 it's a family reunion you know and so every week the family is coming back together so that they can be in fellowship if you want to use that word so we can love each other we can be in relationship we can talk to each other that's why it's a huge red flag if nobody's talking to each other what kind of family is this what kind of family never talks to one another right so it should feel like oh they're family like they love each other they're involved in each other's life it's not just hey how's the weather it's hey um