 apply the wisdom of scripture to the world and pray about both of those things that we better understand scripture and we can put the happenings of the world in the proper perspective but undoubtedly stress and if something's bugging the other in our relationship and they're not acting the same you know trying to get to that underlying reason you know one little thing you might have done might have been the last straw it wasn't a big thing in its own but if so many other things are pressing upon them that could be the