 A lot of times it's just what people do. And so, you know, you were a few years ago when you were walking around with six kids in tow, but I get treated like a circus freak. Now, for dads, people sort of celebrate you. For moms, you get scowls in Northern Virginia when you have six kids. They think you're doing something wrong. But then again, we live in a subculture with good Catholic schools and a neighborhood and a great parish.