 somebody to care about you is like if i've got this then then somebody will pay attention somebody will care and what if i don't have this and for others it's it's become an identity it's like if i let go of this who am i this is this is all i've known of myself i think there's a lot of possible barriers there that's so true it's so true i also am a big believer in not only in faith and trust i think that that's what animates and amplifies and empowers a lot of our prayer