 my initial reaction was, I think you're doing the right thing because he needs to want to quit for himself and not for you. Right. I think that's what he was trying to do, but he wasn't successful and she's been to Naranon. So she's, she's had, you know, she has somewhat of an idea of, you know, what codependence is, what enabling is, et cetera. Yeah. Um, but she really is sad and questioning whether,