 that we're going to always be there for you. So go out and live it and rock it and then come back and, and tell us about it so that we can continue to process it with you in the same way we processed everything with you from the time you were born, you know? And so, you know, it's a little hard, you know, to keep your kids Catholic in this day and age. I, one of my hardest things I do in ministry is comfort parents whose kids have left the faith. I think it's one of the hardest things that I do. I just sit there and cry with them and