 not getting the shot and you don't get the visual yourself in your mind and that memory and that experience for the rest of your life so this is what i would suggest because i know a lot of you say well i want to get the picture i don't care what she says i want to get the picture now okay so this is what this this is what i would suggest to you so that you can have it all because we want it all right let's let's see if we can get it all so have in your mind now