 it is it's that spirit the spiritual as they keep not using that word but yeah no it's been it's been very real and it's it's good to be able to bring that to everyone that they can see that you know we're not perfect and that's good i mean a lot of people keep like oh your kids are doing great they're so wonderful they're like they are but you know but they're still real kids so just like me i'm a real person i screw up all the time so thankfully the sacrament of reconciliation is still in room 500 so for anyone here who would like to participate or in your home parish yeah it's great