 a lot of activity, you know, he just became very quiet. And then on the Saturday, he might find an excuse to get away by himself to go fish or go play golf with a friend. He usually found a little time. My mother, on the other hand, remained entirely. She would get up on Saturday morning and say, okay, children, time to get up. I need help. You know, we need to get laundry done. You know, I need