 And when we don't experience that, our humanity tells us something's off. You know, I'm made to be, I'm made to be centered in the truth about who I am and my gifts and my uniqueness. And when I'm not confident, I'm very aware of that. And it troubles me. It reminds me of, yeah, we have, we serve women in crisis pregnancies around the world and especially in New York and Toronto. I remember I was in Toronto serving a young mom and