 when our second child was born, and we had them all close in age. Yeah, so you had a juggling act. As they say, lots of moving parts, right? One set of grandparents out of state. We were also juggling. My mother was going through Alzheimer's. She wouldn't deal with anyone else. Made me a power of attorney. I was trying to go over to her apartment and prevent scams from her rent and help her.