 so she wanted me to do IVF and I refused. Good. And she, uh, I, I've been praying over it and, and working with, with priests. I'm like, is there any way to do this? Because before we were married, she had told me that she could have kids naturally. And after we were married, found out that this was not the case. She had her tubes removed and had lied to me about it. And so she, she kept pushing me to do IVF and, uh,