 then I think we can just fall for that lie that the enemy has been weaving since the beginning of time that God isn't trustworthy and we can't trust what he says and we can't believe in him and we can't rest in him at all. And if we don't rest in the Lord, Augustine says it so perfectly, St. Augustine, our hearts are restless until they rest in him, right? And I think we see a lot of this like frenetic energy in single people who want to be married and in the dating culture as a whole, there's this like frenetic energy