 uh, the, the grace to do that, to go, uh, to go even deeper in that, in that forgiveness. So, uh, absolutely. Most, most of the time, um, most of the time forgiveness is not a point in time. You know, it's not just, it's not like one dot that says, okay, I forgive and it's done. Uh, more, more often it's, uh, uh, it's on a, it's on a trajectory and a slope and it goes, uh, it goes, it goes deeper and deeper over time. That's a fantastic point, father. And I'm so glad you brought it up that we're,