 What's the difference when we are told get rid of the child? I think women are smart. They know how to logically understand what is happening to that baby, that there is a reason why we really built into our culture the normalcy of this detachment or getting rid of a child, even through the abandonment that we're seeing with stories such as in Louisville, where this baby was wrapped in a blanket and a trash bag and left to die in a closet.