 honestly like oh this is the second to last thing okay haven't we all been through weddings before where it's like okay they're doing the vows i think we're pretty close and it's not you know and then they do it all these other things all this stuff but if you're just doing your basic like if it's a 10 minutes thing and you walk down the aisle and you do a vow and you whatever you know don't bother with the program