 the birth mother and her child. And so I think going into adoption with that perspective, like it's not about me and my needs and me getting the child of my dreams, it's about me really laying down my life and saying, yes, if you cannot, we will do everything we can to help you parent and to make sure this is the right decision and to make sure you have the counseling and support you need to make this decision and you are free to change your mind until the very last minute.