 First, start by apologizing for calling him a narcissist. Name calling is always a no-no in a marriage. No-no. We do not call each other names because that's going to make me angry and get me defensive right away. So start by apologizing, right? Say, listen, I am sorry for what I did, right? So something like, you know, I... And then you start with the I statements. I feel, right? It's part of the formula that I talked about. I feel...