 exactly why do they say that cyrus why do they just dig their heels in that way i don't get it nope yeah that's it's it's a mystery of the universe if you ask me and one little editorial comment before we take our break thanks for the call leo is that when you get down to it just remember that you as the mom and dad or you as the concerned relative who say i can't go because it's going to be an invalid wedding i love you i support you i wish i could be there