 maybe paring that down to well here are the elements i want maybe i just want to sit and lay in the sun somewhere really beautiful maybe i don't want to have to cook for the week i don't know what that is maybe you want to go hiking and exert yourself be unplugged what can you do to make that happen that is more realistic closer to home maybe doesn't require the airfare maybe it doesn't require the hotel but you can actually stay closer to home i think that those are the elements we have to be thinking about in seasons such as these