 we are called not to let things get ugly not to let animosity and antagonism and bickering and disunity and and ill will uh get in the way of us exercising love and sometimes it can be challenging uh because we don't want to become haters we want to be lovers we want to imitate our lord we don't want to imitate satan who's a hater for excellence and so we need to learn how to love amidst disagreements and that sometimes can be uh tricky but