 I love that individual that abused me based on my virtue, not his. Based on my integrity, not his. Impersonal love is you loving an individual that doesn't deserve your love. That doesn't mean you have to go up and hug their neck and kiss them. It doesn't mean that at all. But it means you don't vibrate when you get around them. It means you're not bitter, you're not angry, you're not hostile.