 You know, disrespected. When you don't defend me, when your parents violate our boundaries, and I'd like to ask you to please talk to your family about not just walking in, that they at least can knock or ring the doorbell, okay? Start with your feelings, right? I'm feeling disrespected. I feel anxious. I mean, so the question is, why don't you want them to just walk in? Why is that a bad thing? So make a list. Write those things down and say, so I'm feeling this way for these reasons, right?