 He, that wasn't his job. And, um, he would help out. He helped to serve the meal because we had nine kids. He would help to get kids ready for bed, help with the bath. You know, he would help with a lot of things around the home. He would do anything that he needed to do. If my mother was ill or, you know, had a baby, um, he would do, there was nothing he, exactly. There's nothing he would not do. There isn't. It's just that,