 My last thought is, you know, yeah, I think you need to get some counseling. You've been at this thing now for a long time. What did you say here? 35 years. You got some pretty deep patterns and trenches dug into this marriage. And to get a professional who can help you, I think, is a really good idea. Odds are he's going to refuse. If he does, then just keep using the formula. When he does something and hurts you, drop into the formula. I feel hurt. I feel insulted. I feel this way. When you...