 life is over no it yes she maybe starts being a mom a little earlier it doesn't mean she can't be a great mom it doesn't mean she can't do other great things in the world in addition to being a mom too but uh you know financially we can have those ups and downs and i'm blessed to work in radio which i really love as a job and enjoy doing that work and so sometimes it's easier if an unexpected financial hit happens you need to repair something that broke down and