 oh marijuana whatever when are we just going to say okay at some point people are actually for their own choices and we're going to trust them good or bad to make the choices that are you know that are right for them but then they're also able to put up with the ramifications of that and the question that you asked about when are when are they actually an adult i mean we've got a health care system right now that says well you can be on your parents health insurance until you're 26 years old which i think is a little messed up by the way but