 You know, you need to make decisions, folks, in these situations that play well over a 10-year period of time, not a 10-minute period of time. Because these are bad... They feel good in 10 minutes. I don't want a relationship with you. I'm a toxic jerk. Those are all short-term thinking. I mean, no one on their deathbed is glad that they lost their relationship with their kid. Not over $13,000. Good gosh.