 I was always told that honesty is the best policy and I still believe it. If you're basically hiding it, if you're covering up or covering up something or revealing less than the truth, then you're not being honest. And that's part of what would be happening in a scenario like this. That would be part of it. Another text says you have to communicate with your kids from a baby to an adult. Anything my children displayed in school, I need to know about it, period.