 in the past, we were afraid to get married. Is that something that, did I miss that conversation? Because I never heard that conversation that we shouldn't get married or that you shouldn't have a family. I had never heard that conversation. I just heard that it was, in my lifetime, and I'm Gen X, I only heard the conversation like, hey, choose the partner you want and have the family that you want. It was kind of this whole freedom thing. So I have missed that conversation.