 maybe a little bit more in its entirety i was talking about michael w smith's friend song which is what that is as we're talking about spiritual friendship today talking about it earlier in the program we are talking about spiritual friendship with our spiritual director father john paul erickson as well and uh i think father one of the things that uh that friendships really do is they do make the love of god manifest but they make it manifest for others to see and oftentimes that's really you you see that i know my wife and i were watching a