 yeah but if ever there's a reason an acceptable reason for a woman to be late it's when she's got small children because there's always a diaper that needs to be changed at the last minute or something so but i think you know the devil hates marriage he's going to do anything he can do to disrupt it and disrupting it as we're going to mass to do some good is he's going to target in on that patrick i know you do a lot of apologetics on your program of course and you're an apologist a fine apologist yourself you've helped and inspired a number of people in their faith uh... but