 not with resentment or bitterness. And if you were to find out that in light of your relationship with your child right after that child was born, that there would be some sort of terminal diagnosis, or if you would know what your child would suffer in adulthood, you could walk around looking at, look at this perfect, beautiful child, but look at what will happen one day, and you could be bitter and resentful for what could happen. You could even be all consumed by the imminent pain