 And these are things that specific phrases that are kind of a clue that perhaps you're dealing with a narcissist. So here we go. I'll go through them rather quickly. Number one, you're too sensitive or you're overreacting. So they use this to invalidate your feelings and make you doubt yourself. You're crazy. You're being irrational. Ah, this is meant to gaslight you and make you question your own sanity and judgment.