 Let's unpack this idea of trust just for a bit. See, trust is a testable quality in your life. It's something that is observable. You can see it in a relationship. How do you know that a marriage is healthy and there's a trusting relationship between a husband and wife? You know it because you can see that they're committed one to another. You can see that they are in good communication with each other. You can see that they're secure relationships.