 We're just really not sure. You know, it's not our choice. I realize that. It's not my choice. It's, you know, with my husband and his family. But I'm calling on his behalf because he's at work. But I really don't know if we should go about this in a gentle way of trying to explain why he might want to rethink this or if we should just respect his wishes and not cause trouble. You know, that kind of thing. We don't want to cause anyone, you know, to be upset at this time. It's just a hard place to be in.