 They're not testing the waters. We're meant to go through things together. And so if you are trying to do life, whether you have same-sex attraction or you don't, but if you're trying to do life on your own, just don't. You are made for community. And community might look like marriage and a family. And I hope you still have community outside of that too. But if you are single and called to singleness for the kingdom of God, you need friendship. And if it's not holy and glorifying the Lord,