 in all honesty, if you don't have the option of the part time, um, there are a lot of women that I know that are full time that either that have been full time and, but if her desire is to truly stay at home, I would say stay at home with your kids as long as you can. And maybe it's until they get into school. And then if there is something even part time or some jobs do have the flexibility where you can work full time, but remotely, um,