 like we've done something wrong. But that's not necessarily the case. The presumption in Jesus' command here is that you are preaching repentance the right way. So on the one hand, we need to remember if we are using tactics of anger or tactics of shame, tactics of condemnation, when we're trying to get someone to believe in the gospel and fall in love with our Lord, like we're trying to control or manipulate them, they're not so much turning away from the gospel as they are turning away from us.