 to feed you those lies that you know you're not the one to do this you can't be the one when all reality if you have a struggle with a certain sin and you've experienced that in the past and you're trying to call someone on from that you probably are the person they need to hear from because it's hopeful oh this person who knows this struggle is saying that i could do better i trust them and so he knows that that's a tender spot that he's always going to try to take advantage of yeah