 to really be intentional about a part of their life, and we're in the world of money, so this is what we hear all the time, is we're gonna work on this money problem together, and then suddenly you start to realize, oh my gosh, a lot of our marriage problems, it's not that they're being solved, but they're coming up to the surface, we're seeing them, and because we're able to communicate well and on the same plan on one area of our marriage, like money,