 right and so we we see a shifting you know workplace as well uh i'm curious as a mother as well as somebody who you know who's been able to work and teach and write um how does that affect the family dynamic and are we going to see more women in the workforce or you know women get the degrees maybe they'll beat the mothers and raise the children i don't know how do you see this playing out because we're at a really interesting time right now just in terms of the numbers