 or don't, or in some cases don't do a budget, or in some cases don't live with a budget, but budgets aren't, they don't have any magic powers. It's just simply a road map. Maps don't control people. You just look at the road map and am I going to go down the road or not? You know, that's all a budget is. It's just a map. And so, and wives don't control husbands, and husbands don't control wives. As much as they'd like to, and as much as it would be awesome if we could pull it off,