 her fella that, you know, it's, you know, it's, it's not so much right now when you're having, you know, everything's fun and loving and whatnot, but it's when you are down the road and you have children. And so how, how does that play out? You know, Oh, mommy's taking me to church. We have to get up and go to church with daddy. Doesn't have to go to church. Why is that? Why can't I stay home with daddy? Yes. And so, and it's, that can be a very lonely situation.