 but to make a commitment that at some point I'm going to spend some significant time with them. Maybe I'll take a prayer day or retreat day or do a holy hour when I typically do not do such a thing or whatever it might be. These are ways in which we can invest in the relationship, not to see prayer as part of the job that I do of being a Christian, but seeing prayer as an expression of a relationship, which is just life-giving beyond all measure.