 that is in that area he would be the one who would go um but it can be any priest it doesn't have to be that priest as long as he has faculties to to you know to give the sacraments in that diocese um okay chances are i mean he would if he's in the same diocese so and and i know you're heading it out um i just had one quick more question if he if my mother-in-law took offense to this and like told us we couldn't come in the house what would how would we deal with that