 buying into the value system. And so if the kid's off the ranch, obviously they're out there going crazy and whatever, we're not going to, you know, we're doing heroin, I'm not buying them a house. I mean, obviously your child's not going to be doing that. But if they, you know, they marry somebody who's got a screw loose or something, then, you know, we're not going to do it. But if the two of you are sane and you buy into