 You've got to take a breath and don't do the next wild thing. Brene Brown calls it dress rehearsing tragedy. You've already created this new tax hike that's going to happen, and you've already figured out how you're not going to be able to pay for it. You've already figured out this other bad thing that's going to happen, and you're trying to solve it now. Man, your family needs a stable presence right now. They don't need running around and selling this and moving this and going into my mom and dad's house.