 your anxiety and need to be on the end. I'm 62 years old and I have been like this for 40 years. We all have to remember, do not pass judgment on anyone. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Why are you passing judgment on me? I think she's being really nice. This isn't really a nasty grandma like she's letting you know her. But I feel judged here. I feel judged. I mean, she's telling me not to pass judgment on anybody, but she's judging me.