 share that that helped them to understand by not being in with someone not in the sacrament we love them more and you've witnessed to the graces around that right so you've uh you know you've already shared that you're closer in all the other ways because you're you're refraining from that so thank you for that witness it's an extraordinary a life and i pray and you and your your friend have extraordinary graces by calling today and giving people encouragement to try to live live what you're living