 wake up and hope that the kid's going to be okay. No, we have to truly be intentional from everything from going to mass and leading our family in prayer every day, around the table, at dinner, all of these certain things take intentionality. And if you look out to your neighbors, chances are they're not living like that. And so we have to live that countercultural message for the sake of our children and for the sake of our roles as men in society.