 And just to notice as you listen, maybe as you were listening last night to Father Mike Schmitz or Mother Olga or all the spiritual speakers we've had, you might start to notice some kind of self-defense mechanisms come to the surface. Things like, I've already done that before. My parents did the best they could. It wasn't that bad. My life wasn't as bad as everybody else's. I don't really need healing. I'm fine. I'm fine. Or maybe it's automatically coming to condemnation, to self-condemnation. And just to understand that you and I harden our hearts because our hearts have been hurt.