 Um, it is the best I can because he needed us and he didn't have very much memory. So I think the narcissism memories went away too. So it just became involition after 18 years of marriage. Um, there was a lot of gaslighting. There was a lot of that. And all around he was cheating with my friend who was helpful to us. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But you, but, uh, so how are you doing with it? How long ago now did the marriage end?