 And if they do, why would a man do that? How can a man date a woman for six months, say I love you, plan trips to meet and introduce family, and yet not be attracted to her? I thought attraction was like a minimum needed for a guy to literally do anything. Might be some truth to that. My mother thinks his former pornography addiction has messed him up mentally. I don't know enough about that subject. I mean, I know it negatively affects men.