 I have trouble trusting him with money. He's been dry for a whole three months. That's, that's reasonable. But if he, if he called me up and say he'd been dry for three years or 10 years and you're having trouble now that's on you, that's not on him anymore because he's demonstrated a pattern of not returning to the bottle. When you're just demonstrating a pattern of not making the same mistakes as Jade said, then you build trust with yourself. You're rebuilding trust with yourself. And so, um,