 And I know Jordan Peterson's not thinking about grace, but for me in that moment, it was, it was a signal grace that reminded me, yes, being intentional with my family is what's going to get them to become holy. What's going to get them to become saints, which is really our call here in life. So, you know, I agree with everything you're saying and being intentional as a father is something that is not a passive game. It's not something that you just, uh, Oh my goodness, I have a child and you just, uh,