 know i'm sorry if the level of communication is good maybe you can remind them you know that you're praying for the soul of the person who died and uh hopefully that'll give them a little nudge anyway those are my thoughts absolutely thank you thank you patrick appreciate it welcome nice chatting with you thank you hey guess what i got a nasty gram in the mail and i want to share that with you when we come back a nasty gram you say oh yes yes i do get those too and i'll share at least one if not more with you right after this