 and open that statement and see where he, quote, unquote, invested this money. Get in touch with that investment outfit. If it's got your name on the account, your Social Security number on the account, you're one of the owners, simply cash it out. And then that puts you in where if you get all of that done, then you're just in the heartbreaking deal of dealing with an emotionally abusive dad who doesn't want a relationship with you. That's the horrible thing.