 come from doing what is difficult and learning from our mistakes. And so as parents, I think it's the same thing, that you can come back from a lot of that. You can come back, as we started the conversation, we're talking about commitment. It's like you can learn to commit, but you have to be willing to go to the roots, the causes where you learned it's not safe to commit. And then you can have a more and more flourishing life.