 how these husbands are just stepping up and being so wonderful and how the grandmas get a chance to be so involved. During my time, it was like the grandmas didn't want to help. They were like, we're done. We don't want to do it anymore. Interesting. We had seven kids. We're out of here. Just drop the kids off for an hour and that's it. But I just, I feel, and I don't know what it is. I don't regret it, but I just see some beautiful,