 work and they're moving forward so there's a little bit of of a bigger adjustment period after the wedding i think but i think it could work perfectly well okay and then any tips if someone's going to embark on long distance relationship that you might have yeah i think um... you know communicate regularly uh... use your time well i have a a nice marriage discernment workshop on my website that uh... people get access they can help you have some really important conversations even over the phone so all yes amanda