 When I asked for clarity on this, he said, when I come home from work, I am too tired to do much more than go to bed, that my work is much more important than my marriage. He also says he wishes I treated him like I treat my coworkers. I work as a chaplain at a trauma and surgical hospital. I love my job, but gosh, it is so hard at times, being with people in such sad moments, and especially because I'm an introvert,