 so we have to empty ourselves of all the things that separate us from his love so he can fill us with his life and when i began to do that particularly eucharistic adoration divine mercy those were two very powerful impetus um and then my dad um finally discovering the work that i was doing um really opened a door in his heart and uh god began to work on him and when he died i was praying the chapel of divine mercy at his bedside when he when he passed