 for decisions you all made. He didn't want to live by the beach. You didn't take the job because your husband didn't want to leave. And then you turn around, well, the house kept me. The house didn't keep you there. You could have sold the house and left. If both of you were jacked up and jumping up and down and, you know, fireworks going off and you're so excited you get to go to Miami Beach, life is great, that house would have been gone. And you wouldn't have looked in the rearview mirror once.