 i've never been so excited to change a diaper right you're just like i never wanted to change a diaper before like this is gross but now all of a sudden you're like yeah this is great i'm helping this kid this kid needs me you feel a whole new sense of like love and adoration in a way that like you would never have thought before to love and serve and so i think you know like you were saying god teaches us so much in you know if this is our vocation to be a parent he teaches us so much through this because