 And, you know, another thing, too, it's an arm around the shoulder or a hug when you don't have to ask for it, you know. I think just, like you said, with no ulterior motive in mind, just an I love you touch, I care about you touch, you know, I'm thinking about you touch is really important. It is. Our society, and you already know this, husbands and wives, our society is bombarded with sexual images 24-7.