 And the more he sees her egregious behavior, the more those seeds will begin to grow. I wouldn't be surprised. But that's my thought here, Irma, is don't tolerate that. It's intolerable. It's insufferable. You should not be subject to that, especially not in your own home. You can't control what she may say and do outside the home. But your son needs an example of what he should do. And if you and your husband provide that example by drawing the line and saying, here's our boundary.