 take some of that psychic energy that is going into who's achieving more and who's achieving less and who's smarter and who's less smart, who's more popular, less popular, more beautiful, less beautiful. Take some of that psychic energy and plow it into God and plow it into making a contribution to the people around you. And eventually, you'll see, slowly but surely, you'll want to do more God and more contribution and you'll happily give up