 was wrong, flat out, just wrong. And you don't condone it. You don't excuse it. You just, you know, measure it up. Say, listen, what you did was, was wrong. So it's, there's the truth to it. Uh, forgiveness is not all or nothing. It's a journey. Okay. Some things like, uh, oh, you forgot to pick up the milk and oil from work. I can forgive that one pretty quick.