 sickness and health and richer and poorer and stuff like that. That's what we took our vows for. I don't remember that part, but, you know, I mean, I was a little nervous. But my point is that I don't know what I'm supposed to do, what I'm not supposed to do, how I'm going to get him to talk. Do you have any words of wisdom for that? Because I don't want to share my accounts with him if he's going to continue to pull out money and use it on whatever he's using it for because it ain't coming here.