 We all need help. Don't be ashamed. It might be a friend. It might be a spiritual guide. It might be psychological help. Certainly it will be confession. Jesus, we all need you to forgive our sins. If a friend is trying to get you to confession, go. Go. Admit your need. Some people can't admit their need. And that's a great problem. People who are unable to accept help or who get angry when they are corrected. Be happy to take corrections.