 it's just, I don't know what to do. Cause he doesn't, he doesn't really seem to have any interest in listening to our side. I mean, he'll listen, but he's just not gonna, he's not going to go the extra step. I told him, you know, in other, in the past, whenever you've made big decisions, like buying a car, going out for apartment, you've always come to us for advice, you know, and this is just,