 it's kind of sound like you're, you're being divisive. Again, I'm a grownup. I can understand that. But coming from her today, she was like, daddy's being nice today. And this is what you and mommy were talking about. I just wanted to call in person, give you your flowers. Um, you and I, we did, we, we differ from political things, but one thing you and I have always been locked up in is the role of a father and family. And, and,