 I think there's some hope in your situation because you said that, you know, he's narcissistic, but he's in the middle of the scale, which is good. I mean, all of us have got some narcissism in us. The question is how much, and is it getting in the way and causing problems in the marriage or relationships at work or whatever? All right, so maybe he's a narcissist, maybe not, I don't know. But let's give him a chance to make some amends for his bad behavior by helping him see it through your eyes. So here's my recommendation.