 you know, saying prayers of one kind or another or joining others for devotion, the more you do it, you're going to see the emptiness is going to start calming down. And it's not just going to calm down. You're going to see that the loneliness is going to calm down. And along with it, all of the crazy stuff that we think about doing, when Mary's there present, when the Lord is there present, it just really is...