 The way I approach it is a little different. I just tell my, I mean, my kids are all grown up now, but what Nancy and I told our kids while they were growing up is look for a Catholic to marry, look for a Catholic to marry, look for a Catholic to marry. Because if you really are serious about following Jesus and you do believe in God and you are to some extent or another serious about your Catholic faith, then you're just setting yourself up for a lifetime of difficulty