 that, uh, you know, like a man might be married to a man. They'll often say they're married. It's happened two days ago in the office and they don't want to make a big deal out of it. In fact, they, they are quite embarrassed to say something. I think they, they think they're going to be judged and we, that that's really not my business, my business to help you with a health plan and take good care of you. Um, they don't want to be asked. They, they really don't want to talk about it. They always seem surprised that we're respectful. I don't know why anybody would be surprised by that, but, um,