 And you need to come to a different understanding. But your idea, I think, is spot on. If we treat them with kindness and love and affection and all these positive emotions, they will see us as a safe place. And that's what we want. I mean, they need to know if things aren't going well, where am I going to turn for help? I can turn to my friends. I can turn to the Internet. I can turn to a neighbor. I can turn to a teacher. I can turn to a coach.