 One person doesn't want the divorce. One does and one does not. One wants to work on it. One wants to fix it. One wants to do the hard work. And the other says, no, I'm done. I'm done. My heart's got no more room in it for you. And that's the reason, hardness of heart. Do not, do not let your heart harden. In Malachi, second chapter, we read, and you say, why? Because the Lord is witness between you and the wife of your youth with whom you have broken faith.