 you end up being a slave to your emotions. And that has negative effects on your marriage. It has negative effects on all the relationships in your life. And so, treating love as a decision versus treating love as just, you know, I don't think I love you anymore. Things aren't going too well and this emotion's gone. I mean, the emotion's gone after two years for the most part. At that point, you really do have to consciously decide, this is my wife.