 different cultural expectations of what the husband should do, what the wife should do, what the kids should be doing, how they should be trained and taught. That's going to matter a lot, and you should be discussing those things before you get married. Now, you might meet somebody from China who has some of those similar worldviews, and I would venture to say, if you're listening to this and you're a man from Frederick, Maryland, you probably have a lot more in common with a Chinese Christian woman