 My fear, here's my fear, though. My fear is that perhaps his heart has already turned to stone. 29 years is a long time, and it sounds like the early years were kind of toxic, and then you went to Al-Anon, and now you're doing a lot better, but now the job is taken over, and that's a long time for a person to kind of be unhappy. And I hope he hasn't totally given up, as you fear he may have.