 have had or have in your life four grandparents and two parents. There's only six. You've got step-parents and step-grandparents. We all have seen the decline of the people we love as they get older. It's normal. It happens. I don't know who added the music to it, but it makes it very much like a soap opera. But it is. What he says there is absolutely true. You watched it. It's the decline. He's not there. It's elder abuse.