 And then you can sit down to him and say, listen, I'm feeling lied to. I'm feeling deceived. I'm feeling unimportant. I'm feeling that there's someone else now that's coming between you and me. I'm feeling angry. I'm feeling frightened when you sent her money without me knowing about it. And I'd like to ask you to not have any contact with her, period. And in the future, if you're going to give money to anybody...