 914-9149. Suzanne, why is it that so many of us get this totally wrong? We get it all mixed up. Well, again, I think like we were kind of touching on before, our world puts so much pressure on us and the doing, right? Like I see it personally as a mama of all these little people that we've, and we've seen it over time where they're moving academic expectations younger and younger. The pressure is growing. The, the,