 And, you know, a neutral third party can help facilitate, you know, communication and understanding. So don't, um, you know, just, just hang in there, right? Kill them with kindness. Let your faith journey take you to a deeper, uh, and a happier place as you go down the, and then pray, of course, pray a lot for your spouse. Ask our Lord to smooth, you know, smooth the, uh, the, the road that you're on. Um,