 This is not something she's just rationally choosing to do. She didn't just sit down with a piece of paper and add up all the good things about you and all the bad things and decide you're a bad person and she's going to treat you poorly. It's an illness. You can't really help it. And so you need to treat her with the same compassion you would treat someone with any terminal illness or any chronic illness. And so that makes it easier, I think, to forgive knowing that it's not rational what she's doing. She can't really help it that much.