 and he knew because he's a comic so he knew that that lifted that burden off my shoulders and i was able to just kind of be myself and once that pressure was off i had a great set and it was wonderful and i i loved it i've also done corporate gigs with jay in the past and we bumped into each other couldn't be a nicer guy i really mean that he's yeah when i got married i gave his book out to all my groomsmen as a gift leading with my chin is the title of the book