 it's just not realistic you know it's 2022 like i just said i wish it was 1998 and you know we were all picking out our lisa frank folders go back to school with but it's not it's not realistic and it's not going to solve the problem i get that it's scary and the best way that parents know how to react to scary stuff is to shield them from it and sometimes that shield feels like a complete shield of removing what you believe is a threat but all you're doing is setting them up for