 we have him and nobody can take him away from us we fall into a big trap when we say like oh no the point is that you're here but the point is i get to receive you but what saves us it's the moment where the priest holds the body of christ the blood of christ in his hands and says through him with him in him in the unity of the holy spirit all glory and honor is yours almighty father forever and ever you guys that moment is the moment where jesus on the cross