 He said that because of the hardness of your hearts, Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, unless the marriage is unlawful, in marriage another commits adultery. The one point I want to make here is, our Lord says hardness of hearts, because of the hardness of your hearts. Every couple that I've worked with that has not made it, who's gone on to divorce, that's the reason. Hardness of heart. One of them, or both,