 So that's conflict management. That's half of the coin. That's one side of the coin of what good marriage is all about. And the second is nurturing the love, keeping the love alive. We talked about the four different loves, philia, which is the love of friendship. Two parts to that. We have things in common. We enjoy spending time together and we actually do spend time together. We do things together. We play tennis or we ride bikes or we...