 He wants to come me out, but he doesn't want to give me access to my own savings. And so I'm wondering, as an adult, if that just doesn't feel right, if he chooses not to have a relationship with me, should he have control of my money? And also, he's legally obligated from the divorce to provide me with a car for work, and he won't give me a straight answer if he's going to give me a car to take to school.