 married couples' own self-gift becomes the path by which they imitate Christ and become Christ-like. So if you want to be like Christ, which we should want to do that, then it's the gift of self that gets us to do that, that brings us down the road to be able to do that. Secondly, in the sacrament of marriage, God gives us his love so that we can love as he does, right? So we get the grace of God, right?