 that he gets some help, and you would begin to see someone to build language and a narrative to talk to him in such a way that he starts to understand that he's destroying himself and his family with this behavior. Yes, because I feel like at this point I'm talking at him. This point what? It feels like I'm talking at him. Oh, yeah, you are. You're talking to an addict. I just feel like I'm nagging. He's glazed over. You're talking to him when he's drunk.