 that has actually made me think about this because you're not just pointing at me you're actually talking about a big picture here that is not just involving the gay community you're talking about human race and she's like i might actually get on board with this and i was like well amen because it's god's way right and so we do a disservice when we say oh just you know if they just love each other well let's say this if you're gonna if you're gonna put your foot down on that