 Um, and you know, I think when our personal experiences and match that, uh, we have some work to do because, um, you know, let's say even if you've got the best father, human father in existence, um, you know, let's say uncle Phil was your daddy, you know, he wasn't perfect either on the show, but, uh, but you know, but like you have this perfect father, we still have some work to do because anytime our human experience, um, you know, what we're, what, what, what's happened for us, the events in our lives, um,