 It's about your wife's integrity. She has the money to pay her bills. She should pay her bills now that she's marrying you and has a system and your income to add to it. And by the way, she had the money all along to do something towards this and to not continue to dig this hole. She's not a victim. She chose to spend more than she makes. She didn't make a lot of money, but she chose to not live on that to the tune of 76 grand.