 Yeah, I will give that a try. I, you know, my heart does not want to follow through, but my head will because I know, you know, what you're saying. I know how serious this is. I've never encountered this sort of thing with a child before. Where's your husband in all this? And I don't say that to be in any way doubting his role, but I mean, is he in the picture? So we are not married. Um, we,