 Yeah, it's, I mean, this, this cannot touch our dignity, dignity, like you said before, it can't touch our holiness. Um, this is really not opportunity for the family to rally around that person and support them however they need, you know, sometimes someone with dementia can, can still drive until a certain point, just like, you know, just like both of us, um, they can do lots of things on their, on their own. So it's really a strength based approach of looking at what can they do,