 I think that we can, right? So if we follow your modesty example and your daughter comes down and you say, you look like a slut. Yikes. That's probably, yeah. Right? That's probably a better way. It might be true. But. Maybe. Probably don't want to say it like that. Right, exactly. Because, and part of what I have parents do when they're considering having these typical conversations is to zoom out for a second. You say this to your couples all the time. Why do you care?