 not to be too melodramatic, like Shankar we just met, but I can feel a connection right now as we speak. And that's motivating me to open up more and share more. And it's meaningful. And I just feel like we don't even have a great vocabulary for that. We're not taught that to the same extent we're taught math or spelling. And we don't have a culture that checks in on that feeling of connection or disconnection as being as important as maybe some of our outward feelings