 all right how about that for a ringtone cyrus we have a note here from cynthia listening in new york or i'm sorry in newark new jersey regarding the lady who called in earlier who's struggling with scrupulosity she said uh cynthia says she could be struggling with postpartum depression i hear a child in the background and postpartum is something that is very real and can last for quite some time don't i know it cynthia i am deeply familiar with the situation and uh you're right for for who knows how many women