 But no, fostering is something you need to go into with both eyes open, understanding that the goal is going to be reunification. Yes, there are adoptions that happen out of foster care, but that cannot be your goal going in. The goal has to be, I'm here to love a baby and be a safe place for a baby until mama can take that baby back. And it is tough. And sometimes if it's older children, then you have to recognize there's going to be a lot of