 The second part of my position, as I've explained many times on the program, is if we're dealing with a situation where it's a Catholic who won't get married according to the church's canonical form, therefore the marriage would be null in the eyes of the church. Is it okay? Is it proper? Is it permissible for you to attend? And my take on this is as painful and as messy and difficult as that is to say, no, I can't go, that would be the answer I would feel duty-bound to give.