 But we want to stay away from condemning people, like saying, this is terribly sinful. I find asking open-ended questions is best at the beginning, and saying, you know, tell me, like, who is Jesus to you? What do you think marriage is? How is your, again, as a priest, that more leeway to go in these places very quickly sometimes, but what's your understanding of the gift of sexuality you bring into the marriage? You know, what's your understanding of