 here is very common with newborns, you know, so it's, it's tough on parents because you don't have as much sleep and just your whole schedule, everything is turned around. And then, you know, nothing is simple when it comes to just like even leaving the house. You know, I have not, I don't know yet how to take him to the grocery store. It's usually, it's all three of us who are going to go, you know, so there's, there's just all sorts of things about your life that,