 Um, and so just continue to be yourself. If you're parenting, even if you're pairing, you know, a lot of people have mental health or kids with special needs and, you know, it's just so hard. And so I just, just know that as parents, we're in this together and we're cheering each other on and it's not easy, but it's worth it. And you know, heaven or bust, you know, you know, it's going to be, it's going to be worth it.