 She goes on to say marriage is a risk, a deed of daring, as Kierkegaard said. Yes, you know, no doubt risk is involved. The future is uncertain, and there's no way we can possibly know everything that there is to know about the person that we're going to marry before we get married, which is why the vow until death do us part is so important. We have no choice but to figure it out together. We're stuck with each other forever. That's a good thing.