 Let me just lay out my general approach to this topic, and then I'll offer a few thoughts specifically about your daughter. As a general principle, I strongly discourage Catholics from getting married to non-Catholics, not because we look down on non-Catholics or any of those things that people might imagine. None of that's the case. They're fine people, they're sincere, good people, etc., etc. But if you, and I don't mean you, Kathy, but just rhetorically, if you