 Um, so yeah, so I, you know, here's the deal. I mean, something is not working right in the marriage, which is now, you know, who knows, maybe it's, she's broken and the marriage isn't, but the marriage would be broken. She's broken. Um, but something she's there, there, there's an emptiness in her somewhere and that she's trying to fill outside the marriage by, you know, having a relationship with another guy. Uh, even if it's not, you know, a physical relationship, uh,