 one of the biggest decisions you could ever make in your life and you didn't come to us because you've been feeling like this he said for at least a year for a couple years now and he never came to us and then he comes to us to tell us that he's going to actually do it so I feel it's already like I'm in front of the bookstore right now waiting to buy Ryan Anderson's When Harry Became Sally because I feel like I need to read this book