 not really feeling, you know, it's so powerful, the fathers, when they're involved in the Catholic faith, or in any religion within the household, it's so powerful, and the children, more than the mother, right? And so, you know, I had a long talk with my daughter, and I found her falling away, and, you know, our motherly instincts are really such a gift, because I knew something was wrong with her, I didn't know what,