 That's the gift, the total gift of self. And that's reserved just for the two of you, which makes it very special and a very important part of what marital love is all about. And the other part of Errol's love is physical touch outside of the bedroom. This is just holding hands or a little caress, a hug here, a little neck rub, just playfully bumping into each other when you pass each other in the kitchen.