 unless you've got hours with your friends you can only scratch the surface of this topic so look for something you can give to them have you got a book on your shelf that you can recommend say hey why don't you take a look at this is there a podcast is there a website you know it's great as christians to be aware of some of the wonderful resources out there because you can gift that to your friends say hey why don't you take a look at this and let's meet for coffee next week and chat some more