 what goes on in their house in my business man he's a grown people they pay their own bills a grown people but uh... i know exactly what you're talking about it it does feel that way that the kids aren't you know one of things some i have a buddy in maine reggie groth and reggie is a film producer he does a lot of short documentaries and i kind of stuff and one of the documentaries that he did was about where the kids outs playing outside