 then that hurts. But they need to know that these things come from a place of love, which is hard to do, right? If it hurts, well, how can you love me if you're hurting me now? Because I want the tricycle back. Which is where the explanation comes in. I think what we have to recognize is that children, especially very young children, their worldview, their concept and understanding is emotional. And so there's a lot of emotional reasoning going on. And so if dad yells and I'm scared, dad's scary.