 All right, and then number five, what can I do to help? I like that one. So up to this point, you've heard validate, apologize. Now it's time for action. Simply say, what can I do to help? Then be quiet and listen. I like that advice. Give your partner your undivided attention as you listen for what they need. I like that. And how do you give your partner undivided attention? I gave you the answer. Look them in the eye.