 Mary, thanks for the call. And Father, I want to say that she brings up a great point about this setting boundaries. And certainly, I have this natural affinity for what she's saying. But I guess the question that would roll through my mind is that if I'm setting particular boundaries in and around the relationship after this wrong has been done, but I have offered my forgiveness, is that somehow diminishing the forgiveness or maybe tainting the forgiveness that I'm offering?