 yeah, perhaps he hasn't done what he needs to do to change his behavior and to guard himself against falling into these kinds of problems going forward. And I think, listen, I mean, you can forgive, but you can still set some boundaries too. So I said, I forgive you, but something is broken inside of you that you are, there's a hole in you somewhere that you're trying to fill up by this sexual acting out. And we need to get you some help.