 Now, the couple went on to tell us how they needed to instruct guests and visitors to their home about this as well. As once, one of their sons had offered an apology to one of their adult guests for something relatively incidental and minor. Though the boy had phrased his apology correctly, the guest simply said, that's okay, don't worry about it. It became a teaching moment as they requested that their guest change his response to, I forgive you.