 currently are on military training exercise and I'm just going over like my friend finances and stuff like that. And I came across the baby steps and just really revamped my whole envisioning about like, you know, my finances trying to get my life back on track. I'm 30 years old, married to an amazing wife. And my question is just trying to handle unity and transparency in the household when it comes to finances and trying to get on the page. Uh,