 deal with her divorce. She had been married two times prior, had three kids from the two previous marriages. And, um, she, uh, you know, she, she, she asked me out and I was, you know, I was trying to do good. I was like, no, you know, I'm really not trying to date, at least not the type of dating that you're looking for. But we, we meshed and everything seemed to work really well. And, um, I, I,