 sitting and saying oh this is bad i don't know what happened i'm gonna you just you're standing like the deer in the headlights then and so and it's it's not because someone has a lack of character it's because we and we uh you're paralyzed well fear like fear you're going to deal with the fear you just got to decide on purpose how to deal with is what i'm suggesting because it's going to come you're going to be in those situations nick is with us in knoxville hi nick how are you