 Cursed is he who dies hanging on a cross. So what's the cross in this context? Well, Jesus is saying that your family's not going to like you necessarily. I've lost a lot of family contacts in my life because, you know, I always joke that I'm the black sheep of the family, kind of a traditional Catholic. There are a lot of traditional Catholics in my family. But there are some who, especially when it comes to the wedding issue,