 even if you're going to give money to your mother. You know, we need to talk about it ahead of time because it's our money, not your money or my money, and we need to be very transparent about this. So let them know how you've been hurt by it and let them know how you would like things to go differently in the future. Does that make sense? Yes. He sent her $40 about three or four times. It wasn't just free.