 help you know maybe the 401 Dave plan for her first car I pitch in half she gets some skin in the game pitches in the other half maybe pay you know obviously pay for college make sure we cash flow that maybe cover her first house maybe with her spouse one day are those wise things to do it's sort of like getting an inheritance early in a way it is very wise to do but the wisdom is contingent upon the kid you know buying into the value system so if the kid's off the ranch