 of their Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. They're wonderful, great Christian people. They go to church, they're faithful, but they have never learned the mechanics. Spiritual self-esteem is the first step in you becoming self-confident, having that type of cognition. My own pastor said these words years ago. Listen as I quote him. Your spiritual life was never designed to depend upon counseling, advice from other individuals, or any other way to use someone else as a crutch.