 we're going to go live next to the daughter-in-law I like best and hang out with the grandkids. And I mean, that's really, they had two sons and they wanted to go live. She wanted to go live next to the daughter-in-law and with the two or three grandkids. And so, you know, he's thinking to himself, Jerry Seinfeld, I hate it. You know, I'm going to hate it. But at the end of the day, they hadn't even had that conversation. And so by having that conversation ahead of time, we could figure out a way how to plan things and, and, and,