 you're making good sense. And part of it was, I don't think they are a Catholic family, but I don't believe they understand the mourning and the Catholic funeral. And then the other side of it is, yeah, there's a bit of pride that, gee, I want to wear black. That's what you wear to a funeral. So maybe this is both and, and both. Do both to say, yep, I'll wear to honor, not honor, but to say, that's what they've asked for. It's not going to hurt me. And yep, put your pride aside. Let's just be part of, you know,