 because he knows that otherwise i will be in there every other day so did he did he share with you i'm sure he did i'm i just want to reinforce it if he did tell you this that the way one rule of thumb is if you have doubts that you're in mortal sin that you're almost certainly not a mortal sin you could even put it this way if you wonder if what you did was a mortal sin you can say it wasn't a mortal sin