 uh disconnect maybe i just feel like when we were little kids it was more about the adults it was the adults world we were just living in it we didn't get to tell them what we wanted for dinner we didn't get to call the shots for what was on tv we were the remote control we got to go over and change the channel to what they wanted but it was kind of like it's about us adults you kids be quiet you should be seen not heard table yeah exactly and that