 when sage was sitting on the floor with her mom at their house and that that it came out that she was identifying as a boy at school and she had been told this by the counselor she said mom i never would have gone in that bathroom if they hadn't told me to use it so her mother's her mother said we'll take care of it we're not going to go back to school you know for now we'll figure out what to do about the bullying but something kind of flipped a switch and sage ran away that night