 you know, it was hot outside and, you know, I don't do well in the heat. And yeah, it's like, okay, can you come back? So anyway, they deflect a lot. It's kind of, it's fun to watch from a distance, but it's awfully frustrating if you're married to a deflector. Number seven, manipulation. They may use all kinds of manipulation techniques, right? Like guilt tripping, love bombing to regain control of situations. So love bombing is, this is where so many people