 For example, you go to buy oranges at the store, and you say, no, this one is bad, give me another. But you cannot say that about children. A child is a person. Unique, incommunicable, irreplaceable. That is why there's sorrow, such sorrow in a mother when one is lost. It is a person, an immortal soul that is lost. That, incidentally, is why every mother gives to the child a name.