 discussing a little more than i thought we would that is when you go to a restaurant how many times do you give a restaurant a chance and then paulie said there's been a study or studies on this i'm like okay because now i'm watching the bear the show about a restaurant in chicago so now i need to know everything about restaurants why you go will you give it a second chance why you give it a second chance and if you give it a third chance does that mean that's going to be one of your favorites