 and if you're not in in and i have the same obsession with people's marriages like so you have that i feel like you're looking at a lot of instagram telling you how to flip this and roi this and get the money there and bro you have something that brings you joy in your life and your daughters are going to be filled up by watching their dad work hard on behalf of the average homeowner in their community and show up ready to rock and roll his dad once he picks up his girls