 What you're trying to do with each kid, and I know this blows my mind, because I'm like, I raised all of you in the same house, and how are you all so different? It's wild to me. It's just kind of so cool. But we really say with parenting, you're trying to maximize their virtues and minimize their vices, right? Because every kid is going to have their own makeup and DNA and wounds and also strengths and weaknesses. And it's like, how do I take this kid