 and again now you know we are in a position hey let's go out to that was not even a thought uh for us and we just we just celebrated like 17 years of marriage about it was about a month and a half ago but we were reminiscing this past weekend we went to uh reynolds tavern in annapolis and just kind of reminiscing on those times and we've gotten a lot closer there is just something really charming about those early years right