 doesn't have anybody to reach out to and you know the moral of my story here was there's always someplace you can get plugged in and maybe it's not your neighbors but there's always a good church community somewhere that you can get plugged into but you got to get plugged in so important yeah well I once met a jerk who went to church well good that's where he needed to be 100% needed to be in church that's where jerks ought to be it's their only shot they're not being a jerk it's their only shot yeah