 just take my money back in even though he's it's your money helping me he's not helping you he just said he's cutting you out you just told me he wasn't helping you i don't care what okay he supposedly is doing i mean the reality is you're telling me he's taking your money that's what you're telling me so all you're going to do is just not allow that to happen by moving it and you need to pull all the money out of this joint account you'll have and open your own account yeah anything you can find that has your name on it you're one of the owners you have access to the money