 Sit down with a good marriage counselor and invest some time and energy into this 25-year marriage and give this a shot. Since you just signed a one-year lease, I kind of think you want to do that. Deep down. And by the way, if you ask a divorce attorney if you're supposed to get a divorce, 100% of the time they say yes. It's like asking a dog if it's hungry. This is The Ramsey Show.