 treat people. I mean, if you knew they were, if they, if you knew that they had a reputation for mistreatment, that would be different, but that's not the case here, right? It's not the case at all. Okay. So I would scratch that off the list. There's no way you could have committed any sin at all in backing up your mom to go to this particular hospice. So now let's go to the earlier one. And that is to back her up, to go to hospice as you know, just in general, to go and