 And she just she was so irritated. She's like, I'm going to have to learn to like that tapping sound. And it went from being irritated to having it be like an endearing sound where she kind of longed to hear it because it made her feel warm. That's a pretty remarkable thing that a person could do that. And this doesn't mean that we should choose people who irritate us and hang around them as often as we can. That's not what it's saying. It is to endure the relationships when we have them.