 just full of love for him and telling me everything about him. And I realized I was not going to get any information about her from herself. So when she had finished speaking, I turned to her husband and said, and how are you? And sure enough, he spoke completely about her and nothing about himself, but all about her. Isn't this the mystery of the church? Isn't this the mystery of the bridegroom? Isn't this why it's worth giving our lives for the church?