 and be in harmony with him, and he, of course, should feel the same way about you. And I'm sure he does, but this would seem to introduce a division into the marriage if you're the one who's becoming Catholic and he's not comfortable with that. I don't mean to say that you should not become Catholic in any case, because you have to obey God's call, which is an even higher authority than that of your husband, but at the same time strive to preserve that relationship as best you can.