 And we need to arrive on time. Or my book, Marriage Insurance, 12 Rules to Live By, so that people have the clear expectations of what marriage is about. And ultimately in this life, happiness is a choice. Only union with Christ will make us happy. And when we're united with Christ, we're also united with the cross. It's a paradox, but it's true. Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.