 And one of my favorites is, oh, I'm just being honest. If you can't handle the honesty, I don't know. So I'm just being honest. But they often use that to justify some mean or insensitive comments. So if you are living with someone, married to someone who you hear one or more of those phrases often, then you may be living with a narcissist. So there you go. All right, let's get back to the phone lines. Let's go down to Florida to Susan.