 immoral action because well it would be worse if i were to lie during pre-cana just how about just do the right thing and it's also a false dichotomy to propose that it's either getting into an invalid marriage or lying during pre-cana the answer to that is don't do either one do the right thing and it's it's a false dichotomy to say that you you have one or the other option you got plenty of other options like how about not lie