 that's so true we're all weird and like you said you you can go crazy in your own head and then take up residence there and you get desperate you know when you feel like you don't have anywhere to look it's like oh these are my only choices i'm like no you need somebody with some sense to tell you otherwise well because one of the things when you're in pain you lose perspective and you think that it you know it's going to end in ashes and what elizabeth elliott said