 you're not telling her you should believe this or anything. But once you get the hang of this, what happens is you can direct like the reins of a horse. You can direct the horse where you want it to go and she won't realize what's happening, but you will be gradually helping her see the error in some of her worldview. So, you know, you can ask her like, well, if you don't believe in God, how did all this get here?