 they it's like they they hide the situation from people they don't tell they don't tell the parents that the true consequences of what's going to happen when your children are not you're not getting faith so would you like a would you like a little more fire and brimstone in the homilies john would that help i could see no no no it's not all right i i please forgive me john we ran out of time but thank you appreciate your call i'll be right back