 all the women and men reaching out that say, oh my gosh, I can relate. I've had these feelings since I was young. But what I'm realizing is that sometimes we so focus on sexuality. And sexuality is important. And it's a beautiful thing. But when it becomes our identity, we've got it wrong. We've got it wrong. And so I've been seeking for who I am. And I realized it's not something I do. It's not even something I earn. It's something I either receive or reject.