 or just waking up one day and going, oh, we're about to be repoed because we're so freaking out of control here, or we're about to lose our home, or we're going to retire and have to eat Alpo, or whatever it is you discover that's on your doorstep that scares the P. Wadden out of you. So if you're in that situation, I have always found that the best reaction is not flight and not freeze. It is attack.