 you know and i'm not a dr well then let's let's let's talk about let's talk about a proper biblical understanding of that okay and it doesn't mean you go along with things you shouldn't go along with that's not what submissive means that is not honoring if your husband was doing cocaine you're not submissive to that no that and but that's different it's not different it's still misbehavior it's just an extreme misbehavior and him running his career well