 speak my language as their first language. Maybe they don't dress like me. Maybe they don't look like me at all. Their culture is totally different, and maybe even their religious background, their belief system is totally different from mine. Could I invite them into my home and share a meal with them? And I believe, not specifically, I'm going to let the Holy Spirit deal with the specifics, but generally, God's people are to be open to doing that exact thing.