 All right, so put down the phone, put down the screen, put down the newspaper. Does anybody read newspapers anymore? I don't know. I don't think so. But whatever it is you're doing, stop doing it. Turn and look your spouse in the eye when they're talking to you. Then say, okay, I hear you. Thank you. I can do that. Okay. Number two, along the same line. I agree with this one. Say, what I hear you saying is, and then tell your spouse what it is you think you hear him say it.