 might have to go around dr jill i mean how can you not look at him and see all these things and say to yourself boy that's a real struggle for him it's painful become you know continue to do this he can't do it i i don't know it's because she's around him every single day and she doesn't see it like we do but it's it is so clear it is so obvious i mean there really should be talk about 25th amendment and i was going to go there now at what point