 And so for us to come to them and say that there's darkness in the world, actually, one of our children was reading a book where everyone in the book was divorced. And, and so he said, I have to write one sentence that summarizes this. And he's like, mom, all I wrote was hurt people, hurt people. And, and it seems like, you know, he's reading this, this fictional book. And then we have, of course, the very tragic things that happened this weekend. And you would think that they're not related, but that's exactly what happened.