 We get them, we'll take care of them. We can take care of ourselves. They don't need to take care of us in our, you know, unsureness, but they can know that it's there. So I feel quite reassured to know that I'm not meant to grow into a perfect person who has all the answers. I think it was Winnicott who said something like, well, now I'm going to blow it. I hate when I pull out quotes that I can't remember. There's so many good quotes in this book.