 And I know is exactly what you're talking about, which is to say, I'm not going to offer you like seven solutions. I'm not going to minimize it and say, oh, you know, you just need to. Like the word just, I think like totally lights a fire in my heart. Like it's not a just situation. I wouldn't be this upset if it were a just situation or it's not a just situation for me. Like for me, this is somehow complicated and hard and painful. And you're not even seeing that. You're acting like it's happening to you.