 Um, it was just him and I, and you know, we had sitters, we had wonderful, uh, sitters that would help us so that we can go out on date nights. Would you say that, I'm sorry to interrupt you. Would you say that it's necessary for one sanity to get those occasional breaks from the kids and the, and the chores and things? Oh yes, definitely. If you can. Yes. I mean, I was not home every day, 24 seven. I did get a break.