 physical being around young people who's around them but also i think very importantly uh... the technology pieces a big one so wanna i think i don't be with that as well and i i think you're it's obviously it's a big each recalling a picture such a dramatic moment in your life uh... when that when this happened but praise god uh... you know praise god you speak with her please god she knows you love her and you're sharing with the lords using this struggle in your own family to help many other moms and dads and