 that this is not something I can do on my own, but I needed help from God. That was very difficult for me because I had believed that I was in charge of my life. In talking with my parish priest, he raised the possibility that my first marriage might have a basis for no more. Because I was very young, my wife was very young, and it's possible that I didn't really consent to it. It took about three years, lots of interviews, a tribunal, the whole works. And ultimately it was decided