 paralyzed from going to this place because it brought back too many memories for him to cope with I suppose but I bet he goes to the grocery store and I'm sure he and his wife went to the grocery store at times or I'm sure he goes to other places that he and his wife went to that's why it seems to me on the face of it without knowing anything more and I can't judge his heart but it seems as though it's just an excuse to not go to Mass