 heard your session on narcissism and I'm a nurse for 42 years and I know more than I ever wanted to know about it because everybody kept telling me after what happened that he was but I didn't see it because you know I walk around in my god spot most times doing my work with oncology patients and I don't see that and I never really even you know looked at it that way but it was and it is and there's some fallout in it and I'm having difficulty with