 Do you feel shame or guilt around this incident, right? So do you have some shame or guilt? Do you say, well, I could have, I should have, I didn't, I, you know, like earlier caller says, well, I should have seen it coming or I should have known, you know. So, but you got to examine what your shame or guilt is around the incident and realize that if it's legitimate, you've done something wrong. Okay.