 Your husband is using everything to avoid the responsibility of being an adult husband and father. He's acting like a child. And I'm confident that there's another side to this story, that if he was telling his side, that Bethany, your hands aren't clean in this either. Y'all have to sit down with somebody, and the conversation has to begin with, I don't think our marriage is going to make it unless we control, alt, delete, and build a new marriage from the ground up.