 You know, you felt criticized when he said you and your sister were dumb. That's criticism, okay? So you became defensive. And rightly so. You're being attacked, you're going to want to defend yourself. Then you called him a name. You called him a narcissist. Well, that's contempt. Name-calling falls into the contempt thing. And then you had the fight going back and forth. And now he's gone quiet. That's stonewalling, shutting down and walking away. So you hit all of the horsemen, which virtually, if you had any one of them,