 to do this, if that makes any sense. He's been gone for 28 years out of the family. None of us know. My sister knew him. I didn't really know him. He doesn't, as far as I know, know we exist, but my dad's wanting to include him in the trust with contingency that he changed his name back and that kind of stuff. I really want to honor my dad's wishes, but I'm not sure how to handle this the best way. Wow.