 obviously you know they're they're out there going crazy and whatever we're not gonna you know we're doing heroin i'm not buying them a house right i mean you're not obviously your child's not gonna be doing that but dear god i hope but the uh... you know what i'm saying or if they you know they marry somebody who's got a screw loose or something then you know we're not gonna do it but if the two of you are sane and you buy into you know uh... george and you know george's family values