 realize that when God doesn't offer that to us, it's actually an opportunity for us to show and to continue to offer our own love to God, saying, Lord, my love for you doesn't depend on whether or not I can feel you. I see your grace at work in my life. I see how you have sustained me at every moment. I am grateful. And I choose to love you no matter how I feel. We probably have loved ones in our lives, a spouse, a child.