 an honoring thing to your wonderful childhood and then I think the next step is to honor the legacy of your dad and mom by having an awesome future. I think the future wins on the scales if I'm you. John, what are you thinking? Yeah, I think in one fell swoop, she could honor her dad by setting herself up for the future. She could honor her mom and dad by healing up that relationship with her sister and getting that debt out from between the two of them.