 I have heard you can't really reconcile with someone who won't apologize for what they've done. True that. That is true. Is a narcissist capable of actually being truly sorry? Well, a true narcissist, no. But some people who are just kind of on the spectrum, perhaps it's possible. I'm okay with not receiving an apology from her, but I wonder what to do if she ever does apologize and how to know it's sincere.