 Eros love is the initial attraction, right? It's this infatuation, which is so important that draws a couple to want to get to know each other better, right? This is that love at first sight thing, right? He looks at me like, whoa, I really want to get to know her better. She is so gorgeous. Or that guy, he is so cute. I got to get to know him, right? But here's the deal. Infatuation has a short term.