 That's a big red flag. Yes. Yes, it is. And we've had, you know, they've gone camping before in this mass and they know, you know, I've definitely explained it's a mortal sin and why the church says that. And, you know, it's, you can't be a cafeteria Catholic. And, um, and how old is your daughter? She's 28. Okay. And I, you had recommended a book before this family, um,