 Uh, it's just what happened. So here is about a minute and a half into it. I have a daughter now I'm divorced from, I was married 32 years. It just fell apart. I don't need to get into that. But yeah, I'm, I'm still devastated. But anyways, my daughter always went out with young men. And then when I, after the divorce was settled, she came to my house and was weeping saying, mom, I've fallen in love with a woman.