 oh, we need to figure out something to do. And last year it was taking a multiple three day weekends where I put on the calendar and I told my husband, all caps, I put no commitments, no plans, like warding off anything and everyone. I like double and triple check. We know what those dates are so that as friends, family, any commitment types of thing comes up. We say no, because this is our version of a vacation right now. Let's touch on maybe first those who