 that and so she was asking us like what do y'all think about this and i was like well i mean i believe your baptism was valid as a baby and blah blah anyways to quickly wrap it up she asked if we would go if she did do this and so then my husband who's a recent convert was like i wonder if we should just kind of put our foot down that we don't agree with this because she was baptized but i also well okay we're gonna run out of time yeah