 and so this man who was there as a tourist right not as a pilgrim like had a huge conversion and had a huge conversion specifically to our lady right because he was like oh this is like uh if you don't do this i'm telling mom on you and and so the priest who was telling us the story was saying like that's a great thing to do for yourself as well like ask our lord for things and then be like and if you don't do this i'm telling your mom like i'm telling on