 sometimes, you know, the, the sort of the buildup of stuff may, may make that difficult, if not impossible to do. And so, um, kind of, uh, standing there with the, with the burden of being hurt and the, uh, the, the inability, if you will, of being able to communicate, uh, that you are hurt to the person who are hurt is just, uh, can be, can be very, very difficult. Um, but, um, uh,