 you know one of these things to break through isn't that correct that's correct because you know people you know let's face it and we know a lot of people that get set in their ways yeah yeah and you're not you know i've treated patients for 26 years you know but they fall on different places in the spectrum but you know some people like well you're not going to change you're not going to change me this is this is how i am and certainly you can't make somebody a social butterfly that's never been a social butterfly before but if you are