 You want to sleep on a bed that's firm. She wants to sleep on a bed that's soft. You can do it. My setting is 45. I absolutely love it. It's amazing. And my experience with Sleep Number Smart Beds, our relationship's been going on what is like two and a half years now. I just sleep great. And, you know, once I got my bed delivered to Wisconsin, I was like, oh, it really feels like home.