 you know procreative in unity of love that the church teaches within a marriage in a man and a woman they don't they've never been really taught that if the last time they were in religious formation was when they were fourteen years old and religious ed or even a catholic school they they weren't thinking about marriage they weren't thinking about long-term fertility issues and things so i find the pre-k in the programs good hopefully each diet has something thorough orthodox pastoral and good and that can also raise questions