 Turn your attention inward and try to work through the situation. The way he said that to me was, you know, he'd give me this corny phrase, go inside, find the kernel of truth, you would say. That was a message that he just conveyed to me over and over from the time I was a little kid. And it was a tool that I, as a result, relied on throughout my childhood and adolescence. So I'd get into an argument or...