 They might not even claim to be staunch Christians, but they want to get married, and they would like you to officiate. So I would say, first of all, that it's not the job of a pastor to officiate a wedding. It's the job of the families to say that this wedding should happen, and I think the church should not be the one that's sanctifying the marriage. God is the one that sanctifies it. The Catholic Church got involved many years later for the purposes of controlling marriage and getting money. So if you want me to give my blessing on your marriage as your pastor,