 we are each so unique, and to walk through this world and be us, you know, I'm thinking of the last scholar who was talking about losing someone, and that really can throw you into this dark night of the soul where you feel lost, and you kind of go into your spirituality, and you end up kind of reinventing yourself because you kind of have to, which might be why she's really wanting to give back and be of service in a new way,