 But what would it look like, you know, where we respect each other, where we don't abuse alcohol or drugs, where we're faithful to one another, and then work together towards that goal? And I would say neither one of you would say, yes, we just want to get drunk every week, and that's a great idea. Even if you're an addict, you'd say, yeah, it'd be better if I didn't. I might not know how to get sober, but it'd be better if I didn't. So I would paint that picture of what you really want as a couple together.