 if my wife is yelling at me for not getting a job. So a couple thoughts I've got for the wife here in this situation is unconditional love and support. And I think my hunch is there's some clues here in this email that suggested that this woman feels that way, that she is the kind of woman who can have unconditional love because she says she actually compliments her husband a couple places, that he has an actually amazing work ethic,