 In order to do that, you have to be open to receive the other, recognizing that the other isn't going to harm you. Again, a husband and a wife. A husband has to eventually open his heart to his wife, trusting that allowing her to draw near to him, it's not going to be harmful to him. It's going to be good, right? And so this journey from the head to the heart is very much an experience of, I know God loves me. I've come to...