 Don't want my money? Do your plan. That's how this works. It's simple. And that's the way that my kids were raised. So, yeah, it is controlling. But guess what? Good parenting is controlling. Don't play in the street. You will get hit by a car. That's controlling. We're not raising wild animals. We're raising humans. They're supposed to have boundaries. They're supposed to have guidelines. They're supposed to have values. Yeah, so this is just one of those things. Of course it's controlling.