 There's emotional safety between the two of us. We're best friends. And when my heart is heavy, when I'm sad, when I'm scared, nervous, I know where to turn. I turn to my spouse. And when your spouse is in a bad place, they know where to turn. They come to you and stick your arms out. You wrap them up in your hug and you say, listen, you're safe now. You're in the safest place on the planet. You're in peace.