 So that you can start rebuilding the marriage from the ground up. So look at it in terms of kind of a warning sign that things are broken. And now we know we've got to get some help to get things fixed. And the loneliness, I think, is a positive thing. So I appreciate your call, Alex. I am sorry for the pain you're going through. It's one of the most difficult things. But I have worked with a number of couples who have bounced back from affairs and gone on to have wonderful marriages. Because they've learned a...