 grandparents one set of grandparents out of state we were also juggling my mother was going through alzheimer's she wouldn't deal with anyone else made me a power of attorney i was trying to go over to her apartment and prevent scams from her rent and help oh my oh my well i i appreciate what you're going or what you went through it sounds like there was a lot of hard work in there um thanks for sharing that mary i appreciate it and i know that you waited a long time so thank you for that uh how about diane in wisconsin good morning diane