 is a change that's going to bring me more joy, more happiness, more peace in my life. And if the spouse really loves the person coming into the church, they hopefully will be able to see the fact that, wow, my spouse is a better person now because of this. They're happier, more relaxed, and they're a lot happier. And by default, if they become happier, I probably will as well. Another fear that could show up is fear of failure or inadequacy.