 I don't have enough time in this little segment to say why that is not a good idea, but I can tell you that that is not actually going to answer that question. But using the time in pre-engagement to answer the question in a healthy way is critical because then that allows you to freely enter into engagement. And then when you're in engagement intentionally, you can focus on planning your wedding instead of trying to also cram in a ton of marriage preparation in this very short, hopefully short, engagement session.