 why I'm 41 years old. I, I've been married almost 20 years. Why is this still hard for me? Like why, why are emotions still hard for me? Like, uh, we were just joking with some friends the other day that have also been married, you know, 20 years or plus. And it's like, you kind of feel like you've had every fight there is to have as a married couple. And you're like, but we still find ways like to come up with new things. And so we were just laughing. Cause it's like, there's just so much that goes into it. You know, whether it's,