 But then he has this stage in the middle, right? When you're not a child in your parents' home and you're not engaged that he calls proximate preparation. And he lists off, no joke, like 15 things that should be covered during this stage of proximate preparation. He uses a language, I know, right? He uses the language of at an adequate age and with suitable catechesis. So when you're at a point where you are thinking about getting married, there's these things you should do to prepare for marriage.