 But one of the other things that you mentioned early on is you mentioned that we need to be, in order to do this, we need to be vulnerable. We need to be open to receive the others. So what does it mean to be vulnerable both in the mind and in the heart? Yeah, so, you know, one of the big, one of the really beautiful things that St. Paul talks about when we come to know Jesus and we come into the church and we have relationship with,