 We just can't do it. And so what we've got here is, as you said, you know, selfish and immature guy who's putting his own impulses ahead of the good of his family. Have you guys reached out to a counselor? That's what you need. Yes. So we've done marriage counseling already that I set up that then he denied. You're not done. Marriage counseling, but he was ready. No, I know.