 So that brings us, I think, to this idea of, well, you do you. A lot of people say, you do you. You're fine. I actually had the older of a friend a couple years ago was texting me. We were trying to navigate a plan for something, and she texted me. She says, you do you. And I said, oh, I hope you know what they mean by that. And it's full. She goes, oh, I did not know that that's what you do you meant in many respects. So what would you respond when people say, Kim, that's great. You no longer are living this LGBTQ identity thing.