 right she was strong-willed uh she had fierce loyalty loyalty to the family and you know what she did she formed a a great grandson who you know one day may even be a president very very close to becoming vice president so i i think that's i don't know i was super super impressed but i'm glad you brought that to the fore doctor yes i'm actually writing an article about grandparents right now so i have a lot of data for us um census data says that 2.3 million