 let go of my family, you know, like it's just been hard and I keep reliving it. And I know that if I let it go, God will take it. But you know, I'm tug of Warren. Yeah. So you were married to a narcissist. Is that what you're saying? I was for 18 years. He had a work related injury. And so I think that stopped me realizing I was only married for seven months when he got hurt and, um, it was bad.