 no no honestly it's it's been good but like i said it's just we've we've been we've never kind of um they they just like i said they don't do okay so you said you said to them i don't want this and now that hurt their feelings that's where we sit today correct yeah pretty much okay so what would you think the net what you know i don't know what to do to solve that other than it's been said because you don't need to say it again right