 And here's the deal. Choose guilt over resentment. If you don't, you keep paying into this thing that you know isn't a good use of your money that keeps you from moving into this house just to make them happy. Over time, every time they call you, you're going to get annoyed. Every time you get a text, you're going to go, ugh. Every time your mom calls, and they don't deserve that. It's not fair to them. That's because you didn't put up a boundary. Can I add one in? Yeah, go for it. If you think that they're going to act a fool over this, give it back.