 because I am almost positive you have gotten scammed I know you don't think that but I love you and I am going to protect you from this woman who is scamming you and I know you're going to be angry with me but later on we'll see how it works out if you get all your 401k money back and I'm wrong I'll release this money to you but I don't think you're gonna get your money back I think you're I think you've gotten completely taken in mmm and just she just needs to tell him that that's what I would do if it was my family