 you need to go to the bathroom even though you don't so this is why some people they they feel or um or they sense that they have the urge to go to the bathroom and then they sit down or if you're a guy stand up and you're trying to pee but you really don't have to and there's only a little bit that comes out yeah so so the good news is that my bladder does help with this it can help the brain and the bladder get on the same page