 Okay, now I can turn to my mom and dad, and they're going to hold me in whatever this trouble is and take good care of me. Yeah, and I think one of the ways that we establish that, I mean, to your point where parents are scared, I think this is probably one of the number one reasons why parents do not initiate difficult conversations is because they're scared. And often what I work with parents on in my practice is managing and navigating their own emotions and feelings so that they can show up for their children. Right.