 He's trying to be patient, but with the low pay and amount of work that he has put in, it doesn't add up for me, and personally, I think he's being used. His dad is now trying to talk him into buying equipment with debt to invest into the business he doesn't yet own. I'm stuck in the middle and seem to have no say because he trusts his family's promises. How can I best support my husband while also keeping things cordial in the family? You can't.