 uh... uh... uh... we do not tell people to wait to be out of debt to get married the fact we tell them going to bear if you're gonna get married period as simple uh... we do tell you not spend seven thousand dollars on a wedding when you've got sixty thousand that you know i would say that right but um... but the getting married part getting married does not hold you back for getting out of that not what i will tell you and you probably have already