 So that would be my answer to her question. And then that provokes, now you get it out in the open. And then, mom, you're not walking on eggshells. You're not secretly in turmoil all the time. You're not living a life of quiet desperation because you're trying to keep up appearances because you're a good person and you love your daughter and you're trying to do the right thing. And I admire you for all that. But you're just setting yourself up for a life of quiet desperation.