 you are growing up and you're learning things. But I feel that I lost that. In your own words, Martha, what would your advice be then for the 20-something-year-old mom or the 30-something-year-old mom who has kids at home and maybe has a career or something like that? I have a feeling I know what you'll say, but I'd like people to hear what your advice would be for those moms in that situation.