 Her candor, her knowledge, and her humor made Dr. Ruth Westheimer a household name. While hosting her 1980s radio program Sexually Speaking, Westheimer encouraged an open dialogue about topics previously considered taboo, and she offered honest and nonjudgmental advice to men and women. She said this on Fox 11 in L.A. We can fake it sometimes. If you're tired, you have twins, you have a lot of work.