 today's question of the day comes from Molly in West Virginia she says I believe my father-in-law has been tricked into a marriage by a younger woman his wife passed away a year ago and the new wife took advantage of his loneliness my husband doesn't seem to see what I see how can I let go and not be bothered by the fact that she's using him I don't want to be fake and pretend everything's great when I see a lot of issues