 hard it's hard for me to speak intelligently because i don't know what she's doing but i will tell you this i think you rationalized your butt off on this car you need to get rid of this car man that's bogus if the only way she can have influence is to be stupid and sixty thousand dollar car then that's a bad idea man so we gotta we gotta be thinking about some other way to get at this and start getting rid of this car debt i don't know what kind of money she's making but if she's making a couple hundred grand or something pay the stupid thing off