 discussion here than whether you work a few extra hours in the next nine weeks i think so too because and then it's also we're talking about who this person is in your life because if you call me and tell me it's a girlfriend telling me uh telling you to work less i'm going to say she doesn't have a vote but if she becomes your wife there is a vote i still think that she would be incorrect you do need to work she gets a half a vote because she's the mother of your child she gets a full vote because she's your wife she gets no vote if she's a girlfriend