 off their duff, sitting in the Barca lounger or sitting in front of the computer with your single person shooter game or your grand theft auto stuff, get out there and get some fresh air. Get out there and get some exercise. Get out there and actually interface with people so that you're not some kind of a weirdo who's afraid to have a conversation with someone who disagrees with you. You might be able to persuade them and they may be able to persuade you.