 The BBC's Bushra Mohamed has met Shamsa and Hadja and spoke to them both about their experiences. A warning what you're about to hear does contain graphic details which some may find upsetting. This is my mum, that's my sister and that's me. Shamsa Sharabe, a 31-year-old British Somali, sits cross-legged on her bed. She is swiping through old photos of herself on the phone.