 And while some of it is not your fault because you're playing with a deck of cards that has a couple cards in there you don't normally play with, right? You're like, oh, gosh, wild card. Here she comes, you know? So I think that it's definitely just good to be patient with yourself first. And I think also to have a conversation with your husband and with your children, depending on their age, about just like, hey, guys, I'm really struggling. This is kind of what's going on. And that way they don't, like, all of a sudden you're just...