 uh... uh... and i don't see any kind of confrontational thing being uh... i'm with you i agree with you on that uh... uh... cam that that it probably would be profitable just try to have a talk about all that i think i simply would just leave it to him i'm gonna side with your husband on this so but you do whatever you want to do it's your money it's okay they're not entitled to it morally ethically or legally