 and so what he's saying is that when we have obedience and that virtue it helps us to lean into the will of those who have authority over us and so when we model obedience whether it's to the law whether it's to our catholic faith whether it's even to each other within marriage especially with that authority structure of husbands over wives that we model that in how children understand and start to understand obedience to god and obedience to their parents as well what are your thoughts