 Agape is God's love for us and best seen in Jesus Christ in his passion and death on the cross where he died this brutal death for us to save us when we didn't deserve it. You know, it's not like we had earned it or something. We didn't deserve it and he did it anyway. He loved us even though we don't love him all that much, oftentimes. And this is the love that you professed on your wedding day.