 you know, because my impression was she was saying that, well, you know, some people that is their vocation. She didn't say those words, but having a career is what she's called to do rather than necessarily staying home with having children and being a housewife. Any thoughts for people who hold that view? I'm sure many people do. I, I, I've known a lot of them being in a profession I'm in. I've known a lot of them and I,