 could actually be a support system. Aren't you taking away that ability? Why? If you're going to call me and tell me, you know, child told me he hasn't eaten in a while. You're going to call and tell me it looks like my child is suffering from abuse because of a bruise. You're going to call and tell me that it looks like my child hasn't eaten in a while. You're going to call and tell me all these other things, but you're not going to call to tell me my child, Marvin, is now going by Mary in school.