 these stories come up but i'd be telling stories from my childhood and they'd always be shocked you know i tell them a story about how my my grandmother told me don't open the door to strangers because there's a rogue butcher in town and i'm like really and she's like oh yeah they caught him because one of the mothers came home their kid wasn't in his bed and uh and was started making dinner and she looked down at the chopped meat and the chopped meat looked back up at her and said mommy