 we, we have forgiven and then we, we sort of move on and maybe, maybe there's some type of revelation that, well, maybe it needs to go a little bit deeper. And, and then, and then we're invited to, to, to go in deeper. And I, and, and I think that, I think absolutely it can be a, a, a layered, a layered experience. And sometimes, sometimes that layering is just a, it's, it's a matter of,