 if it's the, do you want my advice or do you want me to just listen, but they are up for the advice part, that's a great way of leaning in because it says, listen, I don't know, but let's figure this out together. And I'm curious. And that's intellectual humility. Yeah. Coming up next, Aliza and I discuss a third principle of parenting, one which will help kids succeed in relationships for the rest of their lives. We'll be right back with Kelly Corrigan Wonders.