 my wife all the time, and I say to other parents, you know, so many parents say to me, oh, I'm so worried about my kids, I don't understand what happened to them, they're cohabitating, you know, they're not practicing their faith, they're not this or not that. And I say to those parents, I say, you know what, if you've instilled good moral values in your kids, if you prayed,