 It took her a long time to trust me again, and with good reason. Absolutely. Because I was not trustworthy. The more trustworthy you are, the more you are worthy of trust, the more you can say, that other person did that. I'm not identified as the worst thing I've ever done. That's right. That is not my identity. It's just something I did. And with every new choice you make, you're building that new identity.