 It makes it easier then to look at our spouse and forgive them for those things they do against us as well. Talking about forgiveness in marriage, and our studio line is sponsored by the Catholic Order of Foresters, 888-914-9149. Give me a call. We're going to talk for a minute here about what forgiveness is and isn't, and then we're going to go into some of the how-to-its, and then we'll take a call or two as well. So first, what forgiveness is. Forgiveness is a choice.