 shown has to be encouraged in a way that isn't so focused on rules and criticism. And I say that because I think a lot of women, their sense of confidence and self-worth can so easily be pricked by the topic and issue of modesty. And it's a matter of real maturity when it comes to the way we dress and growing in our faith as well. I did want to touch for a moment. I know we spent a lot of time yesterday on the topic of vacations and