 you know, it's kind of a glue that binds the family in some respect. Yes. No. And it's funny in this modern world that we're so tempted to just think of traditions as like old fashioned or quaint or something like that, but it's absolutely necessary. And a lot of the sociology I've looked at finds that the people who suffer are people who aren't inheriting traditions or not. I mean, even stuff like music and the food you cook, that that matters, that, that, that,