 oh, they're going banana. Like they're twisting in their chair and they're screeching and they're reaching out. And the mother's face is just like, it's almost like she's in a coma. Yeah. It's so sad. But on the flip side, the findings that 33% of the time there just isn't, there is that connection and dance or whatever, but that the rest of the time it's disruption and repair. It's like ruptures, repair, ruptures, repair, and figuring that out. And to me, that is just,