 or the ego of having reinvested it for you and you're not grateful the uh... give me a better this whole call breaks of ego ego ego ego and you're ungrateful i was trying to help you uh... you know i could do without your help instead of sitting by his daughter and saying hey i know you're in college but your mom has got divorced and we just blew up your entire world and it's going to be hard for everybody i'm hurting instead of that which is an emotionally mature response it is