 So I think that as our family life, as we look at our relationships, as we look at the month of the sacred heart, we got to slow down enough. And for some of us even to realize that we are burdened. You know, what are these burdens? What what are you carrying in your heart that you're doing it on your own, that the Lord wants to bring grace, healing and peace? And I call those the counterfeits, the counterfeits of love.