 doing these other things and you're involved and I'm not doing it and I'm staying where I am. And now are you going to judge me? Are you going to criticize me? Are you going to put me down? Am I going to, even if you don't do that, am I going to feel somehow less than you? Where perhaps before our marital, our religious practices were kind of on the same, same level, same plateau. Now you're doing something different and I'm going to feel perhaps inadequate or like a failure that I'm not doing what you're doing. Yeah.