 Are you married? No, I'm not married. Don't have kids. Okay. How old are you? 31. Okay. So I need you to metabolize what I'm about to say. Every single part of your life is different now than it was this time last week. Okay. And any, any attempt you try to make to quote unquote, get back to the way it was before mom came to visit is I'm telling you it's a choice to be miserable. Okay.