 And if my husband were spending all of our money on hookers and blow, then yes, I probably would put that in the divorce filing. I'm so sorry that angers you, but what did you expect? I do not understand families where my kids write no matter what. I just don't understand that at all. I was not raised that way. My parents told us all the time, if you do something wrong, we will hold you accountable. We're not defending you. That's it.