 the priest but the priest didn't call me back so um i struggled again so i decided that well i drive to the cathedral and try to get an appointment with a bishop so i went there i got there they're usually open to 4 30 got there about four o'clock they already shut down so um i didn't get there so so another few weeks go by because i'm gonna try again so i tried to uh again and the uh they never did uh when i left my name and they asked me what parish did you belong to i have an idea you know