 and supporting your spouse. It's this idea that, you know what, honey, it's you and me against the world, and I will always have your back. I will never take the other side, ever. Even if I think you're wrong, we're together, and I've got you. You know, and it's who you are as a person that matters to me. Where we run into trouble on this sometimes, or it shows up in my office, is when couples do not support each other in front of the kids.