 So I'd say two things to that. Obviously, without knowing more about the situation than what you've just shared, and thank you for sharing as you have, I think you should trust your instinct there. And you don't want to rush into and in a time of discouragement something that is as important as this and could have the consequences that you've described. That's the first thing I'd say. I would trust that intuition and keep Rule 5 in mind.