 what I used to do, I didn't know anybody even knew that I was aware of this kind of stuff happening, but I, I felt, you know, like I just ran my hands about an inch or two away from her. And I said, does your collarbone hurt? You know, and I said, I'm, I'm feeling a whole lot of, my hand is heating up from when I'm feeling, you know, kind of far away. You know, it's not,