 You want to make sure you have a big support system that you've really thought through how it's going to affect any other children in your house, that you have the time to give those children what they need. There's often a lot of appointments, special doctor's appointments and court appointments and visits. And so having a super demanding job, you need to be able to have the time to give that child what they need and that you've done your research. So you're going in knowing that you're going to be navigating a situation that