 And she said, well, what do you mean? And I said, well, do you do you do for him what you're asking him to do for you? And she stopped and thought about and she says, well, no. And I said, so think about this for a minute. He's busy all day long. He gets up early. He commutes. He goes to work. He deals with all that. He commutes home. He comes home. And to be fair.