 And I felt like, God, is it indulgent in any way as a parent for me to be this unguarded and candid with a kid who is clearly looking for someone to say, you're going to get in. But then you feel like on December 15th and she doesn't get in, she's like, you tell me. Right. I mean, in that case and any case where you see like there's heightened anxiety and certainty is the thing that makes anxious parents