 deny things to ourselves to give us if you will going to the gym or or uh... our body and that's what some people feel called to do not many some people put that helps them and we're all different we need we live in different worlds who live in different cultures we come from different families we have different histories but whatever our history of that your history and god wants to meet you there and the church wants to help you there christ wants to heal you there and i think uh...