 And we may not always be able to see that, but let's go back to the examples I quoted. The man can say, okay, things were actually great until that happened at work. Or the woman, things were going fine until I spoke with my daughter and that didn't go well. You can make decisions about how it started, helpful decisions that can better those situations. And then finally, a suitable penance, Ignatius calls it, instead of just fleeing from the desolation,