 Child is small, especially a newborn baby, and then in those first months of life, but then all through childhood is that we're developing an attachment, a security that gives us confidence. And so a two-year-old, for instance, will play a little bit away from mom and dad, but then a scraped knee or something scary, and they run back. And it's not enough simply to conceptualize that they're safe. They need to really latch on