 Well, she wants to be near the ocean. You want a rural situation. How big of a deal is it? Who's sacrificing on what? What are our professional goals? Where do we want to put our money? How do we want to invest? What do we want retirement to look like? I think you've got to get all that on the same page and see how far apart you are and then go, all right, where are we going to give a little bit? Because both people have to give something.