 But that shouldn't be a negotiable. The non-negotiable shouldn't be 6-5, trust fund, blue eyes, finance. And while we can make a joke of it that most people, those are not their expectations. Sometimes those expectations on that checklist are there. And I have to be really honest with you. I never really made a list of what I wanted, what I needed. Because things were very intuitive for me. Someone who was Catholic.