 hate don't complain to me now that this is not fair because you knew what you're getting into when you signed it and so there's part of it i'm like the more that he continues to sign that contract he saying yes i agree with the problem is not your father-in-law the problem is your husband yeah because he's agreeing and he's going along with this and he's not listening to his wife if we stop there and say okay i'm gonna quit doing that i'm gonna listen to my wife and my wife says this is unfair now we can talk about