 The world watched him live. He taught us how to live. Now he was teaching us how to die. We need to see that because like you said, everything gets so candy coated. But he or she who is not otherwise would be completely out of your reach because God allowed you in his providence and his love to go through that dark night. And Christ crucified is going to visit us each in a very unique way. That's just going to be between us and him.