 He would tell us as players that when we tried to force something to happen, to make some great play in the game, it was probably not going to be successful. The key to success in the game was to let the flow of the game come to you, and when it does so, you are in that flow and you can play in the game and experience great success. It's true in life as well. Let life's game come to you. Don't try so hard to force life to work.