 And so making place for that, you know, making space where they can both contribute, I think is really important. You know, again, it's hard to answer because I have questions I'd love to hear from her, but that's my thought is make way for that and acknowledge the value of the other parent's gifts. Wow, what you do is so great, how you love them, how you laugh with them, how you pray with them, whatever it is, praise the other parent for what they're doing.