 dressed a certain way or talking a certain way or acting a certain way same thing for social media um there's just a lot more dynamics at play i think yeah and i know um i think it also comes like it becomes important to start evaluating the actual personal friends that you follow i know that's hard because you don't want to be the one that you want to unfriend somebody and offend them oh yeah um i will say you can't unfollow someone without unfriending them so they don't