 to see the authority in our own lives. My daughter, if she knows there's a rule that needs to be followed, and trust me, she knows when there's a rule that I might not be following. If it's something we've taught her, well, she asks questions. She's curious. Why is it that we can step out of the order? How does my authority versus even her knowing the rule and thinking that maybe she even might start to be an authority because she knows something.