 In so far as there are times and places and people and situations that you think there's no way this can ever be fixed. There's no way, referring to the lady who wrote me that email, no way my husband is ever going to become a Catholic. Don't be surprised if he's far closer to that than you might ever imagine. I've seen that so many times where I think there's no way that person would ever become a Catholic. No way. Not going to happen. Only to find out that that person became Catholic.