 of identity right it's not about just the morality it's about the identity in christ himself again we're taking questions live here at the national eucharistic congress you can ask your question uh if you head over to thomas he'll help you to come up and ask the question i did want to touch on one thing because i think this is an important part of your story um you discuss your love for friendship your love for friendship and trying to figure out what does it mean to have a close friendship for