 But I'm telling you, the happiness that comes from serving others and making real friends, good friends in your life, or just, you know, staying at the school with your kids and making friends, you know, at whatever it is, the Catholic school or something like that. You know, you'll see that as you, the more you kind of move that forward, the more you move your religious life forward, both, you know, going to masses or, you know, a