 And that's sad, but that's life. And so I wouldn't hold it against them. Let them know the reality as you see it, as you lived it. And then they can choose if they want to stay in your life or not. And if they choose not to be, well, that's on them. That's not on you. And you're still a fine human being. And you'll go on to make some wonderful friends and still have a great life.