 linda it's a difficult situation to be sure and i appreciate as father does your vulnerability and calling in and admitting your struggles with that but yet that you're a caregiver in the midst of that i pray that the lord would be ever present to you and your husband as you continue to navigate these troubled waters it is difficult so god bless you linda thank you so much for calling in let's go now to mike who's calling in from salem oregon mike welcome to the inner life