 Um, one of my thoughts is, um, cause I've known a couple of people who did long distance relationships. And I think one of the things that they said was a problem is that when they only saw each other on the weekends, it just felt like they only spent time together in a date like setting. So it was just exciting. And I was doing things and they got married and they were like, we don't know how to just sit in each other's presence and maybe watch a game or have a quiet dinner or something like, so maybe when you do spend time to see with each other to just not, um,