 And when you stop being that person, then the marriage tends to be in trouble, and then people end up on my doorstep, or in this case, on my computer screen, as I do my work remotely these days. It's this idea that, you know, I don't know what your day was like. I don't know the difficult things that happened to you. But, you know, you're home now. You're now in my arms. You are in what I call the circle, the ring of safety. You're inside my hug.