 But we both want different things. And so how can we meet in the middle here and actually get both of those things? So is it Miami? We put that on the list. He's going, no, I want to be in the Georgia mountains. I'm making that up. And we go, okay, what are we actually talking about here? Well, she wants to be near the ocean. You want a rural situation. How big of a deal is it? Who's sacrificing on what? What are our professional goals?