 I feel that society places the burden on men, right? Um, to make the first approach. Are things changing? Are women a little more, uh, I don't know, say aggressive now and has the internet changed things? Has it made it easier or is that hurt? Yes. We might being left and right, making a couple second evaluation of what somebody looks like or, uh, how does that, how does that pan out for you? I think at first, um,