 So much heartbreak if you just tell her, right? Let's go on a date now. I think there should be intentionality transitioning from the dating period to the commitment, like to the boyfriend-girlfriend. Because sometimes that too can get a little bit like wishy-washy. And I think if it's wishy-washy, then that just kind of sets you up for heartbreak. I think there should be intentional conversation about like, we are discerning marriage, right? We're dating each other because we think we might want to be married one day. And I think that can save you from these, you know, like decades long dating...