 um, language that has to do with, you know, with a marriage. I mean, you know, when you're dealing, you know, if I, if I took the piece out of it saying my dad wasn't an alcoholic, but even though he was, let's say for instance, let's say for instance, they just weren't happy. Maybe that makes it more simple. That wasn't my situation, but, but if that were the case, um, but they were, um, in a, a, a marriage that, um,