 um, you know, he gets, he washes the cars and he does a lot of, of tasks that, um, that I, I remember, I don't just think the laundry and the cooking and cleaning is the only, are the only tasks around our home. Um, he gets a lot of things done that, um, it's easy for women to overlook and not think that, um, that that's, that's, that they're helping around the home. Well, they are when they're,