 help out but this sounds like a pretty typical sibling issue and i mean who doesn't know somebody in life who's controlling and meddling and all of that i mean that's that's not an uncommon trait for some people to have so sometimes you just have to put up with it as difficult as that can be all right thank you you're welcome i hope that helps and uh if you feel like it down the road maybe in a few weeks if you want to call me back and