media, Hollywood, music, education system, all these institutions pulling it one way. It's a big part of why it's gone that way. But since the social shame system has only gone that way, your liberal Aunt Peggy walks into Independence Day and brags about the ninth abortion she had that morning, but you feel like the border should be totally secure with the border wall you can see from outer space, but you didn't say it too loudly because, oh, I don't know.