 yes the only way we can have a personal relationship or friendship with anybody is to spend time with them and that's what prayer is spending time with the lord and if we're going to commit to that i think therefore we have to plan for it in other words i don't just kind of show up at somebody's house here i am let's spend some time together no we planned it we made a plan to meet for lunch or to go to the beach or to play miniature golf or whatever it is that we plan we plan something and i think we need to plan our time with the lord