 to do this, if that makes any sense. It's a, he's been gone for, for 28 years out of the family. None of us know. My sister knew him. I didn't really know him. He doesn't, as far as I know, no, we exist, but my dad's wanting to include him in the trust with contingency that he like changed his name back and, and that kind of stuff. And I just, I really want to honor my dad's wishes, but I'm not sure how to handle this the best way. Wow.