 that child is allowed to do so by perhaps one parent or both parents who would believe that this is what they're supposed to do or many times behind the back of the parents by a teacher or a counselor at school and the child assumes the persona of the opposite sex with new pronouns and a new name and perhaps a way that they dress at school uh that's appear they go to school looking one way they get to school they get to a locker or a safe place where they can change into their real self