 to forsake the things that we think give us the deepest and most powerful identity, whether that be the power or the privilege or the honor or the successes or the pleasures that we have. And we hold on to that, and as a result, we risk not becoming who we're truly meant to be. We risk not becoming one with the people we love and one with God. And so when you mention your wife having a little bit of anonymity, the beauty of God's love for us