 when I was in a poor me moment and a friend of mine who had a lot of problems in his own personal life but just reminded me of that and said, you know what, you know, I was complaining basically because I was in law school at the time and I was studying hard and I wasn't feeling that I was getting anything done and I just felt spread all over the place and we all know those feelings, you know. Anyway, he just said to me, you know, but God has a purpose for you. You wouldn't be doing this if he didn't love you.