 instill in us more what virtues will be necessary, um, for me to really have a fruitful pilgrimage. But I love, um, I love thinking about pilgrimage as adventure. So again, it's kind of the same. So then when things do go wrong, you're like, Oh, it's going to be an adventure. And so you can still be grateful, you know, for every, every moment. Um, and there's a great, there's a great book. One of the, our sisters had, um, passed on to me. I think it's, um,