 How we navigate, how we call in, like the example with your mom, you knew your mom loved you. And that's part of the reason why it hurts so bad. When you ask this legitimate question, will you come to my wedding? And she's going, no, I can't. I won't. And this is why there's, there's that fine line. And I think it's so hard sometimes to engage that fine line. And this is where I really do. If you're struggling with a friend, a family member who is same sex attracted and you disagree. Yeah.