 um i wonder if i mean again these are new questions for us to try to figure out i wonder if there's an analogous sort of thing to say about the kind of mutilation of somebody's like psychological identity or their memory it's right in this way like if that is is that the right way that you know these are new questions again but that might be the right way to think about it i i also do want to say that though memories are absolutely central to human dignity and who we are