 deeply familiar with the situation and uh you're right for for who knows how many women postpartum depression is a really difficult cross to carry so yeah it could indeed be part of it i don't know this is why i referred her to get some counseling and to be able to you know make sure that she's got somebody who can assist her in that regard also a note here this is from dave a very very nice note dave in dallas texas and i thank you for sending it to me