 And I am not a feminist. I was a stay-at-home mom, gave up my career to raise my children, sent them to private Catholic schools, not public. So I'm not a feminist, but I find it's a very chauvinistic, misogynistic state in California. It's a great point. I want to talk about it. Why did your husband file for divorce? Why did he want out? Well, he was an alcoholic and a serial cheater. He was highly abusive, but he found somebody else finally on Tinder and