 uh... and you know i think when our personal experiences and match that uh... we have some work to do because uh... you know that they even if you've got the best father human father in existence uh... you know let's say uncle phil was your daddy and i don't think he was a perfect either in the show but uh... but you know but like you have this perfect father we still have some work to do because anytime our human experience uh... you know what we're what what what happened for us the event in our lives