 so just it's a different mindset and i'm not it's a big paradigm shift compared to a culture will tell you and i promise if you scroll instagram is going to be some dude being like right i could ten extra money bro just give it to me will leverage it all it's going to be great and guess what you're not gonna sleep well at night and nothing is worth that you know i don't i don't i don't like that you've had a taste of peace so we're saying why why dip your toes in these waters