 Wilton Gregory that said he's a cafeteria. He called him cafeteria Catholic. I couldn't believe it on Face the Nation. Obedience. I look at the saints. It's not a burden. It's a grace. That's how you grow in holiness. It's a deeper path to intimacy with God. Look at Padre Pio. Align your hearts to God's divine will. Great things will come from it. Look at St. Faustina. And maybe you are in this challenge. I mean, we don't all have to be stigmatics or have visions of the Lord.