 go on and continue this relationship after college, separate from that, how can I, my heart is broken just because, you know, ultimately I'm raising children that will one day be in heaven with, with me, God willing. And, and, you know, my daughter is like, you know, I spoke with my daughter about this and she's like, well, are you going to treat him differently? And I said, no, but I am going to pray for him. And because at the bottom, you know, you know, she's,