 That's a good thing, right? So an emotional safety springs from this deep friendship. This idea that my heart is safe with you. The mark of true friendship is emotional safety. That I know you're not going to intentionally hurt me or criticize me. You're going to build me up when I'm feeling down. You're my safe harbor. You're the place I go when all else is forsaken, right? You're the safest place on the planet. And husbands and wives need to be that person for each other.